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Are more men going Bi?

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By *omfoolerykent OP   Man
over a year ago

dartford

I am 100% straight and have nothing against Bi men if you like it then do it but I have noticed more and more that the men in couples are even Bi or Bi curious, is it a new trend?

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

I been bi since 1994 after finding a tvts mag and a contact mag in a car park an met a ts call girl

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hope it's just becoming more acceptable to admit it and contemplate it for oneself.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't think more are its just people are becoming more honest about their sexuality.

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Until I joined fab I would have never of thought that I would suck a cock. But one day I tried it. The rest is history. I love joining couples so we can share each other xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are situationally bi when playing with couples and will grab a cock or even inadvertently impale themselves on them by accident.

Others will be bi to get a meet then will refuse to touch the bloke once they are balls deep in the mrs.

And on a Friday night after last orders, anything is game on...

I don't think any bloke turns bi to hang out with the cool kids.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We often write back to guys with straight on their profile saying we prefer to meet bi or bi cur guys. Instantly they all reply to say they aren't straight really!

Fab straight strikes again

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you try it and you like it then why not. Not sure it's a trend, guys are just more open to giving it a go.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

People are just more open about what they find attractive. Sexuality is a scale not a category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to bi guys, when they say 'hi'...i block bi/tv/ts when they breach my rules.....it always starts with 'hi' I respond with a hello..next thing is they want to suck my cock...

in most cases I block, cos they havent read my profile

*and i recently verified a single male cos he asked..I have NO interest in men or those in a change(admittedly theres som stunning tv/ts)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing "

thats a fallacy and i say fuck off to anyone that thinks it.

i have let guys suck me off 9as the female hale asked)..I HATED it...mens skin against me...just makes me go ewww.... men acting womanly makes me go ewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing "

I agree with you, sexuality is fluid. Monogamy, and we are descended from primates, they have sexual fluidity, same as humans. Difference is the morals we are taught. I had my first bi experience as a teen. I took fab to make me realise I'm not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are just more open about what they find attractive. Sexuality is a scale not a category."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just dont see anything sexual in a guy..i can gangbang with them etc...thats it...I gag thinking about sucking a cock, or one in me

i know i'd have a less than 'hard' time with a tv/ts regardless of how hot they are(I've met in parties a few tv/ts that know my views...and yes I fancy them to a degree)

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I was curious from my teens, had a few “fumbles” then I found this site and it opened up opportunities. I enjoy it and can play fully straight too for those who are not so open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was curious from my teens, had a few “fumbles” then I found this site and it opened up opportunities. I enjoy it and can play fully straight too for those who are not so open minded. "

dont say we arent open minded lololol..we just choose not to want sexual activities with people we arent attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was curious from my teens, had a few “fumbles” then I found this site and it opened up opportunities. I enjoy it and can play fully straight too for those who are not so open minded.

dont say we arent open minded lololol..we just choose not to want sexual activities with people we arent attracted to"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I think you’re a character played by an actor OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think you’re a character played by an actor OP. "

Sorry, this was for another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing "

That's a very interesting comment

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I was curious from my teens, had a few “fumbles” then I found this site and it opened up opportunities. I enjoy it and can play fully straight too for those who are not so open minded.

dont say we arent open minded lololol..we just choose not to want sexual activities with people we arent attracted to"

“.....not so” would be the prefix you missed.

That’s not to say you aren’t open minded, just maybe bi guys are in a different direction or extent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

I agree with you, sexuality is fluid. Monogamy, and we are descended from primates, they have sexual fluidity, same as humans. Difference is the morals we are taught. I had my first bi experience as a teen. I took fab to make me realise I'm not straight. "

Seeing some of the sights on here, it can have that effect.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

According to recent newspaper report , there has been a massive increase in bisexuality amongst men and women in the last five years . Over 40% up on 2013 which is remarkable . This is no doubt because it’s not perceived as being such a bad thing any longer , and that’s not a bad thing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys are situationally bi when playing with couples and will grab a cock or even inadvertently impale themselves on them by accident."

"inadvertently impale themselves on them by accident"

There is no such thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

"

I agree - things are changing but not enough for the majority to admit to it!

Even on a swingers site

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I've barely met anyone in normal life who is Bi but seems rife on here though.

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I've barely met anyone in normal life who is Bi but seems rife on here though."

I’ve been aware of my bi side for some years, the only guy from my ‘normal’ life who knows today is a guy from work who caught me in the act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was curious from my teens, had a few “fumbles” then I found this site and it opened up opportunities. I enjoy it and can play fully straight too for those who are not so open minded.

dont say we arent open minded lololol..we just choose not to want sexual activities with people we arent attracted to

“.....not so” would be the prefix you missed.

That’s not to say you aren’t open minded, just maybe bi guys are in a different direction or extent. "

lol some guys are 'bi'...but they just want their cock sucked...they might even 'like' tv/ts...but all in all they are just desperate to have their cock sucked.

real bi people actually supposedly fancy who they fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an experience with the male of a couple I was seeing, something Id never considered before but something I’m sure Id do again.

‘Hetero-flexible’ is how I describe myself

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I think it’s just because it is becoming more socially acceptable for men to admit they are bi.

These days with the younger generation nobody really cares whether you are straight or bi or gay or trans or whatever you want to identify as, as long as you are comfortable and happy.

The people who have a problem are those of the older generations who still have a very closed view on relationships.

There is nothing wrong with being non-monogamous. It’s just that society make it seem that way. And monogamy is a choice doesn’t mean everybody has to choose it.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

I agree - things are changing but not enough for the majority to admit to it!

Even on a swingers site "
Yeah Straight is starting to lose it's meaning on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i refuse couples who ask me for bi play...I used to think aye ok.............

most bicouples are not even a couple(or she never reallyexisted0 in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've barely met anyone in normal life who is Bi but seems rife on here though."

Lol @ 'rife' I'd be surprised if you did know the sexuality of most people you meet, other than assuming they are hetero.

I agree that for men in particular homosexuality of any kind had been pretty much taboo for, well about as long as they're have been JudeoChristian religions. It's only since the PC crusade of the 80s that the prevailing overt homophobia has declined to the point where men can start being honest about their homosexuality (of whatever degree).

Long live the social liberal revolution (which if the populist parties have anything to do with it won't actually be very long Humans, 2 steps forward, 1 step back)

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I've barely met anyone in normal life who is Bi but seems rife on here though.

Lol @ 'rife' I'd be surprised if you did know the sexuality of most people you meet, other than assuming they are hetero.

I agree that for men in particular homosexuality of any kind had been pretty much taboo for, well about as long as they're have been JudeoChristian religions. It's only since the PC crusade of the 80s that the prevailing overt homophobia has declined to the point where men can start being honest about their homosexuality (of whatever degree).

Long live the social liberal revolution (which if the populist parties have anything to do with it won't actually be very long Humans, 2 steps forward, 1 step back)"
I guess I have just been in masculine environments with work and sports etc so I guess I would just be assuming. Surprised by how many in Swinging though.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

I agree - things are changing but not enough for the majority to admit to it!

Even on a swingers site Yeah Straight is starting to lose it's meaning on here"

It seems odd that straight people will soon be in the minority !

I wonder if that was always the plan in the grand scheme of things ?

I mean , when you think of the massive population increases over the generations , it could be a natural phenonomen to control the over growth of the human species ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing wrong with being non-monogamous. It’s just that society make it seem that way. And monogamy is a choice doesn’t mean everybody has to choose it. "

While I broadly agree with what you said I think evolution has pushed us towards monogamy more than in some other primates because of our extraordinarily long childhood. That's not to say that it should be put on a pedestal but there is a reason for it and we have developed along with it.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I believe men have always been just as bi and sexually fluid as women. They've just been repressed and thing are slowly changing

I agree - things are changing but not enough for the majority to admit to it!

Even on a swingers site Yeah Straight is starting to lose it's meaning on here

It seems odd that straight people will soon be in the minority !

I wonder if that was always the plan in the grand scheme of things ?

I mean , when you think of the massive population increases over the generations , it could be a natural phenonomen to control the over growth of the human species ? "
Don't know that's quite deep, possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men don’t have standards and would do anything to get their rocks off simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Some) Men have always been bi

Fab provides a platform where they are either encouraged or accepted

If they aren't encouraged or accepted then they are usually ignored, rather than treated with outrage or disgust

So, what we see here may be exaggerated in terms of %'s

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Some men don’t have standards and would do anything to get their rocks off simple as that "
Nah, don't believe that any hole is a goal theory. You still have to get turned on, a straight man like myself would not get hard it would turn them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are watching porn. A hot, big titted blonde is skilfully giving a blow job. She is absolutely gorgeous, and she is deep throating the bloke as if it was an olympic sport.

The scene shifts to her being drilled doggy style, and the camera pans round to point of view, revealing him using his cock as an anal depth gauge.

He then starts to spray her arse, leaving it like a plasterers radio.

Only when the camera zooms out does her meat and two veg poke out from her panties.

Will you throw up or keep on wanking?

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think it's a combination of things. It's becoming more socially acceptable and in the internet age it's far easier to act on any impulses you have and find similar people to meet.

I think the internet has also allowed people who wouldn’t really have considered themselves to be ‘bi’ to experiment a little. Thinking mainly of guys who wouldn’t meet other guys for a 1-1 but would have some bi fun in a 3some . There’s also an awful lot of guys out there (way more than I ever believed) who will have bi fun with a tgirl but wouldn’t play with another ‘guy’

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By *uracell-DannyMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Its interesting our need to lable things.

Have had a few cuckold husbands clean my cock after i have cum up their wife...not sure they would class themselves as bi

Interesting discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to recent newspaper report , there has been a massive increase in bisexuality amongst men and women in the last five years . Over 40% up on 2013 which is remarkable . This is no doubt because it’s not perceived as being such a bad thing any longer , and that’s not a bad thing .

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Its interesting our need to lable things.

Have had a few cuckold husbands clean my cock after i have cum up their wife...not sure they would class themselves as bi

Interesting discussion"
I reckon that's Bi and think you're Bi for letting them, it's quite black and white for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We often write back to guys with straight on their profile saying we prefer to meet bi or bi cur guys. Instantly they all reply to say they aren't straight really!

Fab straight strikes again

T xx "

We get this all the time.

Anyone bi or straight if they turn out less than enthusiastic about bi play will find we will stop and ask them to leave.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Despite the attempts of so,e to derail the thread with ridiculous comments

I think there's a lot to be said for the fact that others have pointed out about it being more socially acceptable.

I also think on a site like this which is geared around sex and sexuality that it probably heightens awareness of people that are bisexual, because there are regular threads like this one discussing it, and because the label is there on our profiles (If we choose to select it).

I've been "curious" since probably my late teens, but have only acted on that in recent years, partly because of it being more accepted and no longer feeling a fear that I was somehow wrong or different and now fully embrace it as being a part of my sexuality, just wish I had been able to do so 30 odd years ago - as the saying on Little Britain goes....just look at all the cock I've been missing!!

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London


"Some guys are situationally bi when playing with couples and will grab a cock or even inadvertently impale themselves on them by accident."

I’ve had those experiences, though not had anyone inadvertently impale himself yet... It’s quite a striking image.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit since playing in 4 and more sums I no longer object to having my cock sucked by a guy..and have returned the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think more people are willing to admit it these days, plus I think on here, people have more opportunities to experiment. Things can also happen in the heat of the moment which maybe leads to more people turning bi curious.

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"There is nothing wrong with being non-monogamous. It’s just that society make it seem that way. And monogamy is a choice doesn’t mean everybody has to choose it.

While I broadly agree with what you said I think evolution has pushed us towards monogamy more than in some other primates because of our extraordinarily long childhood. That's not to say that it should be put on a pedestal but there is a reason for it and we have developed along with it. "

I actually studied evolutionary psychology for abit at uni, and although yes it’s all theory based, the biggest theory is that you essentially subconsciously choose your “mate” and that is throetically meant to be to do with the which “mate” gives you the most chance of reproducing, which from a male prospective is actually to sleep with multiple women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think more people are willing to admit it these days, plus I think on here, people have more opportunities to experiment. Things can also happen in the heat of the moment which maybe leads to more people turning bi curious."

Or a lack of willing female playmates on here!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes I think this is true, but our modern aspect on bisexuality is more acceptable now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most girls have done the bi thing but us gents are starting to discover it now too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think more people are willing to admit it these days, plus I think on here, people have more opportunities to experiment. Things can also happen in the heat of the moment which maybe leads to more people turning bi curious.

Or a lack of willing female playmates on here! "
yeah thats more like the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most girls have done the bi thing but us gents are starting to discover it now too xx"

Agree, sexuality is a spectrum from straight to gay, that we go up and down. Fab allows guy to experiment and be their true selves.

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