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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "

Spot on

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By *hestercpl4funCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "
. Same for us hence our requested age range

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart "

I don’t take it to heart I was just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "

Yeah I understand that but unfortunately quite a lot of male profiles on he don’t have pictures with their face in

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By *exyJ-and-HornyGCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster area

It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart "

This ^

We get messages like

‘Do you want young cock’

‘I like an older woman’

Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers....

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction. "

Fair and I’ve seen this with a few profiles that they state on their profile they would meet 18 year olds but when you message them they turn around and say they don’t meet anyone under 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction. "

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart

This ^

We get messages like

‘Do you want young cock’

‘I like an older woman’

Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers...."

Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

We will talk to anybody regardless of age. We won't meet anybody outside of our age range though.

We need criteria to choose who we meet and age is one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart

This ^

We get messages like

‘Do you want young cock’

‘I like an older woman’

Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers....

Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that"

Never said they ALL are

Re read my post

Ta

Happy fabbing pal .. I’m sure you’d have more success in a town centre ‘spoons on a Saturday night ..

We enjoy social side and age gap means conversation can get awkward....

In a club fine ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge. I just wouldn't meet anyone to young. That is just my preference though.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "

This but in reference to women opposed to men haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do judge them and im usually spot on sadly.

Its why I've a small age range. I wont go under 31 but even 31 to 34 ive had more drama then any other range. That's just my personal experience x

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Yes definitely all the time

It’s just a preference don’t take it too heart

This ^

We get messages like

‘Do you want young cock’

‘I like an older woman’

Shows immaturity- just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers....

Some of us young men don’t have profiles like that

Never said they ALL are

Re read my post

Ta

Happy fabbing pal .. I’m sure you’d have more success in a town centre ‘spoons on a Saturday night ..

We enjoy social side and age gap means conversation can get awkward....

In a club fine ...

"

I know that I wasn’t snapping back i was just stating a fact

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs!"

Woah ok I was just trying to get a general consensus

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By *exyJ-and-HornyGCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster area


"We will talk to anybody regardless of age. We won't meet anybody outside of our age range though.

We need criteria to choose who we meet and age is one of them"

Exactly.

Despite our age range, we still get folk old enough to be our parents (and we're mid 40s!) trying it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

If you've noticed it on here before you already have the answer to your question ffs!

Woah ok I was just trying to get a general consensus "

The Sydney University website has published material on this sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Yes most people seem to judge age and generally it’s too young or too old.

Too young can be like having sex with your kids friends and too old like having sex with your parents friends.

Many do set arbitrary limits though and Brad Pitt/George Clooney would struggle on Fab as they’re outside many people’s age range.

We think things like fitness and body shape are much more important than age. We’d rather meet an in shape 55 year old than an out of shape 35 year old.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"We will talk to anybody regardless of age. We won't meet anybody outside of our age range though.

We need criteria to choose who we meet and age is one of them

Exactly.

Despite our age range, we still get folk old enough to be our parents (and we're mid 40s!) trying it on! "

That I understand it’s just you get people saying “how can you do this in your everyday life” or “you’re only on here for free sex” which for some young profiles that true but for others it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "
Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

Yes most people seem to judge age and generally it’s too young or too old.

Too young can be like having sex with your kids friends and too old like having sex with your parents friends.

Many do set arbitrary limits though and Brad Pitt/George Clooney would struggle on Fab as they’re outside many people’s age range.

We think things like fitness and body shape are much more important than age. We’d rather meet an in shape 55 year old than an out of shape 35 year old. "

That’s fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry "

Damn. I was hoping me you and a 99 year old could have a threesome

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Haha

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Its a filter why shouldn't it be I am sure you have yourself in the past age, gender, location and sexuality are the initial filters we all use.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

We judge on everything

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"We judge on everything"

Yeah I can see that

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Yes, on here. We are very unlikely to be attracted to people who are, of a similar age to our parents or children.

In clubs we chat to people, regardless of whether or not we want to have sex with them

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Nope neither of us care about age, just looks and attitude

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

The younger the better for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

Everyone judges at some point I personally am not interested in 99 year olds sorry

Damn. I was hoping me you and a 99 year old could have a threesome"

now that's a little better but still not ideal especially if 99 year old still has her teeth

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Our preference is older simple whatever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP

I started this adventure thinking I wouldn’t.

But I do now- purely to stop people feeling they’ve wasted them time messaging us.

It’s not about the looks it’s really down to the fact we have had experience of the conversation drying up with those two ‘young’ and for most ‘older’ peeps, I’ve generally found most aren’t in the shape I like.

However- that’s just because we can. This world of cyber makes choices as easy as a click or swipe.

As everyone else will tell you. Get to clubs. Go show them how mature you are. Turn up when you say you will and then your verifications will speak for themselves like a lot of decent young pups on here.

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Yes I judge on everything.

You always come across as a nice bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

It's not a judgement, I just have limits on what age I consider meeting

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age range obviously accounts for most commenting here who have no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Yes, people set their age preferences; it’s pretty commonplace, if you look at their profiles.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Age don’t mean a thing to me. If I like the person I will chat!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know it's irrational, but I have a hard limit under 25. I know 18 or 16 to 25 year olds are of age, it just feels too young to me, like looking at a teenager (which I don't fwiw). So despite the fact that I'm only 8-9 years older than a 24 year old... I just can't, even where I'm happy to go decade's older. (as I say, irrational)

Other than that I go with patterns, which include age. Before I blocked single guys permanently, my limits were 30 to 60. Under 30, and I got a disproportionate amount of immaturity and entitlement. Over 60, I got a disproportionate amount of sexism/ views about women I won't condone. There are of course exceptions (and OP, at the risk of sounding condescending, in what I've seen of you you seem like an exception), but when dealing with the bulk of mail I was, under 30 and over 60 were just too much hassle to deal with as compared to reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is important to me. I prefer older, just a preference, everyone entitled to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age really isn’t important to me; I tend to like women younger than me - but it isn’t a hard and fast rule.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Mrs is not keen on under 25, family members of that age make it a little weird for her. Maybe if they look older then they get a pass

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I know it's irrational, but I have a hard limit under 25. I know 18 or 16 to 25 year olds are of age, it just feels too young to me, like looking at a teenager (which I don't fwiw). So despite the fact that I'm only 8-9 years older than a 24 year old... I just can't, even where I'm happy to go decade's older. (as I say, irrational)

Other than that I go with patterns, which include age. Before I blocked single guys permanently, my limits were 30 to 60. Under 30, and I got a disproportionate amount of immaturity and entitlement. Over 60, I got a disproportionate amount of sexism/ views about women I won't condone. There are of course exceptions (and OP, at the risk of sounding condescending, in what I've seen of you you seem like an exception), but when dealing with the bulk of mail I was, under 30 and over 60 were just too much hassle to deal with as compared to reward. "

Yeah I understand and no it didn’t sound condescending whatsoever

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By *igtitsandass2Woman
over a year ago

birminghan

It’s an indicator but a very important one. Guys older than my normal preference can be hot and guys within my range can be... not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "

Thats how i feel. No one younger than my kids or older than my parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the shock factor of a young guy with older woman.. thats what does it for me

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In a club we don't worry about age at all, it simply depends upon whether we find them attractive (and they find us attractive!). I have played with guys between about 20 and 65 or so.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Everyone does as they put limits on their preferences

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Something I have noticed, (with guys as it’s rare that I interact with ladies here... ) is that some men tend to say they are younger than they really are. I get contacted by lots of men who are apparently in their 50s, but their photos are at least 10 years old! My cutoff age is 53, I will not meet anyone beyond that age. But I’ve been to a few socials where I am expecting to see a man inhis early 50s and it’s actually early 60s!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab no-one younger than my kids (actually prefer a bit older) and not that much older than me BUT not at a club and prefer partying with older people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

Amongst a rake of other things, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not "

Not an unreasonable assumption...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I have age filters on here however at a club it's not something I even consider. If I'm attracted to them I would just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have age filters on here however at a club it's not something I even consider. If I'm attracted to them I would just go for it "

That's the advantage of seeing someone in person against gambling on the internet...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I have age filters on here however at a club it's not something I even consider. If I'm attracted to them I would just go for it

That's the advantage of seeing someone in person against gambling on the internet..."

I think the main thing for me on here is coming across people who lie about their age or use old pictures which is why I use filters. In the flesh you get exactly what you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naturally feel more attracted to older women 35 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption..."

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption...

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case "

Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy "

I'd say that was some kind of judgment. Maybe that's the wrong verb but some kind of assessment based on age takes place.

Many men like young women, because they appear most reproductively fit. Maybe it's not a conscious assessment but it'll be there in the subconscious as one of the variables. Hence why men are often quite happy to fuck a women young enough to be their daughter. I don't think women are as strongly affected by a potential partner's age on a biological level so in their case personal choice might be a bigger component :D Also so many young men behave like dicks that anyone in their right mind will be avoiding them

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" just like the young uns who have a one line profile two cock pics ( lynx can and sky remote ) and expect Mrs slide to be dropping her drawers...."

Ah nuts, final confirmation that I'm old, I have neither a lynx can nor a sky remote

Mike xx

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I don't judge but I don't meet anyone young enough to be my child - it creepy

I'd say that was some kind of judgment. Maybe that's the wrong verb but some kind of assessment based on age takes place.

Many men like young women, because they appear most reproductively fit. Maybe it's not a conscious assessment but it'll be there in the subconscious as one of the variables. Hence why men are often quite happy to fuck a women young enough to be their daughter. I don't think women are as strongly affected by a potential partner's age on a biological level so in their case personal choice might be a bigger component :D Also so many young men behave like dicks that anyone in their right mind will be avoiding them

Mike xx"

I do agree with you mike most young men do behave inappropriately which is demeaning to those of us that do as we are lumped together.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

All of these are great valid points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s a shame "

What’s a shame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption...

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case

Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it"

Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption...

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case

Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it

Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age "

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"That’s a shame

What’s a shame?"

Yeah what’s a shame

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption...

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case

Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it

Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age "

Nah your very young

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By *ure fucking naughtyMan
over a year ago

St Albans

Of course, but its less about judging and more about prefence.

I first starting using fab at about 27/28 and 30 seems to be the average minimum age people go for.

By don't worry, at 21 there are plenty of people who will be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I can't see their face... I tend to assume I won't be attracted to men over a certain age... It isn't always the case but definitely more often than not

Not an unreasonable assumption...

Hence it saying, it isn't always the case

Yeah it’s case by case isn’t it

Although I did miss read the comment before my last one lol... I'm sure I read it more than once before replying too... Must be my age

"

Ah it's ok... My brain has always been mush

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Of course, but its less about judging and more about prefence.

I first starting using fab at about 27/28 and 30 seems to be the average minimum age people go for.

By don't worry, at 21 there are plenty of people who will be interested. "

I’m not worried it was a curious thought as I understand it’s preferences

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs. "

We do but have a particular situation. I'm 54 and Lefty is 44 so anyone 10 years older than me is too old and someone 10 years younger than Lefty is too young.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Ms

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Ms"

That’s fair and understandable

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"So just out of curiosity does anyone here judge a person by their age before actually having a conversation with them. As I’ve noticed that on here a bit and in the clubs.

We do but have a particular situation. I'm 54 and Lefty is 44 so anyone 10 years older than me is too old and someone 10 years younger than Lefty is too young.

"

Yeah it’s the rules you have set yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t meet anyone younger than 30 and have blocked anyone younger from contacting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Ms"
we are the same also find it hard to find things in common if to young. We like the social side so our age range works better

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham

A lot if people on here seem to lie about their age, which seems weird if you want to meet.

I have always told the truth to avoid disappointment

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I don't want anyone my kids ages. My eldest is 30yrs old, its my body my rules. Mswe are the same also find it hard to find things in common if to young. We like the social side so our age range works better "

To be honest most do even I have difficulty finding things in common with people my age on here

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's all about preference rather than judging, I'd say. Preference and attraction.

Fair and I’ve seen this with a few profiles that they state on their profile they would meet 18 year olds but when you message them they turn around and say they don’t meet anyone under 25"

Well wait 4 years and message them again

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Pretty much all of my sex partners have been younger than me. I do like younger women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter"

We can all agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter"

Age matters to me

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter

Age matters to me"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter

Age matters to me"

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

Women will go for men genuinely on how they handle themselves. I am 30 but my face body and frame says I’m fresh 19yr old at best. But because I carry myself to be a 30yr old and carry somewhat of wisdom. I get a fair amount of women talking to me. And another note. Do go in expecting sex while going to clubs. Just take the easy lane. Talk observe and socialise, it will be better in the long run

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"As long as they are adults and have capacity to consent age doesn't matter

Age matters to me

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