FabSwingers.com forum: bi fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

there seem to be a majority of the female partners on here who are not averse to taking part in bisexual play but very few male partners say they are bi-why is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally there too embarassed to say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are"

Or they may be genuinely straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are

Or they may be genuinely straight.

We get tons of men message us that say they are bi but have straight on their profile. It just not something most men are happy to advertise.

Society looks at bi ff play as expected these days but bi mm play is still quite taboo. Why? Whats good for the goose...

We are actually much happier to play with guys that just have bi on their profile, out n proud lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry didn't mean to quote x

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

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"Normally there too embarassed to say they are

Or they may be genuinely straight.

We get tons of men message us that say they are bi but have straight on their profile. It just not something most men are happy to advertise.

Society looks at bi ff play as expected these days but bi mm play is still quite taboo. Why? Whats good for the goose...

We are actually much happier to play with guys that just have bi on their profile, out n proud lol."

+2 here.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

don't think it does guys any favours on here to say they are bi, its seems to put as many people off as it turns on. Funny how saying the wife is bi doesn't have the same effect though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am bi but profile says straight as get messages of silly old men, i am not ashamed im bi but it makes it almost impossible for people to not look down their noses at you for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed of having bi on my profile, I'm here to get the meets I want not to appeal to every single person out there so if I potentially miss out with people who don't meet bi guys I'm not losing any sleep over it.

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how, even on a liberated site like this, that men being bi could be a problem! My hubby is perfectly capable of playing straight if that's what's required or dabble with sum cock if all are happy! Best of all worlds! Yum xxxx. Shouldn't put anyone off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a lot more bi guys on here than will admit to it

I dont think its cause they are ashamed of their sexuality i think its purely because they dont want to put couples with straight men and even single female off

You see so many profiles that say no no men, because a lot of couples think because your bi that means you have to play with men, or single women who just dont like the idea of bi guys because being bi makes you less manly in some way

Where as you dont see many profiles stating no bi women so women dont feel they need to hide their sexuality

I have a bi male friend i met on here who i meet up with every now and again for bi MMF 3sums and when im looking for a bi guy to join us its amazing how many 'straight' guys contact us, met one once who wasnt verified so after we met i left him a verification and he messaged me thanking me for it but wouldnt be showing it as he would sooner have no verifications at all than have one stating he'd met up with a bi guy, his choice of coure but it just goes to show the measure some will go to to stop others knowing they are bi

Thats not me saying any of the above is wrong or right, as in bi guys hiding their sexuality or people not wanting to meet then, thats just purely my opinion on why lots of bi guys hide the fact they bi......just feeling like i have to put a disclaimer after what i post now days

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"I'm not ashamed of having bi on my profile, I'm here to get the meets I want not to appeal to every single person out there so if I potentially miss out with people who don't meet bi guys I'm not losing any sleep over it.

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex. "

Totally agree.

We are amazed at the amount of straight guys who mail us saying they are bi and it always leaves us wondering if they are just saying it to get a foot ( or something else) in the door! Much prefer it when they are upfront and honest.

Lisa and Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are"

oh my life a bi male couple

santa did answer me after all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are

oh my life a bi male couple

santa did answer me after all lol

behave !

or you'll have to go on a leash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are

oh my life a bi male couple

santa did answer me after all lol

behave !

or you'll have to go on a leash

im just going to lower my age limit to 21 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex.

Totally agree.

Lisa and Matt "

Plenty couples do not wish to play with bi guys. But how many of the straight guys who message us saying they are bi, then next message tell the next couple no i'm straight, never do bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i never take what most people say on profiles as gospal anyway, id sooner talk to people as i understand some dont want certain things about them displayed in public

I, maybe have straight on my profile even tho i am bi, i do have a reson for this and its not because i want to deceive people, i only meet single guys off here anyway so my sexuality does not really matter as theres no other woman involves

Its purely to stop people im not looking to meet from mailing me, i have no interest in meeting couples for 3sums so by saying im straight, it does not stop all couples from mailing me but i dont get anywhere near as many as i used to when it did say i was bi but not looking for couples, because then i was geting messages from couples asking why i didnt want couples if im bi, and i do not feel i have to justify who i want to meet

Most people may see that as a lie and wrong but i do what works for me because as a single woman i cant keep up with the amount of messages i was getting from single guys and couples so i try to cut down the amount i get and to only attracted who im looking for but giving info out that only attracts certain groups of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there seem to be a majority of the female partners on here who are not averse to taking part in bisexual play but very few male partners say they are bi-why is this?"

Most are not bi, the bloke leads the profile and he wants for them to meet another woman. As a rule the only way another woman might be interested, is if the woman was bi of sorts. After all, a woman on a sex site is pretty well queen of the show.

Of course there are one or two women who would meet a straight couple so he could have sex with them both

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"there seem to be a majority of the female partners on here who are not averse to taking part in bisexual play but very few male partners say they are bi-why is this?"

Ohhhhhh....swingings biggest can of worms

1.Society see's girl on girl as sexy,and more acceptable...see ant mainstream porn.

2.Women feel pressured into saying they are bi to fit in.

3.Men are told from early on their sexuality is less fluid.

4.lots more men will play bi than say so...when we have 3 somes we only meet bi men,its amazing how many straight men contact us.

5.There is prejudice from some against bi men

Any or all of the above!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

am I correct in thinking there are more bi women than bi men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no just more women will admit to being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree about it putting some people off but better to be up front about it surely?

Until there are filters for searches and receiving mail to include/exclude bi people we'll not really move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

perhaps most woman are bi-we have persuaded straight ladies- both single and married- to play with my beautiful wife and I over the years-we have never had a refusal-perhaps we have been lucky

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"no just more women will admit to being bi

spot on..

society, the church, good old fashioned prejudice they all contribute to people not being able to be whom they are..

bit of a sad inditment on us as a species tbh..

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Or they may be genuinely straight.

who? the women or the men?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Get down to any dogging spot and tell us there are more bi women than men.

Agreed it is taboo a subject. Our profile like many suggests male is straight.

Generally yes, but can fall into the trisexual category if the scenario is horny enough.

Rest assured if it is brought up it is answered honestly though.

Seems extremely hypocritical for one situation being acceptable and another not.

Fuck 'em

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are loads of people on here who are bi and who I've met dogging who are secretly bi.

My only regret is when I am out dogging (during the warmer months) and I've been stood chatting to a few peeps and then decide it's time to shoot off, I'll get someone follow me back to the car and ask if we can play. They could have asked me at anytime previously....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex. "

Good post and says it as it should be. The liars on here, who try to get a shag by duplicity from couples who don't meet bi guys, could learn a lot from this guys attitude.

Respect to you and good luck in your swinging.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i never get is

if a bi guy puts on his profile hes straight so as not to put off couples who do not meet bi men, is he in return not putting off bi couples who as a rule dont meet guys with straight on their profile?

its a conundrum

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham

I am getting loads of messages from straight guys wanting to suck me...

Some, when asked why they have "straight" on their profiles answer that most of females don't meet with bi guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am getting loads of messages from straight guys wanting to suck me...

Some, when asked why they have "straight" on their profiles answer that most of females don't meet with bi guys...

equally i've had someone put of by the fact that i like Bi guys open to they sexuality

sometimes you just can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what i never get is

its a conundrum

Despite trying I decided you can't please them all so i happily say i am bi!

Will add that if someone is straight then k wouldn't force anything upon them they weren't comfy with, its about having that mutual respect!

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By *inkypervertMan
over a year ago

Durham

"equally i've had someone put of by the fact that i like Bi guys open to they sexuality

sometimes you just can't win "

but would you 'hide' some of your preferences just to 'improve' your chances?

(as if you actually needed to improve anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex. "

*Nods in agreement*

My view too. We will NEVER appeal to everyone so I too struggle to understand people that try too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am getting loads of messages from straight guys wanting to suck me...

Some, when asked why they have "straight" on their profiles answer that most of females don't meet with bi guys...

i love bi guys, infact even if im meeting a guy one on one i tend to go for bi guys, i find they are more open to my sexual likes than straight men plus if i meet a single bi guy, or two, i get along with its easier to arrange bi 3sums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how, even on a liberated site like this, that men being bi could be a problem! My hubby is perfectly capable of playing straight if that's what's required or dabble with sum cock if all are happy! Best of all worlds! Yum xxxx. Shouldn't put anyone off! "

Neither should height, weight, ethnicity etc but it does. It's just another personal preference and people should respect that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a meet I like to base it on some honesty which ultimately leads to much better sex.

*Nods in agreement*

My view too. We will NEVER appeal to everyone so I too struggle to understand people that try too. "

never a truer word spoken, its no difference to people who put on old pics because they looked better 20 years ago

We are what we are, ive never lie to anyone to get a meet, if people dont like me for who i am then they dont have to mail me and i have no intentions of going out my way to appeal to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally there too embarassed to say they are

oh my life a bi male couple

santa did answer me after all lol

behave !

or you'll have to go on a leash

im just going to lower my age limit to 21 lol"

got to admit did feel a bit wrong when i saw them on cam, but you can't see ages when opening the cams up

was a very nice veiw though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did i miss them on cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did i miss them on cam?

Cams are ok just frustrating when you want to reach out and suck it yourself hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did i miss them on cam?

oh it was a couple of months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of honesty and directness is causing confusion and torment for both straight and bi males.

I get some couples approaching me thinking they can "change my mind" because of the guy they met before who claimed to be straight. This was the classic: "He's straight but he doesn't mind sucking dick." What?!

If you want to play with the same sex, that's fine but don't claim to be straight when you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there seem to be a majority of the female partners on here who are not averse to taking part in bisexual play but very few male partners say they are bi-why is this?"

When i started to play with guys people who new me for years dropped us like a hot stone, despite the fact that i had never shown any interest in them. from the past only one couple has stood by us.

So my gues is that guys dont admit to it to avoid the predjudice that exist in this the most intollorant of past times.

Alot of guys who are supposed to be 110% st....what are they trying to prove....anyone secure in their sexuallality wouldnt have to say such things....would they?

Tess and Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"equally i've had someone put of by the fact that i like Bi guys open to they sexuality

sometimes you just can't win

but would you 'hide' some of your preferences just to 'improve' your chances?

(as if you actually needed to improve anything

No i'm not that desperate to appeal to everyone.

I'd hide things to appeal to less people

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