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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know im one of a Billion guys on here but i dont get a no thanks and cause im bicurious it seems every bloke wants to get me off.i guess im doing simething wrong. any tips much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye ya moaning about it instead of getting on the forums or in chat

And get ta the socials ta meet people or the clubs

The best way ta put folk off is the woe is me posts mate xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No thankyou"

Naughty girl D xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats better an answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know im one of a Billion guys on here but i dont get a no thanks and cause im bicurious it seems every bloke wants to get me off.i guess im doing simething wrong. any tips much appreciated "

tis the season to be jolly falalallalalal lalalalalaaaaalaaaaaaaaaa gawd wish i cud stop awe the moans n groans as they really make folk look pathetic

as soapy has said get yer sel out there . join in and be h a p p y ye be h a p p y i ken u is im sure u is yer

h a p p yyyyyyyyyyy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons for not giving

"no thanks"

Time issues

Meaning to come back to messgaes later and not getting chance

The amount that come in and so some just get bulk deleted and not even read.

Answering a message means if someone later has filters on, having answered no thanks means someone get through those filters.

And so many more don't let it get to you not easy but it is not meant personally most of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank u for all that and bugger....i dint realise i sounded like a moaning fucker... im not really... happy happy happy... thats me .. now i sound sarcastic...nnooooo back to learning how to write a sensible message tee hee

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By *ocial_AnimalsCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

If you are anything other than a single guy on here you're gonna get bombarded with mail....... both wanted and not!

So it really is just a time issue. Filters help but I agree that chat/forums and generally getting out and chatting to folk is the best idea.

Nothing worse than a "hey, how are you guys? fancy a fuck?" Just awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank u for all that and bugger....i dint realise i sounded like a moaning fucker... im not really... happy happy happy... thats me .. now i sound sarcastic...nnooooo back to learning how to write a sensible message tee hee"

You lean quickly Jedi you will do well in the forums Luke xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know im one of a Billion guys on here but i dont get a no thanks and cause im bicurious it seems every bloke wants to get me off.i guess im doing simething wrong. any tips much appreciated "

welcome to the club !!! just block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually always reply with a thanks or a no thanks - but kinda getting annoyed with the same people sending us the exact same message a few days later...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually always reply with a thanks or a no thanks - but kinda getting annoyed with the same people sending us the exact same message a few days later... "

Typical copy and paste message

Typical copy and paste message

Typical copy and paste message

Typical copy and paste message

Typical copy and paste message

Typical copy and paste message

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I expect nothing, so when I receive something its a big bonus, while you're looking at your outbox , some other guy is sending the message that may get the response,.. best advice forget the sent mail its out of your control, its gone, concentrate on the message you're going to send, as with every message making it the best you can ...

If you try to understand why ...It'll drive you mad wondering why you didn't get a response... .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm........... been on here a week and moaning already?

Not a good start I'm afraid!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm........... been on here a week and moaning already?

Not a good start I'm afraid!! "

he's already apologised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it it helps, i don't wanna get you off

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hmmm........... been on here a week and moaning already?

Not a good start I'm afraid!! "

oh and youve never had a moan have you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a bum pic as your only public pic is probably why you're getting messages from guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing to do with been single.......90% of couples/fems, havnt got the manners to simply say thanks but no thanks.....ffs they could even do it by way of a copy and paste but i gues their precious time is far more important than good manners.

Keep slugging away you will get there....try chat rooms etc esp now their separated into regions

Tess and Mike x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do "

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message the other day from a black Dom who played with a group of other black guys arranging gang bangs etc. He wanted to meet me.

It would only have taken a cursory glance at my profile to realise we were not what either of us was looking for. The majority of my messages are from people outwith my criteria.

I salute those without a life desperate for any kind of attention that reply to every message...go you! I prefer to respond to those that meet MY criteria whether I wish to meet them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx"

soapy has his running shoes on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing, and mean everything...i always reply, even if its a "sorry, not you're what im looking for" and a "good luck"

Rude people do piss me off, no need, no need!

As a side note...im personally not into bi-curious guys, not sure if you should use it as a selling point, and if you dont want guys contacting you, then perhaps take that off chick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*sorry, you're not doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were meeting, despite the Monkey warning me not to, I started by replying to all the messages we got-our stock answer was...thanks for the interest, but you're not for us...happy swinging...

...but then you open the door to the...why not's?, or the I bet I can change your mind (you can't)...the desperate...please please give me a chance or the abusive...you're so up yourselves-didn't want to fuck you anyway...

It just became easier and less anxiety provoking to delete...saved using the ignore in the end...

It's not about manners...we just couldn't be arsed in the end...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing, and mean everything...i always reply, even if its a "sorry, not you're what im looking for" and a "good luck"

Rude people do piss me off, no need, no need! "

How Many Times have you told the same person "No Thanks" Only for Them to Message You - the Exact Same Message a Few Days Later ???

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham


"Manners cost nothing, and mean everything...i always reply, even if its a "sorry, not you're what im looking for" and a "good luck"

Rude people do piss me off, no need, no need!

How Many Times have you told the same person "No Thanks" Only for Them to Message You - the Exact Same Message a Few Days Later ??? "

They should use the private notes and realise the first mail said no thanks or just block them so you dont make the same mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

soapy has his running shoes on... "

Na she's too idle ta chase me xx

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"Hmmm........... been on here a week and moaning already?

Not a good start I'm afraid!!

oh and youve never had a moan have you"

And you know for sure that he has?

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

soapy has his running shoes on...

Na she's too idle ta chase me xx "

soapy - your a brave guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing, and mean everything...i always reply, even if its a "sorry, not you're what im looking for" and a "good luck"

Rude people do piss me off, no need, no need!

How Many Times have you told the same person "No Thanks" Only for Them to Message You - the Exact Same Message a Few Days Later ???

They should use the private notes and realise the first mail said no thanks or just block them so you dont make the same mistake again."

bless em, cut them some slack, they generally only operate on one brain cell, the one in the bollock thats hanging down lowest lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We r gettin sick ov people messaging us and addin us then deletin us the day after without sayin anything, why do people do this ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We r gettin sick ov people messaging us and addin us then deletin us the day after without sayin anything, why do people do this ??? "

know as - The common spotted pichunter...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

soapy has his running on...

Na she's too idle ta chase me xx

soapy - your a brave guy.. "

Nah, he's just stupid. He's forgetting he's here next week and has a Hogmanay initiation to go through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

soapy has his running on...

Na she's too idle ta chase me xx

soapy - your a brave guy..

Nah, he's just stupid. He's forgetting he's here next week and has a Hogmanay initiation to go through "

Yes dear xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually always reply with a thanks or a no thanks - but kinda getting annoyed with the same people sending us the exact same message a few days later... "
+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We r gettin sick ov people messaging us and addin us then deletin us the day after without sayin anything, why do people do this ??? "

Some probably at a guess when no face shots are avaiable then they don't like the face so remove

Or like other say pic hunters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a billion guys on here? Fuck me, I've got some serious catching up to do

Aye there's about 10 ya ain't done yet xx

soapy has his running on...

Na she's too idle ta chase me xx

soapy - your a brave guy..

Nah, he's just stupid. He's forgetting he's here next week and has a Hogmanay initiation to go through

Yes dear xx "

Caught

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all ur words of wisdom.... went bit of beaten track but im taking it on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all ur words of wisdom.... went bit of beaten track but im taking it on board x "

you'll get use to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for all ur words of wisdom.... went bit of beaten track but im taking it on board x "

words of wisdom = Never have a bum pic for your profile !! DOH !! fer a guys profile anyway lol x

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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These mopey woe are me posts, whats the point, ffs. Its hard enough to get people to reply, by advertising your unappealing nature what do you hope to achieve. Swallow hard and accept that as a single male, rejection and snubbing are par for the course. Moaning about it is pathetic and turns off those who might reply.

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