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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

course it matters as after all you are going to meet them with the view to play

attraction is important to me, i like people to make an effort and it maybe just a photo but i like to look nice for photos on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing? "

god yeh, shallow bitch here, im even put off by their sofa's sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

army uniforms for me, i dont care what you do for a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to see a clear pic

and clean clothes

if they look chavy i wont be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you girl...its nearly allways first impressions that are right..and its your choice as you say in your profile if it aint right you aint gonna do it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm decently casual...i hate suits n ties...but anyway I get naked quick

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

Dont really think because someone like's to wear a tracky they are chav, if someone has a suit on in a few pictures it dont really mean they are going to turn up like that, they could come in a t.shirt and jeans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a guy turn up when I was with my hubby and not from this site with a white shirt on , right smack in the middle was a button sewn on in red thread. Both my x and I looked at each other and said no , I couldn't get it out my head if he couldn't get that right what else wouldn't he , how shallow is that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The bit that really put me off was he sent me a pic of him on his self and a couple of action shots, one of him licking a woman and he still had his cap on

i dont know if it sounds daft but it just really made me think.....urgh no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once had a guy turn up when I was with my hubby and not from this site with a white shirt on , right smack in the middle was a button sewn on in red thread. Both my x and I looked at each other and said no , I couldn't get it out my head if he couldn't get that right what else wouldn't he , how shallow is that "

ive met guys before and turned them down for wearing trainers

i hate trainers as going out wear, id never turn up for a meet in trainers, i made a real effort when i meet people to look the best i can and i dont think its wrong to expect men to do the same

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

oh well id draw the line at leaving the cap on Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On another site a man sent me a picture of himself in angling gear holding a pike...put me right off, and I can't tell you why. Another guy was surrounded by empty pint pots and was downing a yard of ale.

On what planet would you assume that's a sexy pic to send?!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Pics are the clincher for me. If they don't make me go 'mmmmmmm' then there won't be a meet. Grumpy face pics, 'dad-dancing' pics, drinking pics, pics with them cuddling a woman (face edited out), and yes, pics with baseball caps, all put me off.

Wouldn't mind the fishing gear, unless he smelled like fish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ive met guys before and turned them down for wearing trainers

i hate trainers as going out wear, id never turn up for a meet in trainers, i made a real effort when i meet people to look the best i can and i dont think its wrong to expect men to do the same "

I agree totally, once had a guy ask me to dress up for a meet in the full works and then he turns up in scruffy jeans and trainers and a rough as houses tshirt! Well that really put me in the mood.... NOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet at our local hotel, the guy turned up looking like some kind of harlem globe trotter! Not a good look at 49. He wondered why we sent him packing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it maybe a bit shallow but its the first thing you see and i think you do make your mind up if you like or not ... and wish to know them . That sports look would put me off ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep it matters to me, i dress well so expect others too.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing? "

People have different tastes in clothes/style, just because they don't match mine doesn't put me off.

Might think to myself, don't like that dress or that top is a bit naff but that's about it.

Long as the clothes they are wearing are clean and presentable (as in not full of holes, stretched out of shape etc) I don't mind. It's the person that I'm interested in not their clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing? "

I have a collection of baseball caps that I wear regularly, yet I am far from being a chav.

I also have woolly hats and flat caps too.

They keep the sun off my baldy head in summer and keep it warm in winter + ppl keep telling me I have a face for hats (woteva that is).

I have tracksuit tops too (but not bottoms) and I have various jackets that are sports type.

1 day I feel like a cords, lambswool sweater, collared shirt & brown leather boots kinda guy, the next day I feel like a trainers, jeans, trackie top and baseball cap kinda guy.

More often than not it's just jeans and either a polo shirt or shirt though (but rarely a t-shirt as I think they tend to accentuate rather than flatter a bigger guys build).

Always though and I think it's important (to me at least), clothes are clean, ironed and smell fresh.

I've never been put off by anyones dress, well actually that's a lie, once I did but what did he expect ?

Why oh why would you turn up to meet someone in a white vest, shorts, jesus creepers and white socks pulled up to mid calf ?

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

my pic puts everyone of lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes appearance is important, scruffy clothes, untidy house pics do put people off, has me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep it matters to me, i dress well so expect others too. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my pic puts everyone of lol "

so change it then

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By *itianmandyWoman
over a year ago

london


"The bit that really put me off was he sent me a pic of him on his self and a couple of action shots, one of him licking a woman and he still had his cap on

"

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..these few words are surely the funniest sentence that has ever been written on this forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that get me are the untidy house pics, if you're going to take a pic then put it out there ffs clean up first.

If thats their outward public appearance then can you imagine the quality of their personal hygiene, which wouldn't become apparent until you were all in a much more awkward situation.

I've been to meet totally respectable looking people before now, walked and and made my excuses, keeping you house clean and tidy costs very little and a bit of elbow grease, costs nothing. There's no excuse.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It matters to me a lot. I dont mind if a guy turns up in jeans tshirt and trainers if they are smart. Certainly wouldnt entertain anyone in a baseball cap of jogging bottoms. Some of the pictures i get sent are hysterical. But the best ever was the guy that sent me a face picture, it ws just his face and nothing else but the face had been blanked out i mean wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that get me are the untidy house pics, if you're going to take a pic then put it out there ffs clean up first.

If thats their outward public appearance then can you imagine the quality of their personal hygiene, which wouldn't become apparent until you were all in a much more awkward situation.

I've been to meet totally respectable looking people before now, walked and and made my excuses, keeping you house clean and tidy costs very little and a bit of elbow grease, costs nothing. There's no excuse. "

oooh u look nice

come round to mine

oh, and bring ur duster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bit that really put me off was he sent me a pic of him on his self and a couple of action shots, one of him licking a woman and he still had his cap on

i dont know if it sounds daft but it just really made me think.....urgh no thanks "

Oooh nooo socks i can cope with.... keeping the hat on is another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it matters. You only get one chance to make a first impression and if someone can't be bothered to make an effort then neither can we.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a decorator..once saw a pic on here where their wallpaper was upside down..don't know why it bothered me a bit but it did

An Arsenal shirt is a bit of a no no as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a decorator..once saw a pic on here where their wallpaper was upside down..don't know why it bothered me a bit but it did

An Arsenal shirt is a bit of a no no as well "

come strip and repaper my bedroom walls then please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha...I'd at least take hat off if i was going down on a lady...its called manners!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that get me are the untidy house pics, if you're going to take a pic then put it out there ffs clean up first.

If thats their outward public appearance then can you imagine the quality of their personal hygiene, which wouldn't become apparent until you were all in a much more awkward situation.

I've been to meet totally respectable looking people before now, walked and and made my excuses, keeping you house clean and tidy costs very little and a bit of elbow grease, costs nothing. There's no excuse. "

I am exactly the same...I belong to another forum with a big AmPics community...all I can think sometimes is...oooh lovey, pick up your dirty knickers and those mouldy looking coffee cups...and that bedding looks minging...even worse if it doesn't match...

Shallow? absolutely...sorry? nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only fit young men look good in shell suits and caps, as long as they are not scruffy old ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me, there are some pics where I can get an essence of what the guy is like and there are certain types that I don't go for. There are exceptions of course, you can't really judge solely on clothes.

I'm not keen on football shirts or zipped up grandad cardigans, jumpers with snowmen on the front, men holding beer glasses and jeering in a sort of football hooligan pose, men with tshirts that have slogans like 'sex is like snow....' Men with woolly football hats and scarves on, men who resemble the actors on Shameless. I don't like common chavy looking guys (and yes I am an utter snob).

But as I said there are exceptions but I'd have had to have perhaps read posts on forums etc to get an idea of the guys personality as first impressions do count and I'd just delete the message otherwise.

I accept tho that my appearance could also put guys off so its all relative.

Anyone who keeps a cap on during sex quite frankly deserves to be banned from swinging entirely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'm not keen on football shirts or zipped up grandad cardigans, jumpers with snowmen on the front, men holding beer glasses and jeering in a sort of football hooligan pose, men with tshirts that have slogans like 'sex is like snow....' Men with woolly football hats and scarves on, men who resemble the actors on Shameless. I don't like common chavy looking guys (and yes I am an utter snob).

"

please tell me noones ever sent you a pic of here wearing a jumper with a snowman on the front? lol

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By *xscotMan
over a year ago

Kingston

well if it was a Dutch Cap - he could just be trying to be helpful-----------

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, many a times!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

It matters....

People only send pics that they think they look good in, so....If they think they look good in a baseball hat an tracksuit......

Dont like being judgemental....But sod it, I am

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a

I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not petty.. I looked at a guys photo today and he had a very badly modified car ( I used to judge cars at car shows so think I have a good idea) and I didnt even look further lol

Also if I get a scotsman message me first question is which team...

If a man looks a mess in his photos... why would he turn up to me any different.

Cali x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

Your first sentence...care to expand ,or do we just take the misogyny as your default position...

We all judge...i want people i can talk to and who make me laugh...that or a hard cock when i am horny...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

Ah that old "judge not lest you be judged"

How biblical. Must be the festive season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing?

god yeh, shallow bitch here, im even put off by their sofa's sometimes! "

glad i'm not the only one

Not petty

backgrounds can tell you more than the profile would

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Which is why I turn up to meets naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao

Wouldnt put that past you either _habs

I dont like white sox....unless your playing tennis or doing sports etc...but with black trousers is a no no....yuck

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

The day this messed up body starts meeting men in tracksuits and baseball caps is the day I give up.........

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Which is why I turn up to meets naked"

gets my vote

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then."

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lmao

Wouldnt put that past you either _habs

I dont like white sox....unless your playing tennis or doing sports etc...but with black trousers is a no no....yuck "

one of my meets once turned up in pink socks.. I laughed and he wore pink socks most time after that lol

cali x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"lmao

Wouldnt put that past you either _habs

I dont like white sox....unless your playing tennis or doing sports etc...but with black trousers is a no no....yuck

one of my meets once turned up in pink socks.. I laughed and he wore pink socks most time after that lol

cali x"

Don't care what socks they turn up in ,so long as they take them off for sex

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off "

care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby says I am to picky LOL as the wrong shoes put me off I do have a thing for shoes it is one of the first things I notice on anyone, even walking down the street LOL i can totally understand I think first impressions are the most important xxxx

Her x

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london

The 'problem' with this topic is that you lot are making it too funny!

While it rarely happens in person (meeting/seeing peeps who lack manners, or who are poorly dressed), there does seem to be sense that because this is swinging some leave their 'everyday' manners and dress sense behind. This topic is good as men should see how some women think on this over-looked point.

Finally, thanks for making me laugh. The forums have been funnier of late!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

"

How about you explain your incredibly offensive remark before you start asking questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is why I turn up to meets naked"

Thank heavens you don't wear a tracksuit

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

absolutley matters,i wouldnt go to a meet in a pair of leggings a nd a sweatshirt i make the effort and i expect my meets to make the effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

dear me is that you judging 'women' by the mess they make of theiro bodies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

"

you are a very arrresive young man, ive never seen you post anything without being personally insulting or swearing at people

most on here can have a discussion in a joking way, talk about things they like and dont like without aiming insults to people personally and resorting to bad language, you it seems cant, and yes i do have proof of that, you only have to read thro your previous past posts to see how self opinionated you are and how you attack anyone who does not think the same way as you

you tell people to 'grow the fuck up' i take it thats your idea of being grown up by swearing at people? if so then i'd stick to not being grown up as id rather have a laugh and joke in the forms over things people do and dont like than being rude and abusive like you

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

How about you explain your incredibly offensive remark before you start asking questions. "

perhaps the wording is offensive but the concept is not. People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others. All this if they dont care how they look in a picture, etc, can easily be reflected back, and when it is, the reaction, see the bleating on this page.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others"

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

you are a very arrresive young man, ive never seen you post anything without being personally insulting or swearing at people

most on here can have a discussion in a joking way, talk about things they like and dont like without aiming insults to people personally and resorting to bad language, you it seems cant, and yes i do have proof of that, you only have to read thro your previous past posts to see how self opinionated you are and how you attack anyone who does not think the same way as you

you tell people to 'grow the fuck up' i take it thats your idea of being grown up by swearing at people? if so then i'd stick to not being grown up as id rather have a laugh and joke in the forms over things people do and dont like than being rude and abusive like you "

please, the forum operates thusly.

Female bitches and moans about a message they received, leaving enough info for the guy to know its him

the sista's roll in with the damn right girl, you tell it like it is, whoop whoop !

The guys, afraid to disagree with the sista's, will agree with the op, whilst promoting themselves as the direct opposite of the offender.

I pop in to point out the appalling hypocrisy.

The offensive thing. You find swearing more greivous than people openly mocking individuals and revealing content of messages on a public forum, for theirs and others amusement, i disagree. Why do it. If they wanted to advise the guy about his clothes, message him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others. "

The last paragraph of your profile explains your belief in the wonder of the universe and how it created people the way they are..really profound..as long as they're not repulsive to you yeah?

Still its good to know you believe your ideals far outweigh the rest of the cosmos

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick."

damn thanks for completing thread bingo for me, the internet white knight who thinks by defending the women he shall be rewarded with their favour, HOUSE !

I wonder if those who said it was offensive to say fuck will find your personal insults offensive, dum de dum dum dum

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others.

The last paragraph of your profile explains your belief in the wonder of the universe and how it created people the way they are..really profound..as long as they're not repulsive to you yeah?

Still its good to know you believe your ideals far outweigh the rest of the cosmos

"

extrapolating. Never said repulsive.

Stick to the facts bitte.

And to be fair the quote isnt mine, i cant take credit for it, and its not about how you ended up in life through the choices you made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once had a guy turn up when I was with my hubby and not from this site with a white shirt on , right smack in the middle was a button sewn on in red thread. Both my x and I looked at each other and said no , I couldn't get it out my head if he couldn't get that right what else wouldn't he , how shallow is that

ive met guys before and turned them down for wearing trainers

i hate trainers as going out wear, id never turn up for a meet in trainers, i made a real effort when i meet people to look the best i can and i dont think its wrong to expect men to do the same "

So I'm guessing I better stop turning up for meets in a frock and trainers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

you are a very arrresive young man, ive never seen you post anything without being personally insulting or swearing at people

most on here can have a discussion in a joking way, talk about things they like and dont like without aiming insults to people personally and resorting to bad language, you it seems cant, and yes i do have proof of that, you only have to read thro your previous past posts to see how self opinionated you are and how you attack anyone who does not think the same way as you

you tell people to 'grow the fuck up' i take it thats your idea of being grown up by swearing at people? if so then i'd stick to not being grown up as id rather have a laugh and joke in the forms over things people do and dont like than being rude and abusive like you please, the forum operates thusly.

Female bitches and moans about a message they received, leaving enough info for the guy to know its him

the sista's roll in with the damn right girl, you tell it like it is, whoop whoop !

The guys, afraid to disagree with the sista's, will agree with the op, whilst promoting themselves as the direct opposite of the offender.

I pop in to point out the appalling hypocrisy.

The offensive thing. You find swearing more greivous than people openly mocking individuals and revealing content of messages on a public forum, for theirs and others amusement, i disagree. Why do it. If they wanted to advise the guy about his clothes, message him."

yeah no hummm lol i kind of agree with you

you say women should look after their bodies and those who over indulge shouldnt mock others, im assumiung by that you'd think this thread was ok if i was a size 8 and attractive? people put threads up about BBWs all the time, we are constantly mocked and moaned about, so i as a fat woman should loose weight or just put up with the digs from others, my pics are honest and they are of me, and yes i know im fat but i do not come on threads telling people to 'shut the fuck up' for not liking what catoragy i fit into, nor do i feel i should change myself so guys like you will like me, same as i get put off my certain pics i accept my pics will put others off, and as an adult i accept that, i just look for guys who like bigger women and believe it or not there are some out there

there for why is it so wrong that i dislike guys who shag in a base ball cap the thread was only ment as tongue in cheek i didnt expect anyone to take it serious of get offened by it and to be fair noone, except you did

the point im making is, everyone likes different and i think so long as people are not getting personal to a individual then starting such threads are ok, it gets people talking and most will have a joke but in a none offensive way

People will always start threads that some dont like, but i have no more rights to go on swearing at people for starting a thread that i dont agree with than you do

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick.damn thanks for completing thread bingo for me, the internet white knight who thinks by defending the women he shall be rewarded with their favour, HOUSE !

I wonder if those who said it was offensive to say fuck will find your personal insults offensive, dum de dum dum dum"

Hee hee... You're new round here aren't you? I offend people liberally. I don't claim to be non judgemental. Calling you a dick for being a bit of a dick is mild by my standards.

I'm calling you on your hypocrisy. In my experience hypocrites are usually dicks.

I have no need to be a white knight, or any other flavour of chevalier.

Have a good day...

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

you are a very arrresive young man, ive never seen you post anything without being personally insulting or swearing at people

most on here can have a discussion in a joking way, talk about things they like and dont like without aiming insults to people personally and resorting to bad language, you it seems cant, and yes i do have proof of that, you only have to read thro your previous past posts to see how self opinionated you are and how you attack anyone who does not think the same way as you

you tell people to 'grow the fuck up' i take it thats your idea of being grown up by swearing at people? if so then i'd stick to not being grown up as id rather have a laugh and joke in the forms over things people do and dont like than being rude and abusive like you please, the forum operates thusly.

Female bitches and moans about a message they received, leaving enough info for the guy to know its him

the sista's roll in with the damn right girl, you tell it like it is, whoop whoop !

The guys, afraid to disagree with the sista's, will agree with the op, whilst promoting themselves as the direct opposite of the offender.

I pop in to point out the appalling hypocrisy.

The offensive thing. You find swearing more greivous than people openly mocking individuals and revealing content of messages on a public forum, for theirs and others amusement, i disagree. Why do it. If they wanted to advise the guy about his clothes, message him.

yeah no hummm lol i kind of agree with you

you say women should look after their bodies and those who over indulge shouldnt mock others, im assumiung by that you'd think this thread was ok if i was a size 8 and attractive? people put threads up about BBWs all the time, we are constantly mocked and moaned about, so i as a fat woman should loose weight or just put up with the digs from others, my pics are honest and they are of me, and yes i know im fat but i do not come on threads telling people to 'shut the fuck up' for not liking what catoragy i fit into, nor do i feel i should change myself so guys like you will like me, same as i get put off my certain pics i accept my pics will put others off, and as an adult i accept that, i just look for guys who like bigger women and believe it or not there are some out there

there for why is it so wrong that i dislike guys who shag in a base ball cap the thread was only ment as tongue in cheek i didnt expect anyone to take it serious of get offened by it and to be fair noone, except you did

the point im making is, everyone likes different and i think so long as people are not getting personal to a individual then starting such threads are ok, it gets people talking and most will have a joke but in a none offensive way

People will always start threads that some dont like, but i have no more rights to go on swearing at people for starting a thread that i dont agree with than you do

"

actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo"

you know something, i respect your views and opinion same i i do everyone else, i may not agree with everyones views but i respect their rights to view them

but please......

you sit there telling women who dont look after themselves and who over indulge to look in the mirror before criticizing others then state your not fattist?

if your not fattist why is it only fat women who should look in the mirror before having an opinion? why did you not aim that comment at slim women who posted?

Not that it matters wether you like fat women or not, thats your rights to meet and be attracted to who you choose but if your going to make a statement at least have the courage to stand by the words you previously posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

you are a very arrresive young man, ive never seen you post anything without being personally insulting or swearing at people

most on here can have a discussion in a joking way, talk about things they like and dont like without aiming insults to people personally and resorting to bad language, you it seems cant, and yes i do have proof of that, you only have to read thro your previous past posts to see how self opinionated you are and how you attack anyone who does not think the same way as you

you tell people to 'grow the fuck up' i take it thats your idea of being grown up by swearing at people? if so then i'd stick to not being grown up as id rather have a laugh and joke in the forms over things people do and dont like than being rude and abusive like you please, the forum operates thusly.

Female bitches and moans about a message they received, leaving enough info for the guy to know its him

the sista's roll in with the damn right girl, you tell it like it is, whoop whoop !

The guys, afraid to disagree with the sista's, will agree with the op, whilst promoting themselves as the direct opposite of the offender.

I pop in to point out the appalling hypocrisy.

The offensive thing. You find swearing more greivous than people openly mocking individuals and revealing content of messages on a public forum, for theirs and others amusement, i disagree. Why do it. If they wanted to advise the guy about his clothes, message him.

yeah no hummm lol i kind of agree with you

you say women should look after their bodies and those who over indulge shouldnt mock others, im assumiung by that you'd think this thread was ok if i was a size 8 and attractive? people put threads up about BBWs all the time, we are constantly mocked and moaned about, so i as a fat woman should loose weight or just put up with the digs from others, my pics are honest and they are of me, and yes i know im fat but i do not come on threads telling people to 'shut the fuck up' for not liking what catoragy i fit into, nor do i feel i should change myself so guys like you will like me, same as i get put off my certain pics i accept my pics will put others off, and as an adult i accept that, i just look for guys who like bigger women and believe it or not there are some out there

there for why is it so wrong that i dislike guys who shag in a base ball cap the thread was only ment as tongue in cheek i didnt expect anyone to take it serious of get offened by it and to be fair noone, except you did

the point im making is, everyone likes different and i think so long as people are not getting personal to a individual then starting such threads are ok, it gets people talking and most will have a joke but in a none offensive way

People will always start threads that some dont like, but i have no more rights to go on swearing at people for starting a thread that i dont agree with than you do

actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo"

You need to either get a good shag or take a chill pill ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo

you know something, i respect your views and opinion same i i do everyone else, i may not agree with everyones views but i respect their rights to view them

but please......

you sit there telling women who dont look after themselves and who over indulge to look in the mirror before criticizing others then state your not fattist?

if your not fattist why is it only fat women who should look in the mirror before having an opinion? why did you not aim that comment at slim women who posted?

Not that it matters wether you like fat women or not, thats your rights to meet and be attracted to who you choose but if your going to make a statement at least have the courage to stand by the words you previously posted "

+1

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo

you know something, i respect your views and opinion same i i do everyone else, i may not agree with everyones views but i respect their rights to view them

but please......

you sit there telling women who dont look after themselves and who over indulge to look in the mirror before criticizing others then state your not fattist?

if your not fattist why is it only fat women who should look in the mirror before having an opinion? why did you not aim that comment at slim women who posted?

Not that it matters wether you like fat women or not, thats your rights to meet and be attracted to who you choose but if your going to make a statement at least have the courage to stand by the words you previously posted "

i didnt look at pics, was there slim women posting. What would you like me to criticise about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually i didnt look at your pics, and i wasnt personally attacking you, it was the mindset prevalent here.

Im not fattist, he is (old jimmy carr joke), and if i saw a bbw haterz thread i would be knees deep in it criticising those who dared to do that. My choice of words was provocative, and that was wrong, but the point remains, why publically crhticise a particular individual who engaged in a private conversation with you, it would make trusting you more difficult imo

you know something, i respect your views and opinion same i i do everyone else, i may not agree with everyones views but i respect their rights to view them

but please......

you sit there telling women who dont look after themselves and who over indulge to look in the mirror before criticizing others then state your not fattist?

if your not fattist why is it only fat women who should look in the mirror before having an opinion? why did you not aim that comment at slim women who posted?

Not that it matters wether you like fat women or not, thats your rights to meet and be attracted to who you choose but if your going to make a statement at least have the courage to stand by the words you previously posted i didnt look at pics, was there slim women posting. What would you like me to criticise about them."

did you get out of bed the wrong side this morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

i didnt look at pics, was there slim women posting. What would you like me to criticise about them."

you dont have to look at pics, the point im making is if your not fattist why not just aim the comment of some women should look in the mirror to everyone and not just aim it at women who 'over indulge'

to be honest im not calling you for being fattist because im not to keen on the way i lookm and i think slim women look better, the point im trying to get over is you cant put something like that in one thread and then totally contradict yourself in another saying your not fattist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

did you get out of bed the wrong side this morning "

yeah was my bed, i turned over and knocked him out with my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

did you get out of bed the wrong side this morning

yeah was my bed, i turned over and knocked him out with my arse "

and what a lovely fat arse you knocked him out with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

did you get out of bed the wrong side this morning

yeah was my bed, i turned over and knocked him out with my arse

and what a lovely fat arse you knocked him out with "

i hope you've taken your cap off before you come anywhere near my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not so much what theyre wearing in the pics but what theyre doing kinda turns me off

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Reminds me of saying

The Taylor makes the clothes but god maketh the man. I used to make snap judgements on first impressions but now do try and reserve judgement a little while but to be honest my first impression is usually right.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"

i didnt look at pics, was there slim women posting. What would you like me to criticise about them.

you dont have to look at pics, the point im making is if your not fattist why not just aim the comment of some women should look in the mirror to everyone and not just aim it at women who 'over indulge'

to be honest im not calling you for being fattist because im not to keen on the way i lookm and i think slim women look better, the point im trying to get over is you cant put something like that in one thread and then totally contradict yourself in another saying your not fattist "

fair enough, i picked one example, a feature, like clothing which can be changed. My point is how is it acceptable to mock clothing of a person yet if someone started a thread, some fatty mailed me, who do they think they are, there would be uproar. In general hypocrisy reigns here, and its sad to see people making such poor judgments. For me i never ask for pics, i can be attracted to the person by chatting, if i do get a pic after then its mostly unimportant as i would already have the attraction but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i didnt look at pics, was there slim women posting. What would you like me to criticise about them.

you dont have to look at pics, the point im making is if your not fattist why not just aim the comment of some women should look in the mirror to everyone and not just aim it at women who 'over indulge'

to be honest im not calling you for being fattist because im not to keen on the way i lookm and i think slim women look better, the point im trying to get over is you cant put something like that in one thread and then totally contradict yourself in another saying your not fattist fair enough, i picked one example, a feature, like clothing which can be changed. My point is how is it acceptable to mock clothing of a person yet if someone started a thread, some fatty mailed me, who do they think they are, there would be uproar. In general hypocrisy reigns here, and its sad to see people making such poor judgments. For me i never ask for pics, i can be attracted to the person by chatting, if i do get a pic after then its mostly unimportant as i would already have the attraction but each to their own."

yes I totally have to agree with the last bit. I for one can actually be attracted to someone without a pic and as equally be put off people by forum posts

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick.damn thanks for completing thread bingo for me, the internet white knight who thinks by defending the women he shall be rewarded with their favour, HOUSE !

I wonder if those who said it was offensive to say fuck will find your personal insults offensive, dum de dum dum dum"

Mmmmm;shall i ,go on then...white knight syndrome...another thing you misuse in an attempt to look far more intellectual than you are, is not about getting fucks, but a penchant some men have to rescue women...usually accompanied by a view of women that see's them as needing to be rescued.

i saw no rescuing going on in _waymans post...just his opinion of the fact you have bleated on and on about how non judgemental you are...then blown your cover in this thread....

A little secret for you....some people are fat and healthy...some love their bodies....some are attractive and have no trouble getting shags based solely on looks alone...

Your words showed a total inability to understand this,and very nasty attitudes,far more unpleasant than any others expressed on this thread.

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!"

What a top bloke he was

I wouldn't have slept with him though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you believe the rumours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" fair enough, i picked one example, a feature, like clothing which can be changed. My point is how is it acceptable to mock clothing of a person yet if someone started a thread, some fatty mailed me, who do they think they are, there would be uproar. In general hypocrisy reigns here, and its sad to see people making such poor judgments. For me i never ask for pics, i can be attracted to the person by chatting, if i do get a pic after then its mostly unimportant as i would already have the attraction but each to their own."

ive never ever moaned at anyone for starting a thread because they dont like big women, i respect peoples views and opinions and if they want to moan about big women thats their rights to do so, and im not here to moan about what other people moan about i can only speak for myself

as for clothes being easily changed, i wouldnt dream of asking someone not to wear what they felt comfy in, no i dont like guys in track suits and trainers and i make no apologies for my likes but because of that i just wouldnt meet them i wouldnt message them and ask them not to wear a trackie lol

the whole thread was really just ment light hearted, it was never ment to offend anyone

we all have our likes, some dont like people of the same sex, some dont like people of a certain size, some get put off by pics, its called prefference and all because you dont want to meet someone, for whatever reason, dont mean your judging them, if a guy mailed me back saying no thanks im not attracted to big women i dont take offence, its just called prefference and not everyone trying to be nasty just because they dont wnat to meet you, same as i dont mean to be nasty because i dont like chav type men, i dont think theres anything wrong with them, i just am not drawn to that look

it was never ment to be taken so damn serious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!

What a top bloke he was

I wouldn't have slept with him though lol"

lol i was just going to say, but would you have shagged him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear sportswear a lot - when I'm training, when I'm inbetween training, and when I've been out at events. I've even 'dress tracksuits' for nights out, which only ever get worn just for that, usually round the plush surroundings of leisure centre and club function rooms.

Would I wear them ordinarily for a photo on fab - maybe my best ones. Would I have a baseball cap on - hell no, I want to show you what's left of my blonde locks before they go just that little bit greyer... I might wear some of my race suits tho, cos I know the odd pervette finds them kinky

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not particularly but what does is when they attach a picture of themselves to their introductory message that's on public view on their profile, what is the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly but what does is when they attach a picture of themselves to their introductory message that's on public view on their profile, what is the point "

The ones that do it for us are the cock pics taken in a toilet..cock,pan,skidmark..lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all have days when we are dressed in casual wear but i wouldn't put a pic on fab and send it out

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick.damn thanks for completing thread bingo for me, the internet white knight who thinks by defending the women he shall be rewarded with their favour, HOUSE !

I wonder if those who said it was offensive to say fuck will find your personal insults offensive, dum de dum dum dum

Mmmmm;shall i ,go on then...white knight syndrome...another thing you misuse in an attempt to look far more intellectual than you are, is not about getting fucks, but a penchant some men have to rescue women...usually accompanied by a view of women that see's them as needing to be rescued.

i saw no rescuing going on in _waymans post...just his opinion of the fact you have bleated on and on about how non judgemental you are...then blown your cover in this thread....

A little secret for you....some people are fat and healthy...some love their bodies....some are attractive and have no trouble getting shags based solely on looks alone...

Your words showed a total inability to understand this,and very nasty attitudes,far more unpleasant than any others expressed on this thread."

check urban dictionary for internet white knight. A bit of research before you attack others intellect goes a long way.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

How about you explain your incredibly offensive remark before you start asking questions. perhaps the wording is offensive but the concept is not. People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others. All this if they dont care how they look in a picture, etc, can easily be reflected back, and when it is, the reaction, see the bleating on this page."

Yes, every person on here is being hypocritical *heavy sarcasm*

Actually, you do have a point. I just realised that someone doesn't have to be dressed badly for me to be put off meeting them. They can also be rude, offensive, and insulting. Like you just have been. Thanks for helping me see the light.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!"

Wouldnt shag him though!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

How about you explain your incredibly offensive remark before you start asking questions. perhaps the wording is offensive but the concept is not. People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others. All this if they dont care how they look in a picture, etc, can easily be reflected back, and when it is, the reaction, see the bleating on this page.

Yes, every person on here is being hypocritical *heavy sarcasm*

Actually, you do have a point. I just realised that someone doesn't have to be dressed badly for me to be put off meeting them. They can also be rude, offensive, and insulting. Like you just have been. Thanks for helping me see the light."

+1

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

You tell me what mess I've made of my body then.

he wont...i have noticed a pattern here, intelligent women scare him off care to expand on that or even provide an instance of this happening ?

How about you explain your incredibly offensive remark before you start asking questions. perhaps the wording is offensive but the concept is not. People, men and women, who dont care how their bodies look or have allowed themselves to over indulge in the eating stakes, should perhaps focus on the image they put out to the world, before having a go at others. All this if they dont care how they look in a picture, etc, can easily be reflected back, and when it is, the reaction, see the bleating on this page.

Yes, every person on here is being hypocritical *heavy sarcasm*

Actually, you do have a point. I just realised that someone doesn't have to be dressed badly for me to be put off meeting them. They can also be rude, offensive, and insulting. Like you just have been. Thanks for helping me see the light."

glad to enlighten you to a basic fundamental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

"

I didn't see anything in your op as offensive; I was able to see it for what it was, a light hearted tongue in cheek post.

Some people have the ability to suck the joy out of threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want a tin hat or a spade? Chill pill?

Yes ..... I'd shag the one below!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

I didn't see anything in your op as offensive; I was able to see it for what it was, a light hearted tongue in cheek post.

Some people have the ability to suck the joy out of threads. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ready when you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh bum someone posted before me now that dont make sence lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"ready when you are "

I held on for a min....

Got a headache lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ready when you are

I held on for a min....

Got a headache lol "

i think i have one coming on too now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember to turn your baseball cap round the other way, the peak is a bit distracting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just remember to turn your baseball cap round the other way, the peak is a bit distracting. "

ah but its handy for covering you face when pics are taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember to turn your baseball cap round the other way, the peak is a bit distracting.

ah but its handy for covering you face when pics are taken "

I was more worried about how it would get in the way when performing oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

"

hope you were not referring to me with that last comment NN, otherwise am going to say you have a fat arse again

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

a


"i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

I didn't see anything in your op as offensive; I was able to see it for what it was, a light hearted tongue in cheek post.

Some people have the ability to suck the joy out of threads. "

if thats what joy is, taking the piss out of an individual who took the time to message you, then im happy to suck it out, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm bored now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think the problem with these forums is because theres no emotion in font its easy to take someone the wrong way, if your talking face to face you can see peoples facial expressions and know if they are joking or not

You could say something on here someone takes offence to but if you said the same to them in real life they may not

Ive seem a lot of things on here that ive found a bit off but have bumped into the poster in real life at a club or party and when chatted to them in real life have realised they ok people and just have a difference sence of humor to me or maybe have worded something different to how they could have to make the same point come over compleatly different

hope you were not referring to me with that last comment NN, otherwise am going to say you have a fat arse again "

i think ive met you enough times to not take anythikng you say the wrong way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anything* cant spell now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'm bored now "

me too actually, thats why im here, i really need a more lively job lol

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!

Wouldnt shag him though!!!! lol"

errr nope, but does just go to the point of 'never judge a book by it's cover'.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Just had a message off a guy and he attached a pic of him wearing a base ball cap and a shell suit type track suit

without even thinking i just moved onto the next message

But then it got me thinking does it really matter what people wear? to me it does because the way people dress is an extention of their personality, and im just not attracted menatally or pysically to chav type people no matter what their face looks like

So my question is, has anyone else every had a pic and been put off by what the sender is wearing?

I have a collection of baseball caps that I wear regularly, yet I am far from being a chav.

I also have woolly hats and flat caps too.

They keep the sun off my baldy head in summer and keep it warm in winter + ppl keep telling me I have a face for hats (woteva that is).

I have tracksuit tops too (but not bottoms) and I have various jackets that are sports type.

1 day I feel like a cords, lambswool sweater, collared shirt & brown leather boots kinda guy, the next day I feel like a trainers, jeans, trackie top and baseball cap kinda guy.

More often than not it's just jeans and either a polo shirt or shirt though (but rarely a t-shirt as I think they tend to accentuate rather than flatter a bigger guys build).

Always though and I think it's important (to me at least), clothes are clean, ironed and smell fresh.

I've never been put off by anyones dress, well actually that's a lie, once I did but what did he expect ?

Why oh why would you turn up to meet someone in a white vest, shorts, jesus creepers and white socks pulled up to mid calf ? "

You met Cliff Richard coming back from a tennis match??????????

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I love it, women who dont care about the mess they make off their bodies, judging others by what how adorn themselves. Grow the fuck up and look in the mirrors before you judge others

Ok, I've looked in the mirror.

So now I can judge. You're a bit of a dick aren't you?

This is a really nice thread about how we all have different standards, and how they can influence even things as basic as sexual desire.

You claim to be open minded and non judgemental in your profile. Your behaviour in this thread doesn't meet those standards. I wonder what that says about you? Probably that you are, when all's said and done, a bit of a dick.damn thanks for completing thread bingo for me, the internet white knight who thinks by defending the women he shall be rewarded with their favour, HOUSE !

I wonder if those who said it was offensive to say fuck will find your personal insults offensive, dum de dum dum dum

Mmmmm;shall i ,go on then...white knight syndrome...another thing you misuse in an attempt to look far more intellectual than you are, is not about getting fucks, but a penchant some men have to rescue women...usually accompanied by a view of women that see's them as needing to be rescued.

i saw no rescuing going on in _waymans post...just his opinion of the fact you have bleated on and on about how non judgemental you are...then blown your cover in this thread....

A little secret for you....some people are fat and healthy...some love their bodies....some are attractive and have no trouble getting shags based solely on looks alone...

Your words showed a total inability to understand this,and very nasty attitudes,far more unpleasant than any others expressed on this thread.check urban dictionary for internet white knight. A bit of research before you attack others intellect goes a long way."

i dont need to check...urban dictionary is hardly a resource worth consulting...and i do know the difference, i jut doubt you do

The fact is you jumped into a thread where even the Op admitted she was worried it was petty,and threw bile and venom around...

This is normal for men on here who arent getting sex...they start attacking the women...which is a good thing,as it means they continue not getting sex.

happy trolling

i can only assume you

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!

Wouldnt shag him though!!!! lol errr nope, but does just go to the point of 'never judge a book by it's cover'. "

Its a swingers site!

Course we judge "book by cover"!!

Not here to have long strolls in park and "lets get to know each other better"!!

That 1st pic is the one that we make our initial decision on....FACT!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I only really havea one comment to make ont this subject.............................

Sir Jimmi Savile

What a wouldeful selfless man and he wore shellsuites !!!!!!!

Wouldnt shag him though!!!! lol errr nope, but does just go to the point of 'never judge a book by it's cover'.

Its a swingers site!

Course we judge "book by cover"!!

Not here to have long strolls in park and "lets get to know each other better"!!

That 1st pic is the one that we make our initial decision on....FACT!"

I totally agree...if the wrapping aint great i dont wanna open the present

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

I think that Naughtynympho is right 1st impressions count! I like to think I'm always polite and well dressed when I meet and the pic I send is the one of me sunbathing outside my house. Unfortunately the wheelie bin is behind me but it was a spur of the moment pic but I still like it and would like to think others do too, but I can understand if it puts some people off. It's the attention to detail.

(Or it could just be my looks lmao)

Steve x

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Mmmmm a little light hearted banter............ nothing wrong with it, well I dont think there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore all that crap about not judging people by their appearances. Many have spend lots of money to make their statement, and they want you to think about what they look like.

Of course many are not what people think, but that's their choice.

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