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By *iedteen89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

dumfries

Why on earth to all these recently joined local profiles seem to go out their way to find out as much shit aout you as possible. Anyone else seem to get these creeps who are trying to out us from these lifestyles?

Total cunters the lot of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to reply and give them info. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell lies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They can only find out what you tell them...

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By *iedteen89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

dumfries

I never reply truthfully to any of the info fishers just such pain in the arses

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Why on earth to all these recently joined local profiles seem to go out their way to find out as much shit aout you as possible. Anyone else seem to get these creeps who are trying to out us from these lifestyles?

Total cunters the lot of them "

Maybe they’ve realised they’ve joined a swingers website where there are lots of dodgy/fake/timewaster profiles, and are trying to ensure you’re the real deal?

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth to all these recently joined local profiles seem to go out their way to find out as much shit aout you as possible. Anyone else seem to get these creeps who are trying to out us from these lifestyles?

Total cunters the lot of them

Maybe they’ve realised they’ve joined a swingers website where there are lots of dodgy/fake/timewaster profiles, and are trying to ensure you’re the real deal?

Are you? "

They're probably just having a wank

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Why on earth to all these recently joined local profiles seem to go out their way to find out as much shit aout you as possible. Anyone else seem to get these creeps who are trying to out us from these lifestyles?

Total cunters the lot of them

Maybe they’ve realised they’ve joined a swingers website where there are lots of dodgy/fake/timewaster profiles, and are trying to ensure you’re the real deal?

Are you?

They're probably just having a wank "

There’s something deliciously ironic about the OP complaining about people fishing for info when they haven’t even bothered to provide any photos on their profile.

It’s even stranger that people invest their time digging for info from a profile with no photos.

What a bizarre website this is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you."

Ok maybe the op is coming at it from a different perspective than I thought.

Why is being bi curious, or being TS/TV, something to be ashamed of or to hide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not anything to be ashamed of, just prefer not to have to explain it to people, that I don't have an attraction to men, but would engage in oral sex in a mmf with a man. It's a very small part of me, that I keep private in the fab world. People can be ignorant and judgemental unfortunately.

Happy swinging

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"It's not anything to be ashamed of, just prefer not to have to explain it to people, that I don't have an attraction to men, but would engage in oral sex in a mmf with a man. It's a very small part of me, that I keep private in the fab world. People can be ignorant and judgemental unfortunately.

Happy swinging "

Fair enough.

I’d say be whoever you want to be and feel free to express it to whomever. If they have a problem with it, that’s their issue and they should foxtrot oscar with their judgements. Easier said that done I realise.

If Eastbourne is a bit staid and backward, Brighton is a quick blast down the A27. Good times to be had there .

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Why on earth to all these recently joined local profiles seem to go out their way to find out as much shit aout you as possible. Anyone else seem to get these creeps who are trying to out us from these lifestyles?

Total cunters the lot of them "

There is a block button just use it on the nosey ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not anything to be ashamed of, just prefer not to have to explain it to people, that I don't have an attraction to men, but would engage in oral sex in a mmf with a man. It's a very small part of me, that I keep private in the fab world. People can be ignorant and judgemental unfortunately.

Happy swinging

Fair enough.

I’d say be whoever you want to be and feel free to express it to whomever. If they have a problem with it, that’s their issue and they should foxtrot oscar with their judgements. Easier said that done I realise.

If Eastbourne is a bit staid and backward, Brighton is a quick blast down the A27. Good times to be had there . "

Yep lots of fun to be had in Brighton. bghs is well worth a visit ??

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By *iedteen89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

dumfries


"Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you.

Ok maybe the op is coming at it from a different perspective than I thought.

Why is being bi curious, or being TS/TV, something to be ashamed of or to hide? "

A few people like myself have pictures up but set as private mainly due to the “ones just out for a wank” at picture set up various profiles and aliases sending numerous freinds requests hoping you will accept one so they can see your pictures. Please note i do have pictures and verifications. Just mostly set to private

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By *iedteen89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

dumfries


"Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you.

Ok maybe the op is coming at it from a different perspective than I thought.

Why is being bi curious, or being TS/TV, something to be ashamed of or to hide? "

like daveforfun says. There is absolutely no shame in anything at all from anyone one these sites. If people are happy the so be it. But and it is a big but there are so many judgemental people in the vanilla world who just cant/dont and wont want to understand so would rather slag/slate and ridicule the ones who are living the more fun/fab lifestlye. Also the ones in denial and ignorance ie like what was said (they are pure straight but would like mmf now and then). If you like it and want it just admit it rather than be a shower of dicks towards us who can admit how great all our lifestyles alrready are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wise words. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live in a small Scottish town, I was in Dumfries a few weeks ago and there's plenty show up on who's near, but no meets, I'm guessing it's a gossipy kind of place.Good luck

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"It's not anything to be ashamed of, just prefer not to have to explain it to people, that I don't have an attraction to men, but would engage in oral sex in a mmf with a man. It's a very small part of me, that I keep private in the fab world. People can be ignorant and judgemental unfortunately.

Happy swinging

Fair enough.

I’d say be whoever you want to be and feel free to express it to whomever. If they have a problem with it, that’s their issue and they should foxtrot oscar with their judgements. Easier said that done I realise.

If Eastbourne is a bit staid and backward, Brighton is a quick blast down the A27. Good times to be had there .

Yep lots of fun to be had in Brighton. bghs is well worth a visit ??"

I’ll give it a try.

I’ve always been partial to a bracing blow on devil’s dyke.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you.

Ok maybe the op is coming at it from a different perspective than I thought.

Why is being bi curious, or being TS/TV, something to be ashamed of or to hide? like daveforfun says. There is absolutely no shame in anything at all from anyone one these sites. If people are happy the so be it. But and it is a big but there are so many judgemental people in the vanilla world who just cant/dont and wont want to understand so would rather slag/slate and ridicule the ones who are living the more fun/fab lifestlye. Also the ones in denial and ignorance ie like what was said (they are pure straight but would like mmf now and then). If you like it and want it just admit it rather than be a shower of dicks towards us who can admit how great all our lifestyles alrready are. "

Fully respect that - I misunderstood where you were coming from before.

Apologies x

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By *iedteen89 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

dumfries


"Sorry to hear that OP. I have bicurious on my profile and the thought of being outed to the vanilla world, is a nightmare. Very careful in communications sending face pics and don't meet locals. Good luck and hope it improves for you.

Ok maybe the op is coming at it from a different perspective than I thought.

Why is being bi curious, or being TS/TV, something to be ashamed of or to hide? like daveforfun says. There is absolutely no shame in anything at all from anyone one these sites. If people are happy the so be it. But and it is a big but there are so many judgemental people in the vanilla world who just cant/dont and wont want to understand so would rather slag/slate and ridicule the ones who are living the more fun/fab lifestlye. Also the ones in denial and ignorance ie like what was said (they are pure straight but would like mmf now and then). If you like it and want it just admit it rather than be a shower of dicks towards us who can admit how great all our lifestyles alrready are.

Fully respect that - I misunderstood where you were coming from before.

Apologies x "

None offence was taken. Was just straighting out your vision on my point of view

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