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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question to the Ladies and Couples,do you respond to Nice polite messages or blunt I want to F..

Reason I ask met guy at club last week who putting bluntly just goes for it not in a subtle way,checked his profile single line no profile pic but lots of verification's.

Threads on here suggest nice but does the nice guys always win.

the evidence on this guys profile is the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez

Nice guys and messages always prevail

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe most of his varifications are a result of networking in clubs?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Nice message with thought every time, lots of verification can be made easily when visiting a club or two,one liner just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice. Polite. And obviously have read my profile is very likely to get a response from me.

I delete all the "meet now" "love to fuck" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it all depends on the person that the message is for and the mood they are in at the time of messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez

Nice guys and messages always prevail "

So a message to say I want to bite your arse might not work?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

A well written message that is polite but straight to the point wins for me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog."

Okay, but what if I say I want to bite your arse?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog.

Okay, but what if I say I want to bite your arse?"

You get special privileges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog.

Okay, but what if I say I want to bite your arse?

You get special privileges "

I know. It's awesome being me sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally can’t stand blunt / crude messages or those that say “call me” and give their number / Kik / snapchat etc.

I know this is a sex site, but I appreciate a polite message and one that shows they’ve read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog."

Well how about just a tummy rub and a dog treat?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I personally can’t stand blunt / crude messages or those that say “call me” and give their number / Kik / snapchat etc.

I know this is a sex site, but I appreciate a polite message and one that shows they’ve read my profile"

Quite right only requires brain to engage

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog.

Well how about just a tummy rub and a dog treat?"

Some deserve a smack on the nose with a rolled up newspaper

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"The meet now messages tell me that the guy logs in when horny. He probably assumes women do the same, only log in when they begin to get a minge twinge.

I picture it like this.

Him logging into fab is like a dog stepping through the gates of a dog park. He thinks all the bitches in the dog park are on heat and wanting to mate right there and then.

He runs around like a headless chicken from bitch to bitch and gets upset when they bark or try to bite him, because they're not on heat, and they actually think his approach was rather presumptuous and rude. He needs to learn some manners the naughty boy.

So no... arrogant, ignorant messages just tell me he's sat there with his lipstick dribbling like a horny street dog.

Well how about just a tummy rub and a dog treat?

Some deserve a smack on the nose with a rolled up newspaper "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Only respond to nice messages, ones offering big cocks to sort me out, messages wanting to fuck me yes get this off singles & couples, clearly male dominated profiles whatever - rude or questions that are detailed on profile go ignored. Sick of messages addressing me as a single fem - Fi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok that`s great well said,I always read profiles 1st then send polite message,but on the evidence of his profile seems gets more response.

Unless my profile is really bad! lol

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton


"Only respond to nice messages, ones offering big cocks to sort me out, messages wanting to fuck me yes get this off singles & couples, clearly male dominated profiles whatever - rude or questions that are detailed on profile go ignored. Sick of messages addressing me as a single fem - Fi"

We get similar messages from couples ... we delete all the "huge cock", "let's fuck" and, our personal favourite, "I've always wanted to fuck a black/ebony woman"

Nice and friendly is best ...

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Ok that`s great well said,I always read profiles 1st then send polite message,but on the evidence of his profile seems gets more response.

Unless my profile is really bad! lol"

Your bio is lovely, pics would be great to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I send a message it is always polite and respectful.

However, it’s difficult to know if it is the correct approach as the vast majority of my messages are unread when they vanish from my sent mail list after what, four weeks?

Personally I take it as a win if the message is read, never mind replied to! But I guess that the type of message that works won’t be universal and also mood dependent on the recipient.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Question to the Ladies and Couples,do you respond to Nice polite messages or blunt I want to F..

Reason I ask met guy at club last week who putting bluntly just goes for it not in a subtle way,checked his profile single line no profile pic but lots of verification's.

Threads on here suggest nice but does the nice guys always win.

the evidence on this guys profile is the opposite!"

He obviously picks those who like that kind of talk. It's like asking does everyone like marmite . Some will and some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a message thats says i want to Fuck or Babe or Doll, for me an instant block, or the usual 200 miles away block, local but cant accom block you get the point here. It should be simple and fun and idiots spoil it so much, try and string a conversation together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've struggled with the nice messages. I always send one and don't get much back. I do out effort into my messages too always mentioning something about their profile to spark a conversation. I'd never send a nasty message as the person doesn't deserve it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi thank you pics will have to get sorted.

pity your so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me I can't stand messages looking to meet right now or the wanna fuck right now ones. They personally drives me nuts. A bit of thought goes a long way when sending a message especially as my inbox gets loaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..... as my inbox gets loaded."

Ah my inappropriate brain!

I'm always polite and I wonder about it too. The forums are a self-selecting group though and might not reflect the entire site accurately so I'd suggest you make another profile and use it to send courser messages to the same people, do the maths and let us know. .. you'll want a good sample size (say 50 responded in the smaller replies pile) and I think admin might take a dim view of it :D

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question to the Ladies and Couples,do you respond to Nice polite messages or blunt I want to F..

Reason I ask met guy at club last week who putting bluntly just goes for it not in a subtle way,checked his profile single line no profile pic but lots of verification's.

Threads on here suggest nice but does the nice guys always win.

the evidence on this guys profile is the opposite!"

You won't get in trouble for saying fuck on an adult site, if that's what you mean!

Somewhere in the middle works for us. To the point without any prissiness.

As an aside we avoid anyone with nice in their username as we find it a bit toe-curling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok maybe thread run its course or I`am to sad to continue.

responses

9 from women

8 from couples

7 from men

1 from TV

my post 3 duplicate posters 4

so not great response so guess compared with other posts like show pic 82 and gay phone wank 137

judging by the response and taken point about separate profile conclusion Nasty over nice seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice ones get a better chance of being answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok maybe thread run its course or I`am to sad to continue.

responses

9 from women

8 from couples

7 from men

1 from TV

my post 3 duplicate posters 4

so not great response so guess compared with other posts like show pic 82 and gay phone wank 137

judging by the response and taken point about separate profile conclusion Nasty over nice seems to work"

Your results are flawed because of messy foundations.

You headed the thread nice or nasty but then moved the goalposts in your first paragraph by asking nice or blunt.

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