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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Ok see how good your memory is and how honest you are

How many lovers have you had?

Me

And I’m sure we are all estimating

So women about 60

Men about 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea Stella, but some I remember very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok see how good your memory is and how honest you are

How many lovers have you had?

Me

And I’m sure we are all estimating

So women about 60

Men about 15"

That I’ve slept with? 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue, more than 50 less than 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovers? If we are just talking people I have slept with inc one night stands..........17 that I can remember. Bearing in mind one of those was for 15 years

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Absolutely no idea, we got into swinging to make friends, have fun and explore fantasies, never knew we had to keep score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. I have a really terrible memory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember the good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About? That’s not very accurate OP!

Honestly? Not sure. If I said a number it would probably be half to 2/3rds of the actual number. I did make a list as part of some ilguided therapy a few years ago and it took me weeks to come up with a semi-accurate number. Not due to the size of it, as it’s not rediculous, mainly due to the fact that people forget, Id be driving along a road and a memory of driving along it previously would just pop into my head!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

About 200 but thats because i am very old.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

My first was in 1981 - I was a late starter...

....my next, whoever and whenever that may be, will be my 50th...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

late starter at 20...but only really came onto the swing/sex scene in my mid twenties, couple of year long relationships... all in all..pushing 250+

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

No idea stopped counting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not enough"

sakes....I must chase ya better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and afew friends tried to work this out once, we both made a bucket list of types of women we both completed it after 4 years but at last count i was at 40 odd different women... i was a scoundrel at uni & travelling 10 years ago!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Absolutely no idea, we got into swinging to make friends, have fun and explore fantasies, never knew we had to keep score. "

You don’t have to keep score. I believe the OP was being light-hearted and not doing a statistical survey.

Personally, I’ve had just the one lover.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

21

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

As male 51

As Katie 35 excluding BJ’s and hand jobs

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"Not enough"

Want some more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had, and still have one lover in my life and that's my hubby. Had sex with lots of men and a few ladies though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 women and that's it

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Couldn't say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere around 25 I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere around 25 I'd say."

ooh I've missed your cam ya devil x

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

18 (I think).

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Less than a hundred I think

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By *awtynath88Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Mines around the 40 mark and I'd say 30 odd of those was in the space of 2 years while I was single

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

4

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm a proud 6 but looking forward to my later years

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

Unitil now over 100 buy at this moment in time 4 which I think is a wrong idea as i will kill my self on this rate or cock will drop off lol

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I have only had, and still have one lover in my life and that's my hubby. Had sex with lots of men and a few ladies though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than I can count on two hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not enough"

Never enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 4 actual lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost count when I got a new bed and forgot to transfer notches to new bedpost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a lover.....I just need a friend....

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I know my number(s) but don’t feel the need to divulge on a publicish forum

I do have a count up every few months though to add new ones in and keep up to date!

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... mainly due to the fact that people forget, Id be driving along a road and a memory of driving along it previously would just pop into my head! "

I just had a simillar experience, I was idlelly totting up the numbers and then remembered a couple completely from the blue, not thought about them in years. As it happens they were very nice, as a I recall, but my recall is very sketchy. It would seem that I don't have much in the way of an autobiographical memory. On that basis and not having the time to do a proper count I'm going to guess at low double digits for individuals I've had sex with.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that ive slept with, 3, thats including logan!

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

At a rough estimate approx 50 for each of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know my number(s) but don’t feel the need to divulge on a publicish forum

I do have a count up every few months though to add new ones in and keep up to date!

TB"

Me too!!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

What happens if none of them loved me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Including gang bangs, club nights I could never remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well apparently I’m a slut so some kind gentleman told me on here (who iv never met) because 22 veris over a year makes me one, if only he knew it was actually nearer to 80 (all together)

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

Hmmmm 6 over 10 years. Although 4 have been in the last 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 11 so far,three of them on numerous occasions. Doing my best to get the score up a bit.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

More than I am willing to admit to.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Before fab, 5, all in relationships

Since joining fab, 10

I'm picky

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

Over 50, I don’t know the exact number.

I only got joined Fab a couple of weeks back. I guess I’m a slut ripe for shaming...

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

86 plus 6 we had to block that then get deducted from the overall total! So 92

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 I think....

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I (Mr) can remember all my lovers the total being 21 in total.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting told I'm a tart so stopped counting ages ago .. It's hard to keep a track especially when in an orgy .. lol

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