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Be Honest...Tinder or Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

Do you find it easier to get meets from Tinder or Fab?

I use both tinder and fab and yes find it easier to meet women on tinder.

I find best way to meet women on fab, is at socials. However it's not always easy for me to attend socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's interesting. I never used tinder, but I thought it's a dating site. Do you find women for hookup there?

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve met way more people from tinder. Although I prefer meeting from fab if possible. At least we both know what we want in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, personally I find it easier to meet women from Tinder.

A much higher ratio of women, and yes you can find women looking for nsa.

I find fab is harder to single males, and best way to meet women on here is through social events.

Bit difficult meeting single women here 1-1

Just my opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met more women for sex from Tinder/POF/Badoo than i have from fab.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Neither, at least with tinder you can see the face of the person that ripping out your soul.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

It's a fact! For a quick hook-up Fabs requires much more hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found the complete opposite....

I find women for relationships on swinging sites and one night stands on dating sites...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF good as well. i've had more meets of that than on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, personally I find it easier to meet women from Tinder.

A much higher ratio of women, and yes you can find women looking for nsa.

I find fab is harder to single males, and best way to meet women on here is through social events.

Bit difficult meeting single women here 1-1

Just my opinion though. "

This is spot on

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Never tried tinder. I know some who have but unless they're into this lifestyle then to me there's no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me seriously p**sed and depressed me in equal measures, I've tried them all and the best I've got was a kiss on the cheek and a handshake, of the hand, off to become a hermit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me fab its honest (if anything on line is) and I can be me with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how does pof work though,

is it one of those dating sites where you pay for basically sending a message and searching for people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how does pof work though,

is it one of those dating sites where you pay for basically sending a message and searching for people? "

No. Pof is basically free. Free to send a message and search.

Paying a sub allows you to see who has liked you etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Tinder If I want to can meet a girl every week. But sometimes life takes over and busy with work. I havnt met anyone off fab. The girls I know on fab are girls I met at clubs etc. So difficult to get a reply on here. But like someone said, I'd rather meet on here, at least they know where we stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even have tinder

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I guess there are ladies looking for NSA on dating apps.

But I would rather take them on face value and assume they want to date.

At least here I know I won't be stepping on toes or going against a lady's expressed choice.

I don't want to manipulate or mislead.

That's why I never met on Tinder.

I have met a lot and had fun without issue on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more meets on fab.. Please read my varifications.

Yet I find lots of tinder matches seem to want to chat and only ever met 10 on POF Tinder Badoo and Bumble ... I'm on a few dating sites as you can see ... Just goes to show eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had more meets on fab.. Please read my varifications.

Yet I find lots of tinder matches seem to want to chat and only ever met 10 on POF Tinder Badoo and Bumble ... I'm on a few dating sites as you can see ... Just goes to show eh? "

BTW two of the ladies I met on POF I was already arranging a meet with them first through fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All dating sites I've used in the past - starting with match, zoosk, pof, tinder etc - majority of men just wanted sex. I ended up in bed with a couple but never found a BF. I'm only on fab to look for sexy fun - at least here they don't lie about why they want to meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I met on tinder.(Was advertising for a FWB) wanted more than I was a able to give them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find there is a different/higher level of respect on here and through swinging. Having used tinder for years to find play partners and explore, it was all much of the same thing. Lots of messages that just ask if I want to fuck with no build up, ambiguity about what everyone wants, and in the end it’s just a meet where you just seem to turn up, fuck and leave with not much conversation involved. A lot of guys on tinder seem to have a very immature attitude to nsa sex. Not saying that doesn’t happen on fab but I find a lot more men on here that are more honest, more interested in having a social or at least a conversation first, and I know where I stand the entire time. Just how I have found it over the past few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find there is a different/higher level of respect on here and through swinging. Having used tinder for years to find play partners and explore, it was all much of the same thing. Lots of messages that just ask if I want to fuck with no build up, ambiguity about what everyone wants, and in the end it’s just a meet where you just seem to turn up, fuck and leave with not much conversation involved. A lot of guys on tinder seem to have a very immature attitude to nsa sex. Not saying that doesn’t happen on fab but I find a lot more men on here that are more honest, more interested in having a social or at least a conversation first, and I know where I stand the entire time. Just how I have found it over the past few years. "

I really find Tinder has changed from a great hookup site to a real dating site.....

When I first started using Tinder , I would usually match and meet in under 2 hours...

Now women match and want to meet other times.. it’s become a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tried Tinder,have tried Badoo a while ago,had a few play meets & met one lady who has become a very good friend,but nothing sexual with her though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find there is a different/higher level of respect on here and through swinging. Having used tinder for years to find play partners and explore, it was all much of the same thing. Lots of messages that just ask if I want to fuck with no build up, ambiguity about what everyone wants, and in the end it’s just a meet where you just seem to turn up, fuck and leave with not much conversation involved. A lot of guys on tinder seem to have a very immature attitude to nsa sex. Not saying that doesn’t happen on fab but I find a lot more men on here that are more honest, more interested in having a social or at least a conversation first, and I know where I stand the entire time. Just how I have found it over the past few years.

I really find Tinder has changed from a great hookup site to a real dating site.....

When I first started using Tinder , I would usually match and meet in under 2 hours...

Now women match and want to meet other times.. it’s become a headache "

That’s possibly fair.. I haven’t used it to hook up in a couple of years, but what I expected was the same as I do on here; respect, some good conversation, a social first.

I’ve never wanted to chat and meet within a couple of hours, to me if someone puts some effort into the conversation before the meet and focuses on building attraction then that tells me they’re going to take time to do the same in person, rushing it all doesn’t turn me on the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer fab. Tinder is too random and for me I prefer discretion that comes with fab

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