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Do the ladies prefer to be approached

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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Not having much luck on here do you ladies prefer to be approached rather than approach men yourselves?

I am asumming women get too many messages so i only contact the ones that show interest.

Is this where i am going wrong, i would love some positive feedback as there seems to be alot of negativity in the fab world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very very rarely send a first message. I wait to see who wants to play with me.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't mind either way - don't expect men to do all the messaging but equally there are so many men on here there's no way you could search through them all so it's nice when some message first!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

They only like being approached obliquely from a running start -that way they are caught by surprise

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Only when is another lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when is another lady. "
I'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Only when is another lady. I'll get me coat "

I approached you

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye. "

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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye. "

This is how i see it as dont want to pester ladies as they must get fed up with all the one liner shite messages

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye. "

So have you read mine yet? I'm not bothered about the gin palace anyway, I'm allergic to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye.

This is how i see it as dont want to pester ladies as they must get fed up with all the one liner shite messages "

I wouldn't know about that. I don't read them

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t approach

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By *hilm2011Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"I speak for all ladies. I prefer to approach. I rarely read messages from those I don't know unless their profile catches my eye. "

I’ve tried approaching and waiting with limited results. What would you suggest on a profile that would catch ladies eyes.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Not having much luck on here do you ladies prefer to be approached rather than approach men yourselves?

I am asumming women get too many messages so i only contact the ones that show interest.

Is this where i am going wrong, i would love some positive feedback as there seems to be alot of negativity in the fab world "

I look for men who appeal as 99% of those mailing I am just not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck on here do you ladies prefer to be approached rather than approach men yourselves?

I am asumming women get too many messages so i only contact the ones that show interest.

Is this where i am going wrong, i would love some positive feedback as there seems to be alot of negativity in the fab world "

I’d say you’d be better to approach. I’ve never sent a first message on here. Just make sure the first line is eye catching as that’s how i decide whether to read it or just delete it. That’s just what i do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be approached. Only by men who fit the criteria on my profile. Which none of the guys who have messaged me recently seem to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always liked to do the approaching. But would have missed out on some lovely people had I not also been approached. So, both

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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Thanks for all your replies, i best get approaching then

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