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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

How charming of you to make a thread about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if she reads this, stand by for a bitch of a veri

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

You had a meet with a woman,some guys here wouldn't care if she was ninety years old morbidly obese and comatose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s probably thinking the same but too much class to post it in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your frustration OP. People should be honest. However I don't think it's right to post about her in the forums.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. "

So the best way to deal with it is to rant about it on the forum?

You better hope other women do not read this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a social first with no expectations best way to approach it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had a meet with a woman,some guys here wouldn't care if she was ninety years old morbidly obese and comatose lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put it down to experience and move on.

personally i would have kept quiet about it.

just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. "

Perhaps they do accept who they are

Perhaps they are so bothered by it that they use photos of themselves in their better days

Perhaps they were hoping you would see past their current appearance and see them for the person they are

Maybe she was disappointed by you too ?

Either way, posting about it here is insensitive at best

As an older guy, I'd have thought you would have the sensitivity to live with a situation that was, after all, partly created by you

It was you who drove to her without arranging a cam session first, without arranging a social and without doing enough leg work to unravel the old pic issue.

Having old pics is disingenuous, but you are partly to blame for your crap meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perhaps I should have cooled down before posting. I’ve not named anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s happened to most of us. I get really frustrated by that too.

It wastes time, energy, expense that could have been put to better use elsewhere.

Most people will display the most flattering photos, so I set my expectations accordingly.

When the pics are a huge departure from the reality, it’s lying. And being lied to/deceived isn’t nice for anyone.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

There is webcam,kik,WhatsApp video call etc that you can see eachother face to face,chat and get a connection before a meet,which would avoid these situations

Personally I only meet private with guys I've already had a practice run with at a party,so they know I'm several stone in date

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Think after posting that, be better sticking to the bi guys, fear any self respecting woman on here, will stay the fook away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. "
Not nice having a dig at her weight BUT I can see why you're annoyed. Pics should be upto date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. "

Did you fuck her?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Anyone need any pegs?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. "
Thats why its always a good idea to meet socially first

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

It’s better not to slate a lady of in such a way, especially if you’re not all that you’re self

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I agree with you. Why do it, its wasting everyone's time. We all have a preference. Its the same with height for men!!

I've heard many stories over the years of this happening on pof.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. Not nice having a dig at her weight BUT I can see why you're annoyed. Pics should be upto date. "

Yep that goes for men and women

Do they think you won't notice or care?

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pissed off. Arranged a meet tonight, drive an hour to get there and seriously disappointed. Her profile photos must be ten years and several stone out of date. Was a complete turn off and a disaster.

I’ve had this a few times from POF etc too. Don’t know why people can’t accept who they are. Not nice having a dig at her weight BUT I can see why you're annoyed. Pics should be upto date.

Yep that goes for men and women

Do they think you won't notice or care?

Miss"
yes it goes for everyone .

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By *ACoupleCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

I get where your commin from...But it goes both ways! Thats another reason i post pics every other week or so! I expect the same but like everything in life its not ...Perfect Lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens and although you were up set it's best to take a step back and reflect before posting here.

Like a few have stated social first or even a Skype chat before jumping into something you might not enjoy.

Good luck in the future don't let it taint your future enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get your frustration but i dont think this was the right outlet.

Cant say its very flattering for you sadly!

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