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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Hi, I'm wanting to meet someone for a LTR but wanting someone who will swing with me. Is this a good place to look? Can't see me finding anyone who fits the bill on the general online dating sites.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Hi, I'm wanting to meet someone for a LTR but wanting someone who will swing with me. Is this a good place to look? Can't see me finding anyone who fits the bill on the general online dating sites."

I actually met my man on here and two years on we are still together so it can happen

Mrs

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Hi, I'm wanting to meet someone for a LTR but wanting someone who will swing with me. Is this a good place to look? Can't see me finding anyone who fits the bill on the general online dating sites.

I actually met my man on here and two years on we are still together so it can happen

Mrs"
I'll carry on searching then. Good on you two though I'm happy for you xx

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"Hi, I'm wanting to meet someone for a LTR but wanting someone who will swing with me. Is this a good place to look? Can't see me finding anyone who fits the bill on the general online dating sites.

I actually met my man on here and two years on we are still together so it can happen

Mrs I'll carry on searching then. Good on you two though I'm happy for you xx"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex through swinging. That side of things was never an issue, it was my shifts that split us up as she couldn't cope with them

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I met my ex through swinging. That side of things was never an issue, it was my shifts that split us up as she couldn't cope with them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr B and I met through another well known dating site and once we k ew each other well enough and felt comfortable with one another we both slowly confessed to our sexual fantasies and desires

So it can happen good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my husband through another swinging website. Been together over 12 years, married 5 years. Swinging together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are loads of people on here looking for a relationship. Not all of them want to swing after getting in to a relationship though. Best to make it very clear from the start that you want to continue swinging.

I can't see anything wrong with trying to find a relationship that includes swinging elsewhere. Just discuss it from early on to avoid wasted time and hurt feelings

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"There are loads of people on here looking for a relationship. Not all of them want to swing after getting in to a relationship though. Best to make it very clear from the start that you want to continue swinging.

I can't see anything wrong with trying to find a relationship that includes swinging elsewhere. Just discuss it from early on to avoid wasted time and hurt feelings "
it's hard enough on the dating sites as it is, without bringing swinging into the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but the distance may cause a problem x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I would like a long term relationship too... but I don't have that long left

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Given up with dating sites as all the men from here are on them looking for casual sex as well.

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I would but the distance may cause a problem x"
love can conquer all HAHA!!!

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Given up with dating sites as all the men from here are on them looking for casual sex as well. "
Awwww keep trying hun.....you make amazing bread xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Given up with dating sites as all the men from here are on them looking for casual sex as well. Awwww keep trying hun.....you make amazing bread xx"

Lol, thanks x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There are loads of people on here looking for a relationship. Not all of them want to swing after getting in to a relationship though. Best to make it very clear from the start that you want to continue swinging.

I can't see anything wrong with trying to find a relationship that includes swinging elsewhere. Just discuss it from early on to avoid wasted time and hurt feelings it's hard enough on the dating sites as it is, without bringing swinging into the mix."

I don't think you'll find many more people here as singles who are looking to swing once in a relationship than you will on a conventional dating site.

I was chatting to a guy a couple of weeks ago and asked him what he would do if he got into a relationship with a woman who didn't want to swing. He looked at me as if I was crazy and said he would never swing in a relationship. I don't think he's in the minority either.

If I was you I would look here and on conventional sites. Just be honest from day one.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It can happen.

Sometimes you meet someone, no expectations, nothing pre planned, and something just clicks.

You start to see each regularly, build trust, respect & after that, the possibilities are endless.

Well, that's what happened to me

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It can happen.

Sometimes you meet someone, no expectations, nothing pre planned, and something just clicks.

You start to see each regularly, build trust, respect & after that, the possibilities are endless.

Well, that's what happened to me

"
sometimes that's the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been looking for the same, I guess I’m in the minority and would love to swing once in a relationship. But then I have always loved mmf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love the same, tried a dating site and got banned lol but I didn’t mention swinging

That said I did get chatting to a couple of guys who did ask me about swinging as I had said in my profile that I was looking for someone open minded, so just be honest about what you want whether it’s here on another site and fingers crossed it will happen.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I think it is a good place to look. There are lots of people looking for similar.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Found my Mr on here as singles, been together over a year now and bought a house

So yeah it can happen, often when you least expect it!

TB

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Found my Mr on here as singles, been together over a year now and bought a house

So yeah it can happen, often when you least expect it!

TB"
he's a very lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through this and a club 2 years ago now live together and very happy ..

Completely unexpected.. i wasnt even looking. We just fotted together like cheese cake

Boo

X

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Found my Mr on here as singles, been together over a year now and bought a house

So yeah it can happen, often when you least expect it!

TB he's a very lucky guy "

As am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a thread going too about looking for a long term girlfriend. There seem to be quite a lot of us in the same boat. Maybe the forum could have a separate section for us.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

It would be great if there was a tick box on our preferences saying we are open to it.

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I’ve got a thread going too about looking for a long term girlfriend. There seem to be quite a lot of us in the same boat. Maybe the forum could have a separate section for us. "

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It would be great if there was a tick box on our preferences saying we are open to it."
sounds like a good idea

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

It can happen on here for some, and did happen with us through a well know dating site. Although neither of us were looking for someone to swing with on there we established very early on that we had similar fantasies and ideas as well as limited experience. We think we were very lucky to find each other and feel we are some mates, and after over 3 and a half years will be tiring the knot later this month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had it from someone here, and i lost her.

to this day i still care about her and i wish things had been different. i loved her very much and she gave me so much in return.

we were just so many miles apart and looking back i should of just said fuck it all and moved to be near her.

its a massive regret in my life, one i'll take with me and deal with in my own way.

but i'll always be there if she need to talk to me about anything.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

It’s entirely possible to meet a life partner on here, usually it happens when you least expect it.

Hubby and I met in the chat rooms here 5 years ago, we’ve been married 3.5 years now.

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It’s entirely possible to meet a life partner on here, usually it happens when you least expect it.

Hubby and I met in the chat rooms here 5 years ago, we’ve been married 3.5 years now. "
And your names as well? What an amazing coincidence congratulations guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be great if there was a tick box on our preferences saying we are open to it."

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s possible.

People are probably more open minded on here than say POF, so you may well be successful.

I’m sure you’ll enjoy it nonetheless! x

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By *ill Doe OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I think it’s possible.

People are probably more open minded on here than say POF, so you may well be successful.

I’m sure you’ll enjoy it nonetheless! x"
I do enjoy it but I'd be happier if I had someone to enjoy it with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of people on here looking for a relationship. Not all of them want to swing after getting in to a relationship though. Best to make it very clear from the start that you want to continue swinging.

I can't see anything wrong with trying to find a relationship that includes swinging elsewhere. Just discuss it from early on to avoid wasted time and hurt feelings it's hard enough on the dating sites as it is, without bringing swinging into the mix.

I don't think you'll find many more people here as singles who are looking to swing once in a relationship than you will on a conventional dating site.

I was chatting to a guy a couple of weeks ago and asked him what he would do if he got into a relationship with a woman who didn't want to swing. He looked at me as if I was crazy and said he would never swing in a relationship. I don't think he's in the minority either.

If I was you I would look here and on conventional sites. Just be honest from day one. "

I’ve found that. I’ve met some really nice guys on here but they would never swing in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can happen on here but it's not easy to find. I'd like nothing more than to be in a long term relationship and us happily swing together. Hey ho, a girl can dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a "Local" long term buddy for the Wife who will hopefully be both a friend and a buddy.

Not having much luck on this site as most people want a Shag, they want it now and they aren't fussy who with or what they look like!

We want it to be a bit more than that!

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