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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

love reading the messages in here, some are funny, some well different. just thought i would post a message about nice guys..... it seems from what i read that lots of ppl assumn guys are the unfriendly pushy types. when thinking about this and realising how many guys are actually on here, its easy to put all of them in the same catagory, but for once im going to stick my head out on a block and stick up for them. of course your always going to get the idiots, every site has them, but i really wish peeps would take everyone on their own merit. we ourselves have met and chatted to some fantastic guys, true gents who are as honest and open as others on here, but for some reason they get a bad press and are constantly knocked down or critisied. please please please, be nice to them, they are only after fun like ourselves, and how does it jurt to answer a message a polite no...... to all you nice guys out there, heres to you and hope you find all the fun your looking for.......... xxxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Couldn't agree more - there are just a few who are real idiots but loads more who are great, you need the prats though to balance things out - also makes the decent blokes look even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more - there are just a few who are real idiots but loads more who are great, you need the prats though to balance things out - also makes the decent blokes look even better!"

Speaking as a single guy on here....I thank you.......now am off to consider whether or not I am a prat......DON'T ALL SHOUT AT ONCE!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i consider that thread very positive ,, and remember ,,, all the guys in couples where once single guys ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*rubs eyes*

*re-reads*

Yay

We're out there, hiding amongst the chaff (or should that be chav). Discrete, respectable, friendly, intelligent and respectful. Some of us can manage all the above. But maybe not modesty

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"*rubs eyes*

*re-reads*

Yay

We're out there, hiding amongst the chaff (or should that be chav). Discrete, respectable, friendly, intelligent and respectful. Some of us can manage all the above. But maybe not modesty "

It's only your modesty preventing you from telling us just how woderful you really are!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

wonderful!!!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single guy ... thanks for a lovely post.

it's nice to be nice xxxx have a great bank holiday weekend xx

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

when i was single i met some really lovely guys on the scene and now i managed to bag one of my own we still love to chat to single guys and meet socially even if we dont play due to my health issues

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon

This is a lovely, well thought out post from someone who is clearly themselves a very nice person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are nice people about you know lol

we dont all say no single blokes so fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i just say there is some nice married blokes too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love reading the messages in here, some are funny, some well different. just thought i would post a message about nice guys..... it seems from what i read that lots of ppl assumn guys are the unfriendly pushy types. when thinking about this and realising how many guys are actually on here, its easy to put all of them in the same catagory, but for once im going to stick my head out on a block and stick up for them. of course your always going to get the idiots, every site has them, but i really wish peeps would take everyone on their own merit. we ourselves have met and chatted to some fantastic guys, true gents who are as honest and open as others on here, but for some reason they get a bad press and are constantly knocked down or critisied. please please please, be nice to them, they are only after fun like ourselves, and how does it jurt to answer a message a polite no...... to all you nice guys out there, heres to you and hope you find all the fun your looking for.......... xxxx"

xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

never said that everyone runs single guys down, but boy oh boy have i read some posts having a real go at them lol..... just thought for once nice to read a positive post instead of negative ones heheheh......... have fun all xx

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

Oh wow!

Is it safe to come out?

I would like to think there are a few of us.

LOL

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Oh wow!

Is it safe to come out?

I would like to think there are a few of us.

LOL

"

Of course it's safe - come on out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah there's lots of lovely single guys on here aswell as lots of time wasting, pic collecting , full of shit tossers too, just like there is couples and women, u just gotta learn to pick the good ones,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah there's lots of lovely single guys on here aswell as lots of time wasting, pic collecting , full of shit tossers too, just like there is couples and women, u just gotta learn to pick the good ones,

"

very well put. lets all have a group hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fortunate enough to have met lots of single ladies and couples, some of which I meet the lady alone with their husbands consent and have a lot of verifications to prove that, but the hoops I still have to jump through to convince people I am not a timewaster / pic collector / stalker / serial killer (delete where applicable!) is scary!

There are some good guys on here, but both here and at clubs, its amazing the damage that some idiots do to the image of single guys.

Anyway, got to go and send some cut and paste messages and ask why people haven't replied to the messages I sent 3 minutes ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it takes all sorts to make the world go round, but I've chatted and met some really nice people on here.

I for one really enjoy meeting single guys - but like the other posts say, it's up to youself to find the nice ones from the not so genuine ones!!

And for those that live bloody miles away.......... so frustrating, I love chatting to them !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'grabs kleenex, wipes eyes'

Now to prove im a nice guy, and not one of 'the other kind'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be a bit late, but well done to you. There are some nice guys

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By *atchnJezzCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

I have to say that so far the nice guys are in the majority for us / Mrs New.

There have been a couple that are a bit pushy but thats what the block button is about.

Our lifestyle means meets aren't always the easiest thing to arrange and most men have been totally understanding about that.

Looking forward to meeting more of you!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I have to say that so far the nice guys are in the majority for us / Mrs New.

There have been a couple that are a bit pushy but thats what the block button is about.

Our lifestyle means meets aren't always the easiest thing to arrange and most men have been totally understanding about that.

Looking forward to meeting more of you!"

A positive post about single guys from a couple. Bless!

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

yes we have never had any guy be abusive or rude. yes u get some but u also get couples and singles fems that are also t/wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks so much for this!

We do get a lot of bad press. and it only takes one or two bad eggs to make the rest of us look bad. but i like to think i'm one of your 'nice guy's' and i'm sure the vast majority of the single guys on here are thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said nicecpl and id like to say its really encouraging to see just how many men on here have been transformed by their mrs into nice guys, after all they must have been a single guy when they met their partner,mustnt they ? lol btw hun what was mr nicecpl like as a single guy ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single men, and yes ive chatted to and met some right plonkers lol but ive been doing this for about 9 years now and i'm still meeting single men, because most of them are nice polite guys, when the day comes theres more pratts on here than nice ones i'll stop meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can feel the love (marmite) in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can feel the love (marmite) in this thread. "

That bloody word marmite again you love it dont ya O lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a nice thread, I can feel the love radiating from my laptop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can feel the love (marmite) in this thread. "

mmmmmmmmm i love marmite, stick ya knob in a jar and i'll give you the best bj you've ever had lol

oops did i say that out loud lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

marmite bleugh!!! I'll stick my knob in a jar of anything else but that lol

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"I can feel the love (marmite) in this thread.

mmmmmmmmm i love marmite, stick ya knob in a jar and i'll give you the best bj you've ever had lol

oops did i say that out loud lmao "

even though i'm not sure i'd enjoy the stinging sensation thats sure to follow from sticking me knob in a jar of marmite, i'd suffer it just for the B/J lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who on the whole only meets single men, I can honestly say that this site is packed with the most gorgeous, charming, honest, horny single guys and I've been very very lucky to meet some of them.

Yes there is the odd moan about the few who are outstandingly gross, but to be honest the only time I've moaned about them is to warn off others from specific pillocks ...............

Long live the horny, hot, single guy I'd be very lonely without you xx xx

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

"Long live the horny, hot, single guy I'd be very lonely without you xx xx"

Aww, Raz, now you're just making me blush... you said you wouldn't go telling everyone about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Long live the horny, hot, single guy I'd be very lonely without you xx xx"

Aww, Raz, now you're just making me blush... you said you wouldn't go telling everyone about me "

I'm a generous girl, happy to share my good fortune lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well id like to think that i will get a chance to meet you before that happens. i just hope you dont think im a pratt too.lol

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By *hivagodCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Another vote from us in support of the nice guys, we have met some very cool lads on this and other sites, some have become good friends over the years.

You'll always get the idiots out there as sites like this tend to attract them but to be fair most we speak to and have met have been great fun.

We don't class the new guys as strangers, just friends we haven't met yet

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love reading the messages in here, some are funny, some well different. just thought i would post a message about nice guys..... it seems from what i read that lots of ppl assumn guys are the unfriendly pushy types. when thinking about this and realising how many guys are actually on here, its easy to put all of them in the same catagory, but for once im going to stick my head out on a block and stick up for them. of course your always going to get the idiots, every site has them, but i really wish peeps would take everyone on their own merit. we ourselves have met and chatted to some fantastic guys, true gents who are as honest and open as others on here, but for some reason they get a bad press and are constantly knocked down or critisied. please please please, be nice to them, they are only after fun like ourselves, and how does it jurt to answer a message a polite no...... to all you nice guys out there, heres to you and hope you find all the fun your looking for.......... xxxx"

Aww what a lovely sentiment! I'm sure I've had malfunctions and not done myself justice but hey, nobody's perfect. :P

Thanks for that, it was a really cool thing to say - cheers! :D

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Would agree that there are lots of nice guys out there and have met a few of them. As with all types of swinging, it's just a shame you have to trawl through lots of idiots to find then, but god its worth it when you do!

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By *lphamaleMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m going to keep it short and simple, Thanks for the positive comments as a single guy it is hard at times, I’m so glad not all couples think single guys are time wasters.

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