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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Some will think that others not as far as I know swinging doesn't have an upper or lower age limit but then swinging is just a general term so it shouldn't really matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does swinging have an age limit? Other than 18 obviously

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Does swinging have an age limit? Other than 18 obviously "

that's exactly what my thought was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people? "

the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 46. I’m on here and I’m not a swinger.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

we are all here for our own reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?

the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update"

Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.

One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?

the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update

Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.

One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging. "

yeah exactly

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?

the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update

Well if I saw that they'd definitely be going on my block list, no questions asked.

One of the things I hated the most when I started swinging was getting demeaned for my youth. The hypocrisy of many swingers is legendary. Young single male swingers under 25 are most likely to be derided as "just looking for sex", but you'd never see anyone have a bad word to say or have anything but lust for a girl that's just turned 18 and decided to try swinging.

yeah exactly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers are after sex too.

I'm 53 years old and just after sex.

So what; I don't care to be called a swinger anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "
was it a typo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

Extremely condescending and ageist I would believe! If one were to start giving definitions of what a swinger would be like only, then surely only couples would ever qualify the most to be swingers; all other singles would just be out looking for just sex!

Plus isn't it funny to accuse young swingers of just wanting sex, as if swinging was something that isn't primarily motivated by the idea or possibility of sex with others in a situation that more often than not involves more than 2 people?

the statement was from a couple I saw it as their status update"

Couples think that because they have a partner attached to them that somehow makes them having casual sex as something different to single people.

If it makes them feel better about fucking people they aren't married to, leave them to it.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. was it a typo?"

not a typo

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By *udgirlgonebadWoman
over a year ago

worsley

I totally agree with the comments here as swinging doesnt have to have an age limit as we are all here for many different reasons. The young lad whos posted is a lovely lad whos very mature for his age which makes him different to the other young selfish lads ive seen and met on here. Happy swinging babe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people have said swinging doesn’t have an age limit.

There are many on here who like patronise us younger folk and claim we shouldn’t be in here as it’s for “adults”.

Ignore them, obviously have nothing better to do than had their status as a rant!

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"As people have said swinging doesn’t have an age limit.

There are many on here who like patronise us younger folk and claim we shouldn’t be in here as it’s for “adults”.

Ignore them, obviously have nothing better to do than had their status as a rant! "

it's what i'm doing it just made me laugh

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some people are just label freaks it disn't really matter as long as everyone is having fun.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?"

yeah true

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "

They clearly know every 21 yr old on fab . That's going to be based on their experiences i guess or maybe they're having a sly dig at a 21 yr old ha. Either way they are entitled to their opinion. I know some 30 yr olds who are just after sex. So that statement is not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean if your over 50 your a perv? Age is a number and as long as your having fun does it matter if your 21 or in your 70s

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement.

They clearly know every 21 yr old on fab . That's going to be based on their experiences i guess or maybe they're having a sly dig at a 21 yr old ha. Either way they are entitled to their opinion. I know some 30 yr olds who are just after sex. So that statement is not true "

well it's not my statement

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Does that mean if your over 50 your a perv? Age is a number and as long as your having fun does it matter if your 21 or in your 70s "

don't know

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?"

Well not always ....ive arranged meets and not had sex .... its not a forgone conclusion with me .....

Sometimes your meet isnt always what you envisaged ..

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?

Well not always ....ive arranged meets and not had sex .... its not a forgone conclusion with me .....

Sometimes your meet isnt always what you envisaged .. "

yeah that does happen

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

It sounds to me like said person can't comprehend a younger individual having the maturity and interests to understand and be part of the lifestyle. A pretty good percentage of people do correlate age and maturity although you'd think prolonged exposure to the sight would make those people understand that isn't the case given that women in particular get shown a lack of maturity in a fair few messages each day.

Some may disagree with me here but my opinion is that such statements suggest limited intelligence to me so you swerve those people.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"It sounds to me like said person can't comprehend a younger individual having the maturity and interests to understand and be part of the lifestyle. A pretty good percentage of people do correlate age and maturity although you'd think prolonged exposure to the sight would make those people understand that isn't the case given that women in particular get shown a lack of maturity in a fair few messages each day.

Some may disagree with me here but my opinion is that such statements suggest limited intelligence to me so you swerve those people."

I have seen it so much on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "

what are the requirements to be a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the point of being on here is that you want sex?"
not for everyone some dont meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so I have just seen a status update that states,

"At 21 years old you are not a swinger, you are just after sex"

I'm just wondering what everyones thoughts are about this statement. "

Lol, so what do they think swingers are after, coffee partners. I genuinely think a, huge number of Fab members don't realise swinging is about sex

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By *J swingCouple
over a year ago

North

May be the status is saying you are to young for what we are looking for,some people like our self don't meet anyone younger than our own kids and no one as old as our parent's.

Fab cut the daily status words allowed by half over 12 months ago now ..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think it's an individual case by case basis at any age. Lots of people on this site and there are some who them self wouldn't say their swingers. I say forget the labels and take people as you find them.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford


"I think it's an individual case by case basis at any age. Lots of people on this site and there are some who them self wouldn't say their swingers. I say forget the labels and take people as you find them. "

Agree too many labels in life

Are we not all on here for sexy adult fun

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