FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys saying they're bi

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Already today we've had 2 messages from guys saying they'd love some bi fun but when we look at their profiles it states that they are straight.

When you pull them on it, usually get some reason or another!!

WTF is that all about? If you're bi, be proud of it, it's nothing to be ashamed of!!

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

We get this so much.. we just block them now.. the best ones are, hubby can suck me if he wants.. lol

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

I agree be proud and have it on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women won't meet bi guys. The guys are so desperate to get their leg over that they lie about themselves. When someone messages us claiming they're no it's instant delete. If we did meet we know exactly how it would go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if they are straight and meet as bi should turn out to be an interesting night for him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sorted. Yeahhhhhhh...... No more meets for us. Just joking, One day it might be a bit more mainstream. WHo cares eh. We are what we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

As was mentioned previously, they’re desperate straight males and willing to claim they’re bi, so they can still play with the lady. To get round this, just ensure the play starts with both men first. That should sort it.

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By *usclefucksCouple (MM)
over a year ago

swansea

99% replying to me and the BF are listed as straight. It’s bit of a turn off for me. Atleast list yourself as bicurious, be proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of guys on here dont show on there profile that they are bi because of the discrimination that happens on here with bi guys, 90% of womens and couples profiles state that they will not meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alot of guys on here dont show on there profile that they are bi because of the discrimination that happens on here with bi guys, 90% of womens and couples profiles state that they will not meet bi guys"

Is it discrimination or personal choice?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"As was mentioned previously, they’re desperate straight males and willing to claim they’re bi, so they can still play with the lady. To get round this, just ensure the play starts with both men first. That should sort it.

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This is exactly how I do this. I tell them I like to watch for a while. If it says straight on their profile and they message saying bi, I won't meet them as they could also be lying about other things.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Is it discrimination or personal choice? "

Personal choice.

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By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York

If you bi state it plenty of cpls are looking for bi guys or bi girls or even bi cpls if you message us and your profile says straight we instant delete

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We only play with bi guys. Mainly at bi nights in clubs.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Already today we've had 2 messages from guys saying they'd love some bi fun but when we look at their profiles it states that they are straight.

When you pull them on it, usually get some reason or another!!

WTF is that all about? If you're bi, be proud of it, it's nothing to be ashamed of!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get the same.. bi and proud..be who you are ffs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it discrimination or personal choice?

Personal choice. "

How does that work in a club environment. Couple plays with random guy. Guy fucks wife all is happy. Day before he is on gay sex site having meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For such a liberal lifestyle why is putting down bi or even curious such a bad thing?

Instant block from us if guys profile states straight.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

But they would still be a liar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it discrimination or personal choice? "

I'd say it is discrimination.

Simple reason really. If someone's gay or lesbian and they're only into same-sex stuff, then as a straight person turning down their advances because you're not into them that way is perfectly alright and logical. So how do you explain a STRAIGHT couple turning down a bi guy, even though for all intentions he'd be equally seeking fun with the straight woman as he would likely be with the straight man had he been receptive to the idea? What difference is there between a bi guy in such a situation and a straight guy? I don't see the difference. Just because a guy's bi doesn't mean he's gonna jump every cock he sees, and frankly in a MMF scenario you've got to be at least a bit comfy with guy-guy contact if the lady wants to enjoy giving double oral simultaneously or DP.

Bisexual people are often the most discriminated and whitewashed out of the LGBT sexuality spectrum, because we're just seen to be greedy or undecided on which way we lean. Why can't we have both sides, and still respect the same sex's wishes in a straight couple about being non-receptive towards guy-guy or girl-girl fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Bi sexual and its obvious from my profile and pics that I am it does make me laugh when I get 'straight' guys message me but I don't judge them for it got to just have a chilled perspective on people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true

I've met a guy regularly, who chops and changes from straight to bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works both ways I messaged a couple who replied saying they wanted to meet a BI guy then disappeared checked their profile veris and all 15 where from ST8 guys despite them having a Bi profile!

I have also been mailed by ST8 guys on here looking to meet when questioned why ST8 profile not Bi response has been they don`t want to spoil their chances with couples or they are already meeting Females on here and don`t want them to know.

My profile says Bi beyond the curious stage so if your looking here I`am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ed"

Yep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand why there is negativity for bi guys from single fems or some couples. They respect boundaries in group scenarios, just like anyone else!

As for the single fems not wanting to play with them, it's pointless discriminating/choosing because it's an easy one for them to hide. Not every meet has a verification attached to it!

BTW they make excellent lovers girls, you really don't know what you are missing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll be some that will just put what they think will get them sex the fastest. Others may just be nervous about putting it. I put bi-curious due to limited experiences. But agree be honest with yourself, life's all about exploring and trying new stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get this so much.. we just block them now.. the best ones are, hubby can suck me if he wants.. lol "

We get this all the time.

They get a sarcastic reply and blocked

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Most do it, as has already been said, because they mistakenly think it will increase their chances of meeting people on here that won't meet bi men - and to the person that said 90% of people won't - not sure where you plucked that number from but it's totally inaccurate.

In my experience as an openly bisexual guy there are just as many couples and single females that meet and actively look for bi men as there are those that won't - so the Fab straight crowd are closing just as many doors as they are opening by identifying as straight.

As for people preferring not to meet bi guys being discrimination - it's not, it's preference in most cases, yes there are some people who are bigoted and those are discriminating based on that bigotry but there are plenty who prefer not to meet bi guys for other reasons too - one of the biggest and most valid ones being that it still prevents you giving blood if you have had sex with a man who has had sex with another man in the past three months (I think it is) - for others there are other reasons but not all of them discrimination of the wrong kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is please be open about it with us as we're not really interested in beating about the bush, playing endless email tennis. Bi curious on your profile is fine too as we know what that means. It's means you're like us, Bi friendly. Mrs N get's bored of doing all the hard work with straight men, even though I love seeing her have fun so if it says straight on your profile she'll reject it. Can't be any " straighter than that can we "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wanting to meet bi men is not discrimination, it’s preference!

Everyone is entitled to make informed choices and to do this we should all be honest on our profile. I will meet bi or straight guys but I avoid liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah if only people could be honest.

It would permit everyone to make informed decisions.

Too many people try to be whatever people want in order to get a shag.

Me? I give no fucks. I have no desire to be popular

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We have single men turned off on our profile for that very reason.

Also we usually don't respond to couples with "straight" men as it's clear they haven't read our profile. That said, an exception was made only this week as the couple were interesting enough to respond to and they say that the M is just starting to get curious. if we meet them we'll find out presumably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah if only people could be honest.

It would permit everyone to make informed decisions.

Too many people try to be whatever people want in order to get a shag.

Me? I give no fucks. I have no desire to be popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ed"

Exactly this!!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Is it discrimination or personal choice?

I'd say it is discrimination.

So, once again, personal choice becomes "discrimination".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and proud, first word in my title is bi.

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

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wow just wow, you are so sexy.. sorry just had to say..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes us laught when we look at local couples and womens profiles who state they wont meet bi guys to look at there veries to see yep they are meeting bi guys ...dont know why everyone cant be honest this is not just a single guy thing we know of loads of couples who say they are straight until the guy gets a cock waved at him

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

wow just wow, you are so sexy.. sorry just had to say..xx"

Can I just say , your beautiful looking couple

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"So, once again, personal choice becomes "discrimination"."

I don't think it's as cut and dried as that.

For me it would depend on the reason behind "personal choice".

I have heard it said about someone 'oh they are gorgeous and I really would but he's bi and that's just not natural'

Now that I would say is discrimination. I would probably add close minded, bigoted and homophobic.

Bisexual men have it hardest out of everyone on the spectrum, the stigma for them is so so much greater then anyone else, unfortunately I feel it will be my grandchildrens (well my niece and nephews children - I'm childfree) for whom sexuality just isnt an issue or thing... We have a long way to go yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, once again, personal choice becomes "discrimination".

I don't think it's as cut and dried as that.

For me it would depend on the reason behind "personal choice".

I have heard it said about someone 'oh they are gorgeous and I really would but he's bi and that's just not natural'

Now that I would say is discrimination. I would probably add close minded, bigoted and homophobic.

Indeed thankfully the younger generation is more accepting of the sexual spectrum these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I try to think of it as standing out in the crowd rather than something to hide

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"So, once again, personal choice becomes "discrimination".

I don't think it's as cut and dried as that.

For me it would depend on the reason behind "personal choice".

I have heard it said about someone 'oh they are gorgeous and I really would but he's bi and that's just not natural'

Now that I would say is discrimination. I would probably add close minded, bigoted and homophobic.

Put it so much better (and more succinctly) than I did above

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Great thread, interesting and very informative too

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

Good thread but really sorry to hear about the frustration felt by many a couple looking for a bi man to join them (in this and other similar threads). However, perhaps some of these comments from a guy who describes himself as a straight acting genuine bisexual man, generally actively bottom with a guy; and occasionally top with a girl..(see profile)..might help, reduce your frustration and assist in finding what you’re looking for.

First off, unfortunately as we all know there are a lot of people on this site, generally timewasters motivated by who-knows-what to operate false profiles; almost invariably frustrated men (I wonder if there are any women doing the same, and if so, if they’re viewed the same? For a later discussion) who pretend to be single women, or couples to either entrap, attempt to get off with or just love the attention their profile gets; those who turn up and say ‘my girlfriends not well, had to call off’ etc.

I suspect that some of the guys you encountered are just that: chancers, bottom feeders, opportunists and as a result fundamentally dishonest. You’re looking for something and they will say that with them; that’s what you’ve found.

But, going back to the OP, this is, I suggest, only a minority of the bad experiences you’ve had. There is another group that should be considered and these are known by sexual health medical practitioners as MSM.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

MSM are ‘Men who have sex with Men’; a group distinct from bisexual men. If as per Kinsey et al, Bisexuals fill in the grey area between heterosexuals and homosexuals, and there are many shades of grey (well 6 in the basic Kinsey scale rather than 50), ‘Men who have sex with Men’ (I’ll use MSM from now on) don’t consider themselves in anyway bisexual, because they have no personal understanding of, or acceptance of any personal inclination towards homosexuality and therefore judge themselves as heterosexual or ‘Straight’. But if no other opportunity arises, they will have sex with men.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

In many cultures, like in South America (the home of machismo) and South East Asia, it is perfectly acceptable for a man to receive a blow job from or to give anal sex to another man and not be considered as anything but heterosexual. After all, it is the sexual identity of the recipient that makes that person either bisexual or gay, not, the thinking goes, that of the alpha male. Its perhaps not surprising that ‘Travesti’ (Shemales) and ‘Kathoey’ (Ladyboys) are far more acceptable in these cultures. MSM generally find them perfectly acceptable with their heterosexual status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Already today we've had 2 messages from guys saying they'd love some bi fun but when we look at their profiles it states that they are straight.

When you pull them on it, usually get some reason or another!!

WTF is that all about? If you're bi, be proud of it, it's nothing to be ashamed of!!"

I don't understand the fuss around this, you are judging the person by a profile....

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

MSM are in my opinion and direct experience much more widespread that you might think; as a younger guy experimenting with my bisexuality, you can easily find them any day in larger lay-bys and public toilets and if you’re willing to give a blow job, it generally can take less that 2hrs to have someone in your mouth! And Jampol gets so much of the ‘hubby can suck me if he wants’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it discrimination or personal choice? "

It’s prejudice..

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

Which leads us to MSM and sexual health: One of the reasons they are differentiated by sexual health professionals is, in my opinion, that they are potentially a higher risk group. Unlike openly or accepting bisexual men, they don’t judge their activities as particularly high risk.

In my opinion openly or accepting Bisexual men generally (this is a big generalisation) understand that they are the bridge between the heterosexual population with more prevalence of pathogens such as Syphilis and Chlamydia and the Homosexual population with viruses such as Hepatitis and HIV. I certainly do; and understanding the higher risks that my activity (or even lack of it; but the people with whom I’m active) and therefore am careful not only in prevention (protection), but with constant and frequent screening for STI’s even if I don’t show any signs of an infection.

MSM generally don’t widely admit to having sex with men, and often don’t think they are at risk; I came in him, mouth or arse; no chance of bleeding. I get the general impression that MSM are much less likely to kiss another guy: perhaps they think this is more intimate; or a greater risk than letting another guy suck him off; perhaps that’s far too close to being a homosexual.

Whatever the reasoning, it’s my opinion that MSM are potentially the highest risk group to the population of spreading STIs; since they are unlikely to screen and only seek treatment when an infection becomes apparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're curious, but afraid to admit it. A bit of a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

You do, you’re not that naive. It’s prejudice about perceived risk of catching STIs, and about the bi males inability to hold himself back from entering their partners luscious bumhole by accident..

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're curious, but afraid to admit it. A bit of a fantasy."

Exactly,

Some would mistake this site for sunday school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which leads us to MSM and sexual health: One of the reasons they are differentiated by sexual health professionals is, in my opinion, that they are potentially a higher risk group. Unlike openly or accepting bisexual men, they don’t judge their activities as particularly high risk.

Really interesting series of posts. Denial is a bloody dangerous thing...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I've heard the same from singles on here "I'm not a swinger". They rarely go for sexual health checks. Both sexes.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

"Maybe they're curious, but afraid to admit it. A bit of a fantasy."

Yes, possibly; but there is the option to label yourself as bi-curious. Why not use that?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I run a party for bi and trans people and only accept openly bi or bi curious folks

I'm a bi male sympathiser and understand the bi phobia they get from many here but still amazes me how many straight chaps try and protest their bi-ness just to get in the door. (One told me I should change my policy so people had a chance to change their profile. What so I can let in opportunist fuck boys?)

If you can't be honest with yourself on here, that's a life half lived

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

Sorry, just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I want to have sex with everybody! In fact, I suspect it makes me even more selective as with whom I have sex!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

Agreed

its like guys who won't meet women who have met black guys. And try tell you they're not racist. Or even weirder, women who won't meet meet men who've meet women, who have had sex with black guys!.... "it's my preference......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

Sorry, just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I want to have sex with everybody! In fact, I suspect it makes me even more selective as with whom I have sex!

You did understand that isn’t *my* POV right? Just one I hear a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

Agreed

Oh wow! So because I have sex with black guys I don’t get approached from the racists? Excellent!

I found meeting TVs is also an excellent filter.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Because sexuality is absolutely a predictor of impulse control..

Sorry, just because I’m bisexual doesn’t mean I want to have sex with everybody! In fact, I suspect it makes me even more selective as with whom I have sex!

You did understand that isn’t *my* POV right? Just one I hear a lot."

sorry, no; I missed the sarcasm

but that’s my general retort.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

They are afraid it will reduce theit chances of meets,it shouldnt be like that ,as bi women are encouraged on fab ,but bi men not so much.

Miss

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

Which leads us on to the topic of preference or discrimination against bisexual guys amongst couples on FAB, (or swinging couples generally).

Ok, let’s assume its preference (developed from experience) or prejudice (developed from misconstruing); I believe it comes from the following common misunderstandings or perceptions:

Bisexual men are more likely to be carrying a STI: It is true that Bisexual men are in the highest risk group for STIs (they have more risks of catching one from two different populations) but that doesn’t necessarily mean that they are more likely to have one unchecked, untreated and infectious. That’s more likely to be MSM, in my opinion, who will project themselves here as straight. Surely like me, being in a higher risk group, makes you more cautious, more vigilant and more aware of the importance of sexual health.

Bisexual men are on the spectrum of gay or homosexual men; therefore they are less manly, mince, talk in higher pitched voice, wear pink. Straight men are straight; don’t look at another man’s willy and don’t touch any flesh that isn’t female. That must be so constricting if you want an inclusive threesome: perhaps its better just to look for a cuckolder. But bisexual men come in a plethora of different shades from aggressive and dominant to easy going and sensitive, from straight acting to camp as a row of tents. You might just find one who is just a nice guy; rather than a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

"I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

No, that would be a bit difficult: mind you, you could look up at him in the eyes and say ‘Just curious!’ Or ‘gush cushyush!’ depending on his size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a lighter note I am going to write to my local MP and see if he will lobby parliament for a National "Bi is the way ahead' Day

Can't hurt to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry I get it as a guy the number of times you get a message of ooh fancy a fuck or are your free ? so you nip over and their profile says straight.

Insta block from me .

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

well the explanation would be a bit muffled for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People not wanting to meet bi men isn’t prejudice or discriminatory, it’s preference. I think it’s been blown well out of proportion, there’s very few women and couples who won’t meet bi men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

No, that would be a bit difficult: mind you, you could look up at him in the eyes and say ‘Just curious!’ Or ‘gush cushyush!’ depending on his size!

Haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

well the explanation would be a bit muffled for a start

Do you think he'd believe..

'Honest I slipped an fell on it'

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

If you are looking for bi guys - they are bi. If you are looking for straight guys - they are straight. Basically they will lie to try and get a meet. Best to give nothing away and ask if they are bi/straight. You may then get a genuine answer (tho expect that to change if its the 'wrong' one).

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

It’s true I’m straight really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why a woman might not want to meet a straight acting, attractive guy, who happened to play bi.

Indeed I can't fathom it either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples if a straight guy messages you claiming to be bi and uses the "How can I prove it?" ploy, then reply with "We have a large double ender and I have always wanted to put both ends in a guys ass at the same time."

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By *etty_brianCouple
over a year ago

midlands

We get countless guys pretty much wanted us to be there experiment to see if they like it..

To the same effect we get plenty of couple message us who’s profile says they won’t meet couples with bi males, I take just as much pleasure turning them away aswell.

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By *ocker6104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples if a straight guy messages you claiming to be bi and uses the "How can I prove it?" ploy, then reply with "We have a large double ender and I have always wanted to put both ends in a guys ass at the same time." "

I’m straight, and not quite ready to put bi curious as my interests, however, I love strap-ons, and would be interested in taking a cock in a submissive scenario with a couple. But I wouldn’t do it 1-1 with a male..if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get countless guys pretty much wanted us to be there experiment to see if they like it..

To the same effect we get plenty of couple message us who’s profile says they won’t meet couples with bi males, I take just as much pleasure turning them away aswell."

This is spot on..I’m one of those guy, but get turned down all the time because I don’t have bi in my profile

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

False advertising

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"We get countless guys pretty much wanted us to be there experiment to see if they like it..

To the same effect we get plenty of couple message us who’s profile says they won’t meet couples with bi males, I take just as much pleasure turning them away aswell.

This is spot on..I’m one of those guy, but get turned down all the time because I don’t have bi in my profile

Make another profile

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

No that doesn't make sense at all.

You have just described being curious about bi play. Therefore put bi-curious on your profile. Then use the wonder of the acres of free text available to you to describe what that entails, as you have here.

Really isn't that difficult.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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What they said

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would class myself as generally straight, I have no attraction to men, not into giving or receiving anal or meeting single blokes, but I am orally bi in a mmf with a handful of experiences over 15 years. It is something that I would like to enjoy more of, so I have been honest on my profile (gold star for me). I had more success with women and couples, when I had a straight profile, so I can understand why men, put straight on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you’re bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you’re bi curious

I don’t find men attractive, I would never play with a man 1-1 so I’m not curious about being bi, just under 1 scenario with the right people I could be pushed to do anything..

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

Personally I prefer a guy to be bi or at least bi curious on his profile, because it turns him on, so many guys are desperate for any action they do anything, but like it’s been said before we get loads of straight guys saying there bi, or play bi with a couple!! Frustrating

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Interesting thread.

We get this on a regular basis. Straight guys who want to dabble at having their cock sucked by the hubby. When all they really want is to just fuck Ess. This is wrong on so many levels. Dishonesty and treating Ess like a piece of meat just to unload their balls.

We just reply with a sarcastic message then block lol.

So good to see so many of us Bi people on here.

And if we are totally honest, 3 or 4 way Bi Sex is Sooooooooooo horny.

Happy Swinging ya Filthy Animals

Xxxx

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By *etty_brianCouple
over a year ago

midlands

We have become brilliant at sniffing the fake bi guys out.

We are only interested in proper full on bi meets, so the guy has to be fairly experienced for us to even consider him.

I can understand why they do put straight though on there profiles...so many couples automatically think a bi guy will just randomly jump on there husbands cock and have no control.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Ahh but does hubby want to be sucked or do the sucking that is the question

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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Cocks to the left of me ..pussies to the right

Here I am just accepting I,m bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of messages from straight men wanting to suck or wank me off, now and again I get the “I’m a virgin will you be the first to fuck me” one as well.

They normally use the excuse it will put women off if they show their Bi or curious, Weil it puts me off them being straight on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of messages from straight guys,telling me they want to fuck me ,and my ass is better then their wife's,I don't mind at all,if their hot I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cock and pussy one of the biggest turn on’s for me is turning the other people on .

Wearing my bi badge ! Loud an proud

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By *obbly2000Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Only ever met so called straight guys on here

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Think a lot of it is just try to get in to Mrs kinkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

wow just wow, you are so sexy.. sorry just had to say..xx"

Thanks most kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

But they would still be a liar."

But they still get to meet and all is rosy regardless of lying or not

I mean seriously does it even matter if a couple is none the wiser. How that work out in a club environment for a couple trying to screen singles lol

. It makes me laugh the reality of it all

Screen online from a profile but in a club no one knows jack about anyone sexual identity. See the thought process here

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

Can’t really agree in the context of swinging.

If you were interviewing them for a job then yes, you’d have a point, but on here it’s no different to the profiles saying white/black/asian men only etc.

It’s personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely just easier for guys to have two profiles Then message accordingingly .

But they would still be a liar.

But they still get to meet and all is rosy regardless of lying or not

I mean seriously does it even matter if a couple is none the wiser. How that work out in a club environment for a couple trying to screen singles lol

. It makes me laugh the reality of it all

Screen online from a profile but in a club no one knows jack about anyone sexual identity. See the thought process here

Finally

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I've enjoyed reading this thread and everyone's input to it

I've had plenty of 'straight' guys message me, and expect I'll have plenty more

For me a bi mmf is my ultimate fantasy

So no point in saying I'm straight in the hope of a 'straight' mmf

It would be a bit difficult to explain myself when all of a sudden I have the 'straight' husbands cock in my mouth...

well the explanation would be a bit muffled for a start

Do you think he'd believe..

'Honest I slipped an fell on it'

Depends on how long it took you to extricate yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add the complexity of orally bi, bi top, bi bottom, biswitch,bisexual (ev,erything) bi curious,

bi with tv/ts only... If you put straight and say "it's for profile reasons" you can then pick and choose according to yourrelative level of horniness.

Monday and sober = Staighter than a Roman Road.

Tuesday = might let a bloke wank you as long as you can nail the Mrs

Wednesday = Ts's are looking mighty fine as long as they tuck their dangly bits away.

Thursday = Bi couples are game on, as long as I only have to fuck the bloke for a pump or two.

Friday after 10 pints in the Dog and Duck =

I'm coming out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has me confused......

If you smoke a cigarette, you’re a smoker

If you use drugs, you’re a drug user

If you drink alcohol, you’re a drinker

If you’re a man and have sex with men with a female present or not , you’re bi....

I wonder if men that like having sex with men start saying they are gay... that will help with all this bi confusion......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread has me confused......

If you smoke a cigarette, you’re a smoker

If you use drugs, you’re a drug user

If you drink alcohol, you’re a drinker

If you’re a man and have sex with men with a female present or not , you’re bi....

I wonder if men that like having sex with men start saying they are gay... that will help with all this bi confusion......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think a lot of it is just try to get in to Mrs kinkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time. Guys winking or liking photos and they say no TV or men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have seen mentioned above there are so many guys on here that will say anything just to talk to a woman on here. But then when it comes to actually meeting they will always be the first to have an excuse, especially if there is another guy present! Its not easy being a single guy on here but thats no reason to try and appeal to everyone by lying about your sexuality in a hope for a meet. Once again its another case of the few bums ruining it for the many genuine guys!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

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"Some women won't meet bi guys. The guys are so desperate to get their leg over that they lie about themselves. When someone messages us claiming they're no it's instant delete. If we did meet we know exactly how it would go."

Interesting , I posted a thread a day or two ago asking if straight ladies were ever messaged by bi ladies.. one or two of the responses said something like the ladies who messaged had straight on their profile and when asked why they didn't have no... they didn't want to be seen as a 'unicorn' .. it was never suggested they were desperate just managing their in-boxes.. perhaps the guys are doing similar.

Oh and I'm straight not a desperate guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Add the complexity of orally bi, bi top, bi bottom, biswitch,bisexual (ev,erything) bi curious,

bi with tv/ts only... If you put straight and say "it's for profile reasons" you can then pick and choose according to yourrelative level of horniness.

Monday and sober = Staighter than a Roman Road.

Tuesday = might let a bloke wank you as long as you can nail the Mrs

Wednesday = Ts's are looking mighty fine as long as they tuck their dangly bits away.

Thursday = Bi couples are game on, as long as I only have to fuck the bloke for a pump or two.

Friday after 10 pints in the Dog and Duck =

I'm coming out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make every night a Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have numerous couples contacting us wanting to meet. Not only will the male have Straight on their profile they also state they have no interest in meeting TV’s. Go figure

When challenged they say that they don’t want to put it on their profile but they frequently meet with TV’s.

They are blocked immediately. We will never be anyone’s dirty little secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I'd say it is discrimination.

Please do not be daft, both of us are straight and neither of us would play with someone that is Bi!

That is our personal choice. There is no discrimination whatsoever!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

Love this thread, but it's such a tangle of ideas and theories. Yes, some groups, especially men who have sex with men are less likely to engage with sexual health advice and less likely to be aware of good practice, but that's only an issue if you don't practice safe sex.

Secondly, I'm amazed more people haven't mentioned those of us who eschew bi as a description, and prefer to identify as queer.

Why do we prefer having sex with men who identify as bi or queer? Not discrimination - just experience that tells us men who identify as bi or queer are more likely to be a good fit with what we like...

We often get contacted by men who identify as straight but want to explore their bi side. Good luck to them, but we're looking for sex, not to be someone else's educational experience...

We also often get contacted by guys who don't get the idea of intersectionality and assume that I must be a sub or bottom as a queer man in a relationship with a woman. Nice try guys, but RTFP and work on understanding that a queer man can be a dom, and top...

Why do people who say no bi guys do so? I haven't a scooby, but I can guess it might do with the old prejudice, explained about, about bi men being a key vector for the transmission of disease. Guess what? If you prefer to base your risk management of your next sex act on what the other people tell you about their previous sexual history, you're only fooling yourself....

Good thread though...

Carter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is gold.

Such an intriguing mix of opinion and debate....

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

I'm down as straight ... but I have experimented with my bi side.. but only in a mmf threeway fun setting.. and would do it again..

The reason I don't put bi curious is cause I wouldn't do one and one with a guy..

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think it is mainly to do with std's.

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By *etshavefun6900Man
over a year ago

near you

Hey I’m bi and proud who cares only them missing out

haha

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By *enniferJayXXXTV/TS
over a year ago

Stoke-On-Trent

Because a lot of people on here love to judge others without looking at themselves

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"I'm down as straight ... but I have experimented with my bi side.. but only in a mmf threeway fun setting.. and would do it again..

The reason I don't put bi curious is cause I wouldn't do one and one with a guy.. "

Really? Here is your remedy.

a) Put bi-curious

b) Block single males

c) Explain on your profile you are only bi in an MMF situation

Then you aren't leading anyone on are you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexuality is a spectrum, from being fully bi, having anal sex and meeting men and being attracted to them, to being comfortable with male contact in a mmf e.g cocks rubbing together on a ladies mouth or a man inserting your cock into a woman.

As I said earlier, I am orally bi in a mmf and my main attraction is to women. I am more straight than no. Interesting opinions on this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had another one myself....

Straight couple, can accom pics of both, they wink I send a message then guess what ?????

Its a shocker, its only the male half and he is REALLY Bi, although he profile says straight, are they really kidding anyone

I get loads and its straight to the block list for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had another one myself....

Straight couple, can accom pics of both, they wink I send a message then guess what ?????

Its a shocker, its only the male half and he is REALLY Bi, although he profile says straight, are they really kidding anyone

I get loads and its straight to the block list for me "

Then they proudly display the veri

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