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Is swinging more suited to couples or singles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After joining as a couple 7 years ago then changing to a single I would say it was much better fun as a couple. It was very exciting to meet like minded couples and in many cases build up a rapport and make new friends in the process, meeting the same couples time and time again. This to me is the true definition of swinging. I tend not to play with couples as a single female and most of my mail is subsequently from single (mainly married) men who are wanting NSA sex with no interest in chat whatsoever, m hence my decision to come on here less and less and stick to social meets.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Swung as a couple for a while but swung singly before and after and there is a difference but then it can be les complicated as you only have to have 2 people attracted to each other not a combination of 4. Yes some guys don't chat but a lot do it just depends on your selection process I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex. "

Do you have to pay for your sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex.

Do you have to pay for your sex?"
lol no but it means no one else does either. It's freely available.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We feel swinging is couples scene/lifestyle. Surprised amount of men tbh who either complain not getting meets or paying for club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex.

Do you have to pay for your sex? lol no but it means no one else does either. It's freely available. "

Which is good, because I'm always skint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We feel swinging is couples scene/lifestyle. Surprised amount of men tbh who either complain not getting meets or paying for club."
totally agreed. Swinging was originally between man/wife and other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say swinging is for couples. Swapping partners. The rest is just free sex.

Do you have to pay for your sex? lol no but it means no one else does either. It's freely available.

Which is good, because I'm always skint "
lol.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I think it’s fair to say that the overwhelming perception of swinging is a couples thing.

Us ‘singles’ have infiltrated or gatecrashed the party. The genie is out of the bottle - embrace,use, abuse us. There’s no going back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the people. Some have more fun as part of a couple and others have more fun as a single because it's easier to meet people that just you are attracted to. Can be difficult to find 4+ way attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For single men it's nsa, or for those that think with their sick. For couples it's true swing. Me it's find a regular fb. As for clubs £30 is cheaper than night in pub, but with better company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My perception is swinging is a group thing so minimum of 3 in the party and 2 of those should be a couple if it’s just 2 people it’s just nsa sex however you look at it

If singles go to a club and join in the group it’s swinging if they meet another single it’s just sex

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)


"I think it’s fair to say that the overwhelming perception of swinging is a couples thing.

Us ‘singles’ have infiltrated or gatecrashed the party. The genie is out of the bottle - embrace,use, abuse us. There’s no going back."

True , but it's all about choice and what makes you tick, singles, couples, whatever. Just enjoy, you don't have to f××k everything thats offered to you, keep your own standards, and sod the rest of the hypocrites on here x (Rant over, apologies )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the people. Some have more fun as part of a couple and others have more fun as a single because it's easier to meet people that just you are attracted to. Can be difficult to find 4+ way attraction."

I totally agree about the 4 way attraction it's much harder to get all 4 people happy than just a single

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We find gelling with another couple is awesome & works very well for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the people. Some have more fun as part of a couple and others have more fun as a single because it's easier to meet people that just you are attracted to. Can be difficult to find 4+ way attraction.

I totally agree about the 4 way attraction it's much harder to get all 4 people happy than just a single "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We feel swinging is couples scene/lifestyle. Surprised amount of men tbh who either complain not getting meets or paying for club. totally agreed. Swinging was originally between man/wife and other couples. "

‘Wife swapping’ they used to call it didn’t they? Pampas grass plant in the front garden, car keys in the bowl......

Playing as a ‘single’ bloke in here, I’ve shared many fun times with likeminded ladies (single or otherwise), and couples too. I class myself as a ‘Fabster’, and the rest of you can think of me what you will

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