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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, so we know the score about naming and shaming, but whats the deal with the terrible messages that some send, are we allowed to share snippets or even the whole message on the forum?

Some are just so bad that they are funny, and having recently replied to such a message correcting typos, grammar and trying to get the sender to address his approach, I (Mr) wonder if the forum might beneoft from some shared humour over terribke messages rather than just berraying the fact that people send them in the first place.

Making a negative a positive and all that?

What do people think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviosuly any shared message wpuld have the sender details removed, remember, no naming and shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people struggle with spelling some struggled at school and you have to make allowances to some extent after all nobody is perfect and just because they can't spell dosn't make them a bad person or an object of ridicule. If someone is trying hard and making an effort I tend to say good on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I get a message so awful/abusive/funny I wish I could share it with someone. But all you can do is report and block if it’s abusive. Otherwise, have a laugh with your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also don’t forget the ‘after a drink’ response, and tiny letters on a phone combined with big fingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people struggle with spelling some struggled at school and you have to make allowances to some extent after all nobody is perfect and just because they can't spell dosn't make them a bad person or an object of ridicule. If someone is trying hard and making an effort I tend to say good on them. "

And I absolutely agree, however, some of the content is so terrible, the badly written just adds to it.

I’m not trying to ridicule those that struggle with spelling and grammar, and shouldn’t have led with that, but the content of a recent message was so bad that the sender needed pulling up on whether they thought it acceptable to send.

I was simply trying to share a giggle at the terrible rather than ridicule some.

I’ll report this thread now, sorry

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Right, so we know the score about naming and shaming, but whats the deal with the terrible messages that some send, are we allowed to share snippets or even the whole message on the forum?

Some are just so bad that they are funny, and having recently replied to such a message correcting typos, grammar and trying to get the sender to address his approach, I (Mr) wonder if the forum might beneoft from some shared humour over terribke messages rather than just berraying the fact that people send them in the first place.

Making a negative a positive and all that?

What do people think?"

Methinks perhaps you're not the right person to correct anyone's typo's!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviosuly any shared message wpuld have the sender details removed, remember, no naming and shaming"

btw is obviously not obviosuly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right, so we know the score about naming and shaming, but whats the deal with the terrible messages that some send, are we allowed to share snippets or even the whole message on the forum?

Some are just so bad that they are funny, and having recently replied to such a message correcting typos, grammar and trying to get the sender to address his approach, I (Mr) wonder if the forum might beneoft from some shared humour over terribke messages rather than just berraying the fact that people send them in the first place.

Making a negative a positive and all that?

What do people think?

Methinks perhaps you're not the right person to correct anyone's typo's! "

You’re right I could BENEFIT from proof reading, my typos are TERRIBLE, I’m BERATING myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviosuly any shared message wpuld have the sender details removed, remember, no naming and shaming

btw is obviously not obviosuly. "

Bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't people have spell checker of predictive text ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviosuly any shared message wpuld have the sender details removed, remember, no naming and shaming

btw is obviously not obviosuly.

Bugger"

so your point is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't people have spell checker of predictive text ???? "

Or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people struggle with spelling some struggled at school and you have to make allowances to some extent after all nobody is perfect and just because they can't spell dosn't make them a bad person or an object of ridicule. If someone is trying hard and making an effort I tend to say good on them.

And I absolutely agree, however, some of the content is so terrible, the badly written just adds to it.

I’m not trying to ridicule those that struggle with spelling and grammar, and shouldn’t have led with that, but the content of a recent message was so bad that the sender needed pulling up on whether they thought it acceptable to send.

I was simply trying to share a giggle at the terrible rather than ridicule some.

I’ll report this thread now, sorry"

If thats so what does" I (Mr) wonder if the forum might beneoft from some shared humour over terribke messages" mean to me that reads.

It would be good to post terrible messages on here and all laugh at them now if that's not ridiculing then I don't know what is.

The fact is some people struggle for one reason or another and that's just sad as I see it but I wouldn't laugh at them as I wouldn't point at a fat person in the street its just not a nice thing to do.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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