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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would suggest a lack of respect in the relationship. Without that there can't be trust, without trust you are just Fuck buddies sharing a roof/bills. Never been a problem for us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Entitled? No.

If one person is breaking agreed boundaries words not actions are required.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Depends on what the rules are. If the boundary was not to meet others alone and only play as a couple, then yeah, I would consider it as cheating. Need more clarity on what the specific ground rules were I’m afraid.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Need more clarity on what the specific ground rules were I’m afraid.

Ed

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Just a general wondering really. No particular rules in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

As one part of a new couple not ready to share yet but I’m sure we will. I’m just thinking making these “ground rules” seems a bit of a job!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"

Depends on what 'rule(s)' weres broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on what rule as been broken, ie meeting someone else behind your back for example, that would be a yes as far as I was concerned.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends on what they were but if they're part of the boundaries you've put in place and are "consistently" broken then it sounds like a discussion is needed - can only lead to resentment otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my ex used to do this all the time. Once the trust is gone that's the end of it I'm afraid!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"As one part of a new couple not ready to share yet but I’m sure we will. I’m just thinking making these “ground rules” seems a bit of a job!"

I think the trick is not to have too many thereby keeping it simple. Sometimes something happens during a meet that you hadn't even thought of. Then is the time to talk rather than brood or take some sort of reciprocal action.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Entitled? No.

If one person is breaking agreed boundaries words not actions are required. "

Sorry I misread I thought the op said entitled to "consider cheating".

as you were.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Depends on what they are doing,it certainly shows lack of respect .

If they are meeting others/or chatting to them secretly then i would call that cheating...

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what the rules are that are being broken.

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By *rysandMadsCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

Anything that violates your relationship agreement is cheating imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"

It all depends on the ground rules as without details they can be wide as the ocean. If the ground rule is no picking your nose on a meet and said partner does its not cheating but if one is no fucking about on their own and they do well that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think trust between a cpl is to us important . We have done separate room swaps and our ground rule is no bareback so we know neither of us will break the rule

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow


"As one part of a new couple not ready to share yet but I’m sure we will. I’m just thinking making these “ground rules” seems a bit of a job!

I think the trick is not to have too many thereby keeping it simple. Sometimes something happens during a meet that you hadn't even thought of. Then is the time to talk rather than brood or take some sort of reciprocal action. "

Good advice, im sure we will enjoy discussing this long into the night.

X

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

In regards to playing then if any rules are broken we tend to leave pretty quickly

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Potential can of worms question. If a couple have ground rules and one of the couple consistently breaks them, would the other be entitled to consider it cheating?"

In our view if couples don't respect agreed boundaries then they probably shouldn't be swinging.

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