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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

Opinions please! And what's the area like for accommodation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can camp .... but not now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few hotels near by ones a travel lodge the others wyboston lake's

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Lots of hotels around it Clem. Not Cliquey at all.

Be good to see you up our ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?"

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club"

Ok, which is couples night? We'll try and avoid it!

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By *eterodoxiesCouple
over a year ago

At the end of the road

Think the club is great. Any night is what you make it, how you are as a person, expectations etc.

I tend to assume there is always a subtext to labelling a club or club night as “cliquey”

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Opinions please! And what's the area like for accommodation?"

There's a travel lodge just up the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?"

The forum's can be guilty of this but it doesn't stop people posting and getting involved. If you've got a great friend go together and check out the club yourselves. What's the worse thing that could happen.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

The forum's can be guilty of this but it doesn't stop people posting and getting involved. If you've got a great friend go together and check out the club yourselves. What's the worse thing that could happen. "

I'll take my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

The forum's can be guilty of this but it doesn't stop people posting and getting involved. If you've got a great friend go together and check out the club yourselves. What's the worse thing that could happen.

I'll take my wife "

I was going to say take your wife and the other husbands will want to talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

The forum's can be guilty of this but it doesn't stop people posting and getting involved. If you've got a great friend go together and check out the club yourselves. What's the worse thing that could happen.

I'll take my wife

I was going to say take your wife and the other husbands will want to talk to you."

Jobs done...note to self please read persons profile beforehand

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club"

Was when we went too and we went on Halloween night last year the lack of private areas put us off we’re all for open play but like to move it to private when we get heated so va isn’t for us

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've personally always had a good night and found people to be very friendly. There are 2 Premier Inns, a TL and the Wyboston within a short taxi ride distance. The club itself is beautifully done out.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Don't forget it's got an on-site hotel at The Vanilla Alternative.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

when people say a venue is cliquey it generally means its so good everyone else has been going for a while and have got to know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it..."

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it..."

Not really... we have dabbled in clubs previously... just been a long while...

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club

Ok, which is couples night? We'll try and avoid it!"

I have been plenty of times to lots of different nights. Firstly it’s always a good night. It’s fun, smart, good music and good bar. There are lots of people that go that know each other and often I think that can come across as cliquey. You have to treat it for what it is. People that know each other. I’ve never experienced anything other than friendliness.

For me I do find it a little .... erm.... vanilla . Other than bi night it is very straight! Couples and couples having fun. Which is great if that’s what you like.

Have fun

V x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Best club I’ve been to. I have been to a fair few lol.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club

Was when we went too and we went on Halloween night last year the lack of private areas put us off we’re all for open play but like to move it to private when we get heated so va isn’t for us "

Check out Jaydees, near by in Little Staughton, as they have private rooms and strict rules to protect your privacy.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've heard reports its a bit "cliquey"?

It was when we went but it was a couples night and people seemed to know each other, really put us off this beautiful club

Ok, which is couples night? We'll try and avoid it!

I have been plenty of times to lots of different nights. Firstly it’s always a good night. It’s fun, smart, good music and good bar. There are lots of people that go that know each other and often I think that can come across as cliquey. You have to treat it for what it is. People that know each other. I’ve never experienced anything other than friendliness.

For me I do find it a little .... erm.... vanilla . Other than bi night it is very straight! Couples and couples having fun. Which is great if that’s what you like.

Have fun

V x

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What would be your recommendations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London. "

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to."

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well. "

As in you can’t find it or the reviews aren’t good?

I went a few years ago, can only compare it to Ab Fabs / Kestrels and it was a fun club albeit on a much smaller scale. We’d been to a gig beforehand so it was a good way to finish the evening off..

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well.

As in you can’t find it or the reviews aren’t good?

I went a few years ago, can only compare it to Ab Fabs / Kestrels and it was a fun club albeit on a much smaller scale. We’d been to a gig beforehand so it was a good way to finish the evening off.."

Couldn't find it. Is it a "wet" club then like kestrels was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well.

As in you can’t find it or the reviews aren’t good?

I went a few years ago, can only compare it to Ab Fabs / Kestrels and it was a fun club albeit on a much smaller scale. We’d been to a gig beforehand so it was a good way to finish the evening off..

Couldn't find it. Is it a "wet" club then like kestrels was?"

No it’s not but that’s the only other place I’ve been too...

Look under club reviews.

http://www.ourplace4fun.com/

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think the club is great. Any night is what you make it, how you are as a person, expectations etc.

I tend to assume there is always a subtext to labelling a club or club night as “cliquey” "

It isn't in the slightest.

People who say that at clubs see groups of friends having a good time while hiding in the corner expecting everybody to chase them while looking like they don't want to join in.

Going to a club is about putting yourself out there, of course it will seem cliquey if you hide away and everybody else is chatting?

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well.

As in you can’t find it or the reviews aren’t good?

I went a few years ago, can only compare it to Ab Fabs / Kestrels and it was a fun club albeit on a much smaller scale. We’d been to a gig beforehand so it was a good way to finish the evening off..

Couldn't find it. Is it a "wet" club then like kestrels was?

No it’s not but that’s the only other place I’ve been too...

Look under club reviews.

http://www.ourplace4fun.com/

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What's the venue like there? Is it a big house?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You and the missus venturing into clubland ‘eh? That’s unlike you two isn’t it...

Yes. But I dont think it's gonna be VA. Might stay closer to London.

OP4F I can recommend . Have heard good reviews for Le Boudoir to.

Hmmm op4f doesn't google very well.

As in you can’t find it or the reviews aren’t good?

I went a few years ago, can only compare it to Ab Fabs / Kestrels and it was a fun club albeit on a much smaller scale. We’d been to a gig beforehand so it was a good way to finish the evening off..

Couldn't find it. Is it a "wet" club then like kestrels was?

No it’s not but that’s the only other place I’ve been too...

Look under club reviews.

http://www.ourplace4fun.com/

What's the venue like there? Is it a big house?"

It's actually an old garage or workshop building I think - is behind a row of shops and overlooks the railway at Alexandra Palace. Main area is upstairs and the lounge/bar area reminds me a little of an old speakeasy/cabaret club type of thing - then has various play areas mainly open but do have a couple of private rooms although they have two way mirrors so aren't completely private.

There's also a gloryhole/grope box area along with a couple's only area.

One thing they have which I do like is all the beds have a white tape marked on the floor about six inches away from the bed which isn't to be crossed unless invited.

It's a friendly club and the staff couldn't be more welcoming - the only thing I'd say about it is that it doesn't get going until very late - both times I've been it's been virtually empty at 10pm but as it's open until 0530 a lot of people go there after midnight when pubs/clubs turn out

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