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Are secrets erotic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate that the trend with Fab is to keep everything transparent and above board. But isn't there something deeply naughty about having a sexy little secret? Do any couples play with this?

I'm talking about consensual playing and teasing with secrets, not cheating, although there may be couples out there who actively get off on cheating on each other. I'm talking more about naughty little sexy secrets that they keep from their partner maybe for a day or two before confessing. I think I'd find it such a turn on to find out my partner had fucked another guy the day before and not said anything to me. Such a naughty thing. She'd definitely need punishing

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

My girl friend don't know that I have a shagging machine hidden away in my trailer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could possibly go wrong with this ? In a field of activity where trust is everything..

OP I think you love playing with fire too.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

In my experience secrets in swinging couples can cause a lot of heartache and the secrets of my ex were part of the reason for our divorce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few secrets are fun, we encourage each other to keep a little back until the time is right, we have fun doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with us honesty is very important. I can do what I want with who I want as long as my husband is made aware before or after. Yesterday I had a guy kiss me I hadn't planned on it happened but I didn't let it go further as I had not talked about it with my husband. I told him straight away. It turns out he found it quite a turn on and we enjoyed discussing it later on. I don't think I would feel comfortable hiding things from him.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Between us there are no secrets but in real life it's fun on a Monday morning after a good weekend meet to have to tell people how mundane the weekend was

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Some secrets can be fun for titillation purposes but it really depends what they are.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

It's the little secrets that will get you killed

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