FabSwingers.com forum: Married/attached

By *urreylass2016 OP Woman
over a year ago

Berkshire not Surrey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People of all sexes cheat, not just men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To fill a void without breaking up a family, everyone's situation is different, shouldn't judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

I don’t get why people just aren’t honest up front.

We are all signed up to a swinging site and yet still people feel the need to be deceptive and it only breeds suspicion..

I’m single and proud.. doesn’t get me far but hey, I’d rather be honest than deceive someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

I'm married,I put it on my profile so people can decide

As with all things on fab its a preference some people (most of them )prefer to block or ignore you but then I am an ugly old git as well lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm single and just go by the rule of whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No judgements here as long as your honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheat weekly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People of all sexes cheat, not just men

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Say it sister!

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

I was cheating till we split then I geuss I wasn’t. Now I’m in a new relationship I’m not going to. Hope I’m true to this plan because I’ve not got a lot of will power.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Married and says on profile, has hindered my meeting and got fuck loads of abuse but I'm still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married, it’s in my username, I am honest from the word go, and STILL get judged. Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

I'll judge you!

You're an adult, looking for enjoyment for your reasons, without hurting anyone, keep up the good work,x

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Attached - have the green light to play away. If you want to call that cheating, it’s your call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People of all sexes cheat, not just men

Say it sister!"

It!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

Yep... this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the posts above prove why people lie cos they get abuse and it hinders them meeting people . Simples ... not right but thats why they do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no saint.i have met married women in the past without hubby knowing.

And each time it has been fantastic.

One lady I sadly fell out with and regret it but she was amazing in bed but I have fond memories of the time spent with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’"

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh.

I don’t get why people just aren’t honest up front.

We are all signed up to a swinging site and yet still people feel the need to be deceptive and it only breeds suspicion..

I’m single and proud.. doesn’t get me far but hey, I’d rather be honest than deceive someone "

By definition, people cheating are lying to someone very close to them. It's therefore wildly optimistic to expect them to be honest with strangers on the inter

As this thread shows some are. "honest", but there are very many "singles" on here, who have a partner they forget to mention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marred here also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh.

I don’t get why people just aren’t honest up front.

We are all signed up to a swinging site and yet still people feel the need to be deceptive and it only breeds suspicion..

I’m single and proud.. doesn’t get me far but hey, I’d rather be honest than deceive someone "

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Each to there own here..no need for judgements

As long as they are honest from the start about their situation. I’ve had enough of the ones that think it’s ok to not tell me they are attached. Fucks me right off tbh. "

I'm upfront about it, it's on my profile - don't like to say that I'm honest about it as the irony of such a statement would be too much for some to resist.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up? "

I don't get the whole "judgement" thing. We all have moral boundaries and it seems to me perfectly reasonable to not want to be involved as an accessory to deceit.

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By *urious George 99Man
over a year ago

Calver

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you ..so am i x

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

It's on my profile, like everyone else there's a reason why I do it. I also respect people who don't want to chat/ meet married/ attached and I never knowingly message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up?

I don't get the whole "judgement" thing. We all have moral boundaries and it seems to me perfectly reasonable to not want to be involved as an accessory to deceit. "

Exactly.

I find it’s those who know they are doing wrong who are bothered about being “judged”, yet the more upfront married people who state they are cheating don’t seem to care one bit.

If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, it shouldn’t bother you what other people who you’re never going to meet think.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up?

I don't get the whole "judgement" thing. We all have moral boundaries and it seems to me perfectly reasonable to not want to be involved as an accessory to deceit.

Exactly.

I find it’s those who know they are doing wrong who are bothered about being “judged”, yet the more upfront married people who state they are cheating don’t seem to care one bit.

If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, it shouldn’t bother you what other people who you’re never going to meet think. "

I am a lawyer and once had a client who had a tattoo on his neck that said. "only God can judge me"

That tattoo was proved to be wrong when a judge judged him and sent him to prison for two years...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up? "

This , we all make judgements about others and those who claim they don't lie.

I would never meet someome cheating because it doesn't sit right with me and I would hate to be on the receiving end ever.

I don't abuse those who are openly cheating,simply avoid.

However ,as said above ,I hate people who lie or cover it up,only to find out down the line.

Many people have been hurt by cheating so will have opinions and its often those doing the cheating who are really defensive and start the judgemental or narrow mindedness of others.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married,I put it on my profile so people can decide

As with all things on fab its a preference some people (most of them )prefer to block or ignore you but then I am an ugly old git as well lol"

Your brave having your face on show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im married we are both on here on single accounts. We tried the whole couples profile it didnt work because we got bombarded by men when thats not what we was looking for. Things have changed now and we both play alone or together. I tell people as soon as i start talking and can see i want to keep chatting with them. I personally dont like talking to married men if i believe there is a chance of them getting caught and me getting dragged into it. I will always give anyone a chance but if i feel its to risky i wont go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up?

I don't get the whole "judgement" thing. We all have moral boundaries and it seems to me perfectly reasonable to not want to be involved as an accessory to deceit.

Exactly.

I find it’s those who know they are doing wrong who are bothered about being “judged”, yet the more upfront married people who state they are cheating don’t seem to care one bit.

If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, it shouldn’t bother you what other people who you’re never going to meet think.

I am a lawyer and once had a client who had a tattoo on his neck that said. "only God can judge me"

That tattoo was proved to be wrong when a judge judged him and sent him to prison for two years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

It uptight to have an opinion?

Or is it the fact when people have a negative opinion of something that applies to you it gets your back up?

This , we all make judgements about others and those who claim they don't lie.

I would never meet someome cheating because it doesn't sit right with me and I would hate to be on the receiving end ever.

I don't abuse those who are openly cheating,simply avoid.

However ,as said above ,I hate people who lie or cover it up,only to find out down the line.

Many people have been hurt by cheating so will have opinions and its often those doing the cheating who are really defensive and start the judgemental or narrow mindedness of others.

Miss"

I feel the same as you. I’ve been married, I would never have cheated on him as respected myself and him too much. It was sexless for the last part, we chose to part but are still friends. I just don’t want to be part of any deceitfulness and I certainly don’t want any trouble on my doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’"

If we are so uptight and judgmental then why can’t people tell their partners they need sex elsewhere? I mean, does that make their partner uptight? Why not be open about your desires and needs. Why the need to go behind their backs?

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

It's not about having sex with someone else, it's about the type of sex you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not about having sex with someone else, it's about the type of sex you need"

But you’re still having sex with someone else.

Behind your partners back.

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

You are correct, but it is a fact that it's the only solution to my need

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"im married - im cheating judge me if you want

im FEMALE

Good for you. In the UK we seem very uptight and judgemental, even here on Fab. I much prefer the French approach. Also prefer the French word for swingers ‘Libertines’

That's actually a brilliant point. . It seems to me pretty uptight and judgmental that you can't talk to your partner about your sexual desires. I mean you're being judgmental that they will react badly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and I am not cheating - there are many reasons why a married person has sex outside of their marriage. I make it clear on my profile that I am married and if that is not for you then that is your prerogative - but please do not accuse me of cheating until you know the facts.

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By *ilancsguyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

If someone has put that they are married on their profile at least they are being upfront about it.

There are many reasons why someone married may be on fab but I think it is somewhat naive to think that everyone tells the truth 100% of the time when they say they are single.

I have had 'single' folk approach me on fab but then it slips out they are attached or one half of a couple whose profile might say 'never' play separate but one approaches behind the others back.

It's like everything on fab - personal taste and going with the flow of what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you’re honest with any people you’re potentially going to meet I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business to be honest. So many threads like this and all the same comments. I really couldn’t care less about the marital status of Joe Bloggs in Scotland who I’m never gonna meet anyway. That’s my opinion for what it’s worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah...here’s the daily bashing married cheating bastards thread.

At least have the balls to say what you think and stick by your convictions, why remove what you really think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the posts above prove why people lie cos they get abuse and it hinders them meeting people . Simples ... not right but thats why they do it

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thank you I fknd once I tell people I am married they don't want to know I get a lot of abuse about it .they don't know my circumstances.as why I am on here

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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Im also married and cheating but its always in my first response to messages so everyone knows. I never take offence from those that say no thanks.

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