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By *otYourUsualGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Following on from an earlier thread -

It appears lots of people think girls asking for a sugar daddy on here is thinly veiled escorting - well IMO so what?

Swapping sex for a reward, whether that be orgasms, a good old fashioned fuck, presents or money is just an exchange, right? (I know prostitution isn't allowed here, but I have an unusual opinion so wanted to see if it could spark a good old debate).

As for me, my profile doesn't indicate I want a sugar daddy, because I am into all sorts of things and that doesn't come first. But I'd definitely go for it if one came along - why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is a swingers site, not a site for escorting.

I have no problem with escorting, but this isn’t the site for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from an earlier thread -

It appears lots of people think girls asking for a sugar daddy on here is thinly veiled escorting - well IMO so what?

Swapping sex for a reward, whether that be orgasms, a good old fashioned fuck, presents or money is just an exchange, right? (I know prostitution isn't allowed here, but I have an unusual opinion so wanted to see if it could spark a good old debate).

As for me, my profile doesn't indicate I want a sugar daddy, because I am into all sorts of things and that doesn't come first. But I'd definitely go for it if one came along - why not? "

Its prostitution no more no less and thats not what swinging is about. Guys offering money treat women like a commodity and it will drive away most women. Fab swingers is a swingers site there are plenty of adult workers sites out there it really dosn't need to be on here.

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By *otYourUsualGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I totally agree with that, and agree that this site isn't really the place for it - there's other sites for that too.

But IMO it's no more escorting than any other exchange, including voyeurism.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Following on from an earlier thread -

It appears lots of people think girls asking for a sugar daddy on here is thinly veiled escorting - well IMO so what?

Swapping sex for a reward, whether that be orgasms, a good old fashioned fuck, presents or money is just an exchange, right? (I know prostitution isn't allowed here, but I have an unusual opinion so wanted to see if it could spark a good old debate).

As for me, my profile doesn't indicate I want a sugar daddy, because I am into all sorts of things and that doesn't come first. But I'd definitely go for it if one came along - why not? "

The answer to your question revolves around scale. To a certain extent, all relationships have an element of exchange. Only a fool would be in a relationship that offered them nothing back. The term "sugar daddy" is an indication that the nature of the relationship is so extreme on that scale, that it no longer resembles a relationship. Since a relationship is more than just the sum of its parts, it would be considered inferior to other options both parties may have. If neither party has any better options then that's a strong argument for it.

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By *otYourUsualGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"

The answer to your question revolves around scale. To a certain extent, all relationships have an element of exchange. Only a fool would be in a relationship that offered them nothing back. The term "sugar daddy" is an indication that the nature of the relationship is so extreme on that scale, that it no longer resembles a relationship. Since a relationship is more than just the sum of its parts, it would be considered inferior to other options both parties may have. If neither party has any better options then that's a strong argument for it. "

This is a brilliant explanation, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really a escort I don't think, not all the time. Men want to cum and women like treats it's just a exchange of desire being fulfilled. Sometimes that's the kink, the turn on. And in some cases not to different to normal every day thing to do. Some people know that can get what they want if they give there partner a treat. I would do it

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, And sometimes in

I see not problem in accepting a sugar daddie via the meet process here. Guys often turn up for a meet with a gift such as a bottle of perfume or similar. That could be taken as a type of a sugar daddie meet, especially when he does it on every meet. Agree that as a swingers site this is not necessarily the place to specifically look for one but should a guy want to be a sugar daddie as his particular kink then I'm all for it.

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