FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a dark horse?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.

What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

My god, yes

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

My equestr6name would definitely be "Black Beauty" lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I've always been a dark horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends sometimes say they can't imagine me having sex. I'm to posh to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the "butter wouldn't melt" comment a fair few times. So, yes. Don't think people would suspect what I (we) get up to Vixen

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

I believe to be the polar opposite I think partners have been surprised by my romantic side

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By *heesecake69Man
over a year ago

southampton

Hey you can’t possibly be to posh to fuck

Noturwife. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?

An alter ego

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

North East

I love it. Been an alter ego of mine for years. Some of the filthy shit I have done has amazed myself at times. I remember telling the guys at work I was just popping to the bank. Headed along the road to a hotel to have my time with a sexy young girl whos master had tied her to bed and given us all fifteen minute slots with her!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it. Been an alter ego of mine for years. Some of the filthy shit I have done has amazed myself at times. I remember telling the guys at work I was just popping to the bank. Headed along the road to a hotel to have my time with a sexy young girl whos master had tied her to bed and given us all fifteen minute slots with her! "

Haha you filthy fucker

I like your style

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.

What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?

You flatter yourself. It's common knowledge that lefty tree hugger types are kinky as fuck. It's probably how they recruit.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

My veri says dark horse, I can be unpredictable at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a dark horse. I'm just plane fucked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sell the prudish act well to friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest friends know I'm on here, other people would be shocked.

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

I’m a dark horse to those who don’t know me. Those that do wouldn’t be suprised at anything I get up to

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

My work nickname is Gimp - I'm pretty sure people know what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total plain Jane, good girl, geek here...as far as most are aware

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Every one knows I'm here, why not?? Got nothing to hide and some who dare not to tread are in fact somewhat envious.so many dare not admit to being here yet we all like sex, so talk about it and get liberated, does this make me a white horse

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'm pretty open with my friends about what I get up to so no, not really a dark horse. The lilly side of me was a big shock to them as I'm sort of the manliest one in the group but the fact im bi didn't really shock them, one of them just went 'well you would be wouldn't you' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The darkest, blackest, shiniest of dark horses.

An ex colleague discovered I was on here (through an indiscreet fabber) and she still can't believe it.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Darkhorses here, we go same boring local pubs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all!

I’m very very boring in everyday life and most would just walk past me in the street without a second look!

Put the makeup on, latex and heels and I’m a different person.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Dark horse for me, sweet as sugar nobody seen my wild side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember a rumour going around work regarding the general manager and him liking rubber and gimp mask! I was so disgusted with the rest of the people

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had the butter wouldn't melt comments all of my life....little do they know!!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?

An alter ego

Yes I get a big buzz out of wearing my

at work and saying I didn't get up to much on my days off...when fact I'd had a Fab group meet lol

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Black beauty is

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Deffo not a dark horse, I'm more of an Ass

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Funny sitting in meetings at work, speaking out and being listened to and everyone respecting my ideas etc while inside chuckling to myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, very dark horse, you could say I came from the dark side..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im deffo no dark horse

But I could sell you one if your in the market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few men say that no one would think I was so dirty by looking at me.

Now, I don't think they meant dirty per se, I think they meant sexually adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the 'You're too good for FAB'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny sitting in meetings at work, speaking out and being listened to and everyone respecting my ideas etc while inside chuckling to myself x"

Those suckers have no idea !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?

An alter ego

Yes. My colleagues and acquaintances have no idea about this side of my life and would be shocked/amazed if they found out

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Definitely don’t think friends would think we were into swinging they know we’re both very sexual people but would be considered by them to be too shy or jealous to ever entertain this idea.

If only they knew xx

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Funny sitting in meetings at work, speaking out and being listened to and everyone respecting my ideas etc while inside chuckling to myself x

Those suckers have no idea ! "

They certainly don't!

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

More of a battered old nag myself, ready for the glue factory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I'm more of a horse of a different colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, probably

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm very much a dark horse and people are surprised when they find out I'm on fab and visit swinging clubs - I just don't seem the type according to what they say.

I come across as very proper to most people. It's the quiet ones you have to watch out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone I know would literally die of shock. Apart from a couple of friends who know.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Why yes. Yes I am.

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By *ood giving gameCouple
over a year ago

York

Yep. I'm am the sweetest nicest lady, with manners and looks like a bushbaby apparently! I don't think anyone would guess the gangbangs, cuckquean and Cuckholding, the greedy girl parties, sex clubs, dogging etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.

What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?

Nobody would ever guess im a nice decent and told innocent looking lady

Little do they know he he x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea)

I'm the guy who goes to the PTA meetings just to fill my wank bank up with ideas about women like the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s the beauty of this I think. Respectable professional and PTA mum by day, naughty little monkey by night ... (actually I’m also naughty in the day but you get the idea)

I'm the guy who goes to the PTA meetings just to fill my wank bank up with ideas about women like the above. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do those of you who are gentlemen/ladies in vanilla life get off on the fact that you've got this naughty side no one knows about?

An alter ego

Yes, I most definitely do. I love my 2 sides to my life.

I think a few people who know me well wouldn't be fully surprised if they knew I was on here, one of my friends introduced me to her friends as 'the kinky one' so don't think she would be too surprised, but most others would be extremely shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not think my circle of friends would think i use a sex site. Im very polite and well mannered and quite quiet. I went on a date recently and the lady said my manner reminded her of the film Meet Joe Black.

Although obviously i am much better looking than that Pitt fellow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.

What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?

I'm just generally mentally insane my life experiences have been shady at best.

I'm the spaceman cowboy

Psychedelic psychic

Paranoid schizoid

Counting all my vices

I'm fighting all my blessings

I'm caught up in a crisis

Although my sleep's deathless

My days seem lifeless

I scream at existence, it answers with silence

I silenced the questions with outbursts of violence

I'm lost in the maze where I find my reality

I triumph on self defeat and beat myself gradually

I drove myself mad, searching for sanity

I lost my way home while exploring the galaxies

I'm fueling these fires that burn my mentality

My muse is abuse and a long road of tragedies

I drown in the depths of my bitter self knowledge

I used all my bravery trying to have courage

I seek for forgiveness, but beg to be punished

I fight for my freedom while chained to these gutters

I find all my comforts in deep insecurities

Spoil what's beautiful looking for impurities

I'm buried in the lies trying to live my life truthfully

I sail my ship alone and I'm still having mutinies

I'm wearing a disguise hiding from the phonies

I'm hiding from myself, but I'm scared of being lonely

My world's like a cell God created just to hold me

My life's like a game where my death is the trophy

Although I keep aging, memories are timeless

I drink to forget, an empty bottle's my reminder

I live for the wisdom and die trying to hide from it

My theories are terminal, my lifestyle's survivalist

I'm weary of science, but slave to the scientist

I dig my own grave and I will fucking lie in it

Straight from the snake pit into the lion's den

Fighting the beast 'cos it won't let the violence end

Searching for peace in a war-torn environment

Holding the torch that no-one's igniting yet

Walking into darkness, scared 'cos I'm fearless

Fighting with the demons even though they ain't appeared yet

Wisdom's invisible, I'm still trying to see sense

Trapped in procedures we take to gain freedom

Fighting for strength yet way beyond healing

Searching for love even though I can't receive it

Preaching the truth unsure if I believe it.

Is pretty much how I feel right not not in my own words

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is the thing I find hard to understand when people say, "are you the last person people would expect to be on a site like fab",I don't get the thought process behind the statement because in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being on a site like fab.

I guess people are too immersed in culture to analyse their behavioural patterns, so the ladies have to meet a guy in a particular way, it has to be on a night out , in a club where they are tipsy then they are permitted to take the guy home.

I got tired of this pattern so fab for me was a better option.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nope

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"This is the thing I find hard to understand when people say, "are you the last person people would expect to be on a site like fab",I don't get the thought process behind the statement because in my opinion there is nothing wrong with being on a site like fab.

Those people who need alcohol to act the way they want to, really make me cringe. As if alcohol itself turns you into a slut. Alcohol turns a wannabe slut into a slut, if she is poorly educated in psychology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got tired of this pattern so fab for me was a better option."

In a lot of people's eyes in the vanilla world women are still classed as 'slags' if they are sexually liberated and have numerous partners. It's unfortunate but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a innocent fluffy rabbit image so no I don't think people would ever think I use a site like this

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By *ot so innocent mindCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m always told that I look totally innocent

My close friends know me too well and I also enjoy shocking strangers sometimes just to see their reaction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a polite, well dressed, well educated gentleman. Outside of a select few friends, I don't think anyone would suspect me of having had some of the misadventures I've had.

What about you? Do you come across as someone who might be on a site like Fab? Or do you think you're the last person people would expect to be exploring your sexuality in this open and kinky way?

Yeah I think I'm part of the dark horse brigade lol

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I don't think our friends would be surprised we are on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my younger work colleagues would be shocked to discover that I have had way much more sexy fun than them

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Not at all!

I’m very very boring in everyday life and most would just walk past me in the street without a second look!

Put the makeup on, latex and heels and I’m a different person.

Witch craft

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I’m always told that I look totally innocent

My close friends know me too well and I also enjoy shocking strangers sometimes just to see their reaction x"
you do look really sweet and innocent

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Good question... I have no idea really

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

People who know us I suspect don’t know, we laugh and joke about sex, I suspect they think it is all show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually a really shy person, you know the kind quiet ( until I'm comfortable ) blush a lot.

But put me in a swinging situation I dont stop talking, it's like a completely different persona takes over.

To be honest I feel most comfortable in other swingers company xx

Mrs

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm told I look innocent...but I'm also really tactless, have no filter and my mouth outpaces my brain with ease...so friends all know what I'm like and even at work where I've been trying really hard to tone it down and be 'professional' I'm known as "the inappropriate one"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I wouldn't know, I've never met me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The people who meet us often say we don't look the type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sweet and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok.. so im very very chatty with anyone and everyone, i have been told that i have a flirtatious aura about me... and my eyes undress in certain situations.

I think i come across in person exactly as on here.

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