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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess this is an old topic but would be interested to know how people define their status.

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is Sox, and regardless of frequency, I repeatedly engage in sexual activity with men and women!

Therefore I am”bisexual”….!.

“Just like is says in the dictionary !!!”

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Bi...i do see sexuality as a spectrum,but i am very much at the bi end of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person "

how very 2011 of you

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"My name is Sox, and regardless of frequency, I repeatedly engage in sexual activity with men and women!

Therefore I am”bisexual”….!.

“Just like is says in the dictionary !!!”

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Your not fooling us...

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They dont have dictionaries in Sunderland!

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

how very 2011 of you "

Haha thankyou very much xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight, who occasionally finds men, on-line, to have sex with.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person "

Whilst i applaud your idea...asexual is actually a condition some people have where they have no sexual desire at all...not what i think you meant

If you want a label,pansexual,which i occasionally describe myself as,fits.Its the person i find attractive,not the gender.

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

Whilst i applaud your idea...asexual is actually a

condition some people have where they have no

sexual desire at all...not what i think you meant

If you want a label,pansexual,which i occasionally describe myself as,fits.Its the person i find

attractive,not the gender."

I do apologise, there is just so many sexualitys that people dont understand, and as I never really state my sexuality, when I get asked I always get mixed up, bit yes it is pansexual, sorry

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

Whilst i applaud your idea...asexual is actually a

condition some people have where they have no

sexual desire at all...not what i think you meant

If you want a label,pansexual,which i occasionally describe myself as,fits.Its the person i find

attractive,not the gender.

I do apologise, there is just so many sexualitys that people dont understand, and as I never really state my sexuality, when I get asked I always get mixed up, bit yes it is pansexual, sorry "

dont apologise...thinking is sexy

And i agree, pan describes me to a t,but i rarely use it cos it just confuses others...i think kev and Sir are probably right when they say i am just a dirty little slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My name is Sox, and regardless of frequency, I repeatedly engage in sexual activity with men and women!

Therefore I am”bisexual”….!.

“Just like is says in the dictionary !!!”

Your not fooling us...

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They dont have dictionaries in Sunderland! "

haaa-haaaa,,,, you're right,,,,, I found it hanging on a nail driven into a cubicle door in the big market public loo's .......

The only page missing is the one containing an explanation of the word "makem" ........

although saying that,,,,, it’s obviously a geordie dictionary….

Because the writing is so big and its full of pictures too…… hahahahaha

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

Whilst i applaud your idea...asexual is actually a

condition some people have where they have no

sexual desire at all...not what i think you meant

If you want a label,pansexual,which i occasionally describe myself as,fits.Its the person i find

attractive,not the gender.

I do apologise, there is just so many sexualitys

that people dont understand, and as I never really state my sexuality, when I get asked I always get mixed up, bit yes it is pansexual, sorry

dont apologise...thinking is sexy

And i agree, pan describes me to a t,but i rarely use it cos it just confuses others...i think kev and Sir are probably right when they say i am just a dirty little slut "

Woo hoo to the pansexuals

And I dont mind being called a dirty little slut, but less of the little x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"My name is Sox, and regardless of frequency, I repeatedly engage in sexual activity with men and women!

Therefore I am”bisexual”….!.

“Just like is says in the dictionary !!!”

Your not fooling us...

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They dont have dictionaries in Sunderland!

haaa-haaaa,,,, you're right,,,,, I found it hanging on a nail driven into a cubicle door in the big market public loo's .......

The only page missing is the one containing an explanation of the word "makem" ........

although saying that,,,,, it’s obviously a geordie dictionary….

Because the writing is so big and its full of pictures too…… hahahahaha "

Glad the charity drive to send our old books to the less fortunate is still continuing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests which is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They dont have dictionaries in Sunderland!

haaa-haaaa,,,, you're right,,,,, I found it hanging on a nail driven into a cubicle door in the big market public loo's .......

The only page missing is the one containing an explanation of the word "makem" ........

although saying that,,,,, it’s obviously a geordie dictionary….

Because the writing is so big and its full of pictures too…… hahahahaha

Glad the charity drive to send our old books to the less fortunate is still continuing "

Yeah I totally agree,,, I think its great people give away books when they’re not able to understand some of the big words…….!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests which is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves."

Same here, but some people need to put everyone in a box, with a clear label on it.

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests which is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun

together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves."

I totally agree with you down to a T!! Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think most objections regarding abstract terms of sexuality are based on a criticism of individual choice……

I for one couldn’t care less what anyone wants to label themselves ,,,,,,,,

However on here, we have been given a fair choice of sexual orientation to select from, which contains all the physical variants,,,, therefore our honesty has a vital role to play for the site to work effectively..…

after all- if everyone had a misleading profile regards their sexual orientation, the site would not work for anyone….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people feel they have to label themselves it brings on dishonesty. I met a couple at a social where the female was very eager to have fun with me and her husband but he had a strict no bi men policy which i can totally understand and have no problem with. However as i had stated that i like to have fun with men aswell we couldnt go through with anything. Its not that i would try and jump on him ha but people have principles and its a good thing.

Many guys class themselves as straight on here who contact me regularly asking for fun and if people dont play with men classed as bi for whatever reasons they may be doing the same with someone classed as straight but they will be unaware they are doing so.

Im not contesting what people class themselves on this site as it doesnt bother me me but it may concern others.

I must stress this is not a rant ha people can do what they like im not one to judge people or tell people what to do, its just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight, who occasionally finds men, on-line, to have sex with. "

Well I hope you don't tell any women that you meet on here that you are straight then. Why not just say you are bi and be honest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight with gay days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if theres a woman involved its not gay right :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests which is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves."

Sorry. I don't get it.

Sexual orientation is not stopping people from hooking up. They're simply defining relationships between people.

For example, I was with my friends drinking in a gay friendly venue. I'm straight but it was a nice place and I wanted a drink.

A couple of guys joined us and one of them asked if I was gay, bi and I said no to both. We carried on drinking and partied company, happy to have a laugh together

Defining ourselves just identifies the level of the relationship. By not doing so, it can becomes confusing and sometimes hurtful for some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WA HEYYY-..........

Well that got you started, what I really meant I suppose was how do you define the difference between a bi sexual act and a gay one.

Me I will have fun with anyone, so long as no one wants to stick a Fuck up my bum,!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

i love it and i'm married, ergo lovinit_wife as only i play hubby joins but i love lots of cock, all straight x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm bi. To me sex is all about fun and I have fun with both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi. To me sex is all about fun and I have fun with both."

you can't beat a bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests iwhich is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves.

Sorry. I don't get it.

Sexual orientation is not stopping people from hooking up. They're simply defining relationships between people.

For example, I was with my friends drinking in a gay friendly venue. I'm straight but it was a nice place and I wanted a drink.

A couple of guys joined us and one of them asked if I was gay, bi and I said no to both. We carried on drinking and partied company, happy to have a laugh together

Defining ourselves just identifies the level of the relationship. By not doing so, it can becomes confusing and sometimes hurtful for some people."

I don't get it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe people should have to tag themselves as a status, I don't class my self as any if these, I class my self as ASexual, which means will fall in love with whoever, if that means its a women, man, tv, as my motto has always been in life, it's not the gender you fall in love with, but the person

Whilst i applaud your idea...asexual is actually a condition some people have where they have no sexual desire at all...not what i think you meant

If you want a label,pansexual,which i occasionally describe myself as,fits.Its the person i find attractive,not the gender."

asexual also describes someone who has no sexual organs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does everyone feel like they have to fall into a category. Why not just have fun with whoever you want whenever you want aslong as everyone is happy with it then there is no problem.

I understand that for the needs of sites like this we need to catgorise ourselves so people can find others with similar interests which is totally cool. Theres too much tagging and having to fall under a certain name. If people want to have fun together why should a tag stop them.

For example im classed as bisexual on this site. That is because i am looking for fun with women and men. However i see this site as an extention of myself, a place for me to have seperate fun from my everyday life. Its kinda like a hobby with a great social side to nit. I wouldnt class myself as a bisexual guy as i only find women attractive for relationships but if im in the right mood i play with guys on here.

Im sure this has all been said before. Lets all just enjoy ourselves."

This post reminds me of a chat room on another swingers' site headed "straight men who like to suck cock".

If a person engages in sexual relationships with members of his own gender to the exclusion of the other gender, then he is homosexual, but if he does so with both genders then he is bi-sexual, it's quite simple!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"WA HEYYY-..........

Well that got you started, what I really meant I suppose was how do you define the difference between a bi sexual act and a gay one.

Me I will have fun with anyone, so long as no one wants to stick a Fuck up my bum,!

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acts are not bi or gay,but people are...if i am having sex with another woman i do not turn into a lesbian

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Straight....

But as I am female, im prone to changing my mind as and when it suits me

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"WA HEYYY-..........

Well that got you started, what I really meant I suppose was how do you define the difference between a bi sexual act and a gay one.

Me I will have fun with anyone, so long as no one wants to stick a Fuck up my bum,!

"

You dont know difference between Gay and Bi...?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warped - just like your average perve should be

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alive and willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight, who occasionally finds men, on-line, to have sex with.

Well I hope you don't tell any women that you meet on here that you are straight then. Why not just say you are bi and be honest ?"

I have only met women through my profile and, if they can read, they know what they are getting. However, I meet many women off here, and have never been asked that question. If I were asked, I would say that I am straight, because I am. Why is it an issue to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm of the every holes a goal variety. Wouldn't have a relationship with anyone other than my gorgeous hubby but as for playing then I don't leave anyone out Same with , he doesn't fancy men but he's up for anything if he knows it will turn me on, which seeing 2 men together def does!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have sex/sexual contact with woman.

I have sex/sexual contact with men.

I am bisexual....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sex/sexual contact with woman.

I have sex/sexual contact with men.

I am bisexual....

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i must be bi aswell then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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acts are not bi or gay,but people are...if i am having sex with another woman i do not turn into a lesbian "

Unless of course your not home by midnight !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but on the second Tuesday of every Month and if it is a full moon and a black cat runs in front of my car on the way to the house of a man wearing a frock.... I stick my cock up his man hole...

then, I am straight.

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By *sMinxyWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Well.... I use the term bi on here, as it doesnt give Greedy as an option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but on the second Tuesday of every Month and if it is a full moon and a black cat runs in front of my car on the way to the house of a man wearing a frock.... I stick my cock up his man hole...

then, I am straight.

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I love you...a sane voice amongst the terminally confused on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post reminds me of a chat room on another swingers' site headed "straight men who like to suck cock".

If a person engages in sexual relationships with members of his own gender to the exclusion of the other gender, then he is homosexual, but if he does so with both genders then he is bi-sexual, it's quite simple!!!"

Not on here it isn't!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but on the second Tuesday of every Month and if it is a full moon and a black cat runs in front of my car on the way to the house of a man wearing a frock.... I stick my cock up his man hole...

then, I am straight.

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Brilliant!!

XXXX

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm straight, I know I am not attracted to men sexually, or otherwise, but I have no problems with playing in a group if bi guys are present, so long as everyone respects everyone elses boundaries.

On occassion, when it comes up in a convo or on the forums, the point of _iew that straight guys are just "in denial" sometimes comes up, and I find that a little puzzling, I know how I feel, I know what I like, allow me to be what I am.

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