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"Already have she is ok " Ok as in she is up for sex? Or ok she will shift over and let someone shag her while you watch?  | |||
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"Snap works for us whilst watching fools and horses “Stick a pony in my pocket, i’ll Fetch the suitcase from the van” "Okay Dave | |||
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"lonely married man here too shes not interested in sex "She's maybe not interested in sex with you! | |||
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"lonely married man here too shes not interested in sex
She's maybe not interested in sex with you!"Exactly...married men! Mose are like having an extra child | |||
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"You married men are brave having face pic's up,do you not worry that a friend/colleague/next door neighbour/postie will tell your misses?"  | |||
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol" You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins. | |||
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins." Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man | |||
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins. Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man " True to a certain degree,but the wife already knows what a shit shag he is. Swings and roundabouts. | |||
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"true lol" I wasn't saying you were a shit shag by the way. | |||
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins. Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man True to a certain degree,but the wife already knows what a shit shag he is. Swings and roundabouts. " Brutal | |||
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"just as well I don't then she prob not bother wanyway lol You need to find her a man who will re-ignite her loins. Nothing re-ignites a woman's loins like the realisation that other woman want her man " Or seeing a married man on the forums. You can almost hear the pussy salivating. | |||
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"When my husband- who had been having a long affair with a friend- told me to fuck off you fat doughnut-eating cunt and find someone else, I did. He wasn't too happy when he realised that some very sexy men wanted this fat doughnut-eating cunt and threw a strop;then cried and threatened to kill himself. You don't know what you have until you've lost it." Aint that the bloody truth!! | |||
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"Lovely four pack of doughnuts...cream filled?  "Warm apple pie is so much better | |||
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"This is starting to get a little like bullying. I can smell timeouts coming." Unfortunately he’s an easy target.... | |||
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"I suggest a nice wank OP And I doubt very very much wifey wants to watch or she’d be on fab with you "Sounds familiar! Sometimes wifeys are fast asleep and not interested  | |||
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex. There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission. Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site. Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong. Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? " Well said..not everyones reason for on here is black and white..lots of reasons..everyone entitled to judge, but everyones situation is different  | |||
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex. There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission. Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site. Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong. Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? " Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’" Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, " I don’t believe that I said it was | |||
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex. There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission. Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site. Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong. Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish " I think it’s more the married men that come on the forums moaning that people are complaining about.... If you’re married and not getting sex... keep your mouth shut and go get some sex... It’s like they’re looking for a sympathy shag because their wife won’t sleep with them... It’s just not a good look | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was" I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. | |||
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex. There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission. Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site. Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong. Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? " Very true and from looking and reading your profile I get your comment and WOW great profile | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people." Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. | |||
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"Or maybe his marriage could be just fine except for the sex. There are many ways to define a successful relationship and perhaps he has permission. Wow - I find these forums are so quick to judge when in fact, this is an alternative lifestyle site. Just because it doesn’t fit your vision doesn’t mean he is doing anything wrong. Ffs- there is a prime time tv show now about open marriages. It can’t be that taboo now, can it? Loads are quick to judge on here. Unless they are a couple and doing it together many will jump. Same with kinks, loads jump on you if you say you have a fetish I think it’s more the married men that come on the forums moaning that people are complaining about.... If you’re married and not getting sex... keep your mouth shut and go get some sex... It’s like they’re looking for a sympathy shag because their wife won’t sleep with them... It’s just not a good look" I agree on this. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. " Thank you. Nice to know he are appreciated by someone. | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting." I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. | |||
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"Maybe she knows your a cheating feck and doesn't like you " Quality mate fair play say it how it is.... | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. " | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting."
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, " You don't have to encourage it or abuse people doing it. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, You don't have to encourage it or abuse people doing it." Where's the abuse ? | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting." Can't married people be respectful? | |||
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"Re light that fire with her, make the effort, be spontaneous... if it doesnt work with her find a new partner... lifes too short to stay with someone for the sake of it. One life.. live it" | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. Can't married people be respectful?" Just thinking out loud to myself,don't mind me... | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. " I don't need to it's not my life. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, " Lots of people on here don't class themselves as swingers or don't use the site for swinging. I know I don't. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, Lots of people on here don't class themselves as swingers or don't use the site for swinging. I know I don't. " | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. Can't married people be respectful?" Of course, the two aren’t mutually exclusive. | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. " | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. " | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. " I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not. I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life. Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it. | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. I don't need to it's not my life." Then stop commenting on other people’s lives. It’s not right. You don’t know their situation. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not. I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life. Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it. "Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not. I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life. Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it.
Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals "Me too. Also, I find those who do cheat on their partners feel the need to constantly justify their reasons or blame it on a sexless married or similar. If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, why do you feel the need to justify it to a bunch of people? It’s far more “honest” if you can call it that, to state you’re married and you cheat and leave it at that. Everyone is entitled to being on here and getting the meets they want. Some prefer married, some don’t. Each to their own. | |||
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. " Yours is an open marriage but alot on here are cheaters and don't even say it on their profile. I met a guy years ago who said he was single. Suprise i had his wife on the phone slagging me off. | |||
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"I feel that is married men get over looked for being married, yet this is an ‘alternative lifestyle’ site that seems quick to judge anyone that doesn’t fit the individuals ‘norm’ Swinging isn't about people shagging anyone and encouraging cheating, I don’t believe that I said it was I must have read it wrong, looked like you were saying married men get overlooked on here, And because it's an alternative lifestyle people shouldn't judge married people. Swinging may not have the same definition it had years ago. But I think we could agree that this site is for people that want to explore sexually. Dont want to be with a married man? Fine. But don’t make them feel like shit when they are trying to fill a void in their life. Personally I prefer a married guy to a single guy. Discreet and respectful. So much better than “want to fuck tonight” messages. I’ve had plenty of “want to fuck tonight the wife’s out” messages from married men believe it or not. I’d rather not meet someone who is lying to one of the most important people on their life. Of course people have their reasons and they are entitled to do as they please as adults, but it doesn’t mean anyone has to agree with it or like it.
Exactly. If you can lie to someone you promised to spend the rest of your life with, then I question your morals
Me too.
Also, I find those who do cheat on their partners feel the need to constantly justify their reasons or blame it on a sexless married or similar.
If what you’re doing isn’t wrong, why do you feel the need to justify it to a bunch of people? It’s far more “honest” if you can call it that, to state you’re married and you cheat and leave it at that.
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"Married and respectful in the same sentence...interesting. I’m married. And I’m here. And yes. I’m totally respectful to my husband. You have no idea what happens in people’s homes and relationships. Perhaps it’s time to look at things from other people’s prespective. I don't need to it's not my life. Then stop commenting on other people’s lives. It’s not right. You don’t know their situation. " Yes Miss. Although I wasn't really commenting on other people's lives,I was just thinking out loud. No that's nonsense,it's just a shame the respect isn't fully shown to the spouse. Will that person feel respected if they found out,I certainly didn't feel respected one tiny little ounce when I was told. Anyway it's not my concern. | |||
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"Worst is the guys saying they are single..i admit straight up that im not..yes it doesnt suit everyone..no im not looking for peeps to say its ok..but there is always someone out there for everyone" Very true | |||
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"Worst is the guys saying they are single..i admit straight up that im not..yes it doesnt suit everyone..no im not looking for peeps to say its ok..but there is always someone out there for everyone Very true"
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