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winking ...whats the point

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london

Just had a wink then told when we said hi that were not there type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky gits. People should read profiles I get winks off couples who 9 out of 10 then message for a 3 sum.. im gay

We don't need winks on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn't mean to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink can be good to test a reaction. If none then saves messaging. Don’t see point in winking then not replying to a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wink

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

Can be a good way of showing interest

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london


"Maybe they didn't mean to ."

In that case they should say it was a mistake instead of saying were not there type.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Just had a wink then told when we said hi that were not there type. "

I hardly ever wink but i do wank all the time. Well not all the time.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Definitely too many winkers on here... Be nice if people made a bit of effort after all they want to have sex with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they didn't mean to .

In that case they should say it was a mistake instead of saying were not there type. "

Maybe they didn't want to admit a mistake and thought they'd better say you wernt their type in case you took it further.

Or maybe just ask them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Maybe they didn't mean to .

In that case they should say it was a mistake instead of saying were not there type.

Maybe they didn't want to admit a mistake and thought they'd better say you wernt their type in case you took it further.

Or maybe just ask them."

Or maybe (as is often the case) one half of the couple sent the wink then the other half saw the message and you didn't agree with the wink having been sent or didn't know about the wink.

Or any number of other reasons that aren't worth worrying about - you can over think things too much sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink people, some wink back, some don't. Quite a good marker as if it message or not. Unless stated that they ignore winks in the profile.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Maybe they didn't mean to .

In that case they should say it was a mistake instead of saying were not there type.

Maybe they didn't want to admit a mistake and thought they'd better say you wernt their type in case you took it further.

Or maybe just ask them.

Or maybe (as is often the case) one half of the couple sent the wink then the other half saw the message and you didn't agree with the wink having been sent or didn't know about the wink.

Or any number of other reasons that aren't worth worrying about - you can over think things too much sometimes "

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Could it have been something in your reply? First messages have put us off before now.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

It stops my eyes drying out

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just had a wink then told when we said hi that were not there type. "

Maybe it was an accidental wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people have different ways and preferences when it come to attracting attention on Fab. It might be the way they write their profile, the number of pics they put up for fabbing, the wink method...whatever.

Who are we to judge. If you don’t like the wink method and you come across it, then move on.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We gave up responding to winks months ago. We get a wink so we used to compose a nice message back telling them a bit about us and 99% of the time nothing back. Just the other day we messaged someone who caught our eye. We then noticed after we had messaged they had winked us hours prior. Guess what happened next?? Our message was deleted and no response. We don't even look at the winks we receive now. A complete waste of time. If we see a profile that catches our eye and what they have wrote in their profile matches what we are looking for we think a nice message is far better.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We had a wink earlier and as we we liked their profile so winked back, all we got was a friend request back!

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By *aughtycouple1008 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west london


"Could it have been something in your reply? First messages have put us off before now."

I said thanks and asked if they have face pics please...

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We had a wink earlier and as we we liked their profile so winked back, all we got was a friend request back!

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Oh yea that old one as well. Happened a lot. Bloody picture collectors

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We thought winks were used as a traffic light system if you give a wink it’s orange meaning hold off on message if you get one in reply that’s the green light both sides have an interest to chat? Could be wrong but that’s how we try and use it.

I think we’ve only sent 2 messages on here without previous interaction and that was just to compliment their written section.

xxx

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I love a quick wink. Who wants one right now?

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"We had a wink earlier and as we we liked their profile so winked back, all we got was a friend request back!

Oh yea that old one as well. Happened a lot. Bloody picture collectors "

Not had that before, normally just get the friend requests! They all get the same treatment....block!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good wank "

We bet u do

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We prefer winking to straight out messages, find it doesn’t infringe there space if they want to look, feel free the wink back just says it okay to drop a line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to say helllooo there just to show interest incase they are more Tetley when we are always PG Tips...

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't. I delete them. If they can't be bothered to message then it's deleted

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't mind winks - if I like them I'll wink back. Up to them to message then though.

Odd to turn you down after a wink though - unless your message or any attached pics led to them deciding you weren't for them after all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its a wink from someone i like look of i reply with a thank you.

puts ball in there court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there enough winkers! Personally I have put alot of effort into messaging people politely after reading their profiles thoroughly! But sometimes they don't even get read, so what's the point!

I now wink, if I get a wink back then I will message otherwise I won't waste my time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are there to give those something to moan about, how an why would someone/anyone make a big deal out of it ?

It’s there for some but obviously not all.....

Love those who make a big deal out of things, who tho gives a shit there so called important opinion/view ?

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