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By *hilm2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Just out of curiosity, when females and couples first sign up to Fab, how many messages do you get straight away? And how do you sort the chaff from the wheat?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I had 20 before I'd written a profile, somewhere in the region of 1200 in three days. My eyes glazed over, I had no idea what was happening. I'm not bragging. It was awful.

It's always been hard, still is, to know where to draw the line. But most bad messages haven't read my profile, are demanding and inconsiderate, etc. Good messages show an interest in me and tell me what they have to offer.

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By *hilm2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"I had 20 before I'd written a profile, somewhere in the region of 1200 in three days. My eyes glazed over, I had no idea what was happening. I'm not bragging. It was awful.

It's always been hard, still is, to know where to draw the line. But most bad messages haven't read my profile, are demanding and inconsiderate, etc. Good messages show an interest in me and tell me what they have to offer. "

Fair enough. I’d love to receive lots of messages but I could see how 1200 would make the mind boggle

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I had 20 before I'd written a profile, somewhere in the region of 1200 in three days. My eyes glazed over, I had no idea what was happening. I'm not bragging. It was awful.

It's always been hard, still is, to know where to draw the line. But most bad messages haven't read my profile, are demanding and inconsiderate, etc. Good messages show an interest in me and tell me what they have to offer.

Fair enough. I’d love to receive lots of messages but I could see how 1200 would make the mind boggle"

I'd say be careful what you wish for. When 80% of the messages are bad, some of those are offensive/ abusive, and a small number actually make you gag... you start to dread new messages.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Well over 400 a day as a single female, got changed to a couples profile and not really had much interest.

I'm no meeting either way, well i am arranging socials with guys i've known a long time and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I set up this profile (my third one) I had a hundred messages in the first hour and 600+ views.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

300+ daily before I found my filters, it's not fun and not possible to go through them all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"300+ daily before I found my filters, it's not fun and not possible to go through them all! "
you ladies really get that amount of texting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I set up this profile (my third one) I had a hundred messages in the first hour and 600+ views. "

chuffin ell

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By *hilm2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

As a single bloke on here I always wonder if I’m going to be a pain in the ass by sending a message, but also conscious that nothing happens if you don’t and nobody likes just a wink

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Just out of curiosity, when females and couples first sign up to Fab, how many messages do you get straight away? And how do you sort the chaff from the wheat?"

It all depends on if you put photos up or not. I was told by a friend that a 60yr female will get twice the male of a 25 year old female which seems odd but there you go some strange people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's almost like a full time job for ladies trying to keep up with messages from horny blokes on here.

I'd offer to filter through them but I'm not looking at 1001 cock pic that's for sure

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"It's almost like a full time job for ladies trying to keep up with messages from horny blokes on here.

I'd offer to filter through them but I'm not looking at 1001 cock pic that's for sure "

We send unsolicited cunt pics just to keep it even

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By *riendly and hornyMan
over a year ago

Crewe

Jesus that sounds like hard work. With all those messages how do you pick which ones to read?

It's good that you've got the pick of the bunch though!

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