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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm, how would you guys put forth that idea of swinging to your other half?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

By discussing openly and honestly and being prepared to accept that it's not for them if it's not

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

We're not swinging but i just asked my fella if he was ok having an account on here so i could meet guys for sex, which he was up for then he changed his mind (before i met anyone luckily) so we're taking it slower now.

We're using this account sign up for club events, and he is fine with it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"By discussing openly and honestly and being prepared to accept that it's not for them if it's not "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm, how would you guys put forth that idea of swinging to your other half? "
you married then? Or is this a new partnership, it's easier with a new partner not so easy if it's your wife and you've been here over a year but just say I've been having great fun the past year fancy joining me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By discussing it before I even thought of opening a fab account.

If it’s a new relationship and for you it’s a deal breaker, if they aren’t keen on the idea and tell you no, I’d leave and move on.

If it’s a long term relationship/marriage, and your partner says no, leave it at that and do not pursue anything. People cannot be ‘convinved’ to try swinging. You can’t (well, you can but shouldn’t) pressure anyone into liking something.

If they are keen for trying out, then brilliant! Maybe set up a couples account on fab.

But yes - a serious chat is needed. If you watch porn together, maybe watch threesomes, gangbangs, swingers etc and see how she reacts. Or maybe just say you heard something about swinging on tv and have been thinking about it - and ask what her thoughts are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By discussing it before I even thought of opening a fab account.

If it’s a new relationship and for you it’s a deal breaker, if they aren’t keen on the idea and tell you no, I’d leave and move on.

If it’s a long term relationship/marriage, and your partner says no, leave it at that and do not pursue anything. People cannot be ‘convinved’ to try swinging. You can’t (well, you can but shouldn’t) pressure anyone into liking something.

If they are keen for trying out, then brilliant! Maybe set up a couples account on fab.

But yes - a serious chat is needed. If you watch porn together, maybe watch threesomes, gangbangs, swingers etc and see how she reacts. Or maybe just say you heard something about swinging on tv and have been thinking about it - and ask what her thoughts are. "

There's always that Wanderlust programme on TV, perhaps you could watch that to bring up the conversation...

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

By taking them to a swingers club as a surprise birthday treat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By taking them to a swingers club as a surprise birthday treat?"

If my husband had done that without talking to me I would have killed him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at your green arrow, OP.. you asked this 22 weeks ago.. still haven't plucked up your courage or found the answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us it was easy. I knew C had been with a woman beforehand. I said jokingly id like to see that. She said it could be arranged and then she found a few sites! We havnt had any luck with what were after yet but were open to ideas and its made our sexlife better and more open

S

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"By taking them to a swingers club as a surprise birthday treat?

If my husband had done that without talking to me I would have killed him. "

You may have missed my irony indicators -they often seem to be on the fritz around here.

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