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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls?

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Regardless who they are from, they get deleted. We clearly state in our profile not to friend request us unles we have exchanged messages or met before.

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By *rp84Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

I've got to be honest, it depends if I think she's hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t accept any friend requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "

I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.

Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we haven't met we delete,and make a note in the private notes section

(We make it clear on our profile we won't accept unless we have met,no exceptions)

Send 3 invites,we block.simple as that,don't care who it is.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I only accept people i know and trust. Not adding randoms.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Bin em!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We don't want our friends news feed clogged up with randoms.

So we don't accept requests and state we don't accept them.

Then folk get uppity that you haven't added Dunno why it's so important to 'em.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We delete,or sometimes accept when they are offline,look at their pics and delete.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a couple so therefor am.not entitled to an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't accept or decline. If we declined then it would give them the opportunity to send again so it saves them time really lol.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"We delete,or sometimes accept when they are offline,look at their pics and delete.

Miss"

O yes

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!


"We don't accept or decline. If we declined then it would give them the opportunity to send again so it saves them time really lol."

Exactly this!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"We don't accept or decline. If we declined then it would give them the opportunity to send again so it saves them time really lol."

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By *uicy Lucy and percyCouple
over a year ago

wales

We don’t except friends requests until we have chatted by at least email first x

Jj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really. If it’s a hot couple we will not accept until they are offline, then we accept just to have a cheeky look at they’re friend only pics before deleting!

Other than that we don’t accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wait until they are offline and if we think we might like what we see accept if we don’t like we remove them again we tend not to send them to people we haven’t chatted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

"

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for "

If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.

But if it is unsolicited, and

you like their profile, they get away with it?

I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for

If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.

But if it is unsolicited, and

you like their profile, they get away with it?

I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?"

Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to

We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for

If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.

But if it is unsolicited, and

you like their profile, they get away with it?

I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?

Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to

We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them "

And you are happy they friend request:

a. Without asking.

b. Without even sending an opening message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for

If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.

But if it is unsolicited, and

you like their profile, they get away with it?

I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?

Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to

We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them

And you are happy they friend request:

a. Without asking.

b. Without even sending an opening message?"

Not always no I see your point and you have every right to have an opinion I guess everyone has different views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically, some cheeky fucker send you a friend request.

If they are hot, you let them off?

#fickle

Not always the way we look at it we’ve had people we know outside of fab friend request us it’s an easy way to know safely if you can add them plus if we like their profile but they have no public pics it’s a good way to know if they are what we are looking for

If it is someone you have met but not through fab, it isn't unsolicited.

But if it is unsolicited, and

you like their profile, they get away with it?

I would imagine that an unsolicited request from me would result in a block. Rightly so I would think too. But if I was a fittie or a couple?

Not at all we have a couple of males on our friends list a few single females but mainly couples we don’t block anyone unless we feel we have to

We don’t meet single men but have been known to chat to them

And you are happy they friend request:

a. Without asking.

b. Without even sending an opening message?

Not always no I see your point and you have every right to have an opinion I guess everyone has different views "

Thank you. I respect your choice to use fab how you see fit.

Shhh. Don't tell anyone though. I don't want people to know I can be reasonable.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I treat them exactly how I do on my singles profile.

Ignore them, don't delete then they can't resend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't now except friends requests (got enough on here now)..We are not 14 and on facebook..got enough friends in the real world ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get hundreds each day. In fact 10 in the last hour and only 1 had messaged first. Regardless unless either of us intend to discuss meeting with them we won't except. Even if they are hot. Photos are so often faked on here it's very rare the photo is of them anyway. I think if people take the time to get to know you then you get a feeling to whether you want to take that further or not. Friend requests on here are just a pain!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Unless we've chatted and agreed to friend invites, then they get deleted.

I don't understand why people send them without chatting first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore them, don't delete then they can't resend. "

This

Sometimes though if really bored we check they are offline then accept have a look then unfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant block.

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By *uncouplex78Couple
over a year ago

stockwood, bristol

We ignore or delete and block

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We make a note in the private notes, message them saying thank you fir the friends invite but we only have friends in here that we have met or intend to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless who they are from, they get deleted. We clearly state in our profile not to friend request us unles we have exchanged messages or met before. "

Same here and block the profile. They are just wanting to perve your pics.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls?

I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.

Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)

MrsK x"

It does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless who they are from, they get deleted. We clearly state in our profile not to friend request us unles we have exchanged messages or met before.

Same here and block the profile. They are just wanting to perve your pics."

That is only one of the reasons people send them. We don't have any private pictures and get plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls?

I leave them...if you delete and don’t block they can send again.

Just leaving them as they are means they can’t resend (so I believe)

MrsK x

It does. "

I think they can resend them but the target doesn't receive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "

Makes no difference from whom. Unsolicited is unsolicited. We leave them there as they can't resend them.

If we're curious we might accept it when they're not online, look at friends only pics and unfriend again. It's an invitation to do so after all, right?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Ignore. "

Besties

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

If they have friends only pics we normally accept them when they are offline fab a few and remove them off our friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore unsolicited friends invites and if they come from people who we’ve not spoken with then we usually block too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore.

Besties "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them usually, same with winks and unsolicited messages.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Doesn’t matter who sends it to us if no previous chat we don’t entertain a friend request. Send us a message and chat if you’d like us to accept a friend request.

xx

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

Not really something we get worked up about to be honest. It's hugely unimportant to us when compared to the other far more irritating things on here such as timewasters, single men with couples profiles and people who won't take a polite no as an answer.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Get them all the time, I just ignore them. I don't even know why people do it to me, I have no friends only photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until they go offline,add them..fab any we like then unfriend them lol. They usually message and say hi lol. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the time block but if we like the look then check profile.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Generally leave for a bit in case followed up with a message then delete if not, or occasionally message back if it’s a profile that piques our interest. But very rarely just accept, we’ve got face pics in ours so are selective with who sees them.

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile seems to send friend invites of its own accord! It shows in the updates as “So & so accepted your friend request” when we’ve not even sent one!!

Anyone else come across this?? X

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We often delete them, it’s usually people who want to see the private photos.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Straight delete

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

We only accept (and send) friend requests if we’ve met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any female or couple I’ve not chatted to before etc or met they get deleted am not interested

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I only accept people I've met on a single or couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here’s a question for the couples. What do you do with unsolicited friend invites? That is they arrive out of the blue from someone you don’t know with no previous message. And does it make a difference if they’re from couples guys or girls? "

I delete any unsolicited friend invites. I also then block them. I do the same for one line messages. I do the same for guys who send me cock photographs.

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