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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yesterday I attended a gangbang at which the lady concerned wanted men who were above average.

On attending I was asked for my size and stupidly told the truth that I was 7" long by 4.9" girth.

I was then asked to leave as this was not considered large enough.

Given that medical studies atate that the average male is between 5.5" to 6" in lenght and 4.75" to 5" in girth I thought I would be considered in the large catagory. Obviously not.

I would welcome comments on what a lady would consider large so that I do not make the same very embarrassing mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did they not even give you the chance to get it hard for them to check it out? how rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Well the lady concerned obviously had a fanny like a clowns pocket.

But what a novel way of explaining just how huge you are. Top marks for ingenuity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have asked how wide her bucket was! How very rude!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very rude!

I'm suprised they didnt ask you to pay before they booted you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Bad) Joke from the film Predator.......I was going down on this broad and I said "damn you've got a big pussy,damn you've got a big pussy................ ya know,because of the echo?"..........cue tumbles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it would have been better to ask you at the recruitment stage save wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it would have been better to ask you at the recruitment stage save wasting your time "

....and embarrassment

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Surely it would have been better to ask you at the recruitment stage save wasting your time "

+1

Op,its subjective,what one woman considers large,another doesnt, but the people in question were rude not to make things clear before you went.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Another 'look at my knob' post?

Noooooo look at my pussy instead!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

ps... as you asked... nine inches and above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptionally rude, and much more their loss than yours.

Better luck the next time

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I attended a gangbang at which the lady concerned wanted men who were above average.

On attending I was asked for my size and stupidly told the truth that I was 7" long by 4.9" girth.

I was then asked to leave as this was not considered large enough.

Given that medical studies atate that the average male is between 5.5" to 6" in lenght and 4.75" to 5" in girth I thought I would be considered in the large catagory. Obviously not.

I would welcome comments on what a lady would consider large so that I do not make the same very embarrassing mistake again."

4.9" girth???

Blimey if that was true, I'd have asked you to leave too lol

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Yesterday I attended a gangbang at which the lady concerned wanted men who were above average.

On attending I was asked for my size and stupidly told the truth that I was 7" long by 4.9" girth.

I was then asked to leave as this was not considered large enough.

Given that medical studies atate that the average male is between 5.5" to 6" in lenght and 4.75" to 5" in girth I thought I would be considered in the large catagory. Obviously not.

I would welcome comments on what a lady would consider large so that I do not make the same very embarrassing mistake again.

4.9" girth???

Blimey if that was true, I'd have asked you to leave too lol "

Brutal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao thats a red alert.

wouldve been like throwing a hotdog down a bowling lane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does look a bit on the 'thin' side

gimme girth any day

keep ur pepperami and gimme a tube o'pringles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have a look through the latest pics gallery and see for yourself the most popular ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

up until I read this i was always happy with the size of my wang, now however i seem to be developing an unhealthy inadequacy complex

(not really..... always had an unhealthy inadequacy complex lol)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

So we're now measuring to decimal places?

Will we also be including months and days in age discussions? Weight to the nearest gramme?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we're now measuring to decimal places?

Weight to the nearest gramme? "

I'd be happy for mine to be to the nearest ton

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

should of replyed with well i may not have a massive organ but ive never ever played in a cathedral before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decimalisation -

we rounding up (yippeeee just gained a bit more) or rounding down (hey its flipping cold, i tell thee)

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

it shouls all have been talked out long before u wasted ur time as it would appear she put a lot of stead on cock size, surly they mentioned it before if not just pure pig ignorant of them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Surely it would have been better to ask you at the recruitment stage save wasting your time

+1

Op,its subjective,what one woman considers large,another doesnt, but the people in question were rude not to make things clear before you went."

nods in agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it shouls all have been talked out long before u wasted ur time as it would appear she put a lot of stead on cock size, surly they mentioned it before if not just pure pig ignorant of them "
your right xx why did thay not say the size thay was looking for ... i think its strange . Time wasters i think must have been alot there for her to single out some .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also of a decent size and certainly above average. Ive contacted a number of couples wanting vwe. I am also honest and truthful when asked how big i am and always inform them i have about 7.5-8 inch that i can get in. Ive been told on countless occasions that isnt enough. Yet these couples and others who have states on profile that they only meet vwe have score of pics with different guys all of whom are average.

I aslo have _iewed single guys who claim to be 8 and 9 inch etc yet there pics clearly show an "average" cock.

What im getting at is......from where to where do people actually measure. For me....its the length that you can actually get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also of a decent size and certainly above average. Ive contacted a number of couples wanting vwe. I am also honest and truthful when asked how big i am and always inform them i have about 7.5-8 inch that i can get in. Ive been told on countless occasions that isnt enough. Yet these couples and others who have states on profile that they only meet vwe have score of pics with different guys all of whom are average.

I aslo have _iewed single guys who claim to be 8 and 9 inch etc yet there pics clearly show an "average" cock.

What im getting at is......from where to where do people actually measure. For me....its the length that you can actually get in

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"it shouls all have been talked out long before u wasted ur time as it would appear she put a lot of stead on cock size, surly they mentioned it before if not just pure pig ignorant of them your right xx why did thay not say the size thay was looking for ... i think its strange . Time wasters i think must have been alot there for her to single out some . "

She probably waited til all the guys had turned up before making her decision. If too few 'big' guys had been there the OP would have probably got through the rigorous vetting procedure.

Having said that, both the woman and the GB organiser behaved very badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad sad shallow people lol

And yes I know it's personal choice and I love big cocks myself truth be known

But come on

That was bang outta order

They obviously didn't state the sizes they required

It's a swinging site not a fooking tailors xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe you were invited to a gangbang without them seeing pics of you or on cam!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think its rude to not want to play with someone of a certaion size, what is rude is for them to let you go and turn you away at the door, surely they should have asked you your size on here first

yet another example of how people on here see single guys are disposable, noone would treat a single woman like that if she made the effort to go to a gang bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you sould have told them your 12" and flopped it out and said "its usually 12" but its cold" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the others in thinking that the real bugbear is not asking and sorting out whether you were up to whatever arbitrary standard they had BEFORE wasting your time meeting.

No problem with people changing their mind but why not try and get an idea of whether you were what they wanted beforehand.

Lol could this be that rare occasion where a cock pic could have helped them decide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think its rude to not want to play with someone of a certaion size, what is rude is for them to let you go and turn you away at the door, surely they should have asked you your size on here first

yet another example of how people on here see single guys are disposable, noone would treat a single woman like that if she made the effort to go to a gang bang"

What a great point. Spot on about the way guys are sometimes used as cannon fodder.

Wish I could quote it on another single guy bash thread from the other day so folks can see the other side of the coin.

Thank you NN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive met loads of single guys off here and 99% of them have been good decent men, even if we have decided not to play, for whatever reason, they have still been good guys, but some of the stories you hear about the way some, couples, mainly treat them is unreal

A lot of people in swinging need to learn some manners and give everyone the respect all humans deserve, all because single guys on here are 10 a penny, and lets be honest they are, thats no excuse to treat them like crap, to let them turn upto a meet then turn them away before they have got thro the door?

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london

I wouldn't call 7.5 vwe, maybe w/e. And do guys seriously measure themselves!?! Thought that was a teenage thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you sould have told them your 12" and flopped it out and said "its usually 12" but its cold" lol "

or it shrunk in the bath

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

That's not good. Like the others I think the best thing to do is be more selective on line and not twin people away at the door when they may have comme from a long way off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hardened swingers eh?

some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet, if ur not fancied(thankfully ive done fine so far), accept that as this would be the case on a different type of meet.

at least u attended, some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

"

so you were supposed to meet this one as well????

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"you sould have told them your 12" and flopped it out and said "its usually 12" but its cold" lol

or it shrunk in the bath "

or "it might have been bigger if her over there hadn't been such a munter"

Might have taught them some manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardened swingers eh?some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet

"

I agree with this, if you met someone for a 1 to 1 meet you wouldnt open the door ask how big their cock was and close the door on them, so why for a gang bang?

Does the bigger the meet mean the less manners you have?

If you invite 20 people do they all of a sudden turn into lesser people with no feeling?

do we get cold to it all the longer we have been doing and really do start to see people as meat?

11 years ive been doing this and i still cant work some parts of it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have said to the bloke "Well, obviously we can't all measure up to you, you're the biggest prick here!"

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By *iminkillieMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

My cock is 7.5" by 5" girth an I've never had a complaint yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8in +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardened swingers eh?some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet

I agree with this, if you met someone for a 1 to 1 meet you wouldnt open the door ask how big their cock was and close the door on them, so why for a gang bang?

Does the bigger the meet mean the less manners you have?

If you invite 20 people do they all of a sudden turn into lesser people with no feeling?

do we get cold to it all the longer we have been doing and really do start to see people as meat?

11 years ive been doing this and i still cant work some parts of it out "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardened swingers eh?some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet

I agree with this, if you met someone for a 1 to 1 meet you wouldnt open the door ask how big their cock was and close the door on them, so why for a gang bang?

Does the bigger the meet mean the less manners you have?

If you invite 20 people do they all of a sudden turn into lesser people with no feeling?

do we get cold to it all the longer we have been doing and really do start to see people as meat?

11 years ive been doing this and i still cant work some parts of it out "

One side of a story, am afraid,

Could have been a variety of reasons or an excuse saying cocks not big enough, and this is not aimed at the OP obviously...but there has been on occasion guys/cpls/fems attending large groups unwashed.....sad but true

as for lying about the cock size, thats never going to help if u knw there are requirements beforehand?

sorta lke me going to a gangbang when shes requested guys at 6ft and I turn up saying what different does it make when ur lying down we all the same lol

*dont think its very clear on HOW the OP was asked to leave, if it was inside the house (all cosey) or on the door step, was it done discreetly etc etc

bit sad OP never got to cum in her face or mouth at least lol...I'dve asked for that at least lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that is one side of a story can you say for sure that the OP is wrong?

Can't say that at all I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad sad shallow people lol

And yes I know it's personal choice and I love big cocks myself truth be known

But come on

That was bang outta order

They obviously didn't state the sizes they required

It's a swinging site not a fooking tailors xx "

lol @ fooking tailors...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why didn't you just offer to fuck her twice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... and when she said she wanted a guy like a horse, she meant hung like one, not face like one

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

cock looks fine to me, just like a normal cock.dont sweat it, but she should have asked beforehand or said what she expected.obviously has a bigger pussy than some of us women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What im getting at is......from where to where do people actually measure. For me....its the length that you can actually get in"

I think some measure from arsehole to tip.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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at least u attended, some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

"

has that happened to you as well?

small world innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I attended a gangbang at which the lady concerned wanted men who were above average.

On attending I was asked for my size and stupidly told the truth that I was 7" long by 4.9" girth.

I was then asked to leave as this was not considered large enough.

Given that medical studies atate that the average male is between 5.5" to 6" in lenght and 4.75" to 5" in girth I thought I would be considered in the large catagory. Obviously not.

I would welcome comments on what a lady would consider large so that I do not make the same very embarrassing mistake again.

4.9" girth???

Blimey if that was true, I'd have asked you to leave too lol

Brutal! "

lol I actually thought he meant 4.9 inches diameter which made my eyes water

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"hardened swingers eh?

some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet, if ur not fancied(thankfully ive done fine so far), accept that as this would be the case on a different type of meet.

at least u attended, some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

"

wow we have had that exact excuse... you mean he was telling a fib?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardened swingers eh?

some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet, if ur not fancied(thankfully ive done fine so far), accept that as this would be the case on a different type of meet.

at least u attended, some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

"

Haahaahaahaa @ zombie plague virus...you're growing on me!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Yesterday I attended a gangbang at which the lady concerned wanted men who were above average.

snip...

4.9" girth???

Blimey if that was true, I'd have asked you to leave too lol "
Don't forget that girth is measured round the cock - not the diameter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when guys know their exact measurements and even put in the decimal point, it does make me chuckle.

Whilst it does seem very rude to be asked to drop the trousers to inspect and then asked to leave, and I find it incredible that people would have the balls to do that, the woman is within her rights to say no and ask guys to leave.

Trying to insinuate that the woman has a loose vagina is a bit silly tho isn't it. This tends to be a guy licking his wounds after being hurt statement, along with the 'I can't get hard cos the female is not good looking enough statement.

Its a shame and if it was solely a size requirement thing then this should have been cleared up at the messaging stage, but people also have to accept that just because they have been invited to a gangbang, it does not give them an exclusive right to have sex. It could simply have been she didn't like your looks and told hubby to ask you to leave and he came up with this plan to get you out of there. There is little point arguing over what the national average is, a no is a no.

But it can't have been nice Op so sorry this happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when guys know their exact measurements and even put in the decimal point, it does make me chuckle.

Whilst it does seem very rude to be asked to drop the trousers to inspect and then asked to leave, and I find it incredible that people would have the balls to do that, the woman is within her rights to say no and ask guys to leave.

Trying to insinuate that the woman has a loose vagina is a bit silly tho isn't it. This tends to be a guy licking his wounds after being hurt statement, along with the 'I can't get hard cos the female is not good looking enough statement.

Its a shame and if it was solely a size requirement thing then this should have been cleared up at the messaging stage, but people also have to accept that just because they have been invited to a gangbang, it does not give them an exclusive right to have sex. It could simply have been she didn't like your looks and told hubby to ask you to leave and he came up with this plan to get you out of there. There is little point arguing over what the national average is, a no is a no.

But it can't have been nice Op so sorry this happened "

Pretty much sums it up for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hardened swingers eh?

some conflicting attitudes here......attending a gangbang is no different from any other meet, if ur not fancied(thankfully ive done fine so far), accept that as this would be the case on a different type of meet.

at least u attended, some dont even get off the computer while their stuck in traffic as their mothers coffins just been lowered in the grave as they are just in a shop buying her perfume for xmas but just found out that they have contracted a zombie plague virus

Haahaahaahaa @ zombie plague virus...you're growing on me! "

i might lick ur tasty zombie fuckness someday....who knows...can i shut the fuck up...and just use my oralpieskills on u?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would have watched thro the window and then spurted thro their letterbox...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have watched thro the window and then spurted thro their letterbox...

"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Without meaning to sound harsh I think in the thread that some may have forgotten that people still have the right to refuse at any time for any reason.... Just the same as any other meet.

Yes the op may have gone thru something a bit more extreme..... But the point still stands!

If the person had changed their mind altogether then would we even be having this conversation? Just because it was a gangbang it doesn't mean they are obligated to play with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as the OP states quite plainly the person in question specifically asked for above averageand looking at the pics (and I am no qualified expert) sorry but he looks pretty average to me.

Sorry sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without meaning to sound harsh I think in the thread that some may have forgotten that people still have the right to refuse at any time for any reason.... Just the same as any other meet.

Yes the op may have gone thru something a bit more extreme..... But the point still stands!

If the person had changed their mind altogether then would we even be having this conversation? Just because it was a gangbang it doesn't mean they are obligated to play with everyone."

I agree

However i think if someone wants a certain size cock that should be made clear at the stage of messaging, it is not acceptable, in my opinion, to invite someone to a meet then ask their cock size and ask them to leave after they have made the effort to travel to meet them

I also agree, as stated a few times in the thread, this maybe an excuse and it could be the lady didnt like the look of him, in which cause they should be honest, how is saying your cocks to small any ruder or harder to say than, sorry your not my type?

I just dont think its right that some people on here see others as so insignificant that they think its ok to let someone travel, sometimes a long way, to ask after they have arrived what size there cock is, im sorry, and some may not agree, but it makes you wonder if its some kind of game they are playing, almost like they are getting their kicks by letting people turn up to turn them away........if you was genuine surely you'd make such things clear befor hand

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

OP when you moving in? Spare room's ready and waiting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the holders of the gangbang have every right to refuse sex as if I found a woman unnattractive then I wouldn't expect to be forced into sleeping with her. I'd tell her straight out that this was the case. On a site like this I coldn't see it offending her (so long as I did it tactfully) as there'd be plenty of guys who would probably tell her she was "the sexiest woman on here".

I do agree though that this should have been sorted out beforehand to save everyone wasted time and effort, as it wasn't impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men like big tits, ...some women like big cocks,... always best to tell truth before you meet people if they want large cocks... to me, a large cock is 9 and over,..when i used to meet men this is what id go for,...each to their own hun, everyone is entitled to their own preferance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that whether the OP met the criteria or not should have been established before he turned up and sorry to hear you've had an embarrassing experience. Don't let it get to you. I'm sure you'll have read in other threads that many ladies aren't keen on really huge cocks. Ms

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


" I think that the holders of the gangbang have every right to refuse sex as if I found a woman unnattractive then I wouldn't expect to be forced into sleeping with her. I'd tell her straight out that this was the case. On a site like this I coldn't see it offending her (so long as I did it tactfully) as there'd be plenty of guys who would probably tell her she was "the sexiest woman on here".

I do agree though that this should have been sorted out beforehand to save everyone wasted time and effort, as it wasn't impossible."

thank you... and in all the "there, there, there" for the OP people seem to forget there are two sides to every story....

if for any reason they didn't want to play, then yes..no means no!

could all of this have been sorted beforehand.. sure... but people can change there minds even up until the last minute......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without meaning to sound harsh I think in the thread that some may have forgotten that people still have the right to refuse at any time for any reason.... Just the same as any other meet.

Yes the op may have gone thru something a bit more extreme..... But the point still stands!

If the person had changed their mind altogether then would we even be having this conversation? Just because it was a gangbang it doesn't mean they are obligated to play with everyone.

I agree

However i think if someone wants a certain size cock that should be made clear at the stage of messaging, it is not acceptable, in my opinion, to invite someone to a meet then ask their cock size and ask them to leave after they have made the effort to travel to meet them

I also agree, as stated a few times in the thread, this maybe an excuse and it could be the lady didnt like the look of him, in which cause they should be honest, how is saying your cocks to small any ruder or harder to say than, sorry your not my type?

I just dont think its right that some people on here see others as so insignificant that they think its ok to let someone travel, sometimes a long way, to ask after they have arrived what size there cock is, im sorry, and some may not agree, but it makes you wonder if its some kind of game they are playing, almost like they are getting their kicks by letting people turn up to turn them away........if you was genuine surely you'd make such things clear befor hand "

I do sort of agree with that, but we only have one side of the story here.

I've met men who have told me one thing about their size on line, and then when I've met them, they've obviously been inflating the truth

In which case, I feel I have the right to say, sorry you're too small for me, because they've lied in the first place.

Just the same as people who send really old pictures and when they show up, it's obvious they are different. However far they've travelled, a lie is a lie and they should expect to be told no thanks.

I do also think that a lot of men who attend gangbangs think the woman should just take what she is given, whether she likes all the men or not. And that is so wrong in my opinion.

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without meaning to sound harsh I think in the thread that some may have forgotten that people still have the right to refuse at any time for any reason.... Just the same as any other meet.

Yes the op may have gone thru something a bit more extreme..... But the point still stands!

If the person had changed their mind altogether then would we even be having this conversation? Just because it was a gangbang it doesn't mean they are obligated to play with everyone.

I agree

However i think if someone wants a certain size cock that should be made clear at the stage of messaging, it is not acceptable, in my opinion, to invite someone to a meet then ask their cock size and ask them to leave after they have made the effort to travel to meet them

I also agree, as stated a few times in the thread, this maybe an excuse and it could be the lady didnt like the look of him, in which cause they should be honest, how is saying your cocks to small any ruder or harder to say than, sorry your not my type?

I just dont think its right that some people on here see others as so insignificant that they think its ok to let someone travel, sometimes a long way, to ask after they have arrived what size there cock is, im sorry, and some may not agree, but it makes you wonder if its some kind of game they are playing, almost like they are getting their kicks by letting people turn up to turn them away........if you was genuine surely you'd make such things clear befor hand

I do sort of agree with that, but we only have one side of the story here.

I've met men who have told me one thing about their size on line, and then when I've met them, they've obviously been inflating the truth

In which case, I feel I have the right to say, sorry you're too small for me, because they've lied in the first place.

Just the same as people who send really old pictures and when they show up, it's obvious they are different. However far they've travelled, a lie is a lie and they should expect to be told no thanks.

I do also think that a lot of men who attend gangbangs think the woman should just take what she is given, whether she likes all the men or not. And that is so wrong in my opinion.

Oh well "

i also agree

believe me i have turn many a man away because he has lied about thing or send old pics etc

I do not think all because you arrange a meet you have to go thro with it

All my opinions are based purely on the facts we have, that being they didnt ask him his cock size before the meet but turned him away for it after, to me thats wrong and yes there could be more to it than that but im only going by the information given as thats all i have

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Indeed we are all at liberty to decline a meet of any nature continuing to sexual activity if we feel someone does not meet our preferences…. whatever our preferences are. This is equally true, if not more so, when it is an event to live out a fantasy.

I am not so sure the organiser was rude as many have suggested, though it is true the organiser could have been clearer before the event what she defined as ‘above average’…. but then again the organiser is not the one on here moaning because a 7 incher turned up. Let’s not forget the OP could have also enquired what was considered ‘above average’ before attending….. rather than chancing it and hoping for a ‘well you’re here now’ attitude.

The thing I do find rude….. considering this is meant to be a site for adults and not an after school hangout for kids with working parents…. are the comments relating to the organiser having a an oversized vagina because of her preferences for the gangbang.

The immaturity and ignorance of some people on this site is astounding at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without meaning to sound harsh I think in the thread that some may have forgotten that people still have the right to refuse at any time for any reason.... Just the same as any other meet.

Yes the op may have gone thru something a bit more extreme..... But the point still stands!

If the person had changed their mind altogether then would we even be having this conversation? Just because it was a gangbang it doesn't mean they are obligated to play with everyone.

I agree

However i think if someone wants a certain size cock that should be made clear at the stage of messaging, it is not acceptable, in my opinion, to invite someone to a meet then ask their cock size and ask them to leave after they have made the effort to travel to meet them

I also agree, as stated a few times in the thread, this maybe an excuse and it could be the lady didnt like the look of him, in which cause they should be honest, how is saying your cocks to small any ruder or harder to say than, sorry your not my type?

I just dont think its right that some people on here see others as so insignificant that they think its ok to let someone travel, sometimes a long way, to ask after they have arrived what size there cock is, im sorry, and some may not agree, but it makes you wonder if its some kind of game they are playing, almost like they are getting their kicks by letting people turn up to turn them away........if you was genuine surely you'd make such things clear befor hand "

I'm afraid _iewing others as insignificant is an unpleasant trait that can be found in all sexes, it just happens on this site more with women/couples because they have the numerical advantage of being in greater demand. Going on the flip side of the coin there'll be plenty of sites out there for people who are looking to get hitched quick and settle down with a spouse as soon as possible. The amount of women on these sites will massively outnumber men as the biological clock ticks down for women more than men, plus a greater number of women find manogamy a massive turn on compared to their male counterparts. It naturally follows that there'll be men on these sites using this to their advantage and simply meeting up with unsuspecting women, sleeping with them, then telling them in no uncertain terms to bugger off, simply because they are the ones in demand and can get away with it. Unfair? Yes, very much so. It is just something a lot of women have to expect on these sites and cope with, same as men have to on this one. I don't think being a bastard for want of a better word is mutually exclusive to any one sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very shocked on reading this how bloody rude,,,,, i think that if asked that question in the first place i would have chosen to leave chin up were all not like that on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

All my opinions are based purely on the facts we have, that being they didnt ask him his cock size before the meet but turned him away for it after, to me thats wrong and yes there could be more to it than that but im only going by the information given as thats all i have "

I agree again (this is getting to be a habit

When I first read this thread I thought 4.9 inches!!! Blimey he'd never get it in lol but then I actually got my tape measure out to see just how big that is.....(yes I need to get a life lol)....but now I know to always check that they're talking circumference and not diameter

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Given that medical studies atate that the average male is between 5.5" to 6" in lenght and 4.75" to 5" in girth I thought I would be considered in the large catagory. Obviously not."

Firstly please allow me to correct you.

Medical studies indicate the average white UK male penis size is 5.5-6.5 inches.

So to look at it another way... you are average girth and approx half an inch above average length..... not a huge margin of dufference there is it?

A woman has asked for above average.... come on use your other head for a moment. Does she want to know you are one half of an inch bigger than the average white UK male by holding a tape measure to you or has she asked for 'above average' because she wants to know she is being fucked by a large cock because of how it feels inside.

I doubt many women on here could really feel a noticable difference between a 6.5 incher and a 7 incher... if they were both average girth.

Mate.... you pushed your luck over half an inch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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come on use your other head for a moment. "

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

probably one of the reasons, why i have never been that lucky with meets on lol

I am by no means, a hung guy (hate that term)... I accept people for what they are , be it, skinny, medium or bbw... by all means, people are allowed to have their preferences but i think some people on here have become a bit size obsessed lol... but to to tell someone to leave cos he does not pack the right equipment, well, it speaks more about them than you to be honest...

probably has an 18in glass dildo hidden somewhere...

So to the OP... keep your chin up, nothing wrong with you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the posts and I have to admit to being surprised at how many have replied.

Just to clarify a few points

1) The GB was organised by the lady's husband and I had sent my profile details along with both face and full frontal photo's so they knew what to expect.

2) I fully respect the right of anyone to say no and in some ways I have no real issue being turned away. What really teed me off was the fact that it was done in the room with other guys around and they had seen me.

I am now seriously thinking of leaving the scene and will definately not go to any more GB's.

Thanks to all those ladies who have restored my sel confidence and I hope you all have a great Christmas

Steve

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