FabSwingers.com forum: Has the concept of a sexy female body changed?

By *empsey and hotpiece OP Man
over a year ago

North west

Ok I’m knocking on a bit and can remember the days when a lot of women aspired to a slim body, little bum etc. It seems now that curves and a “bubble butt” are now in fashion.

What changed and why?

I must admit my personal preference has also altered but I’m not even sure why, obviously being in love with a curvy woman has something to do with it, but I now find myself with a completely different taste to what I did 20 years ago.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ok I’m knocking on a bit and can remember the days when a lot of women aspired to a slim body, little bum etc. It seems now that curves and a “bubble butt” are now in fashion.

What changed and why?

I agree with yuu and i hope it a more healthy modern trend.

Give me a curvy lady with some shape any day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love a woman with curves and a great bum!!

personally for myself, I'd love a bubble butt and to be curvy but fit... do need to actually workout again though for that haha

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Curvy women have always been popular. Fat women also. Obese not until recently, and even now there is still that stigma attached for many people although this is not as bad as it was.

Look at actual couples you grew up with, family couple, friends couples, hardly anyone you knew actually fitted the 'attractive' stereotypes seen in the media and the news.

People are a lot larger overall now that's all.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

Your bodies are sexy!! Always loved curves and not skin and Bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the obsession with "bubble butts" probably has something to do with the rise of fitness culture and the Instagram generation.

Not that I'm complaining of course

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Ok I’m knocking on a bit and can remember the days when a lot of women aspired to a slim body, little bum etc. It seems now that curves and a “bubble butt” are now in fashion.

What changed and why?

Nope. I have fancied your Mrs for years

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Not really. Everybody has their type and will be attracted to that type. Couples will generally be attracted to other couples similar in looks and body shape to themselves. The fact that there's so many single guys on here looking for an easy Shag means that ordinary preferences and types aren't always followed.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy."

You're saying the older you get, the lower your standards slip...

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Always preferred the slimmer woman, I have had a couple of offers from women with fuller figures but I just don’t find them attractive. I have always had these feelings and I think it very unlikely I’ll change....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubble butt, smaller boobs & tight stomach please

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By *empsey and hotpiece OP Man
over a year ago

North west

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy."

I think I’ve actually got more picky as I’ve got older to be honest. I used to just be interested in collecting notches on my bedstead, I wasn’t even sure what I wanted from a woman. Now I find a woman attractive for more reasons than just how she looks .

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By *empsey and hotpiece OP Man
over a year ago

North west

Nope. I have fancied your Mrs for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I’m knocking on a bit and can remember the days when a lot of women aspired to a slim body, little bum etc. It seems now that curves and a “bubble butt” are now in fashion.

What changed and why?

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Has the concept changed or has the difficulty of getting meets here lowered the standard, controversial I know, I myself am not influenced by size I go on personality and looks

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't think anything has really changed. I think the majority of men have always appreciated some curves but the image the media have pushed of the ideal female figure just hasn't always followed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy.

You're saying the older you get, the lower your standards slip..."

Beggars can't be choosers Clem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy.

You're saying the older you get, the lower your standards slip...

Beggars can't be choosers Clem. "

That’ll learn you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy."

Do you have statistics to back this up or is this in your opinion? If it is, it isn’t a fact.

People of all ages like different things and I’d say I’ve come across more younger guys being more flexible on their types than I have older men.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If you look at the history of what body shapes are desirable you'll see see that what is desirable in terms of body shape is constantly changing with time and also with culture. Its nothing new.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I don't think anything has really changed. I think the majority of men have always appreciated some curves but the image the media have pushed of the ideal female figure just hasn't always followed that. "

What about the 1920s when flat ironing board figure was very much the trend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you look at the history of what body shapes are desirable you'll see see that what is desirable in terms of body shape is constantly changing with time and also with culture. Its nothing new."

I’ve thought for a while that body shape fashion has changed. I put it down to Jennifer Lopez, the Kardashians and the American mainstream embracing Latina and other non-white body shapes and cultures where there is more emphasis on curves and booty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus companies have finally figured out that fat women have money too..

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Plus companies have finally figured out that fat women have money too.."

Lmfao at that, harsh but fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus companies have finally figured out that fat women have money too..

Lmfao at that, harsh but fair! "

Well it’s like the ‘pink pound’ isn’t it, except we aren’t as wealthy because of all the cake and chips we have to buy.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some guys will get up on the craic of dawn. I have walked away from a meet cos of no chemistry . I don't care about shape or size just so long as we hit it off .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Plus companies have finally figured out that fat women have money too..

Lmfao at that, harsh but fair!

Well it’s like the ‘pink pound’ isn’t it, except we aren’t as wealthy because of all the cake and chips we have to buy."

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy.

You're saying the older you get, the lower your standards slip..."

Controversial.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Everyone’s perception although very individual is built from reality. The reality we live in is suffering a major obesity problem.

Sex is a primal instinct and though we do it for fun as well as reproduction we are wired to not be so picky that we rule out our chances entirely

The obvious mechanism we have to do this the ability to go with the flow and alter opinion and or preference.

That’s my logic at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own particular tastes however, a woman (or indeed anyone)will always be sexiest when they are happy and self confident in how they look.

Just my humble opinion - not that I can carry it off personally, prone to many a neurosis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your bodies are sexy!! Always loved curves and not skin and Bone"

Curves have skin over the top and bone underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like curves

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Nothing changed, you just got older and therefore the types of messaging you’re hearing is changing too.

The majority of guys under 25 still want slim and athletic women. Even most guys aged 25-35 would still prefer athletic and slim with big tits.

But as you (I mean “you” as in “everyone”) get older, you become more open minded, more realistic and less fussy.

You're saying the older you get, the lower your standards slip...

Beggars can't be choosers Clem. "

Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the 1920s when flat ironing board figure was very much the trend?"

That was because everyone was starving.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

What about the 1920s when flat ironing board figure was very much the trend?

That was because everyone was starving."

But that was the look that was desired. Are you suggesting as a hypothesis (as another poster above did) that sexual desire moves to favour that biggest supply? I did read that the UK was the fatest nation in Western Europe. Although I always thought it was the opposite, that there was a desire for rarer looking women. But then I always wondered for example are so many men who have gay sex in prison naturally gay or bisexual outside or have they adapted their sexual preference purely based on avalibilty to feed a hunger for sex? The desire to have sex is a strong one. One thing fab has taught me is that some men with jump through hoops and move goal posts just to get laid.

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