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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Literally impossible to get a message back on here, anyone got any tips apart from having a face transplant lol

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Completely impossible, no one on the site has ever had a message, ever.

OP, have you thought about what you'd like to receive in a message? Or if you were on here with a partner, what do you genuinely think she might want to receive?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's not impossible some of us are polite and answer.

Others go by the rule if not interested no need to reply.

Maybe your not the type the ppl your messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply even when it's a "sorry no thank you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a pair of tits and a vagina, you will get tons of replies then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol that is defo a good piece of advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Literally impossible to get a message back on here, anyone got any tips apart from having a face transplant lol "

send me one and I’ll reply

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to even get messages read let alone reply haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard to even get messages read let alone reply haha "

True! My "Sent messages" is full of unread messages. It's a bit disheartening to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard to even get messages read let alone reply haha

True! My "Sent messages" is full of unread messages. It's a bit disheartening to be honest."

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages"

First thing I look at before I even read the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

First thing I look at before I even read the message. "

Didn’t think mine was that bad lol

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

First thing I look at before I even read the message.

Didn’t think mine was that bad lol "

I'm not allowed to comment. But I would just say that when I read a profile I'm looking to see what we would have in common and why we could get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

First thing I look at before I even read the message.

Didn’t think mine was that bad lol

I'm not allowed to comment. But I would just say that when I read a profile I'm looking to see what we would have in common and why we could get along. "

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

First thing I look at before I even read the message. "

Same here, I usually read it a couple of times

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally I get so pissed off by the men that message me, they ignore what I am looking for, they are outside my age range, they want to meet now and all they deem the necessity that I need to see is a cock pic, do I need to go on?

They are always, too old, too overweight, too bald, too much facial hair or are just visiting my area, can you not understand why soo many females get soo pissed off when their wants and needs are blatantly ignored? It's as if all we are here for is to service you men, so no, fuck off, and read what we want for a change and if you don't match that, then please ignore us, it would be gratefully appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely I get all that I can imagine it would piss you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I get so pissed off by the men that message me, they ignore what I am looking for, they are outside my age range, they want to meet now and all they deem the necessity that I need to see is a cock pic, do I need to go on?

They are always, too old, too overweight, too bald, too much facial hair or are just visiting my area, can you not understand why soo many females get soo pissed off when their wants and needs are blatantly ignored? It's as if all we are here for is to service you men, so no, fuck off, and read what we want for a change and if you don't match that, then please ignore us, it would be gratefully appreciated "

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Literally impossible to get a message back on here, anyone got any tips apart from having a face transplant lol "

1/Don't let it get you down

2/Always be polite even if they are rude

3/Don't pester if its a no thanks

4/Don't paste the same message over and over

5/Always read profiles before mailing and think twice if you don't fit the criteria.

6/Be as honest as you can.

7/Finally lucky 7 is always look on the bright side of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Literally impossible to get a message back on here, anyone got any tips apart from having a face transplant lol "

Put up a fake picture. It obviously works x

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By *ake5176Man
over a year ago

City

I remember once a few years ago in Salisbury I had gone down through the town centre, stopping in a few shops to browse. I passed Burger King and turned left and went into Wetherspoons. Anyway, it took a while to find a table, being as it was quite a busy time in there so most of them were taken. I left my shopping on the chair and ordered a pint. Spoons do Punk IPA, my favourite beer probably.

Some people deride it as hipster juice but fuck, I like to enjoy the drinks I’m drinking. After a few of those, a bit of a play on my phone, scrolling through Instagram and the like, I got my stuff and left. My phone was low on battery so I thought I’d better get it charged up, only it died before I got back to my car.

I turned to my friend for a chat, but because he was in Norwich, it was impossible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It certainly helps putting some work into your profile as people often look at them alongside messages

First thing I look at before I even read the message. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean it’s impossible to get a meet? Maybe

Impossible to get a reply to a message? Hardly just have something interesting to say and be chatty and don’t immediately ask when you can fuck

In fact to prove it we are sending you a message now......

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP as others have said people often loo at a profile before even reading a message, let alone considering replying to it and if the profile isn't up to much will delete unread.

So instead of focussing on messages, take a look at your profile and ask yourself if you would message you if you read it.

Does it tell people about you and what you are looking for, and more importantly does it tell them what you think you can offer?

Is it enticing and written to pique people's interest enough to want to know more?

Does it help you stand out from the crowd and reflect some of your personality?

Are your pics thought out and creative showing off your body and not necessarily your cock?

Ask yourself those kinds of questions and if the answer is no to any of them, adjust accordingly.

The other thing you can do is get along to group socials or clubs or even get more involved in the forums and chat rooms which are all good ways of getting to know people as well as getting yourself known - you'd be surprised how many conversations spark just by being a regular forum poster for example.

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