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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly fake, possibly get off on making plans and cancelling, possibly any, possibly nervous, possibly in a relationship. Possibilities are endless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly fake, possibly get off on making plans and cancelling, possibly any, possibly nervous, possibly in a relationship. Possibilities are endless! "
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Shy* not any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly fake, possibly just don’t want to meet you. Are you sure you’re arranging to meet with real people? If it’s happened a few times recently then that’s a bit concerning.

Hope things improve. At least they aren’t standing you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly fake, possibly get off on making plans and cancelling, possibly any, possibly nervous, possibly in a relationship. Possibilities are endless! "

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Possibly fake, possibly get off on making plans and cancelling, possibly any, possibly nervous, possibly in a relationship. Possibilities are endless! .

Shy* not any "

It’s so annoying tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx"

Possibly men posing as woman and never actually had any intention of meeting.

Learn to spot them, its not difficult.

Poppy

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Possibly fake, possibly just don’t want to meet you. Are you sure you’re arranging to meet with real people? If it’s happened a few times recently then that’s a bit concerning.

Hope things improve. At least they aren’t standing you up "

Over a long period not just lately.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they really women?

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Yes, some time wasters on here. A real pain. We do our best to filter out, we are serious players and have veri's to show it. If others have been on here a long time and no veri's then we tend to pass them by and move on.

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Are they really women?"

I think so haha they send pics and chat for a while then just don’t meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they really women?

I think so haha they send pics and chat for a while then just don’t meet "

Must just be dickheads then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx"

I bet these women are really single men winding you up. What checks did you do to prove they were really women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx

I bet these women are really single men winding you up. What checks did you do to prove they were really women? "

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Let me guess....you do a lot of sexy chat?

These folk very rarely meet. Or are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they really women?

I think so haha they send pics and chat for a while then just don’t meet "

Think about it for while. Did you maybe say or do something that turned them off you? I am not saying you did. They could have just been flaky.

I have been talking to guys in the past with the intention of meet them. Then they did or said something that put me right off them. The meet was then never on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their are time wasters in all walks of life, it’s part of life’s great tapestry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they really women?

I think so haha they send pics and chat for a while then just don’t meet "

The pictures could have been fake. You said you chatted to them. Do you mean text and email chat or talking on the phone chat? If you never heard there voice it could have been a man winding you up.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

North East

Couple the other week with pics etc on profile showing as a mile away. "meet us at hotel. I'll meet you in car park."

I arrive, message to inform them. All of a sudden their profile shows as 40 miles away. I message to ask what's going on? No reply, then an hour later. "no we are still in hotel!"....

I was truly like "wtaf!"

You just wonder what goes on in some people's minds. Either that or they spied me, didn't like me and jumped in their helicopter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some keep you dangling until a better offer comes along, then message when it suits them.

The men who are fabbed left right and centre are the better offers us mere mortals get tuned down for.

#alwaysabridesmaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a similar experience when I play with hubby and are looking for an extra guy. I have lots of chat to make sure he’s comfortable in a MMF situation. I get all the chat and then 8/10 times he nails and then tries to tempt me into meeting him alone!

Time wasters on both sides of the fence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a similar experience when I play with hubby and are looking for an extra guy. I have lots of chat to make sure he’s comfortable in a MMF situation. I get all the chat and then 8/10 times he nails and then tries to tempt me into meeting him alone!

Time wasters on both sides of the fence x"

‘Bails’ not nails - wish I was nailed!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx"

It's not just women you know. I had radio silence last wk. Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx

It's not just women you know. I had radio silence last wk. Block and move on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got called a time waster on my single womans account and everytime it was a guy i said no thanks to

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

One guy I chatted with wanted nude pics straight away. Its not my style. Called me a time waster

He just wanted to add to his wank bank

F**k off.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hey guys I’m not here to winge but there are so many women that say they want to meet then always let you down on the day.

Do you thinks it’s because they are nervous or just not intrested In meeting at all xxx"

For a start saying hello back and exchanging a few messages is not an indication of wanting to meet up. I know you haven't said it is but many guys can be confused by that for some strange reason.

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Secondly having a few friends on here and having talked to them in the past about guys having second thoughts the primary reason of backing out is safety. As a woman you will chat to a chap and some will flatter you but not all instil a lasting feeling of honesty safety and feeling confident in them so as a woman as the time to meet comes closer you get the thought 'Is it really safe to meet him' and as soon as doubt comes into it most will back out. Is that wrong? Should a woman not put her personal safety first?

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Its the internet. All sites come with BEWARE OF TROLLS

Trick is not to get over excited and think with the brain. Its so easy to get carried away. Remember to keep your feet on the ground at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just caught out a guy pretending to be a woman! 1) not photo verified, 2) KIK addy was for a bloke, 3) only one photo of "her" mouth. Asked them a few probing questions and viola, I was blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 2 women let me down on here one arranged a meet then the day before the meet she deleted her profile only to rejoin under a new name when i sent her a msg asking if we were still on for meet she blocked me..the other time id been speaking to a woman for around a month and suggested we meet for a coffee,she agreed and on the day of the meet blocked me..this woman has been on here for over a year and has had no meets so im not sure what to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I sent a polite message to a woman who sent me a wink. Not suggesting anything but asking what her interests were. Her response?

“Hello” & deleted my message. She hadn’t even looked at my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I sent a polite message to a woman who sent me a wink. Not suggesting anything but asking what her interests were. Her response?

“Hello” & deleted my message. She hadn’t even looked at my profile "

She may have looked on stealth mode

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Are they really women?

I think so haha they send pics and chat for a while then just don’t meet

Think about it for while. Did you maybe say or do something that turned them off you? I am not saying you did. They could have just been flaky.

I have been talking to guys in the past with the intention of meet them. Then they did or said something that put me right off them. The meet was then never on the cards. "

But did you then say sorry we're not meeting anymore or just vanish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly fake, possibly just don’t want to meet you. Are you sure you’re arranging to meet with real people? If it’s happened a few times recently then that’s a bit concerning.

Hope things improve. At least they aren’t standing you up "
do you mean their replies are computer generated I used to be on another site that had this feature, in what way aren't they real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard of stealth mode but cannot find any details on the site

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have had a few ladies disappear on me. We were getting on grand and then just disappear . Had one lady went to meet 3 times should have not have even entertained her for a second meet not a mind a third but then I ended up chatting again .I even had a couple mess me about .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I was on a dating site and they have ladies that chat to you on some persons profile and when you try to chat to the real lady she won't chat to you . It's a scam to keep you on the site . I did get to meet lots of ladies but lots of messing towards the end .

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"I have heard of stealth mode but cannot find any details on the site "

Its withholding the ability for people to see you have visited their profile. Most women use it to reduce harassment.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

The first thing I do is always read a profile ..if I don't like their photos I won't message them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to many fake profiles going about now

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