FabSwingers.com forum: How soon is too soon

By *annoo OP Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

How long is a piece of string? Some people will have a meet daily. Some much longer. Whatever you are happy with. Who are you afraid is going to judge you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of meets in one day sometimes. If opportunties arise close together then who is judging? There is only you judging what is acceptable to you and what isn't xxx

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By *annoo OP Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long it takes Lazarus to rise im not as young as I used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet whenever you feel like, it’s nobody else’s business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

What you do with your life is up to you. Do whatever you think is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol"

How will anyone else know what you're doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol"

Hold your own standards, be true to them and don’t worry too much about it. As long as you are happy and you’re not hurting anyone, all is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

This is what I wanna know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?

This is what I wanna know.... "

The answer is simple. Its entirely up to you, and how comfortable you feel around it.

You can go as often as you like, play with as many as you like.

Or go and relax without play. Or only go once in a blue moon

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

Who is to say that your next meet hasn't just come from another meet. My only thing would be hygiene

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

As long as there's enough time to get rid of your first meet and have a quick shower... then all is good.

Cal

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I once arranged a meet while another guy was fucking me. He loved it!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"just worry it would be considered not good even though this is fab lol"

As long as you are up front and dont leave people hanging it is acceptable. But a polite have a good night Im off to mingle and play is the grown up way to do it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oh I also asked one meet to 'give me 5'as I was chucking another out the dior

Again. He didn't mind waiting and we fucked all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a year is acceptable, maybe twice?

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Once a year is acceptable, maybe twice?

Would that be a "leap year"

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

No that it's any of our business, but you didn't indicate if they are social meets or otherwise.

As mentioned above, it's about what you feel comfortable with.

Sadly you may get the occasional person looking down on you being judgemental.

As meeting / playing several times in an evening in a club with verifications is okay.

But meeting every single day makes you 'easy'

**Not that I think that of anyone.

Ultimately it's your life and rules on what makes you happy.

If someone doesn't want to meet you because you meet too much?

Socially or otherwise, then that's their choice.

What works for you doesn't work for someone else.

Just go out and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

As soon as you can get it up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once arranged a meet while another guy was fucking me. He loved it! "

That's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you shower in between then it doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next day?

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

"I once arranged a meet while another guy was fucking me. He loved it! "

I love such slutty sexy behaviour. Sooooo hot X

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

As many as possible in one day... Guess up by the hour!.... Then leave it and don't do it again.... The experience has taken place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever someone you like asks to meet and you want to.I've had months in between new people, and a couple of days back when I was younger and fitter.

It's your life, live it how you want to

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Straight after or, better still, combine the two... I love more-sums

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It is entirely up to you OP,don't worry about what anyone else thinks. You're doing this for you, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as you shower in between then it doesn't matter

I did that once. I'd arranged to meet someone new from here and then a buddy asked to see me in the same evening. I showered before I left new man and dropped in on my way home.

I wish I had that kind of energy still.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

My favourite is two have three in a row. It is a quite reliable receipe to go home with a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to believe this is even a question.

This is a swingers site (clue is in the name).

Meet whoever you want,whenever you want,whenever you can.

It's your life,not anyone elses,someone else don't like that,well that's their problem.

You are here for you.

Anyone else gets rot join you that's their good fortune,anyone have a negative opinion on how you lead your personal life,well those people aren't worth knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything from once a month to 3 meets in a day! Usually once or twice a week is average for us. All down to the individual(s) really.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Whatever works for you OP, whatever works. Lots of positive advice here and your profile is open and honest.

Do what makes you happy and that’s all you need worry about.

Personally, I’ve gone from a meet to another and I make sure the people I’m seeing know that beforehand so they can say fine or no thanks. This Friday being a case in point

From my Fab studies, 60% of the time, it works every time

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"My favourite is two have three in a row. It is a quite reliable receipe to go home with a smile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do what you like. Honestly, if anyone on here is judging how much sex you're having, you're well rid of them. (possessiveness is a red flag, if it's that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as you shower in between then it doesn't matter

I did that once. I'd arranged to meet someone new from here and then a buddy asked to see me in the same evening. I showered before I left new man and dropped in on my way home.

I wish I had that kind of energy still."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

What club is that?. We don't do that

. Whenever you like to. Do as one pleases. Lexi

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?"

No one else needs to know what you do or who you meet, it is entirely up to you who you meet and when

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"ok so i appreciate in a club situation it is accepted to shag one person after another and in threesomes etc

but how soon is it do a meet then go for another one?

What club is that?. We don't do that

. Whenever you like to. Do as one pleases. Lexi"

She didn't say Uig was a rule just that it was accepted that you could of you wanted to

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