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By *9please OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Be honest guys how many of you have paid for sex and was it worth it?

A girlfriend has just spent time with a male escort and says she enjoyed herself but wasn't as good as she'd imagined? Not tried myself and wondered if many guys do?

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By *ogostick72Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Never paid for sex, don't mix pleasure and business

For me there has to be a connection and mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find paid sex a big turn off, I get turned on if the other is feeling it too...much sexier

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have considered a massage parlour, never been with an escort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I paid for girls for exs before and they enjoyed it. Not paid for a guy myself but would do so if I had the money.. as got to be easier and not worry about the awkward after bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I paid for girls for exs before and they enjoyed it. Not paid for a guy myself but would do so if I had the money.. as got to be easier and not worry about the awkward after bits. "

I'm sure don't need to pay x

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By *9please OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

That's how I feel. Has to be a sexual connection

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By *9please OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yh i have been tempted but I need sexual attraction

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By *9please OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Considered but not tried yet?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

Yep I have, it was worth the money. A lot of fun.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"I find paid sex a big turn off, I get turned on if the other is feeling it too...much sexier"

This...

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I actually rather fancied being an "escort many years ago... never happened though

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By *hickinthewarmMan
over a year ago

Fife

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By *hickinthewarmMan
over a year ago

Fife

Any man who tells you they haven’t paid for sex is a bullshitter. We’ve all paid for it in some form, wether that’s cash in hand, or the cost of 10 vodka and s and a chip shop takeaway at the end of the night

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Never have no, a friend of mine has though but he didn't enjoy it. He said the fact you know all the noises are forced ruins it and it all just feels like a business transaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your married you have paid a lot for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve paid for sex. I enjoyed it and I can highly recommend it

It’s not like relationship sex, it’s sex as a leisure activity but a good escort will make sure you have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes and very, 2 relationships put of it. That were both fun.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I first went with escorts in the early 2000s, mainly because my married sex life had become routine and a bit boring. I could have done what many friends did and had an affair but I still loved my wife and having an affair would have meant getting into a relationship. Escorts seemed like a good way of having horny sex the way we did when my wife and I got together. However including BJs which my wife wasn't into, although she loved me going down on her, without any involvement.

I started seeing escorts and it seemed to be working to plan, I could afford the money, my business at the time involved lots of non traceable cash so it wasn't affecting our income. Then one day a lady opened the door to me and we just clicked uit early on. I started seeing just her on a regular basis, 4 months after we 1st met I went to her place to drop off a Xmas present as we wouldn't be meeting for a couple of weeks and she was at the top of the stairs in white lingrie stockings and heels with mine, no charge.

After this it was free and we got closer and closer. Eventually my wife found out, sadly ending up in a divorce, so my no relationship plan clarly didn't work.

We ended up living together with various joint business / property ventures while we both ran our succesful separate businesses.

I had replaced another client whon she'd got into a relationship with, eventually after 3 years plus I was replaced by a younger model, as she said, 'it's the nature of the beast.'

During this time and after I met many other working girls and punters on the social scene of it, (like swinging it does exist). I discovered through living with the lady and becoming friends with others, (sometimes joining in when a 3rd man was required for a job) that the womans pleasure isn't always faked. One woman we became friends with told me that she got into escorting after visting a well known Midlands swingers club with an internet date. She told me she thought 'I can be fucked by lots of strangers and enjoy it.' Shortly after she gave up her college job teaching IT and went escorting. A few years later she married a rich American client and moved to live in LA with him. The lady I was with could have had him but wanted to retain her independence.

I've since had a lot of involvement in the sex business and mostly enjoyed the company of the people I've met. I'm pretty sure that the WGs I known have all been there on a voluntary basis, (I've never had dealings with non UK girls).

I've rented flats in the past to WGs, mostly found them reliable tenants, (certainly compared to 'normal' ones). Most are usually quite down to earth with a good sense of humour and quite intelligent, (the lady I lived with was making £75,000 tax free a year which we managed to put into various investments and when she retired she had a fully legitmate profitable business which is still going now.

My view comes from someone who has known the business and the swinging game, loves both for the fun and the people.

I know that escorts are somewhat frowned upon in the swinging scene and I dissaprove when people try charging for swinging events beyond expenses.

I have know escorts who enjoy the swinging scene, however they tend to keep that quiet on the punting scene as they don't want people thinking 'oh I can get her for free.'

My basic rule is whatever you fancy get on with it as long as it causes no harm, sorry for such a long post, hope you found it interesting enlightening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Mr PYM) a while ago I went into a massage parlour for a "normal" massage but the massage girl kept brushing her hand against my balls and cock. The inevitable happened and I got a hard on!! She asked me if there was a problem and did I need help with it

We negotiated an extras price and she wanked me off. Probs the easiest and quickest $30 she'd ever made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never paid for sex, don't mix pleasure and business

For me there has to be a connection and mutual attraction"

Your just saying that cause you think that's what they want you to hear, and you saw it in Someone's profile

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Never paid for sex, don't mix pleasure and business

For me there has to be a connection and mutual attraction

Your just saying that cause you think that's what they want you to hear, and you saw it in Someone's profile"

.....or that's how most adults make their decisions about who to have sex with

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Your more likely to catch a STD from a girl in working in a massage parlour than a escort,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's great to see some people being honest about their past experiences. Atm there's unmanageable free sex but I'd absolutely not rule it out if I was in need. Paying a guy for simple pleasure, without drama etc, could work in various circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few shagfests in Thailand in the 90,s were awesome enjoyed every minute luckily survived std free but would be worried about stds now

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Always a disappointment

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford


"Your more likely to catch a STD from a girl in working in a massage parlour than a escort,"

Why?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Slept with an escort when I was 22 and her mate who was probably just being introduced into the profession by her. Even though the mate was less attractive I probably enjoyed it more. Maybe because she seemed more genuine whereas the experienced escort was goimg through the motions of doing what she thought I expect her to do. It just felt very cliched in all she did. With her mate it felt more natural. By the way she never actually told me she was an escort so I wasn't charged obviously, I just figured it out later. I was pretty dumb at 22. I sometimes think about paying for it and browsed websites before but I doubt I'd enjoy it and would probably feel shit afterwards that I had to resort to paying so I don't think I would ever.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I paid for sex when I was working in Russia. I got two stunning young Russian girl same time and it was really pure fun, which i can't forget.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Your more likely to catch a STD from a girl in working in a massage parlour than a escort,"

My experience of the game over 17 or so years, (as detailed previously), is that you're more likely to get BB with an indie than a parlour girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find paid sex a big turn off, I get turned on if the other is feeling it too...much sexier"

This. I'm a pleaser, therefore the biggest turn on for me in sex is my partner in mischief having that connection with me and being as turned on and pleasured as possible which I do my damnedest to ensure?

With paid sex the lady I was indulging with would be primarily "doing a job" and no matter how good an actress she was I would know in my mind that she wasn't even in it for the delight and the experience would fall flat for these reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never paid sex of any description and never would, just not my thing, I’d rather go without.

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

Ashley is considering doing escort work, however she's not really got any intention of sexual activities with any potential clients. More actually escorting men to functions and what not. Personally i don't think there's much demand for 'soft' escort work.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ashley is considering doing escort work, however she's not really got any intention of sexual activities with any potential clients. More actually escorting men to functions and what not. Personally i don't think there's much demand for 'soft' escort work. "

I'm sure there will be a few people that would be happy with 'soft escorting but I think the majority of client will be more interested in the sex side of it

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport


"Ashley is considering doing escort work, however she's not really got any intention of sexual activities with any potential clients. More actually escorting men to functions and what not. Personally i don't think there's much demand for 'soft' escort work.

She feels the sex side of it would make her feel used and not in a good way like normal

I'm sure there will be a few people that would be happy with 'soft escorting but I think the majority of client will be more interested in the sex side of it"

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Escort for me and always good fun. Now I prefer going for porn stars. Rebecca More was awesome and next is ts Foxxy when I go to Vegas soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a few years ago before I met the Mrs.

Like anything else in life, some are good, the odd one is mindblowing, others not so.

Like the old adage, you get what you pay for.

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By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

All you saying you wouldn’t pay for sex don’t be so uptight us girls have to pay the bills somehow

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

I recently dabbled in this using a popular site. Booked the timeslot within ten minutes via text. Fee was £60 for half an hour. It was no different from some of the fab meets I've had. Spontaneous and that surprise and kink of meeting a stranger for sex.

The experience was absolutely fabulous. A mid forties milf dressed to please and we had a wonderful time.

She told me she genuinely loved cock so why not be paid for it.

From my point of view. In the past I've spent far more money on getting to dates, taking people out and far more time wasted on pointless chats going nowhere than the hour of fun and £70 this cost me.

So all for it!

One thing I don't like is paying for things like lap dances. Never understand blokes chucking money at that sort of stuff. If you want to pay for a sexy time then go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of lapdances in lads' weekends abroad. I'm quite uncomfortable with them for some reason.

I paid for sex once in Prague in a 'club'. It was no more than OK but then again I'd had my beer quota so I doubt I was her best fuck that night either.

I've had maybe 4 'happy ending' massages. They were mixed, it's more about the massage than the hand job though. I mean, you can't really go wrong with an oily hand job but a sensual massage? It takes a bit more knowhow.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Escort for me and always good fun. Now I prefer going for porn stars. Rebecca More was awesome and next is ts Foxxy when I go to Vegas soon. "

How does that happen then? I see many porn clips where fans win the chance to fuck their fav porn stars. And if porn stars offer to screw their fans I imagine the fee involved is prohibitive. However, I would pawn my nans's TV and rob her pension to fund a sesh with Ava Addams.

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By *orthern BeardMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Escort for me and always good fun. Now I prefer going for porn stars. Rebecca More was awesome and next is ts Foxxy when I go to Vegas soon.

How does that happen then? I see many porn clips where fans win the chance to fuck their fav porn stars. And if porn stars offer to screw their fans I imagine the fee involved is prohibitive. However, I would pawn my nans's TV and rob her pension to fund a sesh with Ava Addams. "

There are loads that offer it. If you’ve got £300+ for an hour

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

A gave a lady a lift in exchange for a bj couple weeks ago.... Cost me around £10 for diesel.... Does that count??

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Mr did quite a lot of escorting in the 90s It was great fun and it made him feel good about himself. The ladies always seemed to be happy and many came back as return clients. Couple from Southport please note the clients always expected sex in one form or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay for it every day iv got 3 kids

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By *any32Man
over a year ago

norwich

I've paid for it, had a spare half hour so had some fun, life's to short so be safe and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've done it a few of times.

One girl was so good and so sexy and we got along so well that I've been back three times.

The others - meh.

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We have been offered money heaps of times on this site for various scenarious. Clearly there are a lot of members perfectly comfortable with the idea of paid sex.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

guys in the real world not fabland .you date a female have drinks may be a meal .you pay for it .you get married start family .[have a bit of a fall out with the mrs ]first think she says you not getting in bed useing me ect.you paying big time.every way you turn you paying or you single and wanking .lots guys that dont get what want at home pay escort ect.couse you walk away no emotions.you start having an affair with work friends .you really fucking paying ,DIVORCE.the ultimate price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen afew escorts I really don’t see the big issue with it, for me it’s only ever been (Porn star escorts) how els are you going to fuck your favourite porn stars, I’ve payed more on dates, think most man do lie when it comes to saying if they have are haven’t, it’s only Sex people what’s the difference

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan


"I pay for it every day iv got 3 kids "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single I used to be a lorry driver and spent 5 years driving all over Europe.visted many whore houses in different countries.the old eastern block used to be the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which woman wants to suck a big suck muhahaaa

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Escort for me and always good fun. Now I prefer going for porn stars. Rebecca More was awesome and next is ts Foxxy when I go to Vegas soon.

How does that happen then? I see many porn clips where fans win the chance to fuck their fav porn stars. And if porn stars offer to screw their fans I imagine the fee involved is prohibitive. However, I would pawn my nans's TV and rob her pension to fund a sesh with Ava Addams. "

Luckily Rebbecas fee was £250 for the hour now £350. Ts Foxxy is $400 for the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escort on a semi regular basis. Almost always the same one.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Ashley is considering doing escort work, however she's not really got any intention of sexual activities with any potential clients. More actually escorting men to functions and what not. Personally i don't think there's much demand for 'soft' escort work.

She feels the sex side of it would make her feel used and not in a good way like normal

I'm sure there will be a few people that would be happy with 'soft escorting but I think the majority of client will be more interested in the sex side of it"

My ex WG GF started off with purely social escorting and got little work. She had one regular who wanted to be celibate, one night they got d*unk together. They ended up fucking, after that she started giving full services and was a lot busier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on both sides of the fence and worth every penny. It's about picking the right one

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport


"Mr did quite a lot of escorting in the 90s It was great fun and it made him feel good about himself. The ladies always seemed to be happy and many came back as return clients. Couple from Southport please note the clients always expected sex in one form or another."

Cheers for the advice

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By *oooshCouple
over a year ago

jct 4 M5

Is it a real problem ,?i meen to say that don't you think that life is hard just to survive ,so ,get a grip on life ,don't meen that directly ,but I guess ,this is how things are ,why do we say something ,then Weight for a reply .and most of the time we already know the answer ,it's like if the the answer is not there you can't ,do things unless you are ready for someone to say it is ,no do what you already know ,don't waight for the answer that you know is not your answer

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Is it a real problem ,?i meen to say that don't you think that life is hard just to survive ,so ,get a grip on life ,don't meen that directly ,but I guess ,this is how things are ,why do we say something ,then Weight for a reply .and most of the time we already know the answer ,it's like if the the answer is not there you can't ,do things unless you are ready for someone to say it is ,no do what you already know ,don't waight for the answer that you know is not your answer "
fuck thought the drugs dont work .whats the answer .no whats the question .what day is it ?where am i ?what goin on?damned if we know

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I would hire an escort for an evening event, not necessarily to include sex. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the rent once if that’s the same kind of thing? I have been paid lots for doing very little but more usually they want loads of effort for their money.

Even if your doing domination, which pays the most, they tend to make it quite clear who’s really in charge and exactly what they want, so you never get to really enjoy that either.

Also a lot just don’t respect limits and try to get you to do stuff on your ‘won’t do list’ which is probably some kind of control freak thing.

They often try to underpay as well.

It’s also quite risky just rocking up to a hotel room, house or apartment.

But some ‘clients’ were really nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a Couple of meets from here where I was left feeling I should have been paid

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By *arc678Man
over a year ago

Wicklow

I get a massage regularly from a woman who does massage professionally......and wear towel all the way through. At the end she takes off the towel and gives me handjob. No teasing during massage and don't try and touch her . She chats to me all the way through the massage and during handjob. Seems very normal now.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Any man who tells you they haven’t paid for sex is a bullshitter. We’ve all paid for it in some form, wether that’s cash in hand, or the cost of 10 vodka and s and a chip shop takeaway at the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an escort is one of my fantasies especially if my wife organises it for me it’s the dirty feeling that I shouldn’t be doing it that turns me on but so far I’ve never done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots meets advertised here who charge money for the hotel cost

60 person

They must be using very expensive hotels

Or i

Paid Gang bangs

It’s all the same with a different name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first ever MFF was with an escort. We found a girl who had a small holding in the back end of nowhere and found it hard to to get her sexual fix. She would only do 1 appointment a week and was insanely expensive but worth every penny.

We spoke for weeks before finally committing and she followed our exact word from the way she dressed to the things we wanted to try.

We still keep in touch now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was injured I payed to have a message.

Now before you get ideas she wasn't Korean or Thai in fact she was the strongest women I've ever met.

She made my joints crack pop and neatly twisted my head off.

Was complete agony but after a good sleep it did the trick.

But God was she strong. Folded me like paper

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"When I was injured I payed to have a message.

Now before you get ideas she wasn't Korean or Thai in fact she was the strongest women I've ever met.

She made my joints crack pop and neatly twisted my head off.

Was complete agony but after a good sleep it did the trick.

But God was she strong. Folded me like paper"

fuck think i would have took the Thai one [male half]yea defo twice ha ha

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Why do you want a burger when you can have steak?

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

thai massages are great

met some great escorts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you differentiate escorts from street working girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you differentiate escorts from street working girls?

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I would worry how clean a street girl is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex as a commercial attraction wouldn't interest me and o wouldn't be interested in someone who is into that

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Bit like watching Corrie / Voting for the latest crap pay deal at work someone does but not many admit it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Be honest guys how many of you have paid for sex and was it worth it?

A girlfriend has just spent time with a male escort and says she enjoyed herself but wasn't as good as she'd imagined? Not tried myself and wondered if many guys do? "

Never paid for it other than paying for a dam good night out with a girl and have been treated as part of that.

Appreciate it's not the same though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt even pay for it if it were legal, like in amsterdam (never been but when friends were going that was their 'highlight' amongst the other stuff..I was like...shrugggg I dont particularly care)

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

i nhaad a few years in my life when i indulged in paying for sex like all sex some was good and some awful

A lot of the pleasure came from finding the girl and eventually meeting

i found girls came in two flavours those who mostly did it for the money and those that did it because they love sex

weve met a lot of girls on the scene who mix this and a bit of escorting

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"do you differentiate escorts from street working girls?

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You will find that most indie escorts are regular attendees at GUM clinics, not because the have unprotected sex but because they are so careful. Street girls tend to be drug users and a bit more desperate to make money. My ex was making £75,000 a year tax free in the early 2000s a lot more than street girls earn. She had the brains to invest in property and now runs a very succesful company that she founded again using her business skills. Lots of indie WGs have very business brains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I paid regularly for sex when posted over seas in the army, hell yes I enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve thought about a female escort, to show me the ropes

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By *imjayneCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

A couple of years ago I was mistaken for an escort in an hotel bar whilst waiting for hubby to arrive, all I will say that the guy was a good looking older guy and to earn some pocket money was an absolute bonus !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never paid for sex or used an escort(Mike)..I don't think I would have the bottle too...I would find it intimidating ..which is strange, because I am a swinger of many years

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over a year ago

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By *iganLad23Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I have used massage parlours that's about it especially the ones in Singapore when I went for a holiday, never bothered paying for sex either

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Other than the obvious online agencies etc is there any other ways of contacting WG's. I don't want anything to do with exploitation, how do you filter out the seedier side of this proffession?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wanna try being pegged and have considered it a few times with an escort, but never actually go through with it because of the risk of catching something and the thought of having sex with someone who was just doing it for money.

If there’s anyone out there with a strap on, put me out of my misery please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna try being pegged and have considered it a few times with an escort, but never actually go through with it because of the risk of catching something "

I would have thought that the chances of catching something from a strapon are extremely low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, I’d have to return the favour after letting her fuck me. (Probably catch anything if she doesn’t clean it after her last client)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms on toys are a thing ffs

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

I HAVE

Cost me a house and a car !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never paid for sex...

I think it needs a mutual connection makes it more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest guys how many of you have paid for sex and was it worth it?

A girlfriend has just spent time with a male escort and says she enjoyed herself but wasn't as good as she'd imagined? Not tried myself and wondered if many guys do? "

nope never done it, never even considered it as an option

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

Can't see nothing wrong with this.My Mrs doing escort her self and she enjoy her self as I do knowing she having good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had spells of being a driver for an agency so spent hours with these girls, some very very young, younger than my daughter's, overall they generally enjoy what they do with the occasional ass hole giving them a bit of grief, having a driver gives them a bit of added security as well which they appreciate, it's a hard game though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms on toys are a thing ffs

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I’m quite tight up there, don’t want it to come off and lose it up there! Nice pics btw, message me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been with an escort and it was great

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol, I’d have to return the favour after letting her fuck me. (Probably catch anything if she doesn’t clean it after her last client)"

Less chance of catching something from a prostitute than a swinger, working girls above street level tend to be very health concious.

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

It's a fantasy of mine to do some escort work. Have always loved the pretty woman scenario, although not expecting Richard Gere to make me an offer.

The money is not so relevant as the thought that a guy is paying and so I must comply, although I love cock so it would always be a pleasure plus hopefully I'd get an evening out before the sex. Win,win.

Sadly I think I'm getting a bit to old for it now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was abroad i went to a rub n tug shop.

was ok nothing special. one off the bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine to do some escort work. Have always loved the pretty woman scenario, although not expecting Richard Gere to make me an offer.

The money is not so relevant as the thought that a guy is paying and so I must comply, although I love cock so it would always be a pleasure plus hopefully I'd get an evening out before the sex. Win,win.

Sadly I think I'm getting a bit to old for it now though."

I really hope a £2 tip will offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fantasy of mine to do some escort work. Have always loved the pretty woman scenario, although not expecting Richard Gere to make me an offer.

The money is not so relevant as the thought that a guy is paying and so I must comply, although I love cock so it would always be a pleasure plus hopefully I'd get an evening out before the sex. Win,win.

Sadly I think I'm getting a bit to old for it now though.

I really hope a £2 tip will offend"

I meant wont lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in 1996 I was single and went to Prague to run the Marathon.

In my hotel room was a leaflet advertising an escort service.

Being a single bloke and alone I took advantage of that service.

Worked out at around £300 for five days, morning until evening, and extra, which I was happy to pay, for my companion to stay overnight.

In short, she was beautiful, knowledgeable, intelligent, and an excellent tour guide too!

In short, I enjoyed an incredible week in the lady's company,well worth the outlay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in 1996 I was single and went to Prague to run the Marathon.

In my hotel room was a leaflet advertising an escort service.

Being a single bloke and alone I took advantage of that service.

Worked out at around £300 for five days, morning until evening, and extra, which I was happy to pay, for my companion to stay overnight.

In short, she was beautiful, knowledgeable, intelligent, and an excellent tour guide too!

In short, I enjoyed an incredible week in the lady's company,well worth the outlay."

i see nothing wrong in that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a few years in Germany where "massage parlours" were legal, accepted and seen as part of the norm.

This meant that when we were out clubbing or pubbing most people seemed to just wanna dance and have a good night rather than try to hook up with someone as they knew a few doors down a happy ending was relatively cheap.

On that basis I'm all for it

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Back in 1996 I was single and went to Prague to run the Marathon.

In my hotel room was a leaflet advertising an escort service.

Being a single bloke and alone I took advantage of that service.

Worked out at around £300 for five days, morning until evening, and extra, which I was happy to pay, for my companion to stay overnight.

In short, she was beautiful, knowledgeable, intelligent, and an excellent tour guide too!

In short, I enjoyed an incredible week in the lady's company,well worth the outlay.

i see nothing wrong in that at all.

"

It would cost you a bit more now

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By *unfunfun222Man
5 weeks ago

Galway/Mayo


"Any man who tells you they haven’t paid for sex is a bullshitter. We’ve all paid for it in some form, wether that’s cash in hand, or the cost of 10 vodka and s and a chip shop takeaway at the end of the night

"

This

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By *elboy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes I paid for sex and it was worth it

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By *avej500Man
5 weeks ago

Stevenage

I paid as I always wanted to fuck a black women now I do it can’t get enough of black women

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By *pgroupsexMan
5 weeks ago

Kingston

I had an ex-girlfriend that was as a 'working girl' (for over three years) and (totally FOC - I'm certainly no pimp!) I ran her diary for much of that time too.

She was very safe in what she did, was very regularly tested and we had a bunch of 'rules' around who she would and wouldn't see too.

I found looking after her and the fact she was charging others for what she willingly gave me, a huge turn-on. It was her choice to make a living that way and I fully supported her in that decision.

We are still great, very close, friends and I respect her and her life choices immensely.

It's an interesting world and like this place, there are people you'd certainly not want to meet (basically those with no respect for just how wonderful women are).

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By *opman121Man
5 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Once a month go to one ,young polish girl best £40 every full works

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
5 weeks ago

doncaster

I once had a wank and a twenty pound note fell out my pocket…does this count

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It scratches an itch and if you find a good one then the GFE can be good fun but there is no substitute for the connection and intimacy of being with someone who cares about and knows you.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago


"Once a month go to one ,young polish girl best £40 every full works "

Always like a good recommendation...

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

The truth is, whether it's an overt transaction or paying for dates, the mam always pays for sex.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 weeks ago

the moon

Wouldn’t .. and never needed too ..

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
5 weeks ago

wilts

I know a lot of people who frequently visit some and they talk about like it’s the best thing since sliced bread.

Also had a work colleague who left to become a male “word which can’t be posted” full time which has made him quite wealthy

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By *uckurcumMan
5 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Have done and still would ....it's uncomplicated unless you let it become that ...

Saw one bi lad quite regularly and it became a good friendship too ...but still a sexual arrangement that suited us both ...

And you know what your getting ...at a certain age it's a solution ...

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By *iganlad80Man
5 weeks ago

wigan

Massage parlours yes but only ever when pissed from nights out (years ago).

Even got very friendly with one of the girls and dated for a little while, but didn't last lol. OH and always used condoms never ever risked that part

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By *cottish guy 555Man
5 weeks ago

London

I've enjoyed many a massage over the years. Some of the ladies have been quite surprised, some even annoyed, when I said no thanks to a happy ending.

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By *orester891Man
7 hours ago

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Single again , love it and have a regular so we know and trust each other, but it’s not a relationship, no complications either way and we just fit fun in around our lives, more of an arrangement than a transaction, which helps us both out , have a FB occasionally as well . At my age I try not to judge anyone , your life is your own business and there may be complex reasons why you do things. But if you go behind someone’s back there may be consequences.

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By *ongandharderMan
7 hours ago

Rotherham

Never paid for any sexual favour or interaction

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By *oyeurmaxMan
7 hours ago

Plymouth

I have not made use of the services but have fantasized about it.

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