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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I keep my Fab life completely compartmentalised away from Friends, Family and Work colleagues.

I like having the contrast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few close friends are aware that I have an open marriage. They don’t know the ins and outs, they know no details and don’t know I’m on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to keep fab quiet feom famoly and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows.. i love the secret life aspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secretive for obvious reasons.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh god no!

Majority of my friends are prudes....this is a secret I shall take the grave with me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't keep secrets, unless they are not mine.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Most of them know although we don't invite them to join us lol although I'm sure Mr would love it if ask some of my girlfriend's ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret secret secret! It adds to the fun!

Our neighbours and colleagues think we are boring, every time they ask if we had a good weekend we tell them we were in bed early on Saturday night, little do they know it was a clubs orgy bed with 10 other naked couples

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By *addyAndKitten9Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By *addyAndKitten9Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Secret except to our closest 2 friends, who are a couple incidentally. K's friend knew before they got together and the sheer amount of time we cumulatively spend together meant that not telling my (D) friend would've had three of us lying about why we (D&K not the friend!) were visiting a certain city or town randomly! Very much had to explain the 'never ever friends' rule to him too aha.

Apart from that I imagine it'll be a secret to the grave!

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"I don't have friends."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have friends.

This "

You can be our friend as we in the same boat haha x

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Naaa I tell everyone from the mail-man to Az at the corner shop!

Like hell I do I don't want to be in the Sunday papers.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

A couple of people know but most don’t we tend to keep it secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have told all my friends.

So no, no one knows

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Secret here as we both find the double life a bit of a turn on, Eva is very prim and proper in her normal life and so naughty in this one

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have told all my friends.

So no, no one knows "

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By *andWCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Luton

Our closest friends know ... one of Jude's is even joining us for a club visit. To be honest we don't go out of our way to tell everyone but we don't hide it either.

Family ... not so much mainly because it's never come up in conversation my sister knows though.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

My group of closest friends know, it would have been too tricky to talk about how things are with the new relationship with SSS if I had to miss out a huge chunk of what we are about and the dynamic between us. Swinging and the openness which comes along with it are a bit part of our relationship so it seemed dishonest to only give my friends half the story.

TB

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By *raleebiMan
over a year ago

tralee

As a couple we are very discreet about our lifestyle although we have had a mmf with a close friend

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not one of my vanilla friends know of my Fab life.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Only one very close friend knows we swing .

That’s how we would prefer it to stay too .

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

There’s a few free ends who know I’m a swinger. However only a very select few know everything. Last friend I told I also work for. It was getting to difficult to filter out certain comments. When he asked what I had been up to at the weekend.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t care less who knows. Just because they’re prudes and is all taboo for them, doesn’t stop me enjoying my life! Quite a lot of people know I’m extremely open about sex, as it should be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secret, even Wee don't know!

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Very secretive, for obvious reasons lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx"

Guess it depends what type of friend you have. Lexi. We don't as they wouldn't get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We find the more people we tell, the more open to the idea people become, curiousness sets in and they ask more and more, or all of a sudden you get “blah blah told me you into swinging would you have a meet with me etc”

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"So were intrigued, are people on here quiet and secretive of their fab lifestyles with friends or do you activeley include friends and invite them to join/take part and introduce them to the lifestyle - for us most who know us know we swing xx

Guess it depends what type of friend you have. Lexi. We don't as they wouldn't get it."

Mine don’t get it, but they’re intrigued and understanding. Like hearing the stories and living vicariously through me I think

TB

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

All our friends are swingers so it'd be like preaching to the choir. It's not a secret but we don't advertise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a secret agent international man of mystery

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

My friends and family know i am into alternative things... Like kink and swinging because it saves a lot of time if i get spotted walking into a club

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By *uicy Lucy and percyCouple
over a year ago

wales

Fab is fab

Normal life is normal life they never meet or cross for family and professional reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is fab

Normal life is normal life they never meet or cross for family and professional reasons "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn’t care less who knows. Just because they’re prudes and is all taboo for them, doesn’t stop me enjoying my life! Quite a lot of people know I’m extremely open about sex, as it should be! "

Some people have respect for discretion and privacy. Doesn't make them prudes.

I don't want to know any details of other people's sex lives. I think it's fucking rude to assume everyone wants such information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep my Fab life completely compartmentalised away from Friends, Family and Work colleagues.

I like having the contrast"

Same

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

close friends know.it's part of me after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is fab

Normal life is normal life they never meet or cross for family and professional reasons "

Exactly this!

I like having the two seperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is fab

Normal life is normal life they never meet or cross for family and professional reasons

Exactly this!

I like having the two seperate. "

This for us too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to my job I must keep it absolutely separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't discuss our sex life with friends before we were swingers,why would we want to now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly keep the two lives separate. It's no one else's buisness what I do so why tell them.

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

My close friends and family are aware of our swinging, but as I wear a permanently locked steel collar, I'm very open about my relationship with Master and our dynamic. He's my life partner, and hiding the M/s aspect of our relationship would be nearly impossible, nor would I want to. Not everyone is as open as we are, and I respect that. Everyone makes their own decisions in regard to whom they choose to disclose any information about their personal and sexual lives and I'm not going to judge anyone for their choices as it's not my place.

~ Kitten

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