FabSwingers.com forum: Passive Agressive

By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Why do some men become passive agressive when you tell them your not interested?

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Because they're insecure and can't deal with rejection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they hate rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They believe it gives them the upper hand.

I'm all over that shit. Just check my profile for passive aggressive.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Because it is many people's default position these days in everyday life.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Why do some men become passive agressive when you tell them your not interested?"

Lol some people both men and women get frustrated and get arsy. Its not really acceptable or nice but I can see why at times though its no excuse a simple "thanks for your time anyway" when rejected is a gracious way of dealing with rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men can't handle rejection. The only way they know how to deal with it is to hurl insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some men become passive agressive when you tell them your not interested?"

I think it’s down to ego & not liking rejection to be honest.

Also I think them being nasty or passive aggressive to you after you’ve rejected them makes them feel better about their rejection.

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

"Why do some men become passive agressive when you tell them your not interested?"

.. Because they are idiots perhaps? Anyway, wish you didn't have age limits set below mine.. You look gorge XXX date ignore me and I'll get passively frustrated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having rejected hundreds and hundreds of men and never received abuse I'm guessing it's the way your rejecting them. Just a thought x

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"Having rejected hundreds and hundreds of men and never received abuse I'm guessing it's the way your rejecting them. Just a thought x"

I doubt it. To be called a b**** when I said no thank you happy swinging is no reason to receive that type of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having rejected hundreds and hundreds of men and never received abuse I'm guessing it's the way your rejecting them. Just a thought x

I doubt it. To be called a b**** when I said no thank you happy swinging is no reason to receive that type of response."

How often has that happened to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would hazzard a guess at possibly 0.001% of a time when averaged mrandmrsroleplay.. Absolute bollox some of thereply + quotes in here..

Insecure, thoughtless, sslfish wankers etc etc etc..

Everyones opinion matters but as a tool to make sweeping statements of all men as some have in this thread? Get bent..

If a man be passive he be boring or have learning difficulties. Agressive then he is living up to his sterotype. Dare he apolagise then its....."PASSIVE AGRESSION".. Pissin in the wind guys...

Never mind..onwards n up...

My opinion, just saying....

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've had 10 years on this site of being rejected and told no thanks. My attitude is one of "ah well, never mind, maybe next time I message someone". I don't get bent out of shape about it and have had some pretty decent chats with people. What's the point of persuing it with people who aren't interested in you? Get over it. Too many ladies on this site get bombarded with nasty messages when they turn someone down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men

That's life after all

Sometimes curious to know why as concernd I may be presenting myself badly

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Because they feel like you should submit and since you didn't well then they feel like you should pay so they can reestablish there position above you

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Regretfully it is in the makeup of some people, not just men.

We wish that people would be prepared for the realities that fab present, in starting an account here.

There seems a lack of common sense and respect where the no means no, is lost to abuse. Thankfully we haven't encountered too many like that, but when it does happen, those who have thinner skins will be upset by the vileness of some people's attitude.

We are not a good match, means one side won't get with the other, don't get hung up and just move on, save your time and money for a better fit.

A final point, any investment in time, feelings and money into the swinging life is down to you alone, you can't expect others to respond to your investment because you think you deserve it. If you can't take the knock back, you really need to look from within and ask yourself, is this what I am suited to be doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would hazzard a guess at possibly 0.001% of a time when averaged mrandmrsroleplay.. Absolute bollox some of thereply + quotes in here..

Insecure, thoughtless, sslfish wankers etc etc etc..

Everyones opinion matters but as a tool to make sweeping statements of all men as some have in this thread? Get bent..

If a man be passive he be boring or have learning difficulties. Agressive then he is living up to his sterotype. Dare he apolagise then its....."PASSIVE AGRESSION".. Pissin in the wind guys...

Never mind..onwards n up...

My opinion, just saying...."

I’d love you to take a look at my previous messages from people I’ve politely rejected to see how often the abuse comes in and how it’s far more than 0.001%.

It’s only 9am this morning and I’ve already had to block two people for their abuse, one because I had left the message unread and not replied (I fell asleep), another because I stated I won’t have unprotected penetration with strangers & wished them luck in their search and to have a nice day.

The OP specifically said “some men” I don’t think anyone has said “all men” on here so that is you making assumptions. If it was “all men” the majority of us wouldn’t be on here.

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over a year ago

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