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By *iveshowcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Over the years we have spent a great many unproductive hours talking on fab to newbie unverified couples.

The widespread perception is that these are often single guys pretending which I guess is probably true in some cases.

My gut instinct suggests that this is actually much less prevalent then people suppose.

More often I think it is guys posting their partners photos without her approval or knowledge and getting his thrills from the reaction they get.

Many more I feel are genuine couples with all the right intentions who lose their bottle at the last moment and do a no show.

Of course even if they turn up it can still go pear shaped. How many of you have seen a husband get all jealous and territorial at the sight of his wife and mother of his children shamelessly throwing her legs wide to accomodate a younger and better endowed guy?

Or the wife who bursts into tears at the site of her beloved husband grinning like a cheshire cat as some other women sucks his cock?

So why do we invest so much time?

I do wonder. Except of course we were nervous newbies ourselves once.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

It is certainly a catch 22 for newbies. Totally get the nerves (we were in that position in early 00s).

What we get suspicious of is profiles that are over 6 months old and still have no veris - makes you question whether they are genuine or if they actually really want to do this!

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By *iveshowcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

You are right though. The longer they are on fab without making the leap and getting verified the more unlikely it becomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they hide their profile

Seriously though I think this is always a case of do your own research to figure out if someone is real or not and move to the phone if you’re serious as that's way more difficult to fake

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Or they hide their profile

Seriously though I think this is always a case of do your own research to figure out if someone is real or not and move to the phone if you’re serious as that's way more difficult to fake "

Yep we are right now because we are not meeting and don't want to waste anyone's time by having them write to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were newbies once and then within 6 months were running a very busy newbie night at a club, we’ve always had time for newbies on fab and most of the contact seems to be from genuine newbies not fakes, it’s difficult for genuine newbies to get started we always say get a social veri and then you’ll get time online from others, but the reality is if they’ve had an account for more than 2 months and haven’t swung, they probably never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jim your totolly correct some people take longer to dip there toe to say , others are more confident too , we chose to keep our profile private , due to work and so on some people live in small towns and don’t like to broadcast there activities & intrests , but it’s not just couples that have fake profiles , on our last profile we came across a lot of strange profiles and strange people so tend to take this one a lot slower

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Over the years we have spent a great many unproductive hours talking on fab to newbie unverified couples.

The widespread perception is that these are often single guys pretending which I guess is probably true in some cases.

My gut instinct suggests that this is actually much less prevalent then people suppose.

More often I think it is guys posting their partners photos without her approval or knowledge and getting his thrills from the reaction they get.

Many more I feel are genuine couples with all the right intentions who lose their bottle at the last moment and do a no show.

Of course even if they turn up it can still go pear shaped. How many of you have seen a husband get all jealous and territorial at the sight of his wife and mother of his children shamelessly throwing her legs wide to accomodate a younger and better endowed guy?

Or the wife who bursts into tears at the site of her beloved husband grinning like a cheshire cat as some other women sucks his cock?

So why do we invest so much time?

I do wonder. Except of course we were nervous newbies ourselves once.

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True but if you plan to meet the odd person or three on here you have to put some time in and quite rightly as people deserve time. Granted some are not here to meet but it never harms to chat to newbies in a friendly way.

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