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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv had to turn down a meet with an old FB because i genuinly think his cock is too big! It hurts when we had sex and when he fucked me from behind i thought it was goin to pop out me chops!!

He was genuinely 9" and thats why i hate men sending messages saying they have a 9incher because if they all did I defo wouldnt be getting any

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

its not the size,but what they do with it.

Great sex is about watching your partner, responding to what works,and stopping what doesnt.

Sounds like he was just a crap shag...but it does seem many larger men seem to think whamming it in is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is about 8inches.. give or take a few mm either side depending on how horny you get him.. and some women have said he is too big... yet we have had people who wont meet because he is too small..

so i guess its all about finding the right length for you.. or someone who can not thrust all the way.. ( which i should imagine is frustrating for them)

what is the perfect size for you?.. mine is 8.5 maybe 9 max! but 8 is good for me..

but its less to do with the length more to do with the width that i find makes it uncomfortable or indeed unpleasureable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

angela wont go with anyone larger than average ... too painful ... they say they will be careful but tend to get carried away .... never again.... it dont impress us if you have a big cock ... we avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all about how you feel it doesnt bother me on the size but i have never experienced bigger than 9 inch

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Never had thar prob but then our vwe friends are excellent at what they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had to turn down a meet with an old FB because i genuinly think his cock is too big! It hurts when we had sex and when he fucked me from behind i thought it was goin to pop out me chops!!

He was genuinely 9" and thats why i hate men sending messages saying they have a 9incher because if they all did I defo wouldnt be getting any "

size is not a major factor for me

if it goes hard - and stays hard, we're onto a winner !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv had 6" but wide in girth and iv cum alot harder and faster off that but this was like a cricket bat, thought it would get better but it didnt...it certainly is the motion in the ocean not the size of the boat

Also u can never have a quicky with a humongous cocka-doodle coz u need to be really wett so it will slide in

pfft damn u big cocks!!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i've had some really big ones and had no problems, even had anal with them! but then some biggish ones can be tricky. i think sometimes it has to do with any bends, or the angle of things...

this is probably not a lot of help, but don't write off the big guys just jet, just take it steady with plenty of lube and you might be pleasantly surprised!

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Sorry will re-type that as it didn't make sense.

Not everyone is looking for VWE we don't play with guys who are VWE. The amount of messages we get from guys who say 'we will just put the tip in' never ceases to amaze me.

So its average sized guys all the way for Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8-9 inch is perfect for me. But I would much rather have a fat smaller one than a skinny taller one!!

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Sorry will re-type that as it didn't make sense.

Not everyone is looking for VWE we don't play with guys who are VWE. The amount of messages we get from guys who say 'we will just put the tip in' never ceases to amaze me.

So its average sized guys all the way for Miss"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lube up if you think it might be a handfull, its usually lack of lubrication that makes you sore anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lube up if you think it might be a handfull, its usually lack of lubrication that makes you sore anyways"

I don't think it's soreness she's talking about, there is sometimes a consistent sharp pain on your cervix when a guy is too big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lube up if you think it might be a handfull, its usually lack of lubrication that makes you sore anyways

I don't think it's soreness she's talking about, there is sometimes a consistent sharp pain on your cervix when a guy is too big"

Agrees!

I've had a meet that made me with their ramming with their rather large tool... it was not pleasant at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs doesnt like a large cock.

no good for oral and hurts too much for full.

sys average is perfect for her (or is she saying it to make me feel beter? lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had 6" but wide in girth and iv cum alot harder and faster off that but this was like a cricket bat, thought it would get better but it didnt...it certainly is the motion in the ocean not the size of the boat

Also u can never have a quicky with a humongous cocka-doodle coz u need to be really wett so it will slide in

pfft damn u big cocks!!! "

Classy

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"its not the size,but what they do with it.

Great sex is about watching your partner, responding to what works,and stopping what doesnt.

Sounds like he was just a crap shag...but it does seem many larger men seem to think whamming it in is enough."

Not the size........... thank crist for that!

Phew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same prob but was with a 10" (yes he's on here) its a shame he couldnt use the full length but it was hurting so much it was makeing me feel sick That was him being gentle, the next morning i felt as if my insides had been hit by a train.

So as its been said many times not all of us are looking for the vwe.

If i get a message with "i'm big" i turn tail and run in the other direction sorry gents xxx (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had the same prob but was with a 10" (yes he's on here) its a shame he couldnt use the full length but it was hurting so much it was makeing me feel sick That was him being gentle, the next morning i felt as if my insides had been hit by a train.

So as its been said many times not all of us are looking for the vwe.

If i get a message with "i'm big" i turn tail and run in the other direction sorry gents xxx (mrs)"

Damn, and you're close to me too!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

send all ya big cocks here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys with big cocks need to learn more skills as they have to come in gently and build up slowly.

If tension is created by a big cock it will be a bad experience indeed. I can only take a big one if I am relaxed and confident about the guys technique and consideration. Then it is great!

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

The first time I ever had sex, I got him naked, looked down and literally ran across the room saying 'you're coming nowhere near me with that!' If I had to guess, i'd say 9-10" (he always said 12 )

The guy had never heard of foreplay (ok, he did buy me a drink ) I'd heard sex was supposed to be good It damn near put me off sex for life.

I've recovered well as you can see

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about putting a nice ring donut round it to act as a buffer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about putting a nice ring donut round it to act as a buffer? "

I would have ate it in seconds.. no good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about putting a nice ring donut round it to act as a buffer?

I would have ate it in seconds.. no good to me "

good job you get a few in the pack at the supermarket bakery then... lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never had a whopper.....or a really big dick..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't do really long ones! With a coil in it not only hurts the cervix when it's constantly banging on it but when it's pushing on the coil too, owwwwwwwwwwieeeeeee! Painful for days after, lucky sir is a big boy but 7" long and knows what he's doing! Really don't think I want longer than that as when it catches it takes my breath and not in a good way! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time post so here goes...

I'm VWE at 9in and I have been turned down a number of times by ladies when they learn about my size. I agree that the technique has to be right and some VWE guys out there spoil it for those of us that do have the right approach. I have always treated my playmates with respect and have been told lots of times how much they have enjoyed me, and I get repeat meetings! The advice about starting slow and building up is great as was the comment about lots of foreplay and / or lube. A VWE guy who takes his time and reads the situation well should give you a fun time to be remembered!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"First time post so here goes...

I'm VWE at 9in and I have been turned down a number of times by ladies when they learn about my size. I agree that the technique has to be right and some VWE guys out there spoil it for those of us that do have the right approach. I have always treated my playmates with respect and have been told lots of times how much they have enjoyed me, and I get repeat meetings! The advice about starting slow and building up is great as was the comment about lots of foreplay and / or lube. A VWE guy who takes his time and reads the situation well should give you a fun time to be remembered! "

well hello there welcome to the forums xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First time post so here goes...

I'm VWE at 9in and I have been turned down a number of times by ladies when they learn about my size. I agree that the technique has to be right and some VWE guys out there spoil it for those of us that do have the right approach. I have always treated my playmates with respect and have been told lots of times how much they have enjoyed me, and I get repeat meetings! The advice about starting slow and building up is great as was the comment about lots of foreplay and / or lube. A VWE guy who takes his time and reads the situation well should give you a fun time to be remembered! "

you know it makes sense

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I personally love a big un......love how full i feel and the pleasure/pain of it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to 8" and thick is great, anything over that unless its taken really easily and not rammed into your cervix cane be very painful. Big is definitely a turn on though, I've had one over 9" and he took it very steady until I had had enough! x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"First time post so here goes...

I'm VWE at 9in and I have been turned down a number of times by ladies when they learn about my size. I agree that the technique has to be right and some VWE guys out there spoil it for those of us that do have the right approach. I have always treated my playmates with respect and have been told lots of times how much they have enjoyed me, and I get repeat meetings! The advice about starting slow and building up is great as was the comment about lots of foreplay and / or lube. A VWE guy who takes his time and reads the situation well should give you a fun time to be remembered!

you know it makes sense "

+1

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

However big it is, they gotta know how to use it, go easy to start with and respect the ladies wishes about how much and how fast.

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