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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

What a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yehhh a common post on here this is. I left a meet afew month back, she was the same.. so so gorgeous but i only go b/b with ongoing trust worthy sexual partners.

I never bothered until afew year ago a friend caught HIV of someone through the swinging scene... lifechanger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably thinks you’re special and she can trust you....

Now if she reads this she might be upset and call off the meet...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk.

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Point her in my direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having a dig OP but nothing on your profile me mentions safe sex. Maybe she throught that’s how you played.

Sometimes you have to make it clear on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction "

Does your wife know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And at least you are in a position to make an informed decision.

If we de-stigmatise bareback, everyone can be more open about it. That way if it isn't for you,you know the people who want to bareback and can then say thanks but no thanks.

It is the same as straight guys who reveal they are bi when it suits their needs.

Because everyone condemns barebackers, they hide so they don't risk blowing their chance of a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know "

What makes you think in married then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then"

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then"

That reply clearly wasn’t for you, read the quote references back!

But anyway, count your blessings for that red flag, rather than it occurring on the night... (:

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe not all blokes are married because they can't accom there is other reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact

Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact

Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!"

it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it.

Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally understand why women can't accom you need to know who your inviting in to your house

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

That fabfact is in fact alot of balls.

That is a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make a point of as_ing as a lot of people have safe sex on their profile but want bareback so always best ti ask how they like to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact

Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!

it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it.

Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid.

"

If I roll my eyes any harder they will stay in the back of my head...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong I'm not against bare back fun with some one you trust and met before just felt a bit dodgy

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By *uuLuuWoman
over a year ago

Watford


"Don't get me wrong I'm not against bare back fun with some one you trust and met before just felt a bit dodgy "

Then its pretty clear you won't be meeting her now as she is stic_ing with her unprotected demands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I don't think I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol"

I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol

I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them"

It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down.

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ...

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By *esssDanMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol

I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them

It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down."

Lol!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... "

Aids treatment is expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... "

Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ...

Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!! "

I was just thin_ing the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ... "

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"I ( Mr ) barebacked a girl 20 years ago and have only just stopped paying for my mistake. £400 a month or £96,000 later ... wasn’t even a good shag ...

Bet your son/daughter loves being called a mistake!!! "

To him the child was!

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By *incs 2 up for funCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Fuck that shit, can't get over these bareback peeps. Nah no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."
peggets ! Fuck me chap . If she's having bareback , I wouldn't touch her . Till her to feck herself the mad woman . She's chicken oriental mate

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

I had a couple a while back do the exact same thing.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact

Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!

it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it.

Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid.

"

Not every man is a cheat your logic is flawed

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree there I have kids at home that the reason I can't accom and it's easy to meet daytimes but that apparently instantly makes me married and a cheat

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. "
..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention."
Here Here old chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.."

I think he was jo_ing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/09/18 23:54:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate has got 3 girls pregnant this year! So watch your ass lmfao

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond


"My mate has got 3 girls pregnant this year! So watch your ass lmfao"

Ass is probably safe, if pregnancy is your only concern.

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By *rgasmdonorMan
over a year ago

millstreet

I was reading this with great interest ,,, What is safe sex ???

I was recently at a swinger party where I met a woman and her husband ,,, I put on my protection and got about my business she had her orgasm and I was banging away like a mad man trying to have mine when she said hang on and she pushed me off of her and onto my back pulled off my condom and began to suck my cock ,,, now this to me is not safe sex !!! She then said it would be nice if we could 69 again not a safe practice ,,

To be honest safe we is down right boring and practiced by very few ,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of swingers or fabbers have no idea about safety. You use condoms and then do oral with no protection. The risks are always there.

No condom, no sex. No clinic checks, no sex. Its like playing Russian roulette. So many pics on here are bareback. Just block fodder.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you don't want to do it, then don't, if you do, then do it, it's called freedom of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

Not true, I just would much rather just go to a hotel. Sometimes it takes a while to realise someone is a phycho and I don’t want them having my address. Lol but I do get your gist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

I can't accommodate as I live with family. Must mean I'm married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love - Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No glove no love - Simple "
thats so a toilet attendant on a saturday night saying. but it true did make me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention."

My thoughts exactly.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know "

It might be his wife

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Fuck that shit...."

Only if it's bareback anal.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

[Removed by poster at 25/09/18 09:07:14]

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. "

That is so true, couples, single men and single women and indeed your profile, a very attractive one it is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. "
hit the nail on the head there very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

That's not true! I can't accommodate because I house share.... #fact

Not everyone on here who can't accommodate is in some relationship! Other factors play in to it!!!

it's a #fabfact not a real fact. Everyone knows that men are cheats. If they can't accommodate it proves it.

Whereas a woman can choose not to accommodate and no one bats an eyelid.

Not every man is a cheat your logic is flawed "

I'm not in the habit of justifying myself but for the hard of hearing, here is an explanation...

#fabfact - a fact that is taken to be true, based on the misconceptions of a majority of people on fab. It isn't my stated opinion or indeed an actual fact.

Loo_ing round the forums, you will see #fabfacts littered everywhere as people jump to conclusions.

some #fabfacts based on forum posts only.

#fabfact bi men are more likely to jump on straight men in a mmf threesome.

Actual fact - Generally bi men respect boundaries as much as any other men and if they aren't attracted to your fella are less likely to pounce.

#fabfact If a man cannot accommodate, it is assumed he is married.

Actual fact - It means he chooses not to for a myriad of reasons.

It isn't a difficult concept.

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My profile says safe sex and I always have the conversation before a meet. Sadly most guys turn up without condoms, moan about not li_ing them and try to persuade me otherwise.

It's a turn off at that point as I then feel trust is lost and start wondering if they are going to take it off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile says safe sex and I always have the conversation before a meet. Sadly most guys turn up without condoms, moan about not li_ing them and try to persuade me otherwise.

It's a turn off at that point as I then feel trust is lost and start wondering if they are going to take it off! "

Don't be afraid of either reporting them or showing them the door.

Again, this goes back to informed choice. There is no excuse nowadays for not wearing condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My profile says safe sex and I always have the conversation before a meet. Sadly most guys turn up without condoms, moan about not li_ing them and try to persuade me otherwise.

It's a turn off at that point as I then feel trust is lost and start wondering if they are going to take it off!

Don't be afraid of either reporting them or showing them the door.

Again, this goes back to informed choice. There is no excuse nowadays for not wearing condoms."

I have a couple of times refused and sent them home. just ruins it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally understand why women can't accom you need to know who your inviting in to your house "

Some women love that risk or prepared to risk it, due to other commitments....

Not me though!

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. "

Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you.

Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

Soooooooo, alarm bells rang..... You don't say whether you've cancelled the meet or not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say safe sex, does that include oral too?

If it does, you might as well block me now - I'm dribbling and suc_ing a bare cock every time! Anyone care to slap my legs? Lol

I do gargle with warm salt water afterwards

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging.."

Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging..

Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three."

yay

Can I steal that as a #fabfact?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging..

Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three.

yay

Can I steal that as a #fabfact?"

It's just a fact-fact. Bree olsen was barebac_ing HIV positive sheen for years and didn't get infected, why - because she's hot as fuck.

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By *linkyMalinkyWoman
over a year ago

South Somerset

I was on here for years as a single female - and I think out of a lot of meets only one guy put a condom on, the rest just assumed it would be bareback. Which was fine as I like bareback (so shoot me...and yes I was having regular check ups and no I never caught anything). However, since I’ve been meeting guys as part of a couple, whether Mr is there or not they have ALL just automatically put a condom on. Just think it’s interesting...is this some kind of man code or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse.

Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you.

Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website."

Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not..

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By *ollie1Couple
over a year ago

murcia spain

understand your concerns as my wife will only play bareback

I worry for her safety but its what she wants

at her age the pregnancy factor doesnt come into it

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Don't get me wrong I'm not against bare back fun with some one you trust and met before just felt a bit dodgy "

If in doubt walk away its not worth it for the potential dangers and questionable intent.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse.

Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you.

Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website.

Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not.. "

Ah yes, the good old "choice" argument again. Blair has a lot more to answer for than Iraq.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london


"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention."
Here we go again.male bashing episode .if the op was female no qualms. Pathetic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep our choice on others too.. we do bareback ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

"

#and

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm just glad that I can't get pregnant .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just glad that I can't get pregnant ....."

Indeed, it's not much fun to be honest it's fuc_ing awful

But on thread, I personally wouldn't engage in sexual activity with anyone bareback except the Mr. It's just a preference of ours, we play safe as our sexual health is a priority. It only takes one person to change your life.forever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse.

Why does your profile have Safe Sex ticked if you only bareback? Also if you are bareback only you should state that clearly in your profile text so sane people can avoid you.

Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website.

Our choice folks.. we don't mind meeting those that want to wear a condom and those that do not..as for the safe sex tick, I did not even notice that was ticked.. thanks for pointing that out..the sane people can ask if we do bareback or not..

Ah yes, the good old "choice" argument again. Blair has a lot more to answer for than Iraq.

"

Politics and condoms how interesting

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

Can't accomodate = couple with kids

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Intrigued how bareback risks are limited or arent they? Do all prep? As it appears so many just shag n go how do they vet hiv risk? Understand there are some small groups they trust, sti test etc but appears plenty just risk it

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean"

Yeah cleared results on Friday met and shagged on Saturday infected Sunday..we see a lot of profiles saying, you must be regularly tested otherwise we would not meet you..does that mean they have to bring the results on every meet...and if its every 3/6mths when they get tested ..what happens in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean

Yeah cleared results on Friday met and shagged on Saturday infected Sunday..we see a lot of profiles saying, you must be regularly tested otherwise we would not meet you..does that mean they have to bring the results on every meet...and if its every 3/6mths when they get tested ..what happens in between "

I suppose it just shows a respect for their sexual health, no, it doesn’t mean you’re safe. But if you’ve never been tested or not for years then the chances are higher surely? (Depending on promiscuity I suppose)

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

It’s just to risky to do this

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and"

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them."

Wow that sounded bitter

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By *dtanyaTV/TS
over a year ago

gallowayshire

I have one regular guy who is the only guy who fucks me bare back he's got a luvly thick cock and gets tested monthly I luv bareback cock in my ass

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible "

I explained earlier on what #fabfacts were

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

Sometimes perhaps, but there are single fathers (like myself) and house sharers (ditto) for whom hosting is difficult or impossible

I explained earlier on what #fabfacts were "

Hey relax about your fab facts

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

So no reply to my questions as to how they feel bareback is safe?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"One thing I find silly is when people put on their profile, or wherever... "STI checked on and clear on ...(enter date here") ..... surely only good for that date ...I'm not being very clear but you know what I mean"

or indeed that minute!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even risk it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having a dig OP but nothing on your profile me mentions safe sex. Maybe she throught that’s how you played.

Sometimes you have to make it clear on here. "

Well said

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them."

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun facts:

Syphilis infections are on the rise.

NHS and WHO noted those in the above 50 age bracket most at risk of un-safe sex practices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them."

Thanks for your concerns..but it is still our choice and other peoples choices if they choose to go bareback..it does not concern you or effect you as you will always use protection..don't forget to use protection when suc_ing cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always wanna be careful if I am honest so I would if politely said so but no thank you

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. . "

These carry no HIV risk!

Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice.

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"And at least you are in a position to make an informed decision.

If we de-stigmatise bareback, everyone can be more open about it. That way if it isn't for you,you know the people who want to bareback and can then say thanks but no thanks.

It is the same as straight guys who reveal they are bi when it suits their needs.

Because everyone condemns barebackers, they hide so they don't risk blowing their chance of a fuck.

"

100% agree.

We're all ta_ing risks in the casual sex scene. Risks that we might catch something (even if we're careful.) Risks that we might meet a psycho, or their psycho other half.

It's all about risk vs reward. And everyone gets to decide their own balance. Perhaps the risk is part of the rewards for some. Perhaps the whole thing is so much more exciting for them, knowing there might be consequences.

I hate condoms. I really wish I didn't have to use the damned things. They kill the spontaneity of going from frottage to penetration, and as often as not, they kill a perfectly good erection on the guys that I meet. But I put up with them for casual sex because a lifetime of HIV isn't a fair trade for a few minutes of fun.

In a relationship, with trust, after an honest discussion about sexual histories, and after testing if that discussion makes it necessary, I will stop using them. But for casual? No way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

calm down Calm down …….freedom of choice and as adults we make those important decisions on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it kills to moment having to get them out half way through but it’s a must in my eyes safe safe safe health safe life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

Not everyone who can't accommodate is cheating stupid thing to say.

I can't accommodate because i don't have my own place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it’s all self choice and my choice would be to be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t accom but I am single so very silly to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever has a man turned up with a condom ! I have loads lol

I always use my own condoms then I know I can trust them

It's always better to trust your own - I've been using the same one for 17 years and it's never let me down."

But but, I’ve spent ages pric_ing minuscule holes in mine ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of poeple still think they would be able to tell from loo_ing if someone has an STD. Silly fuckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t accom but I am single so very silly to say "

Nothing stupid about it but saying someone is cheating because they can't accommodate is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ment it’s silly that people say it’s silly that you can’t accom when single it think it’s been safe so very clever my wording came out wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. .

These carry no HIV risk!

Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice."

I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

This is absolutely classic reading, please all keep going I’m having a pint and loving this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is absolutely classic reading, please all keep going I’m having a pint and loving this thread."

This is normal reading from a bareback thread. Weekly thing

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"This is absolutely classic reading, please all keep going I’m having a pint and loving this thread.

This is normal reading from a bareback thread. Weekly thing "

Then make it Monday’s and I’ll look forward to my nice safe pint and read, brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NHS website is great for facts!

I'll still be suc_ing a cock without a condom

No point in changing a habit of a lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Al

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"So no reply to my questions as to how they feel bareback is safe?"

I have no idea something with their thought process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

not necessarily true, I am a single male and I cannot accommodate as I live on a barracks and can't be bothered to go through all the bullsh*t to book people into my camp whenever I have a meet.

#fabfactsdontmeananything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts

not necessarily true, I am a single male and I cannot accommodate as I live on a barracks and can't be bothered to go through all the bullsh*t to book people into my camp whenever I have a meet.

#fabfactsdontmeananything"

I'm not explaining a third time.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Thanks for your concerns..but it is still our choice and other peoples choices if they choose to go bareback..it does not concern you or effect you as you will always use protection..don't forget to use protection when suc_ing cock "

Yep. It did go over your head.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. .

These carry no HIV risk!

Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice.

I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison"

You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Least I know who to avoid now via this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear a condom. I even buy them and take plenty when I play. So I can change between anal and vaginal penetration. Once had a women try to pierce it with her nails no way left straight away. Not bragging but the normal size sent big enough and I also buy slightly thicker condoms so I last longer whilst playing.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Seriously wonder about the basic intelligence of some people on this website."

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Only unattractive women have STDs. I saw it on a documentary on BBC three."

Yep - and I read it in the Sun, and the Daily Mail.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think a lot of poeple still think they would be able to tell from loo_ing if someone has an STD. Silly fuckers."

Better loo_ing = lower risk

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. .

These carry no HIV risk!

Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice.

I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison

You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that."

Who are we harming..we meet other that do bareback..we do not need a lecture from you on how we or others run their lifes. You do not do bareback so you have nothing to worry about..but you may not get that..people that suck cock or shag whilst wearing a condom will be fine..they will be protected..those like us that bareback know the risks..again our choice..it should not be of any concern for you, you practice safe sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of poeple still think they would be able to tell from loo_ing if someone has an STD. Silly fuckers.

Better loo_ing = lower risk "

If by better loo_ing you mean nothing oozing...

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"I always wear a condom. I even buy them and take plenty when I play. So I can change between anal and vaginal penetration. Once had a women try to pierce it with her nails no way left straight away. Not bragging but the normal size sent big enough and I also buy slightly thicker condoms so I last longer whilst playing."

And you think anyone believes a word of this?

Please.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Best form of safe sex ....dont give her your phone number

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex


"We had a guy contact us for a meet..we looked at his profile..we replied back, you say on your profile Safe Sex only..so your not for us sorry, we are a bareback couple ..he replied back...I do bareback too ... a lot of folk say they only do safe sex because they think it's what people want to see/read.. but when in fact, if offered sex bareback,they would not refuse. "

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. "

I said this to someone I know when he was playing bb with various ladies as he said they were all 'ok'!? Wasn't touching me again til he got tested as he was only person I did it with.....

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

Can't accommodate = married male

Can't accommodate = careful female

#fabfacts"

#fab facts are wrong I can’t accommodate but I’m not married and I’m not going to explain why you should stop jumping to conclusions about others

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By *azpaulMan
over a year ago

kent /murcia spain

Love to bb Hollie mmmm

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"yep our choice and others too.. we do bareback ..

#and

Good for you, well done. How do you feel about driving 60 in a thirty past a school at 3.15 Just for example?

You have the choice to do that as well.

The fact that a choice is available to you doesn't mean that it is socially responsible.

But I guess that argument will go pretty much over your head. Hopefully you'll live along life, not be infected, nor infect anyone else. Hope it goes well for you. And them.

Do you smoke..do you drink..do you suck cock without a condom..do you ride a motorbike..do you have a high fat diet.. .

These carry no HIV risk!

Oral higher risk if bleeding gums & other infections ie tonsillitis etc. But multiple jizz vag bareback partners especially if grazes in there more so anal as that tears easier surely is risky. Ive asked as why the gamble is appealing but no-one answers just its their choice.

I was just referring to the speed outside a school remark..life is all about risks..we choose which risks to take in life..one risk I would not do is drive 60 in a 30 near a school..that's just a ridiculous comparison

You may see it as that. I see it as another selfish activity which has the risk of harming others. But I understand you may not get that.

Who are we harming..we meet other that do bareback..we do not need a lecture from you on how we or others run their lifes. You do not do bareback so you have nothing to worry about..but you may not get that..people that suck cock or shag whilst wearing a condom will be fine..they will be protected..those like us that bareback know the risks..again our choice..it should not be of any concern for you, you practice safe sex.."

Correct.

Your choice.

Also your funeral.

Enjoy all the sex in the STD clinic/morgue/ graveyard!

Yes, we know foreplay has risks but much less than shooting your juice into someone, in any orifice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Price of a condom a euro

The price on getting rid - if you can €€€€!

Give me safe sex anyday

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex.

Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them.

At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not.

There is a risk in having sex with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady messages me and doesn't have Safe Sex listed as an Interest I ask them about it. If they tell me they even occasionally go bareback with people from here then I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex.

Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them.

At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not.

There is a risk in having sex with others."

If you want to be totally safe then I'm afraid the only answer is celibacy, #realfact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex.

Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them.

At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not.

There is a risk in having sex with others."

If you want to be totally safe then I'm afraid the only answer is celibacy, #realfact"

Of course that is very true.

However you can lower your risk of contracting an infection by ta_ing precautions such as using a condom.

By having bareback sex you are only increasing the risk.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

This is why Mrs P is a spunky tits whore

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


""Whenever we see posts like this it makes us wonder if the author knows what risks there are with protected sex.

Many seem to think that wearing a condom protects them.

At least if people mention bareback we can make an informed decision whether to play or not.

There is a risk in having sex with others."

If you want to be totally safe then I'm afraid the only answer is celibacy, #realfact"

True

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is why Mrs P is a spunky tits whore "

Sounds like just my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers."

Then you woke up?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers.

Then you woke up?

"

I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see the problem, you can tell how many STDs a person has by how good loo_ing they are. If she was hot then what's the risk. ..really are you that stupid, just becouse somebody looks good it dosent mean they dont have the clap or other nasty things ,safe sex is a must if swinging..

I think he was jo_ing "

I don't think everyone understands the concept of satire or scarcasim lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her in my direction

Does your wife know

What makes you think in married then

That reply clearly wasn’t for you, read the quote references back!

But anyway, count your blessings for that red flag, rather than it occurring on the night... (: "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the issue and the drama. If that's what someone likes that's down to them. At least you know the score and you can crack on with them or move on.

I agree that some just say they use condoms because it's what people want to hear because if you list you like bb or say so in the forums you're slated for it so no wonder people keep quiet.

It's not personally for me and I'd avoid anyone's profile that listed they like bb but that's my preference and my personal choice.

I have known people who have caught something from a long term trusted bf before. Just because you have casual sex doesn't mean you are more at risk than these so called trusted people. That's totally double standards.

There's no such thing as safe sex however there are ways you can make things a bit safer for yourself if that's what you choose to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention."
not sure this fact is a fact either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the issue and the drama. If that's what someone likes that's down to them. At least you know the score and you can crack on with them or move on.

I agree that some just say they use condoms because it's what people want to hear because if you list you like bb or say so in the forums you're slated for it so no wonder people keep quiet.

It's not personally for me and I'd avoid anyone's profile that listed they like bb but that's my preference and my personal choice.

I have known people who have caught something from a long term trusted bf before. Just because you have casual sex doesn't mean you are more at risk than these so called trusted people. That's totally double standards.

There's no such thing as safe sex however there are ways you can make things a bit safer for yourself if that's what you choose to do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!"

Then don't fuck bb or don't fuck at all. Minimise or eliminate your own risk. You have to take some responsibility for your own sexual health. You can't blame someone else for giving you something if you choose to play bb. Those that do play bb know the risks and are clearly happy to take them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!"

And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck with a condom on, fuck without a condom. Your choice and nobody else.

These threads about barebac_ing are fuc_ing annoying and too many times they are started by men with no or very little meets just trying to get attention."

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I arranged to meet a lovely lady recently and yes we'd discussed safe sex prior to our meet. I even agreed to wear protection for oral.

All was going well at our meet as she was even better than her photos. We started kissing then she said "slip one on, I want you in my mouth".

Her oral skills were exceptional and even though I really wanted penetrative sex, I could not stop myself and began to climax.

Then it happened all so quickly!!

I did not brake in time and crashed into the Ford Mondeo in front of me.

Disaster!! Lost all my no claims! Got an endorsement on my license and worst of all, she didn't want to see me again.

Safe sex my arse!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!

And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something "

You missed the point! I'm not tal_ing about me, I'm always safe anyway! I'm actually tal_ing about those people who have sex with multiple partners with out protection is being selfish and spreading STI's. Just don't do it!

When I said about no protection with regular partners, I'm tal_ing about people who have been checked since there last partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers.

Then you woke up?

I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it."

I don’t think anyone said that isn’t enjoyable.

It’s just some of us are more wise and tend not to have unprotected penetrative sex with multiple people.

As adults we are free to make any choice we like with our lives, some of us don’t want to increase our risk, some of us do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!

And just because you know someone and are regular with them that doesn't decrease your risk of catching something

You missed the point! I'm not tal_ing about me, I'm always safe anyway! I'm actually tal_ing about those people who have sex with multiple partners with out protection is being selfish and spreading STI's. Just don't do it!

When I said about no protection with regular partners, I'm tal_ing about people who have been checked since there last partner."

I didn't miss any point at all

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I don't care about sarcasm, being funny or not. If your fuc_ing about with other people with out any protection then it's just down right selfish and most probably spreading something. Let's just say you have sex tonight with a person with HIV, then have sex with another 10 people. That's 10 people you killed!! If you know someone that is checked and you are regular with then bareback but not just coz you feel like it!!!"

1. If you have unprotected vaginal sex with someone with hiv, your chances of catching hiv are less than 1 in 100.

2. If you do catch hiv, with treatment, you can now live a normal lifespan.

This is not to advocate bareback, it's to advocate accuracy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of."

The double standards and assumption is strong in you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of."

If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same!

#justsaying

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By *any32Man
over a year ago

norwich

Why do people asume sleeping about bareback means you'll catch something? Lots of what if someone has this or that,,, what if you have bb sex with 30 separate ppl and your absolutely fine?? I'm driving to the shops in a bit, hope my car doesn't get struck by lighting.

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By *ingMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Safety first guys and girls. Last time I went for STI test scared the shit out of me. I will never out my self in that situation again. But it's the best feeling wen u get all clear txt message lol ?????

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Read my post on HPV then think about your responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of.

If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same!

#justsaying "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of.

If you participate in oral sex with no protection you’re doing exactly the same!

#justsaying

Exactly "

I’m not into bareback but I respect other people’s choices and unprotected oral (most do participate in) has it’s risks!

Uneducated comments like his irritate me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been chatting with a lovely lady for a while was arranging a meet with her for today. I said jo_ingly id have to bulk buy some condoms.she then went of on one how we could only fuck if went bare and made sure I fill her with cum. Alarm bells started to ring at this point. Why would anyone risk it with some one that have never met.maybe she was just after getting preggers.

Then you woke up?

I've had a vasectomy so no hope there. Just accept it, lots of women love the feeling of cum shot inside them and lots of men enjoy the feeling of doing it.

I don’t think anyone said that isn’t enjoyable.

It’s just some of us are more wise and tend not to have unprotected penetrative sex with multiple people.

As adults we are free to make any choice we like with our lives, some of us don’t want to increase our risk, some of us do. "

Hear hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't agree. It's selfish and irrisposble. If you do it then you a pertentially spreading infections. That's the facts. End of.

The double standards and assumption is strong in you lol."

Where is my double standard!? I wrap up, to put it bluntly. Some people have STI, some life threatening! If you have unprotected sex then you playing Russian roulette. It can't be compared to a car getting struck by lightning. I've never had an STI, and never will. I know that. As for people having unprotected sex then chances are they will.if not not then your just playing with luck.

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