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By *oopy097 OP   Man
over a year ago

east mids

Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem it dosn't say in the site rules you have to thank everyone all the time. People really don't have the time to run round thanking everyone all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?! "

Were they looking for a quiet spot for themselves or to meet someone?

If just for themselves, why would they reply with thx but no thx? Inless you were offering to meet them.

Either way i guess, no one owes you a reply. So yes your wrong to be pissed.

P.

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?! "

Online version of holding a door open and not receiving a thanks?

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?! "

Did you offer to be helpful or offer to get a thanks. ?

Or maybe they deleted email by accident and can’t reply. Certainly done that in the past.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I feel that if you ask a question and someone offers an answer a simple "thanks" isn't too much to ask.

I don't think you're wrong to feel miffed but don't dwell on it

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Personally I feel that if you ask a question and someone offers an answer a simple "thanks" isn't too much to ask.

I don't think you're wrong to feel miffed but don't dwell on it "

If it’s someone being helpful and not just looking to see how they can change your situation to include themselves, I usually reply with a thank you but then a conversation starts which isn’t always something I’m looking for, it’s like being in a rock and a hard place, I want to be polite but too many seem to think as soon as dialogue is open, sex will soon happen

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By *rshottyWoman
over a year ago

near

I would be miffed! Manners COST nothing and if you have time to read it you have time to reply... don't dwell on it! Love on and enjoy can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners and respect cost nothing

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Personally I feel that if you ask a question and someone offers an answer a simple "thanks" isn't too much to ask.

I don't think you're wrong to feel miffed but don't dwell on it "

This,try not to get too hung up on it or it will drive you mad.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing and are free to use. Its not hard is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I feel that if you ask a question and someone offers an answer a simple "thanks" isn't too much to ask.

I don't think you're wrong to feel miffed but don't dwell on it

If it’s someone being helpful and not just looking to see how they can change your situation to include themselves, I usually reply with a thank you but then a conversation starts which isn’t always something I’m looking for, it’s like being in a rock and a hard place, I want to be polite but too many seem to think as soon as dialogue is open, sex will soon happen "

So don’t ask a question if you don’t want to have to field answers....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A thanks is always welcome and not that time consuming to do..no excuses for not acknowledging someone who has taken time out to help..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Mountains and molehills spring to mind - yes it's frustrating to not be thanked but I'm not sure it would frustrate me enough to start a forum thread about it either.

Maybe they read it, meant to reply and forgot. Maybe they read it, thought they'd try it out and thank you later once they had done so. Maybe they just don't have manners. Or maybe they were concerned that if they replied they'd potentially be asked to meet there and didn't want the awkwardness of having to say no.

Who knows? Either way I'd not let it cause you more than minor irritation OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?! "

Manners are few and far between on here. Some think they are too high and mighty to say the word thank you, some are just plain rude but there are still some decent people left who know how to be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to manners on this site?? A couple posted they wanted a local quiet outdoor spot.. I offered them one I know that's very little known... They read it and not so much as a thankyou! Even if it was no use to them, am I wrong to be pissed I didn't get a 'Thanks but no Thanks' ?!

Were they looking for a quiet spot for themselves or to meet someone?

If just for themselves, why would they reply with thx but no thx? Inless you were offering to meet them.

Either way i guess, no one owes you a reply. So yes your wrong to be pissed.

P."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social etiquette goes completely out the window on here, such as non replies, people just stop talking in the middle of conversations, rudeness etc etc

None of this behaviour is socially acceptable in the real world, but with the female/male/couple dynamic of fab it happens here, whatever reasons it’s unacceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be joking Manners on here it been thrown out the door in my book

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Really should be getting a thanks in our opinion, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cost nothing at all. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re- read this again. Totally agree with the sentiment on manners, bit it also reads as the OP was expecting some other reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have them an “option” and it included inviting yourself then I can understand why the wouldn’t reply.

However if you were being genuinely helpful then a thanks wouldn’t go a miss.

As someone said, they could think bu saying thanks you might attempt to interest them into meeting you, so avoided it.

People talk of manners on here a lot but I’d guess most people were replying to most messages they got when they first joined and that went downhill the more abuse and pestering they received. In the real world you’d say thanks but no thanks and that person would likely get the hint... on the internet people think it’s okay to send multiple messages and pester you sometimes. So the two aren’t always comparable.

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