FabSwingers.com forum: Horrible accent

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you do?

You get chatting to somebody on fab. You get along well, you have a good laugh and a bit of a flirt. You swap pics and spend time getting to know each other. You both fancy each other and it progresses to social meet.

You walk into the cafe where you have agreed to meet. He or she still looks very attractive to you and things look promising.

Then he or she talks and they have an accent that you really hate. Every time he or she speaks it is like fingernails scraping over a chalkboard.

What do you do?

This hasn't happened to me I am just thinking out aloud.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Not had that but I guess if it was that distracting and detracted from my attraction to them, which of course is about the full package, then it would be a no.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Find something to stick in their mouth to shut them up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gag em

Brummy accent would have that effect on me or the dubs

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

If everything else is above board you could take her to speach therapy but i would wait until the 2nd meet before suggesting it...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

That's why I always mean to chatty on the phone first.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" That's why I always mean to chatty on the phone first.

Chat not chatty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do?

You walk into the cafe where you have agreed to meet. He or she still looks very attractive to you and things look promising.

Then he or she talks and they have an accent that you really hate. Every time he or she speaks it is like fingernails scraping over a chalkboard.

What do you do?

This hasn't happened to me I am just thinking out aloud. "
omg you're from liverpooooooooool

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I've had it where I've spoken to them first on the phone before meeting and it's put me off them. One guy rang me he was a big guy with a big build and sounded like a bloody woman on the phone,now I did actually meet him and thankfully in the flesh he didn't.

My ex husband had a feminine phone voice,weird.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Gag em

Brummy accent would have that effect on me or the dubs"

Hubby is in tears now!

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By *iway2016Man
over a year ago

The CF post code

I wouldn't reject a person because of something they have no control over.

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By *UNTER110Man
over a year ago

grimsby

"I wouldn't reject a person because of something they have no control over."

But u have no control over your looks ect so would u say yes to everyone?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

Ummm … could be worse....I've had a few people refuse to even chat with me because my profile says I've got a 'posh' (received pronunciation) accent .... at least they got to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gag em

Brummy accent would have that effect on me or the dubs"
what you mean bab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ could sound really shallow here!! Id be pleasant and try to get away asap i guess. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be the Manchester accent for me, then again I can’t really talk about awful accents being from Wolverhampton. Thankfully mine is very mild!

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By *iway2016Man
over a year ago

The CF post code

"I wouldn't reject a person because of something they have no control over.

But u have no control over your looks ect so would u say yes to everyone? "

Specs or contact lenses, jeans or trousers, jacket or coat, dye hair or not, different make up, change hair style - people change the way they look all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would be the Manchester accent for me, then again I can’t really talk about awful accents being from Wolverhampton. Thankfully mine is very mild!

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bloody eck yam

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"Ummm … could be worse....I've had a few people refuse to even chat with me because my profile says I've got a 'posh' (received pronunciation) accent .... at least they got to meet someone

That’s would make me want to chat to you...

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By *uuLuuWoman
over a year ago

Watford

"I wouldn't reject a person because of something they have no control over.

But u have no control over your looks ect so would u say yes to everyone?

Specs or contact lenses, jeans or trousers, jacket or coat, dye hair or not, different make up, change hair style - people change the way they look all the time.

So if someone has no control over something you wouldn't reject them I take that would include not rejecting someone who was a pre op transsexual then?

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By *iway2016Man
over a year ago

The CF post code

"I wouldn't reject a person because of something they have no control over.

But u have no control over your looks ect so would u say yes to everyone?

Specs or contact lenses, jeans or trousers, jacket or coat, dye hair or not, different make up, change hair style - people change the way they look all the time.

So if someone has no control over something you wouldn't reject them I take that would include not rejecting someone who was a pre op transsexual then? "

Definitely. I would love to meet one.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’ve had it when I’ve got on with someone brilliantly by message, but then when we chatted on the phone their voice put me right off. This has happened to me on here and with online dating. I’m beginning to think I’m too picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run as fast as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bristol... omg can't stand that awful accent!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bristol... omg can't stand that awful accent!!!!

Imagine how I feel.. I ain't from round 'ere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bristol... omg can't stand that awful accent!!!!

Imagine how I feel.. I ain't from round 'ere

xxx

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

It's called the " David Beckham " syndrome. Fit as fuck until he speaks

take off your knickers , shove in his mouth , then continue

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I have been there. It didn’t happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've rejected a couple of men after speaking to them on the phone.

Fickle? Probably.

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