FabSwingers.com forum: Help required first anal

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might not the place to ask but i want to try being done in my ass by a guy. Iv had a women fuck me with a dildo and but plug but never a real life throbing cock.

Should i start with a small cock or just go for it with a good sized one also whats the best lube to use and the easiest positiin for me to be in to take my first pounding

All jelp and sdvise would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about what you size of dildo you had. Did it feel big/small? How did it feel to you?

Your looking for something that will feel good for you.

Regarding lub... a good water based lub is probably the way forward. Especially if you are using protecting....

Mistress Amelia

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise its something i want to do so much .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright "

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

All my posts are from experiences love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

All my posts are from experiences love. "

But but but youre straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

All my posts are from experiences love.

But but but youre straight

I think you'll find that's Fab straight...

Mistress Amelia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

All my posts are from experiences love.

But but but youre straight

I think you'll find that's Fab straight...

Mistress Amelia"

I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women "

Back up a little.

So say;

- you are not straight

- but you are a gay man

- but you only fuck women

- but your profile says your straight

One feels this whole statement is a little tongue and cheek. Unless, of course, you are serious then you are definitely Fab straight

Mistress Amelia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women

Back up a little.

So say;

- you are not straight

- but you are a gay man

- but you only fuck women

- but your profile says your straight

One feels this whole statement is a little tongue and cheek. Unless, of course, you are serious then you are definitely Fab straight

Mistress Amelia"

Oh I forgot to mention that I only anal fuck women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy s few buttplugs and wear the smallest to start with. Don't wear them all day though, just an hour or 2 . By time your ready to play wear the biggest one at least an hour before with plenty of good lube x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women

Back up a little.

So say;

- you are not straight

- but you are a gay man

- but you only fuck women

- but your profile says your straight

One feels this whole statement is a little tongue and cheek. Unless, of course, you are serious then you are definitely Fab straight

Mistress Amelia"

F&B serious? Never happens - he has his tongue permanently sewn in his cheek - which is why he can't do oral

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Serious answer for the OP - if you've already taken strap-ons and butt plugs it shouldn't be any different physically from taking those - although the sensation IS different.

First up, make sure to prepare with an anal douche - get totally clean there.

Next thing to remember is be comfortable and relax - all fours or lying flat on your belly are good positions for this.

Ask him to use plenty of lube, both on himself and you, get him to use fingers for this to slowly open you up a little. When you think you've got enough lube, use some more - you can never have too much!!

Once YOU are ready, have him push his head *gently* against you and *slowly* start to push - don't be tempted to push back - his head will eventually "pop" inside and you may feel a little discomfort at this point, have him hold it there until it passes.

Once it does and you are ready, have him push *slowly* again until he is inside you fully, but make sure he's aware and ready to stop or even pull out any time you tell him to.

Once you are ready he can start to move in and out, slowly increasing the speed taking his cues from you.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women

Back up a little.

So say;

- you are not straight

- but you are a gay man

- but you only fuck women

- but your profile says your straight

One feels this whole statement is a little tongue and cheek. Unless, of course, you are serious then you are definitely Fab straight

Mistress Amelia

F&B serious? Never happens - he has his tongue permanently sewn in his cheek - which is why he can't do oral

No good to me them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a good sized one dude but brace yourself before entrance and you'd be allright

Do not brace yourself u need to be fully relaxed or its gonna hurt like hell

unless youre talking from experience f&b ?!

I'm a gay man in a straight man's body

All my posts are from experiences love.

But but but youre straight

I think you'll find that's Fab straight...

Mistress Amelia

I am not straight but I am a gay man who only fucks women "

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

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I would suggest finding the right man is more important than the right cock. For the first time you probably want someone who also wants to take things slowly and is ready to take their time and willing to just hold still when you need them to. Unfortunately this can't be said of all men who top and there are even some that after discussing this and agreeing the approach for a session are still prone to getting carried away and just ramming in for their own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious answer for the OP - if you've already taken strap-ons and butt plugs it shouldn't be any different physically from taking those - although the sensation IS different.

First up, make sure to prepare with an anal douche - get totally clean there.

Next thing to remember is be comfortable and relax - all fours or lying flat on your belly are good positions for this.

Once it does and you are ready, have him push *slowly* again until he is inside you fully, but make sure he's aware and ready to stop or even pull out any time you tell him to.

Once you are ready he can start to move in and out, slowly increasing the speed taking his cues from you.

Enjoy

This

It explains everything you should need to do before the big event, and during too.

NEVER think you have to ride like a cowboy, just relax and take things at your own pace

Forrr time for me was a little uncomfortable, but as soon as the feeling subsided I enjoyed having him push slowly and allowing me to either go faster or slow down.

Hope you enjoy as much as I did... and go back for seconds too!

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