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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discuss first.

If the man is bi then fine.

It could make some men very uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s great, all good fun

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me "

What about the other guy? Is he bi?

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

What about the other guy? Is he bi? "

We don't no yet but maybe he would have to be . But my fella would not want any bi fun

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first. "

Good point maybe ask first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind this, but it would be good to talk about it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's something you definitely need to communicate on if your playing with another couple or a single guy, everyone has different boundaries.

I can't say it's something we would do but I'm sure you won't be short of offers.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

What about the other guy? Is he bi?

We don't no yet but maybe he would have to be . But my fella would not want any bi fun "

Except that “is” bi fun. And the fella would need to be bi and know what to expect when you are arranging to meet.

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

What about the other guy? Is he bi?

We don't no yet but maybe he would have to be . But my fella would not want any bi fun

Except that “is” bi fun. And the fella would need to be bi and know what to expect when you are arranging to meet."

It would only be a little feel more touching me

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By *ilancsguyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

As a bi guy it wouldn't bother me if it just happened during a couple meet instigated by her partner. However, I would NOT instigate unless discussed beforehand - could cause some guys upset and wreck the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything, agree ground rules first. Nothing worse than an unwanted act irrespective of what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint think that would bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me "

If he wants to feel another man's cock he's bi. Just go with it.

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

If he wants to feel another man's cock he's bi. Just go with it."

Think your wrong sorry it's not as if they would be sucking or fucking . He just wants to feel the pleasure iam getting he would be mostly touching and kissing me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Most straight guys would not be at all impressed... If you want to try this, you need to do so with a bi guy.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they ask politely first, why the hell not.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I would have no problem at all as I,m bisexual , and if it's discussed and that's all your bloke wants to do , I don,t see why not ....give us a shout

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

If he wants to feel another man's cock he's bi. Just go with it.

Think your wrong sorry it's not as if they would be sucking or fucking . He just wants to feel the pleasure iam getting he would be mostly touching and kissing me "

This thread is just a wank fantasy for you isn’t it mate?

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

If he wants to feel another man's cock he's bi. Just go with it."

Agreed. Doesnt seem to be confusing to me.

Much easier to discuss and arrange with another guy if there is some recognition that this is bi play.

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

i Think that it sounds quite fun, I understand that you may get all horny and want to feel as the guy gets your other half horny.

I’m gonna go with it sounds damn fun and I bet it would feel good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Ehm i thought this is normal practice oops

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By *uyana1971Man
over a year ago

nelson

It wouldn’t bother me .

If it turned the woman on as well go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guessing if theyre both bi,plus also the guy whos joined them is bi too,Dont see any problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought this would be part of mmf if everyone was happy with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is on his first step to being bi

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

I’d check first but personally if I was pleasuring you and your fella reached round and felt my cock as it penertrated you it would seriously turn me on making me rock hard inside you!

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me

If he wants to feel another man's cock he's bi. Just go with it.

Think your wrong sorry it's not as if they would be sucking or fucking . He just wants to feel the pleasure iam getting he would be mostly touching and kissing me

This thread is just a wank fantasy for you isn’t it mate? "

Your very clever yes it's a fantasy because we haven't done it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

It wouldn't bother me at all.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Wouldn't call him bi, fab straight maybe, just set the meet up on the basis that you would like to share your wife, but have a fantasy about putting another guys cock into her by hand, there shouldn't need to be any confusion about accidental touching then, then if someone doesn't like the idea of MM touching, they don't get the pleasure of having your wife ...simple

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes please

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Wouldn't call him bi, fab straight maybe, just set the meet up on the basis that you would like to share your wife, but have a fantasy about putting another guys cock into her by hand, there shouldn't need to be any confusion about accidental touching then, then if someone doesn't like the idea of MM touching, they don't get the pleasure of having your wife ...simple "

Great comment but he doesn't want to put it in me just as we fuck in missionary he would lie next to me kissing an caressing then slid his hand down to feel what is pleasuring me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't call him bi, fab straight maybe, just set the meet up on the basis that you would like to share your wife, but have a fantasy about putting another guys cock into her by hand, there shouldn't need to be any confusion about accidental touching then, then if someone doesn't like the idea of MM touching, they don't get the pleasure of having your wife ...simple

That’s hot!

Great comment but he doesn't want to put it in me just as we fuck in missionary he would lie next to me kissing an caressing then slid his hand down to feel what is pleasuring me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me all fun and games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

No, not at that Point. Just wouldn't think about it.

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh


"Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ?? "

Love this, sooo horny...

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset


"Wouldn't call him bi, fab straight maybe, just set the meet up on the basis that you would like to share your wife, but have a fantasy about putting another guys cock into her by hand, there shouldn't need to be any confusion about accidental touching then, then if someone doesn't like the idea of MM touching, they don't get the pleasure of having your wife ...simple

Great comment but he doesn't want to put it in me just as we fuck in missionary he would lie next to me kissing an caressing then slid his hand down to feel what is pleasuring me "

Then adjust the wording accordingly, or just put wants to play with you dick while we fuck, but doesn't like being called bi.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "
Needs negotiation. I'm queer as fuck and when I've been with couples, if they guy starts going for my cock my reaction has usually been to ask which of his holes are on the menu, (you'd be surprised how many, lol) but there are plenty of homophobes around, even amongst swingers, who will treat an unexpected grope as an excuse to go postal on you.

Carter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think communication is key in this situation and in any

Not fair for anyone if just random stuff happens (especially if it crosses a boundary in some people eyes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first. "

I'd feel this way about it

P

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first. "

and if he did ask I would say leave my cock alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Then perhaps he should be bicurious on your profile. This is the sort of stuff that gives bi people a bad name as we are generally respectful and would discuss first, prior to meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love it.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "
Would I mind??? I'd actively encourage it!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Be nice if someone touched my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit vanilla to me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are both straight so it would be a no from us, but we are always very upfront so there should be no misunderstanding.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this Needs negotiation. I'm queer as fuck and when I've been with couples, if they guy starts going for my cock my reaction has usually been to ask which of his holes are on the menu, (you'd be surprised how many, lol) but there are plenty of homophobes around, even amongst swingers, who will treat an unexpected grope as an excuse to go postal on you.

Carter"

If a guy doesn't want another guy to grab his cock it certainly doesn't make him a homophobe. On the otherhand someone who has an unexpected grope of either sex is not a swinger but a sexual predator (a bit like Trump)

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I think there are a lot of people who have curious thoughts and want to explore them in the heat of the moment but are not looking for anything else. I for one have no problem with it and would like to know it might happen but not to take it as an indication that it is to be reciprocated. Just in case they panicked if the guy grabbed his cock back.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this Needs negotiation. I'm queer as fuck and when I've been with couples, if they guy starts going for my cock my reaction has usually been to ask which of his holes are on the menu, (you'd be surprised how many, lol) but there are plenty of homophobes around, even amongst swingers, who will treat an unexpected grope as an excuse to go postal on you.

Carter

If a guy doesn't want another guy to grab his cock it certainly doesn't make him a homophobe. On the otherhand someone who has an unexpected grope of either sex is not a swinger but a sexual predator (a bit like Trump)"
Yes, I know, and I practice informed consent but there are plenty of people round these parts, including the OP, who possibly need some stress on the possible consequences to get them to do the right thing, which is negotiate (which is what I started with...)

However, the good news is you've done some virtue signalling and got in an irrelevant reference to Trump (other sexual predators are also available) which lets everyone know which side you're on so your day's not been wasted - I hope the rest of it is just as much fun for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite is when I am on top of someone’s wife in the missionary position fucking her, she is sucking hubby and then I join her in sucking him or licking his balls, I havnt had a guy protest yet

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"My favourite is when I am on top of someone’s wife in the missionary position fucking her, she is sucking hubby and then I join her in sucking him or licking his balls, I havnt had a guy protest yet "

A guy did that to me in a mmf a while back. Totally unannounced.

My wife burst out giggling at the look of shock on my face. My erection vanished instantly and the other guy flounced off in a sulk.

Evening over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is when I am on top of someone’s wife in the missionary position fucking her, she is sucking hubby and then I join her in sucking him or licking his balls, I havnt had a guy protest yet

A guy did that to me in a mmf a while back. Totally unannounced.

My wife burst out giggling at the look of shock on my face. My erection vanished instantly and the other guy flounced off in a sulk.

Evening over "

Yeah, can't say I'd be a fan of it either

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why clear discussion is the key to set boundaries, but most of the guys I have sucked or have sucked me in a 3some situation said at the start it wasn’t for them?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I would have no problem with it and it should be talked about first where the boundaries are.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross


"Wouldn't call him bi, fab straight maybe, just set the meet up on the basis that you would like to share your wife, but have a fantasy about putting another guys cock into her by hand, there shouldn't need to be any confusion about accidental touching then, then if someone doesn't like the idea of MM touching, they don't get the pleasure of having your wife ...simple "

It would not "do" anything for me, I'm not into or looking for MM contact, but would not bother me.

I am there to pleasure the woman as part of a couple, so his enjoyment is important too, as long as he is aware I'm not going to play with him or look to have him play with me. Touching is ok as part of the closeness of a way.

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By *anchoPanzaMan
over a year ago

Newport

Would not be bothered at all it would only add to the experience in a positive way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to have this happen.

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By *uracell-DannyMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I was apprehensive at first but in alot of cuckold and hotwife encounters...the husband likes to guide the cock into his wife.

You get used to it and its all good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it definitely needs discussing first. Nothing worse than someone shooting off the bed like a scalded cat because they weren’t expecting it..

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

We think we need to put this straight maybe the wording was wrong. We would ask 1st if this was ok . And also the would be no other Male on male contact . Can't believe how many emails we have had about this post all positive .it's a shame most are to far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I would make it quite clear that it's not to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with it

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

I wouldnt want this at all. I state im happy to be around other guys so long as no MM contact at all. I dont even let a lady suck me and another guy at same time. One by one yes, but not together.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Discuss first.

If the man is bi then fine.

It could make some men very uncomfortable "

This totally

Never just assume its ok with anyone ..

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with couples seem fraught with danger reading some of the replies

Communicate beforehand seems the best bet. But it sounds quite hot for all participants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing the licking is one of my weird fantasies. Weird because I'm straight. But I've never thought about it the other way around. It's weird because I might be ok with it. It might be a bit of a turn on, like cuckolding. Fucking a guy's wife right in his face.

But this is all just fantasy. Being straight, the reality of it all may be too weird for me. Dunno

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me "
he’s bi or gay or a fantasist then because straight men do not want to touch or suck another man it’s simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would find it a big turn on,but probably make me cum to quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had a threesome with my mate and his wife, as I as having sex with her, he was rubbing her clit, his fingertips touched my cock a couple of times, didn't bother none of us though, it wasn't like he grabbed it or anything like that, we'd all had a few drinks beforehand not d*unk though, if anything she was getting wetter and enjoying the attention she was getting.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Think that in a group situation things are quite fluid x

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Would find it a big turn on,but probably make me cum to quickly "

But your straight so would that make you bi ?? Only asking because people in here think if we did it the fella is bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, neither of us would ever want another bloke touching my cock.

That would kill it all off for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would find it a big turn on,but probably make me cum to quickly

But your straight so would that make you bi ?? Only asking because people in here think if we did it the fella is bi "

Not bi if it's a threesum it's just getting involved

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"No, neither of us would ever want another bloke touching my cock.

That would kill it all off for us."

Apparently according to some that doesnt mean you are straight. Just too repressed. Lol

You gotta laugh how on planet Fab black can be white.

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Titles titles titles.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss first.

If the man is bi then fine.

It could make some men very uncomfortable "

^^^^^^^^^. Bit of an obvious one. What kind of question is that anyway. If you like men or are bi then that's fine. If not then someone's getting it. And not in a sexual way. Lexi

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Titles titles titles......."

??????????

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

This some people are not reading all the posts . It's got nothing to do with being bi . And also we would chat about it 1st an not just doit . We was just wondering how guys would feel about doing it

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"This some people are not reading all the posts . It's got nothing to do with being bi . And also we would chat about it 1st an not just doit . We was just wondering how guys would feel about doing it "

As we said earlier...we are straight...so it would be no.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first.

Good point maybe ask first "

No maybe about it. It's only right you ASK 1st before joining in any playing.

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Would all depend in the moment for me, if it turns the Mrs on then id not have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this still a taboo subject? Go wit the flow is my mantra as long as all parties know whats expected,tactile and respectful then its fine by me!

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

My thoughts also, long as not off guard, I'd not mind in the moment!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me he’s bi or gay or a fantasist then because straight men do not want to touch or suck another man it’s simple as that. "
Other definitions of straight may also be available. Take it from me - I get a regular flow of messages from men who identify (on here) as straight who seem fascinated with my cock.

Carter

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By *obbly2000Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Lots of messages from so called straight guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact in some form is bound to happen, lots of things happen in the moment, so long as everyone is happy

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Contact in some form is bound to happen, lots of things happen in the moment, so long as everyone is happy "

Of course contact is bound to happen in group sex. Nobody is going to object about a knee brushing against you. Or shoulders.

But wrapping your lips around another guys cock is totally different. Ok if you are bi but most definitely not if you are straight.

Doing this "in the moment" without discussing it in advance might work out ok. Might.

On the other hand it might turn out seriously badly.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Contact in some form is bound to happen, lots of things happen in the moment, so long as everyone is happy

Of course contact is bound to happen in group sex. Nobody is going to object about a knee brushing against you. Or shoulders.

But wrapping your lips around another guys cock is totally different. Ok if you are bi but most definitely not if you are straight.

Doing this "in the moment" without discussing it in advance might work out ok. Might.

On the other hand it might turn out seriously badly.

"

Exactly this, hubby would freak

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Hes no bi he just wants to feel the other man's cock what is pleasuring me an how wet it's making me he’s bi or gay or a fantasist then because straight men do not want to touch or suck another man it’s simple as that. Other definitions of straight may also be available. Take it from me - I get a regular flow of messages from men who identify (on here) as straight who seem fascinated with my cock.

It's a nice cock tho mate

Carter"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the original post says nothing about rapping lips around anything?

They are asking how other people would feel about it, you see if I was in a situation and there was something I wasn't happy with I will ask them not to do it, end of story

Im not giving advice just my point of view on it

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Lots of messages from so called straight guys on here "

Well all the emails we have are from straight guys wanting to do this so does that make them Bi?? . That's what alot of the posters are saying when we do this it makes the guys Bi

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"In the original post says nothing about rapping lips around anything?

They are asking how other people would feel about it, you see if I was in a situation and there was something I wasn't happy with I will ask them not to do it, end of story

Im not giving advice just my point of view on it "

Your right... nothing in the post says about the guys doing anythin other than just my fella wanting to feel what's pleasuring me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one would love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had it done . I enjoyed it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind, and if he bent me over and put his cock in me ,if mind even less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called situationally bi .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called liking it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone pointed out that some people are into it, others aren't but that it's not for them yet???

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By *eanuts2014Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

It seems that there are many opinions on whether this makes one or both of the men bi

Our opinion is.... who cares whether they are bi or not?!

If it's something you both want to do, you'll have no problem finding someone willing because it seems that couples are in charge (mostly).

However, you'll probably find that men who are openly bi (on here) are more likely to agree to and enjoy that kind of contact.

As long as you all agree boundaries beforehand everyone will have a lot of fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh a straight guy ain't ever gonna wank a bloke off when he's shagging a girl.

If both men bi or the guy shagging the girl is bi and the other guy a gay then maybe they would enjoy it but straight guys big no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with that!! Sounds very arousing to me

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

My mans straight and would be offended. Especially if it wasn't discussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is somthing you would like to try then id definitely sugest finding a bi m & f couple and explain what it is you want to do and explain boundaries prior to meeting, communication is always key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's such a hoot to see this thread in 2018 on a swingers site!

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

No problem what so ever ..had a few "open" mmf's there great..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your fella is a lucky guy having you as his partner. Understanding what he wants and wanting to help him achieve it. I think what he wants in this scenario is horny as hell as well as being a way of showing his love for you by wanting to touch the cock that's giving you so much pleasure. I hope you find what you're looking for x

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Nope not a chance here

I'm straight but comfortable with certain things like crossing swords lol or a woman with another cock in her mouth with mine . Butt sorry if he goes to start to play with me he better be ready to take a dig lol.

Mr dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No probs here xxx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think the problem is with the labeling. I lot of guys don't want to label the things they wouldn't mind trying but could be up for experimenting. 'bisexual' and 'gay' still have very negative connotations with men thanks to their social conditioning. It's only very recently that Rob's come to accept his curiosities.

Make it clear before hand that your guy would like to reach down and feel the other guys cock going in and out of you. If everyone's happy then give it a try. It's not something to surprise someone with mid-meet though!

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

Once had a wife riding me cowgirl while wanking her husband as he stood by the bed next to us, my cock popped out of her, she just said to him "put him back in" which he did, didn't bother me at all, must add that both us men are straight, he said he did it without even thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once had a wife riding me cowgirl while wanking her husband as he stood by the bed next to us, my cock popped out of her, she just said to him "put him back in" which he did, didn't bother me at all, must add that both us men are straight, he said he did it without even thinking!"
I'd of Defo given it a suck before putting back in

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By *uckbuddies321Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We love this both ways. When a guy is fucking Sal I push a finger either side of his cock into her pussy. Drives all 3 of us wild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't bi.

Just curiosity. He could even guide him in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

YES PLEASE

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By *elaxedcplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

Think that in a group situation things are quite fluid x"

In a play room with 3 other couples I accidentally touched a guys cock while playing with his wife's clit as they had sex and he did the same to me while playing with my wife's clit, we just laughed and got on with the fun.

Shit happens in groups in small spaces, if that makes me straight, bi, fab straight or gay so be it.

P

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By *oerow16Man
over a year ago

Essex/ London


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

"

Sounds like a perfect night for me

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"Your fella is a lucky guy having you as his partner. Understanding what he wants and wanting to help him achieve it. I think what he wants in this scenario is horny as hell as well as being a way of showing his love for you by wanting to touch the cock that's giving you so much pleasure. I hope you find what you're looking for x"

Hit the nail on the head right there . Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of guys start straight on the scene and somehow end up catching ghay. It's a thing in Swingerland fact !

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By *lowingMan
over a year ago

Warrington

This happened to me with a fem freind.... It all turned out rather well

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By *ft4TallGuyMan
over a year ago

London and Amsterdam

Wouldnt mind trying, can we do it first and I will let you know afterwards? -;)

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I'm straight but it wouldn't bother me at all, in fact I like the idea of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this happened to me playing in a club.

was a good sensation.

not disscussed before did not put me off.

no i am not bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, see we told you, all you straighties caught ghay. Must be something about seeing all those cocks and then you stop being afraid of them, and you think "ohh that'll be nice" and just can't help yourself, you end up grabbing one and before you know it you caught ghay.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

This messes with my head. If doing DP balls are gonna touch and a hand may touch accidently while you guide your cock in but if the other man starts milking my balls.... I'm out, that crosses the Bi line for me, not my thing. But it's something that should be clear before you start so nobody has a bad or embarrassing experience.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

i would love to help out with this

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

No issues with this whatsoever.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I expect most people to be open minded on here and up for new experiences, part of the fun of this game. However at the end of the day it's whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of crossed swords is fine but I wouldn’t want a mans hand on my cock dp with swords and balls hitting is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love it! When having sex it only adds to a more explosive orgasm..

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington

Wow haha this post still going? Unreal how many straight guys emailed us on this but wouldn't comment in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm yes please we are both bisexual...we both love cock and pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m straight end of.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow haha this post still going? Unreal how many straight guys emailed us on this but wouldn't comment in here "
is that because they aren’t getting any pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow haha this post still going? Unreal how many straight guys emailed us on this but wouldn't comment in here is that because they aren’t getting any pussy? "

Would you suck your own cock if you could...bet you have tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow haha this post still going? Unreal how many straight guys emailed us on this but wouldn't comment in here is that because they aren’t getting any pussy?

Would you suck your own cock if you could...bet you have tried "
I’m perfectly fine having females do it thank you and my tongue is programmed in to lick clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love it if the other guys playing with my cock,after fucking his,Id probly suck his cock swallow his cum

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By *ust little old me 13Man
over a year ago

Preston

As long as you're happy about it carry on lol

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Yes please

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

I don’t think it makes him bi at all, he’s not asking to fuck the guy just feel another cock going in his wife, I’d imagine it’s nothing to do with cock apart from the fact it’s entering his wife and pleasing her, to me that’s not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is no more bi than using a toy on a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this

For us, yes. We would be bothered. It would be a total turn off for both of us and signal an end to the session. It is as inappropriate as doing anything without asking first.

Good point maybe ask first "

"Maybe" ask first?

DEFINITELY ask first!

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Warrington you say

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By *latinum69Man
over a year ago

essex

I’d love that!! Never say no me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I’d just say to him I’d rather he didn’t. Not into guys myself but I’m sure it’s not contagious .

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By *lowingMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Pretty much how my first bi experience happened so no, No problem for me.... I shall await your call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He s bi

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Wouldn’t bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like it as I am straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Yeah mood is going to take a downward spiral with that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a Dilemma. I was on the opposite spectrum. I met a guy with a woman, I am gay. He wanted me to play with his balls while he fucked her. I was not touching her as We Discuss then got on with it . I just closed my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would 100% definentley NOT be happening with me ..

I'm ok with close proximity with mfm but must insist no male to male contact. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me a few times when we have invited another guy to join the wife and myself, even though the guy has said he’s straight, he has handled my cock when it’s been going inside my wife, think it’s been a heat of the moment thing though, certainly didn’t stop us, if anything it made the session a lot more hornier for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem being touched by another guy here mmmmmm

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I reckon you would be surprised at how many guys would be fine with it, that said theres always one who is unsure enough about his sexuality to be angry, so best to discus.

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I reckon you would be surprised at how many guys would be fine with it, that said theres always one who is unsure enough about his sexuality to be angry, so best to discus."

Interesting perspective but I would say quite the opposite: there is always one who is sufficiently certain about his sexuality to be angry, so definitely discuss first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said try a bi guy to act out your fantasy...a straight guy would prob end up lamping your husband 1 ..i know mine would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother us in the slightest!

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By *ornyandlisa OP   Couple
over a year ago

Warrington


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "

Can't believe this post is still going . But yes you get it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We was wondering if you was fucking a wife or gf an the their partner was lie next to them kissing an caressing her . Would you be bothered if he went down and started playing with her pussy and your cock as you carry on fucking ??

My fella really wants to do this "
Yeah I would be pissed off and end play. Your fella sounds Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no problem my mate has sucked me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta love the alpha male comments on this thread

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Set expectations beforehand.... then no one gets uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is when I am on top of someone’s wife in the missionary position fucking her, she is sucking hubby and then I join her in sucking him or licking his balls, I havnt had a guy protest yet

A guy did that to me in a mmf a while back. Totally unannounced.

My wife burst out giggling at the look of shock on my face. My erection vanished instantly and the other guy flounced off in a sulk.

Evening over "

I've been on the return of this. I was fucking a wife when the husband dived in with his hand. I wondered what was going on, where he was going, like above I lost my erection. Red faces and apologies all round. He said he was only going to play with her clit while I fucked her. Fair enough, I wouldn't have a problem with that if it had been discussed beforehand. When I regained my erection, quite a while later we continued, without his hand anywhere near me.

I would like to point out, I have 20 years experience, yes have crossed swords, (expected when there is more than one male), taken part in dvp, but agreed beforehand.

As for labels? You never hear from straight people that there should be no labels and there are plenty of grey areas. Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gotta love the alpha male comments on this thread "

I think it is just a case of being honest about your sexuality if you are male and like touching dick then that is fine but just be honest and say you are at the least bisexual.

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