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Ladies : Persistent or annoying?

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By *razymaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

I message a woman on fab and don't get a response. Being polite and respectful I take that as I sign they are not interested and back off. Now realising that maybe my message has been lost in amongst all the others, or she has been busy ect. So should I try again? Would a second message been seen as annoying or as keen and persistent? Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a second attempt but if I don't reply again I'd expect them to get the message.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If there’s a bit of a gap, fair does. If it’s a few hours later, it feels pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind a second attempt but if I don't reply again I'd expect them to get the message. "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I find persistence really, really annoying!!

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It depends how long between messages and what the second one in particular says.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Wait a few days to a week and try a different approach. After the second message with no reply, any further attempts and I'd block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending that person a message, getting no reply but they are constantly looking at your profile. Thats what we seem to get a lot of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a cheeky 2nd message just incase is ok but its annoying when men pester and pester leads to a block Im afraid !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending that person a message, getting no reply but they are constantly looking at your profile. Thats what we seem to get a lot of. "

They like wanking over your pics but probably to chicken to meet up

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By *razymaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Thanks for all the hints and tips. I'm not pushy just want to make sure I'm not missing out! Will try a second polite flirty message after leaving it a while. I suppose the worst that can happen is I get blocked, which just doesnt matter really.

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