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When the kids get wise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So Fab friends.

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Fab friends.

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X"

Are they old enough to be left alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them money to go out

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's a tricky one, too big for the cupboard under the stairs, too young to send to the casino for the night...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Fab friends.

Yes but we want the house lol

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X

Are they old enough to be left alone?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in the same boat, both use to go to my parent's, ones now 16 and i swear hes super glued to his gaming chair. Even having friends around for a coffee we have to whisper lol

I can't get him out of the house at all lol

Our meets have revolved around the car lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Watching with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have them through the day while they’re at school maybe? Ask granny to stay while you go out on ‘date night’ anything like that should do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im in the same boat, both use to go to my parent's, ones now 16 and i swear hes super glued to his gaming chair. Even having friends around for a coffee we have to whisper lol

I can't get him out of the house at all lol

Our meets have revolved around the car lol"

buy him a gaming headset he can hear the tv through it, it just plugs in the controller, you won't have to whisper then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Fab friends.

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X"

Go to a club.

You chose to have your kids and that's their home too.

When they're of a legal age will you be going out so they can have friends round to have sex?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

From my experience, children only want to know where their parents are going (I.e. why they are not at home) until they start going out with their friends themselves. After that, they don't care, but then you start worrying about them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think its a bad thing for older kids to understand that their parents have a relationship that doesn't include them. Can they stay with grandparents once every six weeks because you two want some quality time together. They don't need to know what the quality time entails.

We used to go out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Fab friends.

Ooh! Super reply...

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X

Go to a club.

You chose to have your kids and that's their home too.

When they're of a legal age will you be going out so they can have friends round to have sex? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kids are 16 & 18

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Tell them you're going to be downstairs shagging like mad. NO kids want to see their parents having sex... may do the trick !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our eldest knows we go to clubs and has met quite a few of our non vanilla friends.. I guess it's all about how you explain it and how open you are with your kids..

He really has no issue with it at all... and is happy to babysit for us... we don't ever ask them to stay out for a night for us to entertain tho he loveshis bed to much

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kids are 16 & 18"

its difficult isn't it.

Sometimes all you can do is meet people who are happy to host and play away from home so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t this as simple as don’t play at home? What are we missing?

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By *aughtybynature73Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

In our years off swinging only ever had one meet at home. Kids although grown up have never been predictable so could never take the risk . Definitely choose a meet away from home.

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By *ice and SleazyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We’ve been sneaking around for years behind our son’s back but this summer as he was off to uni we came clean and told him. He said he thought we were going to say that we were part of some weird cult! Ha ha

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"So Fab friends.

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X

Go to a club.

You chose to have your kids and that's their home too.

When they're of a legal age will you be going out so they can have friends round to have sex? "

Why so judgmental?

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So Fab friends.

Just wondering from the parents that swing, how do you manage your older kids? Like how do you get rid of them, when you want to swing?

For years it was fine, they would go to babysit for friends, go to grannies ect...

However they are older now & want to stay at home on Saturday nights, that’s our night!

Any suggestions would be good

X"

Get them to stay in while you go out for a meet

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Hotels!

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

You got with out repeatedly and suffer, will I do.

Then when

I do finally get another off I either just want a quiet early night or plan something and it falls through.

Dam 11 year olds

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