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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People who say they are Bisexual on their Profile, are you actually Bisexual or just Bisexual for swing meets. Might not have put that they way I meant it, Sort of mean that do your friends and family know or would you be comfortable being in a Relationship with the same sex in your day to day life?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"People who say they are Bisexual on their Profile, are you actually Bisexual or just Bisexual for swing meets. Might not have put that they way I meant it, Sort of mean that do your friends and family know or would you be comfortable being in a Relationship with the same sex in your day to day life? "

Nope, I am just bisexual, some of my friends and my sister's know. I would generally only date women though, but never say never, who knows what the future brings

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not something I advertise outside of here for a couple of reasons - firstly it's only really relevant here as any meets etc I have are from here and here alone.

I'm in a relationship already so not looking for another but if I was, I'm not sure it would be same sex as I don't fancy guys in the same way I do women, although there does have to be a level of attraction to them to want to play.

Friends and family don't know - not because of any kind of shame on my part, more it's not something that has come up in conversation or that I see any real need to advertise (by doing so I'd also have to explain my use of this site and I'm not prepared to do that).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends, work colleagues know I'm a bisexual. I'm married to a man, but I can meet women outside the relationship or as a couple. I've dated more women than men so I'd say I'm firmly a bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have a relationship with a woman and my family dont know.

I am happy to meet and fuck them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say I'm bisexual but only meet men for sex as have an understanding gf who accepts I like sex with men so allows me to do so, as for people knowing my close friends know and family suspect I'm bi but we don't talk about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread and responses to see, bi is a label, if sex toys had a concisnous and a person loved the pleasure, it would get another label. A "straight" guy could be straponned by a woman, still"straight" the same thing with a cock, your bi. But no its just physical pleasure at the end of the day. Love and attraction is completely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm "sexually Bi-sexual" with people I meet with from here only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to use the term 'horny bi' neither of us go out to look for or date,people of the same sex. But when it comes to play-it's all in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find this an interesting topic.

Sexually I adore women and love having sex with them, but I’d never have a relationship with a woman.

I often question myself, am I Bi- sexual or not??

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'd not class myself as fully bi in the real world because I'd not have a relationship with a woman and I'd not meet a woman alone either. But bi-curious would be incorrect as really enjoy being with another woman in a play environment and have done so on many occasions over the years. I'd like a bi-playful option or something similar.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I am bi-sexual. I've had relationships with men and women. When I fill in diversity forms I tick the bi-sexual box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always preferred the term "hetero-flexible"!

I don't like labels anyway, I think sexuality is often more fluid than fixed (although social norms tend to obscure that fact in most people), but for men, I think the label "bisexual" has a negative connotation, which is unfairly applied.

That said, while I am happy to play with guys when swinging, I wouldn't conceive of myself entering into a relationship with a guy, and I don't think I've ever looked at a man and thought "phwoar!" in the same way I have about a woman, so bisexual isn't a label I could happily apply to myself anyway.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm bisexual. It's not a secret, but it's also not something I talk about much. My family are aware, but choose to deny it. Some friends know, and if it's relevant I'll say so. I tick bisexual on the boxes too.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I,m bisexual I,ve had relationships with both ...it's about connection and great sex of course , so if I click with someone sex doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always preferred the term "hetero-flexible"!

I don't like labels anyway, I think sexuality is often more fluid than fixed (although social norms tend to obscure that fact in most people), but for men, I think the label "bisexual" has a negative connotation, which is unfairly applied.

That said, while I am happy to play with guys when swinging, I wouldn't conceive of myself entering into a relationship with a guy, and I don't think I've ever looked at a man and thought "phwoar!" in the same way I have about a woman, so bisexual isn't a label I could happily apply to myself anyway."

Exactly the same as this, it seems ok for ladies to be bi but not interested in being in a relationship with another lady but if a guys says the same that he enjoys playing with guy but would never be in a relationship with one then it's questioned.

I'd never be in a relationship with a guy or have emotional feelings towards them.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Can someone explain why it's more socially acceptable for a woman to be bi than a man.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Bedford

My first “proper “ relationship was with a man but then I was married to a women for 25 years. I often really fancy men outside of sex as I do women too. Yep I’d say I’m bisexual.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I say I am bisexual because I find having sex with another woman a tremendous turn on and very satisfying. That is not to say I would want the same relationship with a woman as I have with a man. There is much more to a relationship than sex, and for the other things I prefer a man. Also on the sexual side I couldn't live without cock(s).

It seems many people mistake bisexuality for lesbianism. The two things are very different in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet anyone who I get on with and fancy, I could live with either sex if the chemistry was there.

Attraction has nothing to do with sexual orientation but is about the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P is full Bi, always has been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im certainly Bi sexual love women and fancy them like crazy but also love sex with guys for me the sex with men is a purely physical turn onI like to dress up and guys seem to like that despite having a masculine face I have a smoothe body Im a bit of a contradiction in terms of my everyday mannerisms to how I am sexually. With women I love to revert back to my manly characteristics

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By *urely4funMan
over a year ago

london

I dont know what id class myself as. Id say im straight but i do love sucking cock, but not just any cock. I really want a bi mmf to see if id take it further but a ts tried it once and i was having none of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who say they are Bisexual on their Profile, are you actually Bisexual or just Bisexual for swing meets. Might not have put that they way I meant it, Sort of mean that do your friends and family know or would you be comfortable being in a Relationship with the same sex in your day to day life? "

Why would my family know who I fuck with?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"I dont know what id class myself as. Id say im straight but i do love sucking cock, but not just any cock. I really want a bi mmf to see if id take it further but a ts tried it once and i was having none of it "

Guess what, if you like sucking cock your bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always preferred the term "hetero-flexible"!

I don't like labels anyway, I think sexuality is often more fluid than fixed (although social norms tend to obscure that fact in most people), but for men, I think the label "bisexual" has a negative connotation, which is unfairly applied.

That said, while I am happy to play with guys when swinging, I wouldn't conceive of myself entering into a relationship with a guy, and I don't think I've ever looked at a man and thought "phwoar!" in the same way I have about a woman, so bisexual isn't a label I could happily apply to myself anyway."

This. I'm exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like girls n guys n get off on both so I guess I’m bisexual..! I’m bi curious cos I’ve not yet had sex with a guy only oral... but still I’m probs bisexual...?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I am bisexual not fab bi.

However, I have never met a woman I'm romantically attracted to and am very happily married.

Yes, family do know about my sexuality.

Nita

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm bi sexual I've had relationships with men and women.

My mum knew and my friends do it's just me.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Caroline is bisexual - and has has a few girlfriends over the years - and came out at her 40th birthday party, by dancing with, and snogging our then girlfriend - in front of everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% a Real Bisexual ™

I'm not out to family, or many friends because being married to a man makes that a bit harder to explain to the older relatives and I really can't be bothered with it.

I would, however, be happy to be in a relationship with somebody with a gender like mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% bisexual. Always have been. Don't get why some ladies pretend to be for their partners sake

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