FabSwingers.com forum: bi fems

By *4t OP Couple
over a year ago

warrington

we have been very lucky in the fact that all the "bi fems" we have met whether she be part of a couple or single are actually bi because they want to be and luv it. How many have met so called bi fems that are doing it just to please the men ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can always tell, it shows if people really enjoy what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - I've met this more than once and feel really uncomfortable about it - which is why I ask for any approach from a couple to come from the woman, not the man, and to chat to her on the phone first.

Mind - I was with a married couple last year where he was getting all bossy and telling us what to do to amuse him, while she was whispering in my ear "You're fantastic - If I leave him, can I come and live with you?" So be careful what you push your women in to, guys!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes and it does really show - it's a real passion killer and fortunately only met one or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have been very lucky in the fact that all the "bi fems" we have met whether she be part of a couple or single are actually bi because they want to be and luv it. How many have met so called bi fems that are doing it just to please the men ???"

never got to the stage of meeting those kind of people...

i usually chat on cam first, that way can pick up on body language...

i asked a girl to meet me on my own once cos he was going away but her guy was having none of that...

hate people like that, its all bout you as an individual enjoy sex, of course its nice knowing its turning your partner on aswell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if this is about not being bi, or just being a pillow princess.....

We have met couples where they have been insistent about the bi thing, but it has turned out the fem wants to be pleasured by another fem, but does not want to reciprocate. We decided to forget it lol.

Saying that, i have been accused of only doing the bi thing to please my hubby.

I class myself as bi-curious as there is no bi friendly or situationally bi option, i don’t want to put myself down as just bi as i think it might mislead people.

The way i would describe myself, i can take or leave the playing with other women, i enjoy it – but dont particularly find myself attracted to other women.

It is fun as part of the whole experience, but i would never look for an experience just with another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way i would describe myself, i can take or leave the playing with other women, i enjoy it – but dont particularly find myself attracted to other women.

It is fun as part of the whole experience, but i would never look for an experience just with another woman.

same ere...

of course im attracted to women just as equally as men but agree its all bout the situation...

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By *un4every1Couple
over a year ago

melton mowbray

its weird because im 100% bi but if i wasnt. Id NEVER do it just to please Trev. Its just like if I have a M on M fantasy id NEVER expect Trev to do it for me. Its wrong to make someone esp who you love to feel that uncomfortable. im certainly one of the women who enjoy it cos its damn fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few meets where the female half was obviously not bi. It made melanie feel very uncomfortable and kind of spoiled the meet for us.

Jon.

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By *un4every1Couple
over a year ago

melton mowbray

I think Fems are more emotionally in tune with the other participating Fem. I know I am. I think us Fems do it without even realising we're doing it!

I have no idea why tho! Maybe its because we know if something doesnt feel right it usually affects us ten times more than it does the males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know if this is about not being bi, or just being a pillow princess.....

Saying that, i have been accused of only doing the bi thing to please my hubby.

I class myself as bi-curious as there is no bi friendly or situationally bi option, i don’t want to put myself down as just bi as i think it might mislead people.

The way i would describe myself, i can take or leave the playing with other women, i enjoy it – but dont particularly find myself attracted to other women.

It is fun as part of the whole experience, but i would never look for an experience just with another woman.

Very well put ... If we met a couple with a straight fem that would be fine with us, but on an equal measure I like a little girly fun too, giving and taking. We have both always said that if there's anything either of us is not comfortable with, then we walk away or we don't do it's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I love females all my own choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree you are more in tune with the other woman....so can easily tell if its fake...and wouldn't play...!!

But can you men tell if the Bi fem is faking it with you.. to get into your ladies knickers...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can always tell, it shows if people really enjoy what they are doing."

Agreed,a bi woman knows if the woman she's playing with is holding back or not.

Something just doesn't feel right,the other womans inability to relax or whatever,its hard to define but its there none the less.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can quite often see it when the other woman isn't comfortable.. and generally when I can't, I can read Melanie's body language and tell that way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fun with 3-sums and 4-sums...it is fairly obvious that often the other lady is 'playing' JUST to please her partner but it makes ME feel very uncomfortable....wish they could just be honest ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny how this has been brought up,we have only had this converstation this week about this,and have also been in situtaions were it feels the woman is doing it to please her man,and we feel it is very common in couple's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our case we do this firstly as I am Bi and love playing with the women, the dded bonus is that I get to play with cock too..steve my hubby is really laid back about it all and understands that its about the bi thing first..it might even sound selfish but it works..he loves seeing us girls play ,and then to be asked to join is tops, obviously he does not complain lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I love females all my own choice

Yeah, tell me about it! And I know for a FACT she wants more of em!

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By *4t OP Couple
over a year ago

warrington

"Yes I agree you are more in tune with the other woman....so can easily tell if its fake...and wouldn't play...!!

But can you men tell if the Bi fem is faking it with you.. to get into your ladies knickers...???

we was with a cpl, hubby was playing with the other woman, not a sound, when she came to me wowwwwww. hubby moved off when another girl wanted to give him a bj pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a slightly different point of view, I'd love to play with a woman to see what its like, but would be afraid I'd disapoint as I've never done it before. Dont really know what to do!

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By *4t OP Couple
over a year ago

warrington

"From a slightly different point of view, I'd love to play with a woman to see what its like, but would be afraid I'd disapoint as I've never done it before. Dont really know what to do!"

lezzer trainer here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a slightly different point of view, I'd love to play with a woman to see what its like, but would be afraid I'd disapoint as I've never done it before. Dont really know what to do!"

you do what you like or she likes... it's instinctive.... don't ever feel you would disappoint xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a slightly different point of view, I'd love to play with a woman to see what its like, but would be afraid I'd disapoint as I've never done it before. Dont really know what to do!

you do what you like or she likes... it's instinctive.... don't ever feel you would disappoint xxx

Aw thanks, now I just need the opportunity! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"funny how this has been brought up,we have only had this converstation this week about this,and have also been in situtaions were it feels the woman is doing it to please her man,and we feel it is very common in couple's"

How many couples have you had? .... can't say we have found that although it does happen. If I didn't want to do anything personally, then I wouldn't, but I do because I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met a few supposedly bi fem females from another site and she really wasn't bisexual - just really odd - why meet a couple when you have so many single men out there??

any ideas

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

We met a couple when we started out swinging and her b/f said to me how do you like my g/f going down on you I felt like saying to him it would be great if her lips were anywhere near my fan. Well you live and learn theres def women who do it for thier other halfs but we have met more that dont.

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east

To carry on from what I said we have met more women that are bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had my fair share of bi women who aint and are just pleasing the hubby, you kinda know straight away.Its not a big thing though more frustrating than anything else lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had my fair share of bi women who aint and are just pleasing the hubby, you kinda know straight away.Its not a big thing though more frustrating than anything else lol."

thank goodness I only have myself to please.... and those I meet with of course xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had my fair share of bi women who aint and are just pleasing the hubby, "

my 2p worth..

any lady doing the above to please hubby should consider the following:

1..get some self respect

2.. consider their 'partnership', because it may not be one

3.. reconsider 'why swinging' is it for both of us or one of us.

4.. ask him ( if he truly str8 )to suck a cock and watch.

5.. select only truly str8 couples, there are many and have fun based on respect, honesty and good all round comfortable sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had my fair share of bi women who aint and are just pleasing the hubby, you kinda know straight away.Its not a big thing though more frustrating than anything else lol.

thank goodness I only have myself to please.... and those I meet with of course xxxx"

I totally agree Willow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to clear something up as the way I have worded my last post may have caused some confussion, When I say I have had my fair share of women I mean encounters in clubs or meets, but within 5-10 mins you know they are doing it to please hubby at this point i usually back off as I dont think its right that they should be pushed into something they not comfortable with, dont get me wrong there are a lot of genuine bi women out there and curious im just sayin that it seems there are a lot of women being pushed into something just to satisfy hubby. Heres a thought I wonder how many men would go bi just to please the wife lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am struggling because I either find a cple with a bi fem and the male half always wants to fuck me too, which has been very nice in the past, or I find a bi fem who wants a relationship which is not what I am in to.

There are also plenty of fems on here who have no intention of actually meeting up but like the banter etc which is fine.

I would like an attractive fem that I could call on or she could call on me when we are horny. Someone who likes to touch and be touched, someone who likes to nibble on my nipples and likes her nipples nibbled too. Someone who likes to have her pussy licked by another fem and perhaps likes to lick pussy too but then goes back to their normal life until the need arises again.

I could pleasure a women and always make them cum - she wouldnt have to even tell her family or other half, but just meet up sometimes for pussy tickling fun. It could be our secret.

Are there actually any fitting the bill out there?

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