FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it some couples and females hate Hotel meet?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?

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By *eyooooMan
over a year ago

London

So do i

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"

In our opinion, hotel and club meets are a different kind of meet so can’t really be compared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a hotel than a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safer in a club, once you get to that hotel room behind a closed door.... anything could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"

I've personally had a couple of hotel meets where I've turned up and not been attracted to the guy. Both times I then sat there awkwardly making small talk while building up the courage to say there wouldn't be anything happening and then felt shit for having wasted their time and money. Now, if neither of us can accommodate I have the good sense to ask for a social first.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

I imagine it’s when they’ve had an experience where a hotel meet is set up and then there is a no show. You’re stuck in the hotel grinding your teeth! At least in a club there’s the opportunity to have fun with others.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We would love one if we could find the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I've socialled and feel like I know the person I'm happy with a hotel meet

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Should really change our name to 'Hotel meets R us'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re away, staying in a hotel and fancy a meet, we always have a phone conversation and tell them we’ll meet in the bar or local for a social first. We always invite a few chaps as as there’s bound to be a dreamer or two. If all do show up, it’s a great night

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Why does the sun shine? Why do some people love Marmite when others hate it? Did we or did we not go to the moon? What is your opinion of Donald Trump? In or out?

We are all built differently, we all think differently, we all like and dislike different things. It keeps the World an interesting place.

Don’t over analyse x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had hotel meets in the past and while they are fun etc they don't work as a regular thing which is what I'm looking for.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I much prefer a hotel meet to anything else. After a nightmare meet at someone's house earlier in the year it's made me think very hard about the safety aspect.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'd only meet someone in a hotel if I knew them already and felt comfortable and knew we both liked each other. Nothing worse than knowing a room has been paid for and not liking each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love a hotel meet, prefer it to a club xx

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most of my meetings are in hotels. It’s the best neutral ground. Works for regular as well as one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’vedone hotel meets but always meet for a drink before agreeing to go up to the room for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"

So,because you prefer hotel meets,everyone has to as well?

Really?

We enjoy hotel meets ourselves,but we also respect the wishes of those that don't.

Each to their own op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’vedone hotel meets but always meet for a drink before agreeing to go up to the room for fun "

Me too avoids any awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safer in a club, once you get to that hotel room behind a closed door.... anything could happen "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not done a hotel meet but can't say I'm particularly attracted to the idea. Most hotels are so sterile and unerotic. I can't help but suspect it would feel more like an transaction of some sort

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"As long as I've socialled and feel like I know the person I'm happy with a hotel meet "

Same here, I'd do a social first then follow it up with a hotel meet.

Love a cheeky afternoon in a hotel, always feels a bit naughty to me. Also I look great on white sheets and and I don't have to Hoover....it's a win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer inviting people back to mine. Why pay for a hotel when i have a perfectly good house?

I did book a hotel once for a meet and she bailed out. £85 not very well spent and I wasnt a happy bunny

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I like hotel meets. I like stayong in hotels too so it makes sense. I think it's better than having someone round. I've had stalkers in the past, not on here, would have been better if they didn't know where I lived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"

Anyone can hire a hotel room. You have no real idea who will be meeting you until that for opens.

Not only that, that person could be a danger to whoever they're meeting.

I prefer meeting in a guys own home. A potentially dangerous guy with bad intentions, wouldn't give out his home address would he?

Sorry but I despise cheating. As such a married guy is very unlikely to also give his own address. Same reason I don't do clubs and hotels.

When meeting a guy for sexual purposes, I feel safe going to his house because I'll also have his face pic, number and of course address. I'll leave a copy of each with my one trusted best friend as an extra safety precaution. I make sure that guy knows that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?

I will never meet for sex on first meeting, always insist on a social meet first in public for a coffee and a chat see if we like each other enough to actually go to a hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my meetings are in hotels. It’s the best neutral ground. Works for regular as well as one offs. "

^^^ this for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more comfortable in my own home x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel meet in my eyes is the best neutral ground to meet.I dont understand why some people hate it. I prefer hotel meet to club meet.what about you?"
It involves money maybe, they lack character maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to book hotels

Great deals on line if you surf...

Can also sit in the bar and book it on your phone if you decide you need a room

Couples please .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy hotel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually enjoy hotel meets

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so do i but I always pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually enjoy hotel meets

so do i but I always pay "

I take it in turns (I don't usually meet once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually enjoy hotel meets

so do i but I always pay

I take it in turns (I don't usually meet once

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me neither I meet forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually enjoy hotel meets

so do i but I always pay

I take it in turns (I don't usually meet once

) me neither I meet forever "

Well, that doesn't sound creepy at all!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

WE used to meet in hotels but they are often dull places with no ambience, some the walls are so thin the bed can be heard in other rooms.

We prefer clubs and private houses now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds dull I know but its more about the embarrassment of walking into the hotel. I feel like the reception knows why im there and it makes me feel awkward lol especially when I walk out a few hours later lol

Plus i also can't afford a hotel and hate the fact a mans paid.

The hotel room itself is perfect and for a woman I feel a little safer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel for me

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