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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im anxious about sending a 2nd message a week later.

Do I ignore the person? Or do I try again after a set ammount of time?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If they were interested it Is most likely they would get back to you,. there isn't really a need to message them again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they were interested it Is most likely they would get back to you,. there isn't really a need to message them again."

Sometimes I feel I said the wrong thing at first or they didn't see it.

But yeh. Don't want to pester people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see, I used to send one and then forget, however there’s been a couple of instances where I’ve tried my luck again a few weeks later and things have come of it. Some will delete again, and I had one women who though I was spinning her a line and that id absolutely not messaged her before (I had, twice infact - naughty me!) but, sometimes it’s worth doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up while you're ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If nothing has changed then don’t bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple sometimes timing is everything. We recently met a guy we introduced to fab a year ago. We met, things got hectic and we forgot. That simple. Sometimes as a couple you hop online and get 5 or more msgs at once. Sometimes the usual 40plus out of your age range guys but sometimes a good one gets missed in the cull. If someone msgs us twice and were not interested we just let them know. Manners cost nothing. Always worth a try and think about timing. Weekends are generally busier as people aren't at work and more likely to have more messages being sent. Try not to get caught up in the payload. Msg when they are offline so they log onto it. Just throwing ideas out there for ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no harm in it personally. Unless it was read. If they read It, chances are they aren't interested. I miss a lot of my messages. I'm assuming other women are the same.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

I would if it was a while ago. Say a couple were after a guy for a meet that day, and you were just a bit late and theyd found someone the 1st time. It doesnt mean they wouldnt meet you another time. I only re message if i notice a meet planned or headline status though

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Leave it op

Looks a bit pushy tbh

I read a message earlier,hadnt replied and he messaged again.

He ended up blocked as he hadn't read my profile .

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I see no harm in it personally. Unless it was read. If they read It, chances are they aren't interested. I miss a lot of my messages. I'm assuming other women are the same. "

That’s why I never got a reply

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Leave it a couple of weeks. By that time they'll definitely have forgotten about you, esp if you have new pics. Then you can message them again (use different words) and cross your fingers. Rinse & repeat.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Im anxious about sending a 2nd message a week later.

Do I ignore the person? Or do I try again after a set ammount of time?"

Leave it alone, move on.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"As a couple sometimes timing is everything. We recently met a guy we introduced to fab a year ago. We met, things got hectic and we forgot. That simple. Sometimes as a couple you hop online and get 5 or more msgs at once. Sometimes the usual 40plus out of your age range guys but sometimes a good one gets missed in the cull. If someone msgs us twice and were not interested we just let them know. Manners cost nothing. Always worth a try and think about timing. Weekends are generally busier as people aren't at work and more likely to have more messages being sent. Try not to get caught up in the payload. Msg when they are offline so they log onto it. Just throwing ideas out there for ya lol"

God bless you, fellow fabbers who have manners, you give me hope x

I’ve often heard that couples and ladies who get lots and lots of messages often ‘’miss’ messages due to the volume they receive.

I’d say give it another go as long as you have read and taken in the persons profile, you are happy that you meet the parameters they have laid out and that you have sent a well written and considered message.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

At the moment you’re not getting any closer to meeting them. Doesn’t sound like you’ve got much to lose!

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